How the fuck do you guys meet girls..

I think most guys make meeting women much harder than it really is....First, put yourself where women will be; malls, video rental stores, book stores, gyms, coffee bars/stands, etc, etc. And when the opportunity presents itself to simply start "small talk" about a book, a movie, the best coffee, or whatever start chatting! Then, when the time arrives say something like "you know, I've really enjoyed talking to you....would you like to go grab a cup of coffee or something and talk some more?" or...."is there a number I could reach you at and maybe we could go out for coffee sometime?"

I have used the "small talk" approach before with great success! To women it doesn't seem intrusive or that they're being "hit on" and it shows great confidence on your part.

Nice thread, i think i ll throw some stuff here. It's about being cool calm and colected all the time .. what that means, means being relaxed, simple as that so your brain can work properly. You can t mean women or any other human while having a pressure that you want something from them, hence the fear of rejection. Her is some stuff to build up your coolness

-I find out about Penis Enlargement and have or will have bigger dick, that puts me in like 5% of lucky guys on this planet .. so im cool
-i have a hobbie and find cool soultions every day.. so im successful
-my body has a (fill in) cool tatto, sexy unique marks of some kind, nice legs, best hands man can have, cool haircut, .. so im unique and special
... you can find out millions stuff like this about yourself if you keep looking
Note before we move on to execute target without fear or emotion, write some openers and discussion topic you would like talk to with girl, or maybe some stuff you need femail opinion on .. just write all that shit and pic what is most comfortable for YOU
Now go for kill, no jokes. no emotions.. approaching a single girl on street, point blank, straight up ... Use this stuff http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?t=49196

wdis3;112638 said:

Dude,

seriously,

am I the only guy on this forum that isnt gettin laid,

I havnt had a girl in like 2 years now, wtf..

How the hell do you guys do it, Its not even about pussy for me, I just want a girl to like me, it feels good, I just want a girl period, One i can hold on too.. I try to shrug it off and pull a DMX attitude and think about me not needing anyone but myself, but it doesnt workin the loneliness is eatin me alive, seriously, I used to be carved outta wood, nothing can stop me, and now when I see posts about you guys gettin laid i envy you seriously, i dont care if you have a small dick.. So if your gettin laid dont take that shit for granted becuz im jealous over here. Shit, i used to be carved outta wood, yesterday I broke a few tears watching Man On Fire, seriously.. ah. I'm gettin to emotional.

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a big dick doesn't equal sex,but I'm sure you already know that .

Women always comment on my wit ,sense of humor,eyes and body.

So maybe working out,and working on your sense of hurmor will do the trick.

Women like confidence.

Because confidence means that you can give her satisfying sex and know how to handle her.

You should try the modern approach of using social networking sites like MYSPACE and Facebook. Yeah, I know they can be a pain, but I know ugly dudes that meet alot of hot chicks that way.

wdis3;112638 said:

Dude,

seriously,

am I the only guy on this forum that isnt gettin laid,

I havnt had a girl in like 2 years now, wtf..

How the hell do you guys do it, Its not even about pussy for me, I just want a girl to like me, it feels good, I just want a girl period, One i can hold on too.. I try to shrug it off and pull a DMX attitude and think about me not needing anyone but myself, but it doesnt workin the loneliness is eatin me alive, seriously, I used to be carved outta wood, nothing can stop me, and now when I see posts about you guys gettin laid i envy you seriously, i dont care if you have a small dick.. So if your gettin laid dont take that shit for granted becuz im jealous over here. Shit, i used to be carved outta wood, yesterday I broke a few tears watching Man On Fire, seriously.. ah. I'm gettin to emotional.

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wdis3;112638 said:

Dude,

seriously,

am I the only guy on this forum that isnt gettin laid,

I havnt had a girl in like 2 years now, wtf..

How the hell do you guys do it, Its not even about pussy for me, I just want a girl to like me, it feels good, I just want a girl period, One i can hold on too.. I try to shrug it off and pull a DMX attitude and think about me not needing anyone but myself, but it doesnt workin the loneliness is eatin me alive, seriously, I used to be carved outta wood, nothing can stop me, and now when I see posts about you guys gettin laid i envy you seriously, i dont care if you have a small dick.. So if your gettin laid dont take that shit for granted becuz im jealous over here. Shit, i used to be carved outta wood, yesterday I broke a few tears watching Man On Fire, seriously.. ah. I'm gettin to emotional.

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Well, I haven't gotten laid for a while, too, but now I'm starting to study Pickup Artist material and I hope it will help me.

i just meet them off the internet and fuck then in the cinema! works for me

wdis3;112638 said:

am I the only guy on this forum that isnt gettin laid,

I havnt had a girl in like 2 years now, wtf..

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Trust me ..i have even forgotten what having sex is like.

Anybody can get laid, the thing is, we don't wanna change ourselves. See, here in my environment there is an almost 100% sure method to get a chick if you are a boy: straighten your hair, be skinny as hell, have a piercing in your nose/lip/ear, act cocky when in fact you do everything that your pussy wants you to do, have a facebook account with "emo-like" pictures of you in the bathroom while trying to make an interesting and masculine appearance. Then you have to ask yourself: Are the chicks nowadays REALLY interested in men, or do they prefer little dogs that they can push around and piss on them whenever they like? Don't wanna generalize this, it's probably different elsewhere, I'm just talking from what I see here. My advice for anybody having issues getting laid is, do your thing and be a man, don't worry about the girls. And if you are very sad, like extremely sad because you haven't fucked for a while... hell, go to a bitch, why do you think they exist?

lazyhanger;419795 said:

Anybody can get laid, the thing is, we don't wanna change ourselves. See, here in my environment there is an almost 100% sure method to get a chick if you are a boy: straighten your hair, be skinny as hell, have a piercing in your nose/lip/ear, act cocky when in fact you do everything that your pussy wants you to do, have a facebook account with "emo-like" pictures of you in the bathroom while trying to make an interesting and masculine appearance. Then you have to ask yourself: Are the chicks nowadays REALLY interested in men, or do they prefer little dogs that they can push around and piss on them whenever they like? Don't wanna generalize this, it's probably different elsewhere, I'm just talking from what I see here. My advice for anybody having issues getting laid is, do your thing and be a man, don't worry about the girls. And if you are very sad, like extremely sad because you haven't fucked for a while... hell, go to a bitch, why do you think they exist?

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second dat !

lazyhanger;419795 said:

Anybody can get laid, the thing is, we don't wanna change ourselves. See, here in my environment there is an almost 100% sure method to get a chick if you are a boy: straighten your hair, be skinny as hell, have a piercing in your nose/lip/ear, act cocky when in fact you do everything that your pussy wants you to do, have a facebook account with "emo-like" pictures of you in the bathroom while trying to make an interesting and masculine appearance. Then you have to ask yourself: Are the chicks nowadays REALLY interested in men, or do they prefer little dogs that they can push around and piss on them whenever they like? Don't wanna generalize this, it's probably different elsewhere, I'm just talking from what I see here. My advice for anybody having issues getting laid is, do your thing and be a man, don't worry about the girls. And if you are very sad, like extremely sad because you haven't fucked for a while... hell, go to a bitch, why do you think they exist?

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I really see things like this. I mean I could have a girl but then that would mean I would not have any of the privacy luxuries I have, or soon will have. I would rather be alone and just pay to get laid a couple times a year from a clean, fine, professional. I mean, lets face it, $400 in Miami will give a guy a model for the night and no regrets...as long as she is clean. $400 would not even pay for a week worth of nagging and bitching. I am a man that likes to pay in full and get the job done good and proper. Women are no different to me, they seem to be more of a distraction from getting work done than anything else. I mean, sure, if you are in love and everything, but for the guy who stay in the relationship just to get laid....I would rather be alone. If Misses DLD Walks through the door I will know, so far that is not the case.

Step one: Learn to play the fuck out of a guitar
Step two: Play live
Step three: Smile a lot
Step four: Don't run your lame ass mouth too much
Step five: Learn to maintain good eye contact while smiling a lot
Step six: Use your eyes to your advantage. Look at those wonderful lips while she talks to you.
Step seven: Be the Alpha
Step eight: Don't be an arrogant asshole
Step nine: Be pursued with class
Step Ten: Don't be greedy with the pussy, be appreciative and respectful. Word will travel and women will flock to be with you even for a few minutes.
Step eleven: Wash your ass, wash your hair, don't be a fucking drunk or dope fiend
Step twelve: Be honest always, no exceptions. Women detect lying assholes

Works for me at least. As you can see, the idea is to stand out from the herd. If you want things to change for you, you have to make some changes. Dig?

There is no specific area how to meet a girl.Just invite a girl for dinner or on any night party.She surly give clues for romance. Its depend on you that you carry it right.And than do what you want? But be concentrated while doing sex because she may have any sexual transmitted disease....

My personal story is a strange one but my give some hope to those who struggle to get women. If the first paragraph bores you then skip to the end...

I have too been far too much of a shy guy in the past with the result that i was single for an awefully long time. It was totally my fault. I was scared of rejection and never really out my neck on the line and just went for it. I am apparently a pretty good looking guy, i am 1.84 m tall with a slender build. My dick is the standard 6" by 5". I have had relationships in the past but had a huge gap between them in my twenties. I also became very involved in eastern philosophy and at one time considered becoming a renunciate (no this wasnt an escape from relationships etc, i was truly interested in devoting my life to something greater). Of course i was still very interested in women so this came a little into conflict with my other other worldly ambitions. Then one day i met this girl. Shes an asian girl from hong kong, a medical doctor and very westernised (her english is better than mine) stunningly beautiful with a body to die for. She was involved with my best friend at the time. We started chatting and became friends. At this time i didnt see her in any other light other than friendship. They broke up and about 8 months later she sent me msgs on gchat. The msgs became a little heated with time. Quite frankly She came after me like a wolf after a wounded rabbit. Maybe it was a challenge to her because at the time, despite how hot i thought she was, i was quite dedicated to singledom and my spiritual path but she was relentless. She would nail me with images and then pics of her in sexy clothes etc and then finally sent me one photo (done by a professional photographer) of her in some lingerie (her ass is a work of art). That final pic drove me out of my mind andi decided life was too short not to give it a try.

We went out a few times, got on really well and my lord was she hot. I must admit i was nervous for when we would finally get down to some bedroom activities. It had been 10 years (yes that long) since i had last had sex. Well i got drunk and we finally got down to it. She looked even better naked. And....drumroll...our first session was a disaster! I was awkward despite the liquor in my system and due to my nerves i struggled to cum, so i lasted way way too long for her comfort and eventually gave up on finishing. Lol the i felt like a complete moron the next day! I thought ok that was it, it was nice nailing a hot asian girl despite the lack of fireworks but surely she would dump my ass today. Strangely enough she didnt and our next session was infinitely better. Maybe coz the nerves were gone, i had already done my worst and now anything was better...and it was, much much better as time went by.

Well, we got married 2 weeks ago and i am very happy. luckily i didnt have to give up my spiritual aspirations but would not do so as a single renunciate. I asked her a short while ago, while we laughed at our disasterous first time, why she stuck with me and she said...

1. I was intelligent and very easy to talk to (i practice alternative medicine which gives me enough background knowledge to understand her medical jargon).
2. I was a generally happy and positive person
3. I played hard to get (albeit unknowingly on my side) which she was not used as guys usually fall over their feet trying to get her attention.
4. I did not have a history of being a player (yes that was on her list of required attributes)
5. My father is typical old school, so taught me the old fashioned manners and to treat women with respect
6. I was tall (ish...most of my friends are much taller than me so ive never seen myself as tall) and good looking
7. I was different to most other guys she'd met. My "stories" were completely different most likely due to my eastern spiritual interests.
8. Being single i learnt to cook well

Thats all i can remember for now but in summary, from my limited experience,...

Be friendly, interesting, dont seem desperate or overly interested in her but remain attentative, old fashioned manners, honesty and look after your appearance but not too much. A stable job/income is also a bonus but she assures me it merely gives an indication of your character than her being after your money (she is hugely successful financially so doesnt need anyone to look after her).

Considering the forums im posting this on i had better give more details. Size does matter to her but only in the way that it is "big enough". The thought of an 8" by 6" horrifies her. Anything less than 5" by 5" she says is too small. In my experience she is quite shallow in there...anything above 6.5" would be too long for her. Some positions we just cant do because doesnt like the banging on the cervix. When i have used Bathmate and temp expanded girth to almost 6", while it takes forever to get into her, once she is lubricated she handles it easily and she is like "meh" she feels the same pleasure from only 5". Weird i know but thats whats she says.

LasherG;531300 said:

When i have used Bathmate and temp expanded girth to almost 6", while it takes forever to get into her, once she is lubricated she handles it easily and she is like "meh" she feels the same pleasure from only 5". Weird i know but thats whats she says.

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Hehe, well there's a difference between a spongy, temporary, fluid retention 6" and a true, rock hard 6" girth.

Google Tariq Nasheed.....you will be enlightened. . .I wish I would have found him (pause) before I got into a relationship

First of all stop feeling for yourself!!! 2nd, go out, go to parties, go to clubs, go to places where there are girls ... and maybe alcohol

3ugen3;542617 said:

First of all stop feeling for yourself!!! 2nd, go out, go to parties, go to clubs, go to places where there are girls ... and maybe alcohol

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It is important to surround ourselves with the thing, people, etc. that we aspire to be like or desire to acquire what they have. Going to parties, clubs, bars, libraries, churches, etc. to meet women will expose you to the people you want to meet.

The best advise I can give in getting with women is to talk to every person you see during the day. Compliment them, man or women and do this with everyone you meet. This will give you practice that will eventually become instilled in you as a positive personality trait. You not only will meet more women but more people, all with different gifts and qualities that will all improve your life.