confidence low:(
have had a terrible day today.
i thought we got on well. this girl is 17and pretty shy. well turns out her parents dont really allow her dating yet and she no longer wants to be with me.
this is like a kick in the balls guys. i feel depressed i really liked this girls and this happens. my confidence has really dropped. my first relationship and this happens
ive tried speaking to her and she said she is having family probs and it would be best if she didnt date her mum said.
i thought we got on well. this girl is 17and pretty shy. well turns out her parents dont really allow her dating yet and she no longer wants to be with me.
this is like a kick in the balls guys. i feel depressed i really liked this girls and this happens. my confidence has really dropped. my first relationship and this happens
ive tried speaking to her and she said she is having family probs and it would be best if she didnt date her mum said.
fuck tht shit im not gonna hang around waiting on her to make her mind up. im gonna hit up on some new chick. fuck this shit im ready for it.
fuck the confidence im gonna try and get a gfriend now instead of hiding in my box.
i fucking really liked her and she did tht to me. so fuck it guys
thanx for the help and support esecpially you drew thanx man
fuck the confidence im gonna try and get a gfriend now instead of hiding in my box.
i fucking really liked her and she did tht to me. so fuck it guys
thanx for the help and support esecpially you drew thanx man
still going strong guys. i went surfing with her dad hes a cool dude. and thinks im a nice guy too.
but onto her. we were chatting on the phone and just asking shit about sex etc, and then she brought up about dld programme tht came on chl4 few weeks back i was like wtf. anyway she was saying about penis size etc and i said do you not wat average is.
she said yeh its about 5inches. and size does not matter lol, i was like pffft sure it does the grin on my face was unbelievable lol. anyway we continued to chat and she was like do you know yours. so i said yes i do.
she said to me is it above average and i said yes a good bit. and she turned around and said 'i thought you would of been small' because i get bullshit about i take steroids in our work. (never touched them) and my boss skinny lanky dude and he said weight training shrinks your dick. jealous bastard.
so i said to her grab a ruler babes. so she got one and i said to her mark out just over 7.2 and youve got me. she was like very nice.
but she will be even more shocked wen it comes to it as my bp hits about 7.6+ so i will kinda dig it in wen i show her lol
but onto her. we were chatting on the phone and just asking shit about sex etc, and then she brought up about dld programme tht came on chl4 few weeks back i was like wtf. anyway she was saying about penis size etc and i said do you not wat average is.
she said yeh its about 5inches. and size does not matter lol, i was like pffft sure it does the grin on my face was unbelievable lol. anyway we continued to chat and she was like do you know yours. so i said yes i do.
she said to me is it above average and i said yes a good bit. and she turned around and said 'i thought you would of been small' because i get bullshit about i take steroids in our work. (never touched them) and my boss skinny lanky dude and he said weight training shrinks your dick.
jealous bastard.so i said to her grab a ruler babes. so she got one and i said to her mark out just over 7.2 and youve got me. she was like very nice
. but she will be even more shocked wen it comes to it as my bp hits about 7.6+ so i will kinda dig it in wen i show her
lolicecam said:but im saying it looks small because of my build. especially my legs. im a weight lifter. so my quads qwarf it.
but anyway thanx for the reply man
Dude i just saw this and i TOTALLY understand where you are coming from. I to weight lift, powerlift actually, and of course heavy weights build blocks of muscle. My legs are over 30 inches in circumfrence and i often think the same thing, it just doesnt look big to me. Im 7.5 nbp now and it still doesnt look big to me. I look at the ruler and go no way its that long, but it is, so i have come to accept it and i feel way better. I know if i was alot smaller in terms of other measurements, mostly in the legs and having a way smaller fatpad, it would look huge, but i like being well built and not being a skinny little twat, so ill keep my build and just focus on losing bodyfat to lose the fatpad and to keep peing. I also have never had problems while having sex, never have gotten once complaint, and i was about 6.5 when i started having sex and i was told i was big. I know your bigger than that now though, just thought id give some insight on the situation.
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ok heres what it is man.icecam said:its a mental problem i have. i am aware of the average size penis but in my head its saying to me you have a small penis.
its an mental problem i need to get laid and here her say you have a nice cock or something like that.
but anyway im now dating the girl and im a shy guy and she is shy so we are taking it slow. but you guys will be the first to here when i lose my V card.
as you guys are legend i have gained from 6.2 to 6.8ish to date. so thank you
On your body, you have a 6.5 inch dick. now your penis is average length, and compared to your body it is normal to, but the thing is it is very thin. if you get your girth up, you will be ok. And since your a stocky big guy, it looks fucked up cause everything else on your body is pumped up and built.
See im the opposite, im a tall thin guy, with a nbpl of 8.50 and girth is 6.25, and because im naruraly thin and long, my cock, being big no matter who you put it on, ....looks massive. Bottom line is....your a virgin, ur dick is normal, and only reason your still a virgin is cause you gotta just do it...get it done with, swallow ur fear, and i garentee after that first time, all you will do is fuck......many many girls. Shit i know i do. GOod luck man.....you gotta work with what you got....GO FOR GIRTH.....
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Originally Posted by icecamicecam said:plus im only 5ft 7 so a 7.6 bpel on me looks big im just trying to gain more length now and have added light pumping and dry jelqs
but im saying it looks small because of my build. especially my legs. im a weight lifter. so my quads qwarf it.
Make up your mind, does it look big or small, you keep contradicting yourself
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Hey buddy,
I have an intense size complex so i feel you. BUT remember if your with a girl around 18 years old she HAS NO IDEA WHATSOEVER really about size or penises, or preferences of penises. She's still just as obsessed with her body and the whole act of letting some guy put his penis into the most delicate, and private part of her body. She probably might put on a big show but a girl that is very experienced with big 9 inchers and rest AND secure enough with herself to actually have the capacity to judge you is about as rare as the 9 inchers themselves.
Heres a secret.
Judge her. Judge her down to the bone. Judge her height, her boobs, her lips, her eyes, her nose, her face, her hair, her hands, her feet, her legs, her ass, her skin, her puss, her personality. She has many more things to deal with than you do. And it takes the pressure off your mind about yourself. This helps me with confidence in bed or meeting ladys elsewhere. You are a self judger like me. Stop IT! Remember to judge others AT LEAST, not your self. Preferably you should not judge but that is a practise we all still need to master.
P.S. Keep your thoughts about her ugly toes to yourself.
Then just fuck her and be happy.
Riley
I have an intense size complex so i feel you. BUT remember if your with a girl around 18 years old she HAS NO IDEA WHATSOEVER really about size or penises, or preferences of penises. She's still just as obsessed with her body and the whole act of letting some guy put his penis into the most delicate, and private part of her body. She probably might put on a big show but a girl that is very experienced with big 9 inchers and rest AND secure enough with herself to actually have the capacity to judge you is about as rare as the 9 inchers themselves.
Heres a secret.
Judge her. Judge her down to the bone. Judge her height, her boobs, her lips, her eyes, her nose, her face, her hair, her hands, her feet, her legs, her ass, her skin, her puss, her personality. She has many more things to deal with than you do. And it takes the pressure off your mind about yourself. This helps me with confidence in bed or meeting ladys elsewhere. You are a self judger like me. Stop IT! Remember to judge others AT LEAST, not your self. Preferably you should not judge but that is a practise we all still need to master.
P.S. Keep your thoughts about her ugly toes to yourself.
Then just fuck her and be happy.
Riley
yeh thanx guys.
well we had a chat on the phone last night. basically she said she wants to have sex but doesnt as she thinks im really gonna hurt her
now because she has a pic of my size she is now kinda scared to have sex with me now this is a new barrier ive to now overcome.
i really want to have sex with her but i also really want my 8x6 and im gettin there i can sense it in the waters.
but she has never had sex before so average would hurt her. an im working on girth a lot more now :eek:
any suggestions guys? thanx
well we had a chat on the phone last night. basically she said she wants to have sex but doesnt as she thinks im really gonna hurt her
now because she has a pic of my size she is now kinda scared to have sex with me now
this is a new barrier ive to now overcome. i really want to have sex with her but i also really want my 8x6 and im gettin there i can sense it in the waters.
but she has never had sex before so average would hurt her. an im working on girth a lot more now :eek:
any suggestions guys?
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