confidence low:(

Stop making it about a cock. Its about you as a wonerful, caring, considerate person. A comforting warm male to confide in. Its not about your cock. Leave that behind.

Then fuck her.

Just make sure you take it slow, and it would help to have a good lube. Most women care more about body then dick size anyway, she would have been happy with your pre-pe size. Most woman would choose to be with brad pit with even a 4" cock, then John Candy with a 9".