my soon to be wife just gave me a shocker...

kolimuddin

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Hey guys,

i always tend to keep my personal problems to myelf .. but after reading through someof the posts i kinda felt releived to have opened my issues to you all. Please dont take it as a joke coz i am seriously upset with this issue.

I am a 19 year old virgin, things went a bit ruff with my ex. which ended up in a brutal break up. Long things short .. i had met with the love of my life. She is just awesome, everything that i ever wanted but all things must come to a bitter end for me.

yes as u mite have guessed, since this is a Penis Enlargement forum .. my problem relies with SIZE.
i am below average or what ever the statistics are 6inch bpel 5.5 nbpel 4.5 eg. she told me she was with a man who used to abuse her in the name of sex. as in he treated her very ruff. and she used to hate it a LOT . She was craving to be loved more than anything else.

as days went by so did some very true revelation, naming ly something which made me depressed. i was one day just stupidly asking about her ex's and their size. coz i was very confident of my unit as it seemed more than enuff for me ... but i learned to realise her EX. with whom she broke up just a year ago. had an 8 inch cock. and that too she said in such a manner whioch clearly showed she was HAPPY with that size. here are the words which she used "the one i had was FREAKING HUGE"
she also revealed she loved it RUFF inside her, but maybe the guys treatment to her was disturbing to her as he used to beat her down to the ground after sex.

though at the beginning she just said he was a 6 incher. later she said with assurity it was a max of 7 inches but after a while later "correction ... he was an 8 incher" just those three lines just pummelled my self esteem down the drain. she said all measurement using a measuring tape .. the 6 inch was said as an estimate then one day she measure the 7 inches with a scale but after like 5 minutes she measured again and stated it was an 8 inch

i want to grow in size as of now coz i want to be the biggest for her. i cant leave her coz she is very emotionally dependable on me ... and i even made her squirt with my oral skills, apparently i am very good at foreplay and manipulation and oral. but when it comes to just fucking ... it brings me low. coz HOW THE HECK WOULD A GURL BE SATISFIED WITH A 6 INCH when she just had an 8 Inch SHOVED INTO HER recently.

and top of that i have fears of pre-ejac since i never fucked anyone :(

i would be grately thankful if u could answer my problem. i want to build myself so i can make her beg me to please her. BTW i showed her my unit ... all i got were " ITS SO YUMMY" "its making me very wet" "I love the shape of your head" but never the WORDS "HUGE" or like what my enemy got "FREAKING HUGE"

i am starting to Penis Enlargement seriously from tomorrow. Dec the 13th. wish me luck.
I would love to seek advices on motivation, and being a man ... more that that bastard who just abused my love emotionally but yet in the end made her love the feeling of an 8 inch.

Thanks a lot for readin <:(
 
kolimuddin said:
Hey guys,

i always tend to keep my personal problems to myelf .. but after reading through someof the posts i kinda felt releived to have opened my issues to you all. Please dont take it as a joke coz i am seriously upset with this issue.

I am a 19 year old virgin, things went a bit ruff with my ex. which ended up in a brutal break up. Long things short .. i had met with the love of my life. She is just awesome, everything that i ever wanted but all things must come to a bitter end for me.

yes as u mite have guessed, since this is a Penis Enlargement forum .. my problem relies with SIZE.
i am below average or what ever the statistics are 6inch bpel 5.5 nbpel 4.5 eg. she told me she was with a man who used to abuse her in the name of sex. as in he treated her very ruff. and she used to hate it a LOT . She was craving to be loved more than anything else.

as days went by so did some very true revelation, naming ly something which made me depressed. i was one day just stupidly asking about her ex's and their size. coz i was very confident of my unit as it seemed more than enuff for me ... but i learned to realise her EX. with whom she broke up just a year ago. had an 8 inch cock. and that too she said in such a manner whioch clearly showed she was HAPPY with that size. here are the words which she used "the one i had was FREAKING HUGE"
she also revealed she loved it RUFF inside her, but maybe the guys treatment to her was disturbing to her as he used to beat her down to the ground after sex.

though at the beginning she just said he was a 6 incher. later she said with assurity it was a max of 7 inches but after a while later "correction ... he was an 8 incher" just those three lines just pummelled my self esteem down the drain. she said all measurement using a measuring tape .. the 6 inch was said as an estimate then one day she measure the 7 inches with a scale but after like 5 minutes she measured again and stated it was an 8 inch

i want to grow in size as of now coz i want to be the biggest for her. i cant leave her coz she is very emotionally dependable on me ... and i even made her squirt with my oral skills, apparently i am very good at foreplay and manipulation and oral. but when it comes to just fucking ... it brings me low. coz HOW THE HECK WOULD A GURL BE SATISFIED WITH A 6 INCH when she just had an 8 Inch SHOVED INTO HER recently.

and top of that i have fears of pre-ejac since i never fucked anyone :(

i would be grately thankful if u could answer my problem. i want to build myself so i can make her beg me to please her. BTW i showed her my unit ... all i got were " ITS SO YUMMY" "its making me very wet" "I love the shape of your head" but never the WORDS "HUGE" or like what my enemy got "FREAKING HUGE"

i am starting to Penis Enlargement seriously from tomorrow. Dec the 13th. wish me luck.
I would love to seek advices on motivation, and being a man ... more that that bastard who just abused my love emotionally but yet in the end made her love the feeling of an 8 inch.

Thanks a lot for readin <:(
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hey man I'll throw in my two cents. Does this girl have a thing for abuse or just a string of bad luck? Also how long have you known her for? Some girls like to see guys skirm(SP) by telling them "real" measurements of their ex's. I know your probably looking through "rose lensed" glasses right now but really this girl seems like she has some issues. (just my opinion so take it with a grain of salt) I would use this "bigger" guy as motivation to pull harder when doing your stretches.(if you indeed pursue this girl) Also man girls love fat dicks (for a good stretch out) not really a huge lenghthy thin dick. Also take your girls "measured" guesses with a grain of salt as there not always right. It reminds me of a thread on here where girls guessed at size and were way off. Maybe someone can post that thread? There's always gonna be someone bigger,stronger,smarter etc.. than you and your gonna have to accept that. The girl is with you now and not with the ex just keep working on Penis Enlargement and use the board for motivation if your lacking in it. Work hard and you shall receive what you are looking for. (refer to my sig)Also read the pre-ejaculation thread on the boards (it should help with your problem) Good luck bro. kdogg
 
thanks for the reply bro ...

no unfortunately she has been literally abused, so yeah it a string of bad luck,
the thing is she is quite happy with my size and she says she has a small vagina that could only take up 6 inches to the max .. but who knows whether she was turned on or not.
At the beginning she just said the biggest she had was a 6 incher .. then slowly and slowly she revealed it to be a 7 and in the end a shocking 8 inches. either she was lying about the 6 or the 8 ...
i been knowing her for the last 2 years ... her being scarred was one reason i could not get physical with her.. but as soon as she started trusting me she sure started revealing a LOT of shockers ...

I have time on my hands ... and i am willing to try and grow with all i have.
Just that after all these .. i just feel insecure to get physical with her. Women are a lot crazy .. they same something and they mean something else later. and it kinda pisses me off.

Size matters ?? it doesn't matter ?? the debate is always a controversial one .. but what if it takes away your self esteem ... that is where i got stuck onto.

thanks a lot for the replies ... more would be appreciated from the members of MOS <:(
 
thanks for the cheers guys, but another measly question ... is it possible to attain a dong of that size without hanging and pumps ??
DLD has recently started hanging and pumping aint it ?? ?:(

thanks a lot ... yeah actually she was the one who was like telling me size does not matter .. but there is something inside of me making me realise shez just putting up a face to make me happy.

hopefully i ma try the routine from tomorrow.
 
ROFL :p

REALLY :p .. must be a well planned tried and tested formula by the gals to make their bf's jealous :O
 
If you really like her, go ahead and have sex. Everything else is mind fucking yourself.

I´ve been there and it was all good. Just take the chance. You won´t regret it.

And by the way, my ex girl´s ex boyfriend had a frikkin 9 1/2 inches!! This is a FACT as he was my friend, he told me, plus and I´ve seen it in the showers at college. Biggest shit I´ve ever seen. Me and her had a good loving relationship for 2 years. I was about 5.25 x 4.5 NBP
 
The BTC Killer said:
Dude,
Every guy's girlfreind's ex-boyfriend has an 8" cock! I see a pattern here. . .
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Yeah agree!! My gf ex was huge, right!!! Maybe so think of it as this, ok your ex gf who u "liked" had huge tities. Ok now your present gf who u "love/or even like alout" has average size titties. Do u really give a shit. Same thing for gf, don't stress it..
 
I hate to be in that position, having to say "my gf had a huge bf before me". When someone says that, it always seems like the girl probably estimated it wrong or is simply lying about it. Not my case, but anyway... As I said, this didn´t stop me from having a great relationship with her. And I WAS very insecure at first too.
 
kolimuddin said:
ROFL :p

REALLY :p .. must be a well planned tried and tested formula by the gals to make their bf's jealous :O
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Or maybe the reason why alot of guys are here is because they have had girl with such stories to tell, and they all come on here to post about it.
 
well i haven't run into this problem, because her ex was like..6 inches or somethin like that. so even back when i was 7.5 i had a leg up on him. ha.

however i would hate to be on that end, i was made fun of when it came to my unit before Penis Enlargement. it sucks, i feel your pain. but get that huge 9er and then fuck her till she walks around like she was riding a horse all day
 
First, you can make your schlong bigger and i would defintely encourage you to do that. Second, quit worrying about this. Your statement that how can she be happy with a 6 inch when she had an 8 inch...the female vagina is a marvelous organ. You think she will know the difference between your size and his??? If you use yours right, she will be just as happy and maybe more. You already make her happy and quit worrying about size. As you grow, she will be happier and so will you, but for now, learn to use what you have to make her scream. It is a known fact that you can use your size to please and pleasure her just as much as a 8 inch dude. GS
 
So, you posted this thread about three weeks ago. How has Penis Enlargement gone thus far? Do you feel better about this?

I wouldn't worry about it too much. If you have a great relationship and love each other, and maximize your skills in every other sexual aspect, your size shouldn't be anything that would every endanger your relationship.
 
kolimuddin said:
DLD has recently started hanging and pumping aint it ?? ?:(
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I know DLD now has a BIB Hanger and I thing he has experimented with it some, but I don't thing he has become a regular hanger, if I'm not mistaken. As far as pumping, I don't think DLD has a favorable view of pumping and does not practice it.
 
This is why its better not know. Whats the point in asking those kind of questions. Somethings are best unknown. I never want to know about the previous boyfriends or how they use too have sex with them or how big he was (especially this one) you may not like the answer case in point!!! And if at any point she tells you her ex was bigger you turn around and depict her flaw like, oh yeah will my ex had some huger tits than you lol. It hurts them just as much as it hurts us. (At least I hope so lol)
 
penguinsfan said:
I know DLD now has a BIB Hanger and I thing he has experimented with it some, but I don't thing he has become a regular hanger, if I'm not mistaken. As far as pumping, I don't think DLD has a favorable view of pumping and does not practice it.
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I remember him saying he would hang heavy for a little while to increase his base girth. He said with his OCD personality that he would develop an unhealthy obsession with the temp. gains in pumping so he wants to stay away from it for his own good. As far as I understand.
 
Well, thank u so much for all ur replies, sorry for not focusing on this thread since i posted, well as for now our relationship is just based on love and respect for the time being, she apparently says she is happy with my size (yea rite) and its usually me who has to intiate the mood, not the other way around, from COMMON SENSE , women do get turned by a huge cock, whether she wants to take it in or not thatz a different issue.

I realised that i have got a LOW LOT, but it has not dumped my motivation to grow my penis, despite the hardships in gaining lengths , i seem to be gaining girth easily, and my cock looks a lot thick, i cant believe without any attention i grew 0.5 inches in girth while focusing on stretching my tunica and doing wet jelqs,

I am very happy with her and so is she with me, but when ever it comes to having intimacy and having sex, things get a bit screwy and messy coz i am kinda ashamed of my own body (the lower department)

well just gotta keep my head up high and focus on what i can achieve , not what i cant.

thanks for the support guys, Just gotta train till she is the one begging for sex, not me LMAO
 
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