How the fuck do you guys meet girls..

wdis3;112638 said:
Dude,

seriously,

am I the only guy on this forum that isnt gettin laid,

I havnt had a girl in like 2 years now, wtf..

How the hell do you guys do it, Its not even about pussy for me, I just want a girl to like me, it feels good, I just want a girl period, One i can hold on too.. I try to shrug it off and pull a DMX attitude and think about me not needing anyone but myself, but it doesnt workin the loneliness is eatin me alive, seriously, I used to be carved outta wood, nothing can stop me, and now when I see posts about you guys gettin laid i envy you seriously, i dont care if you have a small dick.. So if your gettin laid dont take that shit for granted becuz im jealous over here. Shit, i used to be carved outta wood, yesterday I broke a few tears watching Man On Fire, seriously.. ah. I'm gettin to emotional.
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Why don't you just...go talk to one? I hear "Hello" is a rather killer pickup line...
 
AF3;543008 said:
Why don't you just...go talk to one? I hear "Hello" is a rather killer pickup line...
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What do you say after "hello" is his question.
 
Mate there are women every where, you want to be able to approach women in bars, nightclubs, the par, malls wherever and start a conversation. This is cold a cold approach and this is a skill that can be cultivated over time. Approach anxiety is what stops the majority of men from doing this, it takes a little while to get over that and when you do its the most liberating feeling you will ever feel.

TAKE ACTION.
 
Kaanman;596157 said:
Mate there are women every where, you want to be able to approach women in bars, nightclubs, the par, malls wherever and start a conversation. This is cold a cold approach and this is a skill that can be cultivated over time. Approach anxiety is what stops the majority of men from doing this, it takes a little while to get over that and when you do its the most liberating feeling you will ever feel.

TAKE ACTION.
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So encouraging LMAO! I am one of the ones that are afraid of action as well. But thanks for this, it helps :). You know what they say- once you face your fear, it loses its power over you :).
 
Kaanman;596157 said:
TAKE ACTION.
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That gave me an anxiety attack alone:) I used to be able to approach women but today I can barely look at them.
 
Meeting women is tough. I'm in bed by 11pm and up at 515 Monday - Friday. Weekends I'm up at 630 and at the golf course from 8-5 and then usually out to dinner with the family and then crash. I've resorted to the dating websites but haven't had any luck with it yet. Finding time is hard for me.
 
PGApro;596259 said:
Meeting women is tough. I'm in bed by 11pm and up at 515 Monday - Friday. Weekends I'm up at 630 and at the golf course from 8-5 and then usually out to dinner with the family and then crash. I've resorted to the dating websites but haven't had any luck with it yet. Finding time is hard for me.
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I am celibate so it does not bother me too much that I can't meet women. I took this vow for religious reasons but if God saw fit for me to have a mate I would be happy to take that choice. It gets very lonely being by myself with no one to come home to.
 
doublelongdaddy;596287 said:
I am celibate so it does not bother me too much that I can't meet women. I took this vow for religious reasons but if God saw fit for me to have a mate I would be happy to take that choice. It gets very lonely being by myself with no one to come home to.
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I know what you mean. I had one of those nights last week. It was raining so I couldn't go out and practice for the night. I ended up watching some movies and just thought how nice it would be to have someone there. But went it bed early woke up refreshed and snapped out of the funk and am back to normal.
 
PGApro;596296 said:
I know what you mean. I had one of those nights last week. It was raining so I couldn't go out and practice for the night. I ended up watching some movies and just thought how nice it would be to have someone there. But went it bed early woke up refreshed and snapped out of the funk and am back to normal.
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At times like these I would most probably just get my Hydromax X30, Bib starter and my fleshlight sit next to me so I dont feel lonely! LMAO!!!! But when my FL (fleshlight) is around I would feel a lot less lonely LMAO

But on a serious note- I know what you mean. But time is ahead of us- we have what it takes to get what we want, it is only up to us! :)
 
PGApro;596296 said:
I know what you mean. I had one of those nights last week. It was raining so I couldn't go out and practice for the night. I ended up watching some movies and just thought how nice it would be to have someone there. But went it bed early woke up refreshed and snapped out of the funk and am back to normal.
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I can't wait to snap out of this, it usually happens when the weather changes so probably another 6 weeks of this crap. Seasonal depression is something I have just lived with for so long and even knowing that it will eventually go away still does nothing for the thoughts that make it feel like it will never leave. I just think if there was someone there for me I would be able to snap out of it faster, but who knows, maybe I would only drag them down.
 
doublelongdaddy;596399 said:
I can't wait to snap out of this, it usually happens when the weather changes so probably another 6 weeks of this crap. Seasonal depression is something I have just lived with for so long and even knowing that it will eventually go away still does nothing for the thoughts that make it feel like it will never leave. I just think if there was someone there for me I would be able to snap out of it faster, but who knows, maybe I would only drag them down.
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Dude I know what you mean. I feel the same way. But I just seem to get deeper with my golf game and practicing when that happens. Although I still fight some depression. My biggest fear is settling with a girl to just have one.
 
youknowme123321;596716 said:
If a guys good looking, stick poking will work
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If the stick is big, I say it will definitely work! LMAO

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youknowme123321;596716 said:
If a guys good looking, stick poking will work
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If the stick is big, I say it will definitely work! LMAO
 
youknowme123321;596716 said:
If a guys good looking, stick poking will work
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Using what as a stick?:)
 
I get lonely being by myself all the time but in some ways I am happy I don't have to worry about women, a kind of freedom I guess. If i were to have to get a woman I would have no clue where to start, I would be asking for help here for sure:)
 
doublelongdaddy;603344 said:
I get lonely being by myself all the time but in some ways I am happy I don't have to worry about women, a kind of freedom I guess. If i were to have to get a woman I would have no clue where to start, I would be asking for help here for sure:)
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In the comfort zone is not where you want to be.

Good place to start is finding other men in the same position as you that WANT to apply to improving their situation. Every one starts of somewhere when developing this skill, and remember meeting and attracting women is a skill that can be worked toward.

Guys are often surprised at how fast you can see results if you apply yourself. Thats when it becomes fun and you look forward to going out and approaching.

I have a friend who is 50. Roy. An Englishman who I met in the community, after discovering that men of all ages were getting laid by approaching he began his journey, he now dates 25 to 40 year old after approaching them during the day. His catch phrase is that he has approached more women in the first two weeks with success with women that he has in his whole entire life.

Also find a dating coach.

Heres mine

Don't let the red hair and bold patch fool you, his legit!

Real Social Dynamics Secrets To Becoming The Guy Girls "Have Fun" With - Hookups, Threesomes, Etc! - YouTube
 
Kaanman;603486 said:
In the comfort zone is not where you want to be.

Good place to start is finding other men in the same position as you that WANT to apply to improving their situation. Every one starts of somewhere when developing this skill, and remember meeting and attracting women is a skill that can be worked toward.

Guys are often surprised at how fast you can see results if you apply yourself. Thats when it becomes fun and you look forward to going out and approaching.

I have a friend who is 50. Roy. An Englishman who I met in the community, after discovering that men of all ages were getting laid by approaching he began his journey, he now dates 25 to 40 year old after approaching them during the day. His catch phrase is that he has approached more women in the first two weeks with success with women that he has in his whole entire life.

Also find a dating coach.

Heres mine

Don't let the red hair and bold patch fool you, his legit!

Real Social Dynamics Secrets To Becoming The Guy Girls "Have Fun" With - Hookups, Threesomes, Etc! - YouTube
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Great advice but I am a Minister and have taken a vow of celibacy:) But I do like the idea of talking with other men in my position.
 
doublelongdaddy;603654 said:
Great advice but I am a Minister and have taken a vow of celibacy:) But I do like the idea of talking with other men in my position.
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That's a crime to not bang ladies with a 11x7, you should be arrested
 
doublelongdaddy;603654 said:
Great advice but I am a Minister and have taken a vow of celibacy:) But I do like the idea of talking with other men in my position.
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Oooooh! I didn't know that.

This changes things.

That must be very rewarding.
 
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