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Im 6x4.6 nbp, the insecurity has been in my mind for as long as I can remember, I'm 22 and still a virgin, mainly because of this insecurity, I can accept the length but I'd still want at least 7", but its the girth that gets me down, it looks so thin and pathetic in the mirror, when I look around here at people starting stats it seems everyone starts at 5"+ in girth, I wish I could start from there because just a 0.5 inch gain would start to put me in the big category, but with my size I'd have to gain an inch which looking around here seems difficult.

Ive never stuck at a routine, by nature I'm a very sceptical person and in the back of my mind I'm always telling myself that this cant work, I'd just like to ask has any of you started so small in girth and are now big? I need motivation, I feel like if I have sex that I will be insignificant and today I even started to get suicidal thoughts because I really need to change my situation, Ive tried to cut out adult entertainment, I think that is the first step, the second is to start a routine and stick with it, the third, I think I need to work on my overall confidence.
 
Hey bud.

I started with 6.7 inches in length and 4.5 inches in girth. Just look at my stats. I'm gaining. I started earlier this year.

I knew from the start it would work, and I proved it to myself by sticking with it.

For me, the secret to sticking with it is listening to your penis. I never do the same routine once. Sometimes my penis requires certain exercises for than others on some days. Sometimes I jelq like theres no tomorrow. Sometimes its mainly Uli's and horse squeezes. It not only allows you to acquire good expansion each day but it keeps it fun as well.

I'm a virgin too. I'm nearly 19. Probs not because I have a slightly thinner penis than others but because.....I dunno. I think its coz I can't read certain social queue's very well.

Anyway. Seeing as you are in a position similar to me when I started, I would recommend doing only Girth exercises. I gained my length from manual girth exercises alone. Do Jelqs, Ulis, Horse squeezes. Then when you get more experienced start incorporating slow squash jelqs. After about 6 months of Penis Enlargement then start clamping as well. Always do a good 15 minute warm wrap before hand. Makes blood flow and expansion better.

Come on man. Get to it.
 
Hey you've got more than me and I'm 22. I'm at just over 4" in girth and 6" in length. I am insecure about how thin it is but I'm not a virgin. I'm fairly good looking otherwise and generally good with people so that helps... and girls don't exactly feel up your crotch before you date them (at least not usually).

I have gotten a lot of "Wow that's a long dick." Even tho it obviously isn't... I guess the thinness makes it look long? idk. Maybe it's the fact that I'm a small guy. But I've only had one comment on the girth not being big and that was from a dude.

A dew months of Jelqing hasn't done much for me besides making it look a bit fatter afterwards. I'm thinking about going with the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words].
 
Even though I understand how you feel, there are many things going on with you that you can't possibly blame your size on, buddy. How you think is how you become. Even if you don't notice it, the words you choose to express yourself, your tone of voice, your body language, your actions, they all speak for you and it all has to do with how you view yourself and the world around you. How you think. When you view yourself in a negative manner and you are constantly repeating yourself on your internal, continual dialogue, that you are missing this or that, that you are not good at something, that you can't get something, etc, what effect do you think it has on you?

You haven't even started the exercises and you already don't believe that you can gain 0.5 in girth? What is that about? Get yourself together and start acting like a man. Change your attitude towards life and be a winner. When you start gaining, your confidence will increase, yes. But do you really want all your confidence to come from your dick? True confidence comes from the inside. You need motivation? How about being a winner in life? It all has to do with how you think. Good luck, bro.
 
I started at 4.4 and thanks to pumping I increased my girth to 4.9 (5.2 after a pumping session). Took about nine months.
 
Wise words from a young cock jedi!
sibly;465602 said:
Even though I understand how you feel, there are many things going on with you that you can't possibly blame your size on, buddy. How you think is how you become. Even if you don't notice it, the words you choose to express yourself, your tone of voice, your body language, your actions, they all speak for you and it all has to do with how you view yourself and the world around you. How you think. When you view yourself in a negative manner and you are constantly repeating yourself on your internal, continual dialogue, that you are missing this or that, that you are not good at something, that you can't get something, etc, what effect do you think it has on you?

You haven't even started the exercises and you already don't believe that you can gain 0.5 in girth? What is that about? Get yourself together and start acting like a man. Change your attitude towards life and be a winner. When you start gaining, your confidence will increase, yes. But do you really want all your confidence to come from your dick? True confidence comes from the inside. You need motivation? How about being a winner in life? It all has to do with how you think. Good luck, bro.
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First of all, stop writing off Penis Enlargement before even trying it. The best thing you can do is to take a positive step to helping what you percieve to be a problem. My starting BPenis EnlargementL was around 5.75 - my girth around 5 - and by the time I decided to start Penis Enlargement, I had already fucked 100+ girls, never once had an issue with sex etc. Trust me - most of the time there is nothing wrong about the size when it comes to sex, its more for you. I knew my cock was fine - sex was great - but I wanted a much bigger cock - I wanted a adult entertainment star cock. I am now 7.25 BPenis EnlargementL and 6.1 inch girth. I believed in the Penis Enlargement regime and stuck to it. You are lucky in that you are young, have time and dont have a partner from whom you may get grief. I wish I had known about Penis Enlargement when I was 20! Man, you found [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words]. The guys on here have developed and created, they have experimented and modified - what you have here is a treasure trove of facts and help. Pick yourself up, read up - start the newbie plan and stick to it. Stop with your negative outlook - and start getting a bigger cock. How the fuck do you expect to grow your cock if all you are going to do is nothing???
 
Another cock jedi! Its easier to be on the other side with a bigger cock than starting out as a skeptic but you have to take the leap of faith and stick to a consistent routine for minimum of 3 to 4 months to see results.
Your new bigger cock will now be all the motivation you will ever need to keep going and turn you into a believer.
However if you never start then you will always have the size you have now and time will still have passed on by.
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First of all, stop writing off Penis Enlargement before even trying it. The best thing you can do is to take a positive step to helping what you percieve to be a problem. My starting BPenis EnlargementL was around 5.75 - my girth around 5 - and by the time I decided to start Penis Enlargement, I had already fucked 100+ girls, never once had an issue with sex etc. Trust me - most of the time there is nothing wrong about the size when it comes to sex, its more for you. I knew my cock was fine - sex was great - but I wanted a much bigger cock - I wanted a adult entertainment star cock. I am now 7.25 BPenis EnlargementL and 6.1 inch girth. I believed in the Penis Enlargement regime and stuck to it. You are lucky in that you are young, have time and dont have a partner from whom you may get grief. I wish I had known about Penis Enlargement when I was 20! Man, you found [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words]. The guys on here have developed and created, they have experimented and modified - what you have here is a treasure trove of facts and help. Pick yourself up, read up - start the newbie plan and stick to it. Stop with your negative outlook - and start getting a bigger cock. How the fuck do you expect to grow your cock if all you are going to do is nothing???
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Enjoy her while you have her.

One of my motto's for life is

find what you love
love what you find
SirKyle;465684 said:
I definitely have work to do in that department.
Way too comfy with my GF though :>
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Fret not my fellow man...for you are among friends who will guide you on the path to a secure ego. Lol....Seriously..I aint no virgin and my size was some where in your neighborhood till I came across my 1st pump...back in 93'. i went from 6 even to 7.25 in 2 months...no joke. and I have keep that length since until 4 months ago when I started peeping Penis Enlargement sites for tips after purchasing a new pump and guage.I haven't documented any current measurements yet..waiting till 1-1-12..but I already know I'm changed. #1 more bulk...females can't help but see the bulge in my pants. #2 Definitely more Girth...because of base clamping, Helecopter spins, flacid A stretch bends, kegaling, vertical stretching, jelqs and 2 hour [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]hydropumping[/words] 5 days a week. All of this primarily through this forum and similar free penis exercise sites. Don't commit sideways my man...do the work..the women will come..besides..I know some chicks right now who would fight to get hold of a virgin. If you dont own a pump...get one.
 
Rooster4889;465589 said:
Im 6x4.6 nbp, the insecurity has been in my mind for as long as I can remember, I'm 22 and still a virgin, mainly because of this insecurity, I can accept the length but I'd still want at least 7", but its the girth that gets me down, it looks so thin and pathetic in the mirror, when I look around here at people starting stats it seems everyone starts at 5"+ in girth, I wish I could start from there because just a 0.5 inch gain would start to put me in the big category, but with my size I'd have to gain an inch which looking around here seems difficult.

Ive never stuck at a routine, by nature I'm a very sceptical person and in the back of my mind I'm always telling myself that this cant work, I'd just like to ask has any of you started so small in girth and are now big? I need motivation, I feel like if I have sex that I will be insignificant and today I even started to get suicidal thoughts because I really need to change my situation, Ive tried to cut out adult entertainment, I think that is the first step, the second is to start a routine and stick with it, the third, I think I need to work on my overall confidence.
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I'm in the same boat with you, but two years younger and not a virgin. Your penis is above average in length and a little below in girth. Attraction isn't a choice and a good girl would stick with you regardless of penis size. Its not like she can see your dick when she first meets you.

I hope that using Penis Enlargement can get me to 7.0 x 5.5, an inch in both length and girth (I'm 6 bp x 4.5). I'm doing this mostly for me, as I've always wanted a bigger dick. I started DLD's routine Saturday.
 
Penis enlargement is so easy that your current size makes no difference, get the size you want! It is that easy.
 
stop theorizing and searching for the best way.
first you can please most the girls with your dick out there. your dick is not your problem.
define what you want and take action one step after the other.

you need to work hard on your dick and use what dld told in his [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]srt[/words] programm.

without action nothing happens. Take action now. Do Penis Enlargement for at least 6 months every day and then you will achieve something.
I know your situation cause I had a similar take on things. Im a member since 2005 and was theorizing 6 years(!).
I started full action 3 months ago and my dick gets more powerfull each day(and gains will be there when I measure next time!!)!

grab your dick and start now!
 
Me having a 7.3" x 6.4" girth does not get me any pussy anyways. Now who the hell wants that inside of them tearing their pussy apart.

I started Penis Enlargement in 09- 2010 to fix my EQ. I could only get semi hard at best at the time.
 
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Begining girth was 5.5 now it is 6.0 mostly attributed to all day clamping after 2 hour [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]hydropumping[/words] and edging technique.
 
dude i started out .1 smaller in girth than you and now every girth session i hit atleast 5.5'' some times six , my regular girth is now just over 5 inches but im really looking forward to that chainging , becaus ive started doing girth exercises again cant wait to be 5.5 '' , but you have a really self defeating attitude and im sorry bro but thhats not going to work here, you have to have it in your head that you WILL get what you want a and over time and alot of dedisation youll get there ,shit you might gain an inch in a month the you'de be at 7'' length, i gaind 3/4 of an inch the first month, and who knows maybe youll gain girth quickly BUT YOU WONT KNOW until you start and actually stick to a routien for longer than a month , i only measured every 3 months becaus i know that it takes time for shit to really happen but you'd be suprissed what you might be seeing in three months its kinda exiting! oh ya and by the way my length is 7'' right now and when i do girth and get to 5.5 its pretty sweet once i get that cemented its 6'' girth also right now i just strated doing some length becaus i want 8'' length !!! its possible man , VERY!!!
 
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Girth 6.0 is where I want to be. presently, that is a temporary gain that I strive to maintain until the healing process is permanent. I used to have a facination with length but the women I've dealt with all prefer girth to length. My length is cool. too much will be in the toilet when I'm on the crapper. LOL. My goal is strictly girth. If I gain length then that will be a bonus.
 
I felt the same but do you realize how incredibly crazy that is though? A stupid piece of flesh between your legs will make you feel so down or happy? It's nonsense, if a woman dosen't feel it's big enough well fuck her anyways and kick her out after...it's about you not the woman. i started with about 4.9 or so in girth (head and midshaft), i grew somewhat slowly girthwise, but recently this has changed. Keep with the streaching, [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words] and jelqs. I am now 5.5 midshaft fully erect. And this is NOT after any Penis Enlargement or whatever. I started this summer. Dude, keep at it and be patient with yourself and dont take this too seriously come on...a penis? your length is average not small so relax.
 
Dude, forme is right. Carry yourself well, fuck the girls, then if they are not interested, fuck'em. Most girls are just a bunch of lying whores anyway. Just go in to it thinking that you are in it to please yourself, not them. If one of them likes you afterword, then maybe she's worth keepin around. In the end, it's all about you brother.
 
forme;467590 said:
I felt the same but do you realize how incredibly crazy that is though? A stupid piece of flesh between your legs will make you feel so down or happy? It's nonsense, if a woman dosen't feel it's big enough well fuck her anyways and kick her out after...it's about you not the woman. i started with about 4.9 or so in girth (head and midshaft), i grew somewhat slowly girthwise, but recently this has changed. Keep with the streaching, [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words] and jelqs. I am now 5.5 midshaft fully erect. And this is NOT after any Penis Enlargement or whatever. I started this summer. Dude, keep at it and be patient with yourself and dont take this too seriously come on...a penis? your length is average not small so relax.
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Thanks for your message, but your 5.5 girth without Penis Enlargement, I'd be very happy with that, so I guess its hard for you to understand, I look around here and I see so many starting at 5.5 how can the average be only 4.75?
 
Sorry. But dude. Get a grip of yourself.

No your not huge. But you have a normal penis. And you can easily satisfy a girl with that.

Your problem is way beyond penis enlargement. Your just blocking yourself from archieving anything in life before your mind is scared of success. First of: "im skeptical by nature" no your not, your just blocking yourself from trying new things because your afraid of failing.

So let me put it like this for you (take it as a challenge)

Pe doesnt work there is no scientifically prove it does!
Answer: true. No doctors want to learn a man what he can do freely with his hands with no money going into his well fed pocket. So they prefer the penis surgery

Pe is just about ripping peoples money!
Answer: this is so true. There is a shit load of scamming in is business there always will be when a business doent get scientific status. And even if it did there still will be (look at fake viagra etc)
However! At the moment your righting on a forum that you payed how much for?
We have a shitload of exercises and workouts. And the guy making this page is actually actuve here aswell. How much for that?

What you should buy to do these workouts?

Lubricant. For some girth exercises that will be it!

So e price for a bigger cock is the price of lubricant (ohh and some of your time)

Thats it!

Im member of mattersofsize. I got the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words] and the [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]sg[/words] (wearig the [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]sg[/words] right now)

All these things help. But i would not recommend them to a newbie anyway start with manual stretches!


So to sum it up!
You say your skeptical i say your a hypocrit!

Your just afaid of trying and thats it.

We cant rip you we cant steal from you we dont know who you are.

So do this: measure properly your cock. And write it down.
Find a good workout. And do that for 3 months
Make a log in here! So you can get advise (which is still free)
Now after those 3 months. Make new measurements.
And now your cock have grown. (or your a retard at working out, never seen anyone who did a 3 months log and worked out who didnt have gains IT NEVER HAPPenis EnlargementNED! Only time i see people who say they got no results is some newb with 1 post on the forum who claims he has been doing pe for half a year and when you start asking about routine and intensity they do like a clamp and shut up.

If you cant take 3 mo ths and dedicate to a routine to see if you can get a bigger cock. You have failed as a man.

Not just in pe. But in general. Your ability to try new things explore and learn is what will make you great. By not doing this you accept yourself as a failure. So what are you?
 
I had a 6.5" cock at one time and I was never depressed about it. It was only after a women told me she knew men bigger than me that I started my Penis Enlargement quest, when I made all the gains I thought I wanted my penis still depressed me, it was only when I loved my penis for what it is that I started to LOVE myself. 1" is to 100,000,000 inches as infinity is to nothing. U can make it whatever you want but be sure when you are creating this bigger penis you pick the right one, the size that will give you all the confidence and all the happiness an all the joy...never be sad for what it is as the present is believing you already have it and the gift is taking it just the way you asked for it. Ask for the size you desire, never ask again. If you look hard enough and focus with accuracy you will have what you want immediately....or not...it is not up to be, it is all in you! Now go and take it!
 
Thanks DLD, I have my 'not-insecure-anymore' goal at 7x5.3nbp, because that would put me above average in both respects, so it's and increase of 1inch of length and 0.6-7 inch in girth, I'd give a lot to achieve that in 6-12months, then my dream goal is 8x6nbp I think the 6 inch girth is a big ask from my starting point though.
 
Rooster4889;467796 said:
my dream goal is 8x6nbp I think the 6 inch girth is a big ask from my starting point though.
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Well the ending point will be a glorious day but I guaranty you that it will be a new beginning because we always want more:) The journey is the fun, who wants to get to the end! You will make your goal and your insecurities will fade through your own ability to grow to LOVE yourself in All Ways!
 
Depression is an evil bitch man, that crap will get you nowhere man, start jelquin is good try the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-newbie-forum/1597-dlds-first-routine-i-gained-2-inches-with-this-routine-full-tutorial.html]newbie routine[/words] get the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/mosdvd.htm]dvd[/words] ask DLD, open your mind man, erase the suicidal toughts off your head,Be disciplined and you will see gains!
 
shortdick;610951 said:
Dont you worry i have spent 10 years depressed haha i remember when i measuredyears ago fucking depression killed me
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Unfortunately depression is usually a life sentence. The biggest advice I can give is to remain hopeful and really take advantage of the times that bring joy and try to ride them out as long as possible. Depression is the ultimate self lie, the best way to defeat it is to challenge the negative thoughts with the truth. The more we are able to see the real truth the less we spend in the whirlwind of depression.
 
doublelongdaddy;611109 said:
Unfortunately depression is usually a life sentence. The biggest advice I can give is to remain hopeful and really take advantage of the times that bring joy and try to ride them out as long as possible. Depression is the ultimate self lie, the best way to defeat it is to challenge the negative thoughts with the truth. The more we are able to see the real truth the less we spend in the whirlwind of depression.
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brilliant advice!
 
Now that she is gone everything is coming back to me and I'm crazy depress. My ex girlfriend only thought I was good size. She said she wanted to be with me. However, due to my complete insecurity about the size of my penis, I was a mess and baggered. The best thing you can do is to take a positive step to helping what you percieve to be a problem. My starting BPenis EnlargementL was around 5.75 - my girth around 5 - and by the time I decided to start Penis Enlargement, I had already fucked 100+ girls, never once had an issue with sex etc. Trust me - most of the time there is nothing wrong about the size when it comes to sex, its more for you.
 
For what is worth...I started at the exact size as you back in 2005...
Now i have increased my penile volume by 250% which means i have 2.5 cocks now...just increase it by 2% per month volumewise and you will see...

It is not crazy difficult to get 5" in 6 months period with the newbie gains and 0.5" length. This would put you in the above average category..
Now volume wise you are about 40% in the most strict percentage even here. With 6.5"nbp and 5" you would be top 20%.
After this point you would be nicely sized as a 6 foot tall person is considered nicely tall.

However, there is nothing wrong with you current size. Imagine that 4/10 people are shorter and as thin or thinner than you.
Of course most girls will have bigger but thats no excuse to stay a virgin.. I could understand it if you were 4nbp by 3.0" around... but now...no way!!!

Just go with the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-newbie-forum/1597-dlds-first-routine-i-gained-2-inches-with-this-routine-full-tutorial.html]newbie routine[/words] and make PE your lifestyle and in 2-3 years you will be well above average in girth and most definitely in length!!!
 
Pe is an amazing gift but discipline,belief,a positive state of mind are important,if we want to see gains...i started almost 7 years ago i had this 5.some inches n i was dissapointed n frustrated,didnt know what to do or how could i find a solution to my concerns,now years later im 7.25 Bpel n im not happy whit my size yet.but im not that short as i used to be.....
 
no matter how small you see yourself as, or how unfair you feel your starting size is,
there is always someone with less
and someone who grew more to get to the size, or past the size, you want to be.
 
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