After 2 years of dating I told my girlfriend about penis enlargement

nobias

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Yup it takes some serious balance for a women to not have (or develop) Penis Envy after learning about her man doing PE (as a real hobby)
Penis Envy is about her lack of Self-Esteem & her lack of connection to her Physical body, usually both if i remember right from my readings (of Alexander Lowen & Wilhelm Reich Books). Basically comes down to Her inability to overcome her hangups which then she projects on the opposite gender (or in this case the PE'r partner)
 

REDZULU2003

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Well put, this is a really insightful thread. Can others that have come out, and spoke with partners please share experiences.
 

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PE almost transforms us into 'Superheroes', in that all the small/medium/large things that used to bother me within a relationship are no longer present. Women can feel/sense that in us (just like we can sense their insecurities) and when we don't 'act-out' like every other BF/SO/Husband they've had, it gives them a feeling of safety and calm. Your sweetie sounds like she's in this zone that you've created and it would take an egregious act by you for her to leave...so bask in this warmth, it's a beautiful thing (and I'm really happy that you've found someone worthy enough of your care and generosity).

This is so true and it happens with maturity in PE. We come here with obsessive thoughts of being small or in adequate but is soon as we realize PE works we become superheroes in our minds because we discovered the secret to what every man wants to know. Keep it in the closet in my opinion is the best way. As I said earlier if you need to talk about it talk to the brotherhood not your wife.
 
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