Can I get an honest answer from gf re her size peference? Girth increase = tighter?
Ok so I have a couple of points to raise:
1) the email that said "she couldn't wait to bend over and have him ram his huge cock in her wet pussy" I think many girls send these kind of emails to all guys they are dating; I know you said she has never sent you one like that yet, but just because she sent a guy an email like this doesn't necessarily mean he had a huge cock; some girls have sent me these kind of emails or txts and my cock is def not huge!
2) even if this guy does have a huge cock it might well be true that he was too big. And her telling you this doesn't mean she's trying to make you feel bad. I don't think girls realise that us guys have this 'bigger is better' mentality and that many of us don't care if we're the best she's ever had, we just want to be the biggest! So her saying this guy was too huge is not necessarily a diss to you. The email she sent might not have reflected what she was really thinking, perhaps she was just trying to make him feel good while actually thinking the sex is not that great.
3) You say " I don't want to push it too much for fear that she'll start feeling insecure about how tight she is" - why not? Let her worry! She's got you having insecurities about your size; all of us here have these insecurities! So put the shoe on the other foot. "I'm not too small, you're too loose" is a mantra that we should all have whenever a woman tries to belittle us in this manner. And anyway, maybe she'll start the kegels which can only be a good thing
4) Finally going back to your main question, how do you get an honest answer from her regarding her size preference? I really don't know but one suggestion is to watch �naked people movies� with her, comparing male performers who are different sizes, and ask her what she thinks is ideal (though bear in mind her answer is likely to be somewhat skewed if you do this!)
1) the email that said "she couldn't wait to bend over and have him ram his huge cock in her wet pussy" I think many girls send these kind of emails to all guys they are dating; I know you said she has never sent you one like that yet, but just because she sent a guy an email like this doesn't necessarily mean he had a huge cock; some girls have sent me these kind of emails or txts and my cock is def not huge!
2) even if this guy does have a huge cock it might well be true that he was too big. And her telling you this doesn't mean she's trying to make you feel bad. I don't think girls realise that us guys have this 'bigger is better' mentality and that many of us don't care if we're the best she's ever had, we just want to be the biggest! So her saying this guy was too huge is not necessarily a diss to you. The email she sent might not have reflected what she was really thinking, perhaps she was just trying to make him feel good while actually thinking the sex is not that great.
3) You say " I don't want to push it too much for fear that she'll start feeling insecure about how tight she is" - why not? Let her worry! She's got you having insecurities about your size; all of us here have these insecurities! So put the shoe on the other foot. "I'm not too small, you're too loose" is a mantra that we should all have whenever a woman tries to belittle us in this manner. And anyway, maybe she'll start the kegels which can only be a good thing
4) Finally going back to your main question, how do you get an honest answer from her regarding her size preference? I really don't know but one suggestion is to watch �naked people movies� with her, comparing male performers who are different sizes, and ask her what she thinks is ideal (though bear in mind her answer is likely to be somewhat skewed if you do this!)
Rude_God;419165 said:
RG, thanks, that was helpful and you actually answered my question!
Just an FYI, her email actually said she couldn't wait to bend over and have him ram his huge 8 inch cock into her wet pussy. She had asked me awhile back how big I was and I told her a little over 6 inches, and she said "No, you're 7 inches!" and she proceeded to measure me with her hand and insisted again that I was 7 inches. I doubt the other guy was actually all that much bigger than me, but reading her email was not much fun.
We went out for happy hour with several of her female coworkers a few weeks ago, and her coworkers started talking about how the boyfriend of one of them had a huge penis. My impression is that some women like to brag about how big their man is as a way to puff themselves up and to play head games with other men. All of these women (except my girlfriend) were WAY overweight, and not at all attractive. I found myself wondering why this woman's boyfriend hadn't been able to do any better than her if his unit was such a "huge" asset.
MAXAMEYES;418931 said:
I don't understand why you said "She's keeping old boyfriend e-mails even after you confessed to reading what should have remained private"? Like I said in my prior post, the email to her ex was in her sent folder. She hadn't deleted any of her sent emails for quite some time. Are you saying that because she doesn't regularly delete the emails in her sent folder that she is "saving" them? You are also willling to say that she lacks integrity, compassion, honesty and trust ? This is a woman you have never met, yet you're willing to make those accusations based on a couple sentences posted on a penis enlargement forum by someone other than her?
Do you believe that sweeping judgements of people you don't know based on the tiniest knowledge of the facts demonstrates integrity and compassion on your part?
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depends on how they exercise their penisesjojaanbutt;419330 said:
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Aside from that attack of the machines, I'm going to reiterate what others have said and suggest you do Penis Enlargement for yourself. Not to fix an insecurity, but to help you cope with it. Be objective about your gains and what to expect. It's hard to get lost in the size distortions we see in �naked people movies� all the time, or what our girlfriend's have in their sent message box or what they've had in their box before. You need to be comfortable with yourself before you embark on this journey for yourself, not for her. Otherwise, if things go sour down the line in either Penis Enlargement, the relationship or both, the gains you achieve will not be as satisfying as if you did them for yourself.
Change yourself for yourself, not for others. That's something that I took me a while to realize and I'm now using it to change my life.
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Quite simple: If she is still in possession of those e-mails then she is, by definition, keeping them.
Then, I'm not labelling your or your "girlfriend", anything; I just said that I don't see any honesty, integrity, trust or compassion based on the information you chose to make public.
It's your life; live it as you choose, with whomever you choose in whatever fashion you choose.
Then, I'm not labelling your or your "girlfriend", anything; I just said that I don't see any honesty, integrity, trust or compassion based on the information you chose to make public.
It's your life; live it as you choose, with whomever you choose in whatever fashion you choose.
Mr._Clark;419320 said:
So well hes 8" you can be that in like a few months Mr. Clark- just make it happen, and she will be sending you emails that she is still too sore from the other night and can she reschedule your date. Then when you break up we can read about her new boyfriend finding her emails to you and wanting revenge because you broke that ass in half, and we will offer him a Bathmate.
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Mr._Clark;418825 said:
I've read old emails. I've gotten myself all spun up over them. It's a bad place to be and you put yourself there.
My only real comment about the ex is this: do you talk dirty to her? if you had sent her an email telling her you couldn't wait to eat her tight little pussy, she might have sent one back to you just as dirty. But instead you confronted her on it. Wait a little while and send her a dirty email to see if she responds in the same way. Tell her you were at work and you were thinking about her when you got a huge hard on and couldn't get up to go to the bathroom because you thought people would notice. You may be surprised at her response.
Your size is definitely not small. You are above average especially in girth. So with that starting point for your Penis Enlargement you can expect really good results in the coming six months. Most of your early gains will be in your suspensory ligament. Search for pictures and see where this is. I developed my own stretch for my ligs even before I knew about Penis Enlargement and was able to gain 1.5" fairly quickly. It was based around gripping my cock as close to where the base goes into your body and pulling down. Try doing this and you're going to get length fast.
Girth is easy to gain my man. DLD came up with the squash jelk and it's the pipeline to having a really thick pipe. I gained at least a half an inch in mid shaft girth in a year of doing these.
Since doing Penis Enlargement I have had a few interesting experiences...
Experience #1 I was with a woman, married to her actually, and she had old emails and old boyfriends everywhere. It made me crazy. She would even tell me things like, "I don't like big cocks they hurt, I'm glad yours doesn't hurt." Gee thanks for the compliment. She also told me graphic detials about guys she'd been with. It ate at me.
After we separated we'd get together once a week, then once every few weeks, until it had been a while since we'd seen each other. One day she came over and as she was giving me a blow job she did the old measure the cock trick that girls secretly do. They hold your cock in one hand and then grip it with the other so that whatever is left sticks out the top. Her eyes got big. she looked confused. What used to be 6" long was now 7.5" long. It was priceless. Now that we aren't together her imagination will fill in the blanks and she'll tell all her friends I had a 9" cock. I'm the big one that got away.
Another girl I slept with once, after I had gotten some Pe gains, but was still under 8", was a complete slut. She'd take a different guy home from the bar every other night. but after we slept together I ran into her and she looked me in the eye and said, "You're a really nice piece of meat". I figure she probably had slept with around a hundred guys in the past year alone, so if you look at it statistically, she'd seen it all, and only 5 of the cocks she'd seen were as big as mine or bigger.
I know for myself that once I gained more length I could feel the difference. I don't think it matters where you start lengthwise, any guy is going to notice he's just getting it in deeper and it feels good. I wish more guys on here would comment about how they feel about their gains and not worry about being good enough for their girl based on some giant penis myth. It's a fact, only 5% have one bigger than 8", and only 1% are in the 9+ range. That's one in twenty are 8" and one in one hundred is 9". Girls who brag about having had lots of giant cock are lying, or they are visually measuring from the front and including part of the shaft that is attached, this is good for all us guys as we all seem bigger than we are.
What you really wanted to know about was Girth. Girth is a different matter entirely. Pussies are made to stretch so that something with a 12" girth can come out of them. the women I dated recently have all had babies. One had a cunt so stretched that when I would look at it, it was this dark gaping hole you could fit just about anything into. She had also been a real slut since she was about 14, so her gaper had gotten a lot of working out. For the record, it was nice and wet and soft and I loved it.
Another girl I was with had a tiny physique, small tits and nice tight ass, but her pussy felt really loose. Thankfully the girl had learned to deep throat somewhere along the way and I always made sure to put my knob deep down her throat at some point when we got together.
All of these larger pussies were just enough bigger than my girth that when they were wet I honestly couldn't feel much friction on my shaft.
There were some others in there and none of them struck me as really tight. Unless you're one of the guys on here with a 7" girth I think most pussies will feel a little loose.
My new girl is a rarity. she is tall with wide hips but has the sweetest little pussy I've every seen. It's so tight that it can grip one finger when I go down on her. She hasn't told me much about her past, but she has said she's slept with less than 15 guys and she's almost forty. She hasn't squeezed out a baby either, so that must be part of it too. This girl, bless her heart, has told me, "you may be the biggest one I've ever had". She could be lying through her teeth, but it was a nice gift to say that, and I'm sticking to it.
Since I've been with this one I've noticed a tiny bit of stretching on her hole. I fuck her really hard and her pussy is stretching out a little. It's still vice like and I love it, but pussies are made to fit bigger things than our cocks, so they are bound to loosen up a bit.
From my experience, what you will notice more is your length gains. Girth will not increase so drastically as to be immediately noticeable. It really depends on how big your girl is.
So judging by the comment she made about her ex. He probably had a longer penis with some girth, but when girls say it's too huge they usually mean that it's going in and hitting their cervix. Some girls like to feel their cervix banged, others don't.
So enough about pussy and dick talk. Does this girl love you? do you love her? when you think of her do you feel good inside? If so, do you do little things like take the trash out or leave her a little note in her pocket telling her how glad you are that she is in your life? If not, you need to get her thinking that she is special. Don't go over the top with it. Just remind her that you think of her and only her. She may talk trash with her girlfriends about this guy or that guy, but after the trash talk is done it's the passion that really matters. Show her some passion about who she is and she'll come crawling to you for everything else.
It's really about passion. Kiss her for a long time. Make her wait for it instead of just shoving it in her. Making a girl want it really bad is so much hotter than anything having to do with how big or little things are. I put my arms around my girl and kiss her for a long time till she can barely stand, and then walk away to do something. Or I just look her in the face and tell her, "you are so beautiful to me".
The other night when the moon was the closest it would be: I looked at it and thought to myself, damn I wish my girl was here to see this with me. I got on the phone and told her about it and she said she'd seen it too. We didn't say anything about fucking, but girls are like that. You have to talk to their feeling side and then they want to fuck you and only you. After a bit of talking about the moon, things got really dirty on the phone.
So my advice to you my friend, is to get your mind off your cock and get your mind to thinking about how you feel and telling her how you feel about her. Women aren't so complicated, they just want to be special.
Good luck!
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Instead of digging up the past you could create your NOW. Too many guys give off so much energy to their past and future that they miss everything in the now. And with all of the energy expended to the past an future you got no energy for the now.
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Visualize and manifest it! Strange how that works.
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REDZULU2003;418843 said:Mr Clark from personal experience in my life with women and from the scenario you explain I seriously advise you ditch her and forget about getting any more involved, unless you have the love bug?. I say this because why does someone keep old emails from an ex? that doest sound good to me, okay if it was something IMPORTANT like details of joint account such as a bank account but what you have described her being bent over wanting his huge manhood is sick.
Again her saying that shit about the ex being huge, it sounds like she yearns for a large cock ... size queen perhaps. Look I don't know you or her but from what you say and my own bad experiences I smell something burning in the kitchen and you should hit the eject button now, save your pride and dignity before its too late. Work on your Penis Enlargement and forget this whore mate ... ditch her, make something up and get fucking shut. We at MOS are here for you. Enter the brotherhood of MOS because your worth it
I agree-but I think he should get his cock to a monster first-so get yourself something huge-and when she finally says the truth "wow, you're even BIGGER than my ex" DUMP HER. bwa ha ha
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