How the fuck do you guys meet girls..

Dude,

seriously,

am I the only guy on this forum that isnt gettin laid,

I havnt had a girl in like 2 years now, wtf..

How the hell do you guys do it, Its not even about pussy for me, I just want a girl to like me, it feels good, I just want a girl period, One i can hold on too.. I try to shrug it off and pull a DMX attitude and think about me not needing anyone but myself, but it doesnt workin the loneliness is eatin me alive, seriously, I used to be carved outta wood, nothing can stop me, and now when I see posts about you guys gettin laid i envy you seriously, i dont care if you have a small dick.. So if your gettin laid dont take that shit for granted becuz im jealous over here. Shit, i used to be carved outta wood, yesterday I broke a few tears watching Man On Fire, seriously.. ah. I'm gettin to emotional.

wDis, Do you actively go out and meet women? How do you normally get women? After I know what you do. I can help you out from there.

dude, lol Im not the type that just goes out an picks up women, yeah im good lookin, if i had the confidence i could, but I dont just do all that.. I mostly stay home, unless im not workin, the only time I go out is to spend my work money on what clothes or weed, and thats not a social call, I tried being friends with the people I get weed from, and all they do is just mooch off me, like use me, they end up smoking all my weed and wasting all my gas without paying a dime for any of it, and they never ask to chill otherwise. I'm pretty keep to myself my whole life now, I'm not a social body.. I dont have friends thats not how I am, i usually end up fighting them or just completely dissing them by turning my back on them.. I dont care for friends, I just want a girl, I'm being honest, all my girlfriends have come from being interduced, when I did have friends 2 years ago before i moved away..

So the answer is no, and I dont get women.. I get nothing.. and Its not that I dont want friends, its just friends turn they're back on you when least expect it.

How do you expect to meet women if you don't go to places where they will be?
To get the confidence. I suggest going to a mall or some place, and talk to 5 women. They don't have to be attractive, but it sounds like to me you are bit intimidated to making the first move, or even talking to an attractive women. Make it a habit to just go to the mall, and just talk. I have met some cool people doing that.

alright so thats never gonna happen so lets just forget about me even asking.. Lets just drop this completely now.

wdis3 said:

alright so thats never gonna happen so lets just forget about me even asking.. Lets just drop this completely now.

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What is the worst thing that can happen by talking to a woman you don't know?

What is the best thing that can happen by talking to a woman that you don't know?

Its funny how when we do something that makes us feel really uncomfortable the thought of doing it can stop us from even trying, but if you take that step, and say "fuck it I am not going to let a chick intimidate me. " you might get rejected a few times, or even a lot, but eventually you will stop ccaring, and you will be comfortable with talking to women where when the right one comes along you will open for the opportunity.

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impalerr said:

sounds like you need take a visit to http://www.doubleyourdating.com/ it will change your life forever seriously

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wdis3 said:

am I the only guy on this forum that isnt gettin laid?

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Nope

If you wanna get ur confidence up and you say you already spend money on gas and weed to drive a bunch of fake people around, why not phone up some escort service and get em to bring one to ur house. Ive never done this personally however I probably would in another city. I just go to clubs to meet women.

Im pretty sure after that escort comes over and services your needs you should have more confidence.

wdis3 said:

Dude,

seriously,

am I the only guy on this forum that isnt gettin laid,

I havnt had a girl in like 2 years now, wtf..

How the hell do you guys do it, Its not even about pussy for me, I just want a girl to like me, it feels good, I just want a girl period, One i can hold on too.. I try to shrug it off and pull a DMX attitude and think about me not needing anyone but myself, but it doesnt workin the loneliness is eatin me alive, seriously, I used to be carved outta wood, nothing can stop me, and now when I see posts about you guys gettin laid i envy you seriously, i dont care if you have a small dick.. So if your gettin laid dont take that shit for granted becuz im jealous over here. Shit, i used to be carved outta wood, yesterday I broke a few tears watching Man On Fire, seriously.. ah. I'm gettin to emotional.

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wdis3
before you make up your mind about what i am gonna say,just read it through,and "TRY IT",and even though alot of people frown on it,"I SWEAR BY IT"...i GUARANTEE that you will meet NEW women this way.but first MY STORY(i'll keep it as short as possible)
a couple of years ago i had gotten out of a long term relationship that i was just "done with","time to move on" etc.....anyway i had been out of the relationship about 9 mnths,and was growing tired of the bar scene,picking up "loose women" etc. i was gettin plenty of pussy but after a while i just ended up recycling the same women(i was in a small town,and only went to 2 different bars unless somebody was a designated driver)all of these women were "fun" but thats it,no interest in them otherwise.
one day i'm watching tv and there is a news story about being single.had all these statistics about meeting people how long it would take to find a person you were compatible etc....going on their statistics it would take me about 500 years to find i girl i liked and could hang with for any amount of time.
my brother had been fuckin around online for a few years so i asked him about it and decided to try it by "MY RULES"(i will list these below)to make the rest of the story short.i met the greatest woman i have ever known this way(that is a story all its own )
when i went into it i was only looking to "MEET NEW GIRLS" thats all.me and my girl always joke about that.i wasnt lookin for a girlfriend,but i found one.
so here are the rules that i guarantee will have you meeting more women than you can handle

#1 when you write about yourself "BE HONEST" this is very important because if you lie it wont take long for her to figure it out when you meet her.especialy if you lie about physical things.
TIP:if you are in "GREAT SHAPenis Enlargement"say that you are in "GOOD SHAPenis Enlargement" ETC. girls(and guys) love it when something turns out to be "BETTER" THAN WHAT THEY WERE EXPenis EnlargementCTING,but they hate it when things are "LESS" THAT WHAT THEY EXPenis EnlargementCTED.
TIP chicks love a sense of humor

#2 go into it with a "I AM NOT GOING TO INITIATE CONTACT" with any girl. let "THEM FIND YOU".this will eliminate any rejection...if they write to you,you have already got past her "SCREENING"
when you go to a bar a club,dance etc. and you approach a girl and she either starts talking to you,or sends your ego down in a firery crash ...you have been "screened" and she accepts or rejects you.this way you only the meet the girls that "WANT TO TALK TO YOU"....you never even know the girls that "REJECT YOU" what you dont know wont hurt you.

#3 when girls start writing to you "START OFF SLOW",dont try to get her to come to your apt the first time you talk to her,get her phone number etc.let her "OFFER" these things to you.most chicks will be wary as first,as there are alot pervs out there.

#4 dont try to write to all the girls that write you(it will be overwhelming)i believe that you can pick up a certain amount of chemistry through first contact even though it is by email.concentrate on the ones that you feel some kind of connection with.

#4 "TRY IT",it wont cost you nothing to try it,and you dont have to write to any of the girls if you dont want.but you wont know till you TRY IT. i posted at 4 different sites,and just 2 of them produced over 100 women that "WANTED" TO TALK TO ME(imagine how many rejections i didnt get how many nights of going to bar etc do you think it would take me to meet 100 women that "WANTED" TO TALK TO ME?

#5 DONT LISTEN TO YOUR FRIENDS.they will try to give you shit about it(some of mine did) they will say shit like "I WANT TO MEET A "REAL" WOMAN"...none of them say anything to me now
you dont even have to tell them

the 2 places you should try(i recomend) are MATCH.COM AND CUPID.COM
those are good places to meet a girl that you could "click" with.
if all you want is sex then try ADULTFRIENDFINDER.COM.....all the chicks i met there were kinda sluty,cheaters or whatever.ok if thats the kinda girl your lookin for
i'm serious man give it a whirl,it could chage your life.....hope this helps....let me know how you make out

Jesus! I wish I caught this thread sooner.

Man, wdis3, I ain't getting laid either. I only got into Penis Enlargement because I'm too awkward around women and it was one hell of an ego booster. I'll try these sites and advice that the guys on here have been saying too, because I need it as much as you do.

My trouble is that I'm a loner; I like being on my own. That doesn't mean I like being single though. I meet girls and leave a decent first impression. Some are even attracted to me. And we talk and stuff...but I always miss my chances because I don't hang around with them and their crowd. I don't go where they go. I'll call them up one day and find out they got a boyfriend or something. It's because I'm not there enough, I'm not making them remember me on a day to day basis.

So my advice would be, get out and keep with the chicks you meet. Don't forget them or move on or do something else. Stick with each one enough until something happens. If I had the guts to do that, I'd probably be a stud by now.

yeah I'm like that too, Its not like I dont want a girl, when it comes to other guys, Im not your buddy your pal or your homie, i do my own thing, I'm not interested in being your friend, I just want the girl, just me and her.. But I've been thinking about it and all, I dont know if I can talk to 5 girls at the mall, but If I see one I like I might try and talk to her, but I'm not good in social siutations, I really just wanna make it short and quick, get the number and bounce, I have a more comfortable ground talking on the phone.

You talk about girls putting you in their little test before you even talk to them, obviously, if they smile, its something good right, and if they stare, thats good too, but if they keep a straight face and walk straight by you, that probably means they arnt interested or have a boyfriend or something..

I think one of my problems is, is about who I am, I mean I am worried more about hitting on a girl who has a boyfriend in the mall waiting somewhere for her, and than we got problems, because if I do get stepped on I'm not just gonna walk away, its not my thing, but I dont want to get any fights..

Another thing Is I'm worried that she'll give me like a wrong number, my sister does that to guys she doesnt like, she just give them a fake number, and I dont wanna end up calling someone's grandma, I can picture myself talking to girls, minus the rejection ofcourse.

btw, I have found a better site, it tells you pretty much everything,


http://www.becomeaplayer.com/

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Hey whats up i read ur post and took an interest in it,i myself use to be sorta a ladies man.A couple of years ago i had slipped inot a depression and thought i lost my mojo,but i gained it back.Talking to women is the easy part,getting inside their head is where the real effort is.I heard u saying that u also havent got any pussy in like 2 years and i'm gonna try to give u a couple of suggestions.First and foremost females are very perceptive,any lack in confidence can work for or against u.Some women love the shy guy thing,but most love guys that are comfortable in their own skin.Don't go out looking for ur future wife,instead go out and meet diffrent females and become friends with em.One thing i know about girls is they usually hang in packs so if the one u stepped to isnt trying to give u any ass and is just trying to be ur friend then more than likely she has a friend or 3 that will love the chance to throw some head game at ya.Be urself,show a lil manners,ask em what kind of work do they do are if they're in school.Also ask em what they like to do for fun,if they at anytime say they have a boyfriend tell em that u were just looking to be friends.Woman love that shit,and after u hang out with them for a while they'll either question why u havent tried to push up on them or they will just get real(love aggressive women)aggressive and just rush u.You can go anywhere to meet women.If ur looking for a smart woman go to a library or a book store.The bar scene is also a good place to pick women up,supermarket,laundrymat,the street.Whereever u see a female approach em with a smile and the million dollar swagger and try to be friendly.Trust me man it works.I smoke weed sometimes also and i know how needy a guy can get while under influence.I dont think theres nothing better than lighting up some good green and just going at with a chick for a couple of hrs.Heres a test for you,with no time limit.Go out and try to meet as many females as u can without judgin em by their looks.Every chick has a hot friend,trust me man in no time u will come back and say yo i have to many women that want to get at me in the same day once u get a couple of numbers.I say don't go by looks for the obvious reasons,ur fear of rejection.Plus if she's not all that and says no for whatever reason it dosent mean anything because ur only practicing.LOL would u believe this is how i started.I started by talking to less attractive to ok looking to just super model pretty in no time.Your single and its time for u to run wild man,again just talk to every female u see and in no time u will be rakin em in especially now that the season is changing.Its usually around this time that everyone thats single tries to hook up,its the summer time when everyone loses their mind

Give what i said a chance and come back after ur first day out and let us know how many chicks u talked to and how many numbers u got.

How could i forget find a place that strikes ur interest near a nail or hair salon,nothing but chicks be in there.

OK...I read most of this thread and I have to say...you have a major attitude issue when it comes to women....thats the reason you are not getting any....

It took you a while to get the attitude you have right now, so it will take some time to fix it...there are good resources to get a better more useful attitude when it comes to women and I would definetely recommend double your dating....its based on being cocky and playful with women when you interact with them...not taking it too seriously and tons of other great stuff...basically very helpful with your inner game aka confidence.

And if you always want to fight when you are challenged that is a major sign of insecurity...there are tons of ways to resolve problems and fighting is the last one not the first...

Also, trust me a girl doesn't want to be with a loner...I mean seriously what do you have to offer her...and I'm not even talking about money and shit like that...but if your personality is boring and you don't have any interesting social connections that offer fun things to do why the hell would any attractive, cool, high self-esteem woman want to spend time with you....trust me I've been in slumps before and to get out of a slump you have to change because the world will not change.

And by the way the simplest, easiest way to meet women is through your social circle....become friends with people and hang out with them and you will meet tons of people...also when it comes to friendships and I'm talking about guys now its up to you to make them more solid. What that means is its like give and take...you invite a friend to a party and if they are cool they will reciprocate...or you take a guy friend with you when you are meeting 2 girls and later he'll do the same for you...if they don't give back to you they are losers and not worth becoming friends with anyway...but if you are a man that goes after what he wants you will take that first step and not wait for others....

Sounds like those burnout friends of yours are losers...and I'm no monk but dude I've heard that weed can make you more of a loner and rob you of your drive so obviously the weed isn't helping you out if you don't even have the drive to go out to the mall and talk to girls...your mind is even making excuses..."what if her boyfriend is around the corner with a bat"..hahaha...actually you should be like "what if there is a great woman at the mall right now that would love to meet and fuck a guy like me"...thats the attitude so GO GET IT...

Hope this helps, any questions ask away.

wdis3 said:

Dude,

seriously,

am I the only guy on this forum that isnt gettin laid,

I havnt had a girl in like 2 years now, wtf..

How the hell do you guys do it, Its not even about pussy for me, I just want a girl to like me, it feels good, I just want a girl period, One i can hold on too.. I try to shrug it off and pull a DMX attitude and think about me not needing anyone but myself, but it doesnt workin the loneliness is eatin me alive, seriously, I used to be carved outta wood, nothing can stop me, and now when I see posts about you guys gettin laid i envy you seriously, i dont care if you have a small dick.. So if your gettin laid dont take that shit for granted becuz im jealous over here. Shit, i used to be carved outta wood, yesterday I broke a few tears watching Man On Fire, seriously.. ah. I'm gettin to emotional.

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WDS3, lets start at the beginning. When you meet a lady you like you have to TREAT like something special. Treat her to dinner buy some wine for her. Do not just expect to get laid right away. Show that you care for her. Buy some flowers, Roses are special for some women. Get dressed up, not just jeans and a T shirt. Have a shave, put some after shave on, smell nice for her, she will reciprocate and smell nice for you.

Most ladies are extremely fond a person who shows that this lady is something special, kiss her on the cheek when you say good night on the first date, or better still shake her hand. On the second night you might try to kiss her on the lips, but do not force yourself onto her. Give her some space to breath make her feel that she is the only girl for you.

Take it easy, and in no time she will give in to your needs, and what do you know your in her panties.

PaloMalo said:

OK...I read most of this thread and I have to say...you have a major attitude issue when it comes to women....thats the reason you are not getting any....

It took you a while to get the attitude you have right now, so it will take some time to fix it...there are good resources to get a better more useful attitude when it comes to women and I would definetely recommend double your dating....its based on being cocky and playful with women when you interact with them...not taking it too seriously and tons of other great stuff...basically very helpful with your inner game aka confidence.

And if you always want to fight when you are challenged that is a major sign of insecurity...there are tons of ways to resolve problems and fighting is the last one not the first...

Also, trust me a girl doesn't want to be with a loner...I mean seriously what do you have to offer her...and I'm not even talking about money and shit like that...but if your personality is boring and you don't have any interesting social connections that offer fun things to do why the hell would any attractive, cool, high self-esteem woman want to spend time with you....trust me I've been in slumps before and to get out of a slump you have to change because the world will not change.

And by the way the simplest, easiest way to meet women is through your social circle....become friends with people and hang out with them and you will meet tons of people...also when it comes to friendships and I'm talking about guys now its up to you to make them more solid. What that means is its like give and take...you invite a friend to a party and if they are cool they will reciprocate...or you take a guy friend with you when you are meeting 2 girls and later he'll do the same for you...if they don't give back to you they are losers and not worth becoming friends with anyway...but if you are a man that goes after what he wants you will take that first step and not wait for others....

Sounds like those burnout friends of yours are losers...and I'm no monk but dude I've heard that weed can make you more of a loner and rob you of your drive so obviously the weed isn't helping you out if you don't even have the drive to go out to the mall and talk to girls...your mind is even making excuses..."what if her boyfriend is around the corner with a bat"..hahaha...actually you should be like "what if there is a great woman at the mall right now that would love to meet and fuck a guy like me"...thats the attitude so GO GET IT...

Hope this helps, any questions ask away.

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Everything is cool except for that part were you say who wants to be with a loner..

I'm not a groupee I dont like the guy next to me, okay IM sorry if you dont like my attitude, I dont want to hang out with her stupid friends, I wanna hang out with her. That doesnt make me a boring person.


I shouldnt even made this topic its really stupid, becuz I should of thought about the people who are gonna act like they know from what I said..

The last time I tried of make friends is when I just moved here, I remember it, because I didn't have anyone to get herb from, so I finally found these people, and they're like yeah they can get it for me, so they did, the problem is they wanted to chill with me all the time, and smoke my weed, and waste my gas, and never pay for it, but "they were my friends" you see what I'm sayin, they tried to take advantage of me, and so I didn't exactly like that, and one day we were drivin down the street, and smoking my weed once again, I'm smart, I positioned my mirror to look exactly at this guys hands, and he actually had the nerve to steal from me, and ofcourse they ended up walkin home, and now no one likes me in my town anymore, I'm like public enemy number one, some friends.

Its shit like that I cant take, dis-respect, I will fight for that.. Its not like I want to ever, but its not fair I try to be cool to people, they just a way of getting over on me, and I dont like that.





stupid descion on my part, I shouldnt of done this shit, so I wish DLD would just delete this shit.

wdis3 said:

Dude,

seriously,

am I the only guy on this forum that isnt gettin laid,

I havnt had a girl in like 2 years now, wtf..

How the hell do you guys do it, Its not even about pussy for me, I just want a girl to like me, it feels good, I just want a girl period, One i can hold on too.. I try to shrug it off and pull a DMX attitude and think about me not needing anyone but myself, but it doesnt workin the loneliness is eatin me alive, seriously, I used to be carved outta wood, nothing can stop me, and now when I see posts about you guys gettin laid i envy you seriously, i dont care if you have a small dick.. So if your gettin laid dont take that shit for granted becuz im jealous over here. Shit, i used to be carved outta wood, yesterday I broke a few tears watching Man On Fire, seriously.. ah. I'm gettin to emotional.

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You mean you haven't had sex in two years? Or not had a girlfriend in that time? Cause I feel you... I haven't had sex in well if I was a girl and I had been a month pregnant the last time I had sex...my baby is one month old lol Hang in there...it's easier said than done, but when it does happen (when you find someone to spend time with) it will be special and you'll feel it. Like you said don't take it for granted. Anyone. We all fall into that category at some point or another. I'm sick of not getting laid either, but like probably three weeks or so ago I just found myself not caring about anyone like I don't "like" anyone at this point in time so it doesn't matter as much...you gotta look on the bright side and try to go out and have fun...when you do go out don't look to get laid just look to get to know someone new or better