How the fuck do you guys meet girls..

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WNT2MORE said:
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before you make up your mind about what i am gonna say,just read it through,and "TRY IT",and even though alot of people frown on it,"I SWEAR BY IT"...i GUARANTEE that you will meet NEW women this way.but first MY STORY(i'll keep it as short as possible)
a couple of years ago i had gotten out of a long term relationship that i was just "done with","time to move on" etc.....anyway i had been out of the relationship about 9 mnths,and was growing tired of the bar scene,picking up "loose women" etc. i was gettin plenty of pussy but after a while i just ended up recycling the same women(i was in a small town,and only went to 2 different bars unless somebody was a designated driver)all of these women were "fun" but thats it,no interest in them otherwise.
one day i'm watching tv and there is a news story about being single.had all these statistics about meeting people how long it would take to find a person you were compatible etc....going on their statistics it would take me about 500 years to find i girl i liked and could hang with for any amount of time.
my brother had been fuckin around online for a few years so i asked him about it and decided to try it by "MY RULES"(i will list these below)to make the rest of the story short.i met the greatest woman i have ever known this way(that is a story all its own :) )
when i went into it i was only looking to "MEET NEW GIRLS" thats all.me and my girl always joke about that.i wasnt lookin for a girlfriend,but i found one.
so here are the rules that i guarantee will have you meeting more women than you can handle

#1 when you write about yourself "BE HONEST" this is very important because if you lie it wont take long for her to figure it out when you meet her.especialy if you lie about physical things.
TIP:if you are in "GREAT SHAPenis Enlargement"say that you are in "GOOD SHAPenis Enlargement" ETC. girls(and guys) love it when something turns out to be "BETTER" THAN WHAT THEY WERE EXPenis EnlargementCTING,but they hate it when things are "LESS" THAT WHAT THEY EXPenis EnlargementCTED.
TIP chicks love a sense of humor

#2 go into it with a "I AM NOT GOING TO INITIATE CONTACT" with any girl. let "THEM FIND YOU".this will eliminate any rejection...if they write to you,you have already got past her "SCREENING":)
when you go to a bar a club,dance etc. and you approach a girl and she either starts talking to you,or sends your ego down in a firery crash :)...you have been "screened" and she accepts or rejects you.this way you only the meet the girls that "WANT TO TALK TO YOU"....you never even know the girls that "REJECT YOU" what you dont know wont hurt you.

#3 when girls start writing to you "START OFF SLOW",dont try to get her to come to your apt the first time you talk to her,get her phone number etc.let her "OFFER" these things to you.most chicks will be wary as first,as there are alot pervs out there.

#4 dont try to write to all the girls that write you(it will be overwhelming)i believe that you can pick up a certain amount of chemistry through first contact even though it is by email.concentrate on the ones that you feel some kind of connection with.

#4 "TRY IT",it wont cost you nothing to try it,and you dont have to write to any of the girls if you dont want.but you wont know till you TRY IT. i posted at 4 different sites,and just 2 of them produced over 100 women that "WANTED" TO TALK TO ME(imagine how many rejections i didnt get :) how many nights of going to bar etc do you think it would take me to meet 100 women that "WANTED" TO TALK TO ME?

#5 DONT LISTEN TO YOUR FRIENDS.they will try to give you shit about it(some of mine did) they will say shit like "I WANT TO MEET A "REAL" WOMAN"...none of them say anything to me now:)
you dont even have to tell them

the 2 places you should try(i recomend) are MATCH.COM AND CUPID.COM
those are good places to meet a girl that you could "click" with.
if all you want is sex then try ADULTFRIENDFINDER.COM.....all the chicks i met there were kinda sluty,cheaters or whatever.ok if thats the kinda girl your lookin for
i'm serious man give it a whirl,it could chage your life.....hope this helps....let me know how you make out
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Originally posted by PaloMalo
Also, trust me a girl doesn't want to be with a loner...I mean seriously what do you have to offer her...and I'm not even talking about money and shit like that...but if your personality is boring and you don't have any interesting social connections that offer fun things to do why the hell would any attractive, cool, high self-esteem woman want to spend time with you....trust me I've been in slumps before and to get out of a slump you have to change because the world will not change.
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Ouch! <:(

I'm thinking you may have misunderstood what I meant by 'loner', but then everybody in the world does so it's no big deal. I'm a loner but I have friends, a lot of friends. What you said here...

but if your personality is boring and you don't have any interesting social connections ...
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...reads practically like an insult to me. I'm not an outcast, I don't get rejected by people (except, like i said, by girls when i try and get into their pants). Trust me, there's a big difference. But Jeez man, loner may be one letter away from loser but they're not the same thing. I'd rather you took the piss out of my dick instead.
Sorry, I just wanted to say that. Don't mean anything bad by it. Peace, ok bro? :)

I basically agree with what you said anyway
 
gosh ya know will dld just delete this shit already, you have my blessing, infact I'm asking for you to delete it..

please o please, any mod, can you hear me!? delete this shit! I am now even stupider of a human being to even post something like this, yikes, what was I thinking..

:(
 
I agree, no big deal. There's some really good advice on this thread.

I subscribed to that doubleyourdating.com list just for the fuck of it, it's good stuff, but does anyone have that e-book that he's trying to sell?
 
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Read the advice and download the don juan bible. If you are constantly getting rejected by girls, you are doing something wrong. This will help u find out what. If you have no balls to go up to girls and hit on them, I dont feel sorry for you. there aren't going to jump on your dick unless you're a movie star or have money.
 
Jeez, I'm moving to Miami!! LOL

Seriously though, I was raised by my mother mostly so I've never really been uncomfortable around women. Dont you have a job?? I'm asking because no matter where I work, my experience has been that it's easy to make female friends at work. I've got a small circle of female friends at the place I currently work, and they think I'm a sweet guy. I've gone out on a couple dates already (and gotten laid) with friends of the friends at work. I dont make it a habit to date women I work with though, dont want drama at work, or uncomfortable situations when shit doesnt work out.
 
UpgradingUnit said:
"Re: How the fuck do you guys meet girls.."


GO OUT
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Yea, that works too. If you go out enough, youre bound to eventually, slip and fall into some pussy. "Ooops!" ;)
 
Ok heres a really long story
I was pretty much a loner 5 years ago.Most of my friends were dogs, I was getting all hermit like and damn if I could start a conversation with a girl.Dont get me wrong if I went out I could meet new people but always kind of had them at arms length.I was getting lonely.I knew I had to change or I was just wasting a lot of vaulable time I would never get back.I was too busy trying to look hard, and staying in that safety mode of never getting yourself into a position that might embarrass you.
So I started on my quest to change,and as gay as this might sound tried to learn to dance(in private of course).Yeah I was bad but I knew that 80% of guys where I am from hate dancing and 90% of girls love it.So I thought I would start at the clubs and go from there.
!!WARNING!! Ok the next part I wont recommend to anyone as it fucked me over physically and can end up killing you.I just wanted to share the story.
Well anyway after much practice I tried the clubs found it hard in a social situation and then took XTC(once again Im totally against this now).All of a sudden I became really outgoing started to relax and enjoy alot more.The downside was that when I was on it you would shrink to 2inches.Which kind of defeated my original plan.So to cut a long story short I stoped the X worked on the base I had built ended up screwing alot of hot chicks and now have a hot wife and kids.
It was'nt because of the drugs but because I started working on myself trying to improve areas I was lacking in(not the being drug free bit).The worst thing is waiting around doing nothing and thinking something wonderful will just happen to you.If nothing changes nothing changes.New clothes ,bigger dick or new car wont get you shit.You have to change your attitude and comfort levels in social situations.Women usually go for fun ,strong, a little warmth and a bad streak in guys.But drop the tough guy image.If you are not approachable or friendly ,no root for you.Also "your a nice guy" means no root for you.I got labeled with this by a girl I had known for years.She knew I liked her so I got played.So I changed my tact told her she should start dating so and so.Not being as polite. In fact just a few notches above asshole.In the end she kept trying to fuck me.But I said "she was a good friend ,nice even".
HERES TOO YOU SAMANTHA
 
i have a great exercise for anyone who wants to gain confidence.

get a good friend, go out to a pub or club or whatever, just some place with lots of people, and have a competition to see who can get rejected the most.

it really works with gaining conifidence, just use every corny pickup line you can think of, drop cheesy winks in and dance like a total wanker.

it's a great exercise to help with confidence, sometimes even a chick will find you funny and wanna pick you up despite you acting like a idiot.
 
First of all, there are no "secrets" to meeting women. These are just people trying to make money off of you. I'm married, but I had to learn he hard way that you get nothing by being a nice guy. I have a degree in engineering, so I had to be agressive because I wouldn't normally run into women.

Number one, you've gotta love yourself. You can always improve your looks by working out and filling out the frame with a little muscle. Don't work out? Start today!

Number two, develop interests. Get out there and make a goal for yourself to try at least one new thing a week. Women like men who are passionate about things. Go to the golf range. Try scuba diving. Go bowling. Go to he pool hall. Take dance lessons. Get out of the house and do something.

Now just from doing things you like and being in shape, you'll find women talking to you. Now here's the "secret" (if there are any): women will almost NEVER make the first move, no matter how much they love you. I know about women's lib but one thing my gal friends always say is that they will not make the first move. Now, they'll throw out signals, but guys are usually slow to catch signals. Anyway, this leads me to my next point.

YOU have to make the first move! It's the way the game is played. Now here's the thing. You think you're worth something. You workout, you have a life. If you talk to 10 women, one of them will find you interesting. My rule for approaching women was simple: I'd get succsss with volume. No matter what, there is a hot girl out there that will fall head over heels over you. I never tried to pick up girls in clubs or bars. That's a waste of time. The women have their defenses up right from the beginning and their's way too much competition. You know the next time you're at the supermarket and you see that hot chick in produce? Talk to her! And realize that there are more women than men in this world. Women want you more than you want them! Get comfortable with the whole process. Get very good with finding reasons to start up a conversation with a girl. I've had girls tell me no, but we still had an hour conversation. Why keep talking to her after she said no? The point is that you want to get comfortable just seeing a hot girl on the street and talking to them.

Now here's the funny thing. When I was younger, I resented the fact that women expected men to make the first move. They could just sit on their high horse and say, "No, you're not worth my time." You know what, however? It's the greatest thing in the world. I can see any hot woman and approach her. Trust me; I have about a 10 percent chance of getting her. Approach 10 hot women, I'm gonna get one of them! This is how I got my 6' ex and how I got my wife. Guess what you'll get if you don't take a chance? Nothing! Don't leave meeting women up to chance.

Women on the other hand are even more afraid to approach men because they have no practice (society tells them that this is the man's job) and don't want to be rejected the way they've stomped on some poor guy's confidence. Quite frankly, men don't expect women to make the first move. I've had a very tall (maybe 6'2"), leggy woman approach me (before I was married) when I was buying food at the supermarket. She was very good at starting the conversation. I remember because I had 15 cans of tunafish! Hey, builds the muscles! Anyway, so she starts off with that. In the end, she says to me, "Well I hope to see you here again." Of course, if I had a brain I would have said, "Well how about we go out for drinks later on. My phone number is..." Instead, I said to her, "Yeah, me too!!!" I get in my car and play back the whole exchange, then slap myself in the head. I go back there for a week but never see her. The point is, women AND MEN don't expect women to make the first move.

So they send the signals and wait. And wait. And WAIT!!! Once, a female co-worker said to me, "How do I get a guy to like me?" I told her that all that a woman can do is let it be known that if he approaches, he won't be rejected. The point is that the grass isn't greener on the other side. Anyway, enough rambling. Go out there and find that girl. Or girls! :)
 
And you don't have to be anything special to pick up either. I've seen some complete bums with awesome looking girls, and they don't even have money. On the other hand, most girls I know say I look better than most guys, but still I have a harder time picking up than most guys. Even trying, I still get rejected alot. So don't think that you have to be Donald Trump or on the cover of GQ to pick up, it's all about attitude. There's been alot of good replies on this thread about that.
 
THese two things are good starting points:

# Make as many women friends as possible, especially unattractive ones. They always have hot friends and if you don't already know, a woman's opinion of you will be greatly effected by what their friends say. Make friends with her and friends and you'll be in there like swimwear :)
# SMILE. Remember to smile constantly, while your talking, while your observing, while your doing just about anything. I can not stress this rule enough, smiling is the most powerful weapon in any player's arsenel. It let's the women know that your probably a fun guy to be around and someone they would like to know or be involved with. This single rule alone can improve your success with women by over 100%, use it wisely.
 
Your little tough front isn't fooling anyone..Ur acting like "I don't want to meet new ppl anyways, last time I had to meet sumone blah blha blha".... YOU HAVE TO PUT ASIDE ALL THAT SHIT AND PUT A SMILE ON. No girl wants to be with some guy who doesn't want friends just wants to be alone with a girl.....Girls want a guy with confidence and excitement... at least at first. Once u have a strong connection with a girl and she's had awesome memories THEN u can just chill with her alone and have a good time.. but if u don't prove to her that u can also have fun.. they don't want to just sit with sumone who complains about ppl stealing weed and not having friends..... You obviously don't understand the post about talking to girls at the mall.. because its a GREAT idea...... it doesn't matter if they're not hot.. u said somthing like "maybe i'll try talking to girls at the mall.. but uhh only if they're hot".... with that mind set.. nothing will happen cuz everytime you see a hot girl at the mall your mind with think of excuses to try the next one.. or just she isn't ur type or somthing.. by talking to the ugly girls its easier.. then once u see a hot one you will be 10x more comfortable and it will be easy.. plus the ugly girls got connects...... Lighten up on the world, don't have such a dark tough guy loner attitude.. get out there and just TALK to ppl.. u don't have to be the best.. alll u need to be is a nice, and just by talking and being nice u'll find a lot of new PPL
 
I was in a relationship for 12 yrs, so when we broke up 3yrs ago I really thought I was gonna have problems meeting chicks too. I'll tell you what, it was easier than I thought. The only advice I can give to you is be yourself and be confident. It may sound stupid but women really dig sincerity and being confident, not cocky butsure of yourself. You dont have to be the best looking guy ,but you do have to believe in yourself. If you dont, knowbody else will.
 
Confidence is key, you can't fear women...are you scared of pussy? If you answered no then why can't you talk to them? Do you turn into a blubbering idiot who doesn't know what to say? That's cuz you're intimidated, get use to just talking to girls and not trying to pick them up. Then move onto hitting on them with subtle hints....sometime's just outright hit on them with something outlandish just to get their attention. I was kinda confued about the opposite sex, but I'm realizing they're much easier to approach if you believe in yourself and show that. Be confident you are a man, you have a penis, women want penis, well most of them do....use it to your advantage. Don't try to hard and don't press on, I use to sweat girls and I was trying too hard, now I just don't give a f*ck and they're on me like whoa! I feel like a million dollars and my confidence is steadily increasing, I feel like I could mack to a movie star and make them feel like they need me..][D ][ ][\/]] [][D. I'm a good looking guy, but I never really had confidence, now that I believe in myself it's hard not to talk to girls. It's also good to come up with some funny shit, some generic one liners that will get them laughing, this way you don't always have to think on your toes. Just have fun and show it, if they blow you off f*ck it at least you tried, Next! If you don't know how to fail how can you succeed?

L8r
 
Go to club, dance with girl, grind up on her with new found enlarged penis, whisper sex talk in her ear while caressing her moving body...Done. Yeah I was at the club tonight...and it's GOOOOOOOoooooD!
 
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