How the fuck do you guys meet girls..

Jdcsd;603764 said:

That's a crime to not bang ladies with a 11x7, you should be arrested

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lol, I guess so This choice is because I feel this is what God expects of me now. I have no idea what will happen in the future but for now I know it is time to get closer to myself and God.

Kaanman;603786 said:

That must be very rewarding.

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Rewarding in many ways but it is also, to a degree, suffering but this allows me to speak with God even more. I think that it is important to not only thank God for the good things in our life but to offer up the suffering we experience.

Fetlife.com

bulldaboss93 said:

Fetlife.com

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Sight for kinks and hookups. Ppl of all legal sexual backgrounds and niches I've had great success meeting women there. Not so much for love though. Lol im sure there's ppl there that would LOVE MoS. And visa versa

I think a lot of people that are looking for love, for REAL Love look for it in the more personal situation. Like meeting somebody on a bus or a plane, or maybe on a vacation or in the club, but in most situations I think a real face to face is so important. I’m not saying that online dating doesn’t work but what I am saying is we can become addicted to text messaging and emailing each other without really talking to one another. I think this is becoming a generational problem and I think that’s why I believe face to face love is the only way to do it.

I dont see the point, you should all work on your inner state rather then striving for slutty ass tramps, and non-meaningful sexual encounters.

Maybe harsh, but I have read, heard, and seen too many times guys become worried about wanting to meet women ... you cant rush it, or fake it. All those dating 'gurus' you seen online, its all bullshit!

Watch RSD videos, Todd V dating, and AMS videos if you're a noob. Take everything with a grain of salt but understand that those guys know what the fuck they're talking about in that their own way works fantastically for them. Work on your social proofing--Pick out a bar that you like and become friends with the staff there... this will work especially well if there are a lot of girls working there. Become a socialite at that bar and say hi to everyone. The more girls & high value males you have around you, the more the other girls take notice and become interested. Don't be a cocky asshole, and DON'T throw away your girls. Be cool & friendly, and get yourself to the point where you have OPTIONS with women -- that's the most important part. You need to have abundance to be more attractive to women. Don't get bent over one girl or she'll sense you're afraid of losing her. You need to have the ability to walk away. Also, HAVE FUN. Enjoy the process of getting to know a girl and seducing her-- don't just focus on the end result. Above all... meditate. Meditation helps with self amusement, self love, and self validation more that anything else out there. Get out there and fucking do it ya wank

DLD said:

LOL, I guess so This choice is because I feel this is what God expects of me now. I have no idea what will happen in the future but for now I know it is time to get closer to myself and God.

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"You got the power to let power go? " - Kanye West

I'd rather use a fleshlight

REDZULU2003 said:

I'd rather use a fleshlight

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I would rather use a tissue ?

REDZULU2003 said:

... rather then striving for slutty ass tramps, and non-meaningful sexual encounters.

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Damn RZ, you cut me deep sir, you cut me deep.
LOL!!!!!!!!!

here's another vote for meaningless sex

It's 15 years ago now, wdis clearly didn't want advice in the first place, and he may well be a completely different person even if he's still around. (For his sake I hope he is!) Having said that, the thread has already been resurrected. In light of that, I'll drop a quick 'n dirty response for posterity because this stuff is important. It's WAY more important than making your dick bigger. This is useful if you want to help people like wdis, OR if you find yourself talking, feeling, and thinking like wdis.

People offered wdis mostly surface technical advice like "here's a dating site" or "go out and talk to X women at the mall" or something... that's like putting fuzzy dice in a car that's rotting out underneath and thinking you've "fixed it up." Look, fuzzy dice are super badass and all, but the lack of them is not the pressing issue. The damn engine is stopped up with oil so ancient it's turned into paste! The brake lines rusted through years ago! Some doofus filled the gas tank with antifreeze! THE CAR IS ON FIRE!! Fuzzy dice are not the solution.

The MoS community is very encouraging and patient, and that was on full display in this thread... but sometimes people need a slap upside the fuckin head. PaloMalo came the closest with post 17, and then wisely disappeared.

wdis3 said:

alright so thats never gonna happen so lets just forget about me even asking.. Lets just drop this completely now.

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Improving things is hard, and takes hard work. Forums like this tend to attract and congregate serious dudes, but MoS is not an accurate cross section of society. Most people who ask for help really just want validation. The above quote isn't that of a man who changed his mind after people spoke to him, it's that of a man who only wanted to complain in the first place. After he makes it this clear, nobody should be trying to help anymore. You're going to die some day, and you need to spend your time wisely.

wdis3 said:

I'm pretty keep to myself my whole life now, I'm not a social body.. I dont have friends thats not how I am, i usually end up fighting them or just completely dissing them by turning my back on them.. I dont care for friends, I just want a girl, I'm being honest, all my girlfriends have come from being interduced, when I did have friends 2 years ago before i moved away..

So the answer is no, and I dont get women.. I get nothing.. and Its not that I dont want friends, its just friends turn they're back on you when least expect it.

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No, the people he attracted turned their backs on him, and chances are he should have expected it. Or maybe he was just projecting, since he, in his own words, usually ended up fighting his friends or "completely dissing them by turning [his] back on them." Almost certainly both are true, since like attracts like.

If you find yourself surrounded by assholes... it might be you. If you don't even know what a real friend is like, then it's most likely you. Good friends won't be friends with assholes.

wdis3 said:

The last time I tried of make friends is when I just moved here, I remember it, because I didn't have anyone to get herb from, so I finally found these people, and they're like yeah they can get it for me, so they did, the problem is they wanted to chill with me all the time, and smoke my weed, and waste my gas, and never pay for it, but "they were my friends" you see what I'm sayin, they tried to take advantage of me, and so I didn't exactly like that, and one day we were drivin down the street, and smoking my weed once again, I'm smart, I positioned my mirror to look exactly at this guys hands, and he actually had the nerve to steal from me, and ofcourse they ended up walkin home, and now no one likes me in my town anymore, I'm like public enemy number one, some friends.

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You can find true friends who will hook you up with pot, but he wasn't looking for friends. Friendship takes effort, it's a two way street. Vipers will get you pot and pretend to be your friends just for the chance to take advantage of you, you don't need to be a good friend to them! Just a doormat or a fellow parasite will do. He knowingly associated with vipers -- because by his own admission he didn't want friends -- and then complained about the snakebites.

The guy wasn't even willing to seek out a genuine platonic relationship, and he asked why he couldn't have a romantic one. Notice I didn't say "he wondered why..." He probably knew damn well, even if only deep down. Well of course he was hanging out with thieves and mooches! Who else would hang out with a bitter whiner like that, crouched in his home and moaning about the world? (You guys wrote to him on a forum, that's not the same as bringing him into your actual lives). What would motivate someone to hang out with him, if not the prospect of taking advantage of him?

This thread was the spirit of Cain on full display. Bitter, vengeful, self pity needs to be called out. It might not help, because someone in wdis's situation also needs to actually want to improve their lot, but you can at least offer a swift kick in the ass.

wdis3 said:

btw, I have found a better site, it tells you pretty much everything,


How to Be a Player - Becomeaplayer.com

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Well good I'm glad he got that sorted.

wdis3 said:

Im not the type that just goes out an picks up women, yeah im good lookin, if i had the confidence i could, but I dont just do all that..

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Get an occupation where you are "forced" to talk to strangers all the time, even when you are super tired. The more you talk to people the better you will get on social dynamics.

Finely you will come to a point where you do not care if people like you or not, you are just you, and you do your thing. People can accept you or not. You are kind to all, but you do not need to be friends with all people. Wrong friends can drag you down in life.

The key is to talk to people around you in a natural way all the time, and not force it suddenly when you see; for example an attractive woman. It's hard to define natural in this context, but you should be free. Be the way you are with your friends. Get out of your head by focus on other people instead of you self. A good trick is to ask yourself: I wonder what his/her name is? What's his/hers story? Be interested in them. They will probably talk about themselves if you ask them questions.

If you force a conversation forth suddenly it will feel unnatural and uncomfortable for you. Don't put women on a pedistal.

squirt_inducer_man said:

Get an occupation where you are "forced" to talk to strangers all the time, even when you are super tired. The more you talk to people the better you will get on social dynamics.

Finely you will come to a point where you do not care if people like you or not, you are just you, and you do your thing. People can accept you or not. You are kind to all, but you do not need to be friends with all people. Wrong friends can drag you down in life.

The key is to talk to people around you in a natural way all the time, and not force it suddenly when you see; for example an attractive woman. It's hard to define natural in this context, but you should be free. Be the way you are with your friends. Get out of your head by focus on other people instead of you self. A good trick is to ask yourself: I wonder what his/her name is? What's his/hers story? Be interested in them. They will probably talk about themselves if you ask them questions.

If you force a conversation forth suddenly it will feel unnatural and uncomfortable for you. Don't put women on a pedistal.

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Very good advice. This is probably the reason I have not met anyone. I do not communicate with anyone but family and the brotherhood

DLD said:

Very good advice. This is probably the reason I have not met anyone. I do not communicate with anyone but family and the brotherhood

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I have the same problem.

It's strange. When I'm at work I have no problem at all, but when I'm for example at the gym, my social anxiety can kick in.
I know it's only in my head. I need to solve it now. I need to make a plan to solve it. Force myself through it.

You just need to go through your "fear" and it will disappear. Fear doesn't exist, danger is a real thing, but fear is only in our mind.

squirt_inducer_man said:

I have the same problem.

It's strange. When I'm at work I have no problem at all, but when I'm for example at the gym, my social anxiety can kick in.
I know it's only in my head. I need to solve it now. I need to make a plan to solve it. Force myself through it.

You just need to go through your "fear" and it will disappear. Fear doesn't exist, danger is a real thing, but fear is only in our mind.

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Yes it is fear 😨 I suffer with agoraphobia so it is practically impossible for me to go out. I work on it daily but unfortunately I still suffer

DLD said:

Yes it is fear 😨 I suffer with agoraphobia so it is practically impossible for me to go out. I work on it daily but unfortunately I still suffer

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I understand...it must be extremely tough.

squirt_inducer_man said:

I understand...it must be extremely tough.

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Extremely tough believe me