Yeah, B got it right.

I am dating a woman who has/had serious emotional bonding issues. Tore my heart out weekly. I just did my own thing. Looked for strength in myself and in my own friends and life.

I kept in contact with her. She saw how strong I was getting with myself. Now she's back. She can't get enough of me. she's working out her own stuff and finding her won strengths.

Focusing on someone else to make you happy won't make you happy in the long run. It's like a drug or booze addiction. Feels good at first and then it turns on you and you are hooked.

Dig deep into yourself. Feel the pain and learn that it is just a feeling that will pass. Be open to what life brings you.
 
we've all been there..well most of us...and everytime you break up with someone or a relationship doesn't work it feels like the world is gonna end & you will never feel that way again...well neither one of these are the case...i don't know how old you are but if you are in college i'll bet between 18 - 22... breaking up hurts but you can't think that you will never have these feelings again because you will...you might not be motivated to do anything because your mind is consumed with the sadness but in time it will fade...i'm not gonna tell you anything about the woman you love...but being drunk is not an excuse to do anything with anyone...maybe both of you guys got a little growing to do and in the future things might work out...if not...in time it will hurt less and less and one day you won't even think about it anymore...

you should be doing pe for yourself...for this main reason...you made your name formygirl...which is all good but pe is about you not anyone else as soon as you wrap pe in with another person...it turns into something else...what once was motivation when things were good now turns into a something you don't want to involve yourself in because you tied it in with the thing that hurt you (your girl)...if you have to take some time off then hey do what you have to do...but hopefully you will really think about your relationship and the reasons why this can be a good thing and focus your pe for yourself noone else...good luck and i feel for you...like i said we have all been there...but life goes on my man...the world don't stop turning.
 
Things are slowly getting better between my girlfriend and I. Hopefully things will be back to normal by the time I get back to her in about 3 weeks. Thanks for all your feedback and advice, it really helps coming on here reading your guys's post, getting a straight head on my shoulders cus this kind of stuff fucks with a guys head you know?

Anyways, I ran my routine earlier this morning and decided to jack off about 3 hours later. When I jacked off I looked down and for some reason it looked bigger than usual....I couldnt resist. I took out my measuring tape, stroked it to max hardness, stood up and measured

As of 11/23/2008
NBPenis EnlargementL- 5.5" :)

I didnt measure girth I was too excited about my new length. Its a few days shy of the 27th which is supposed to be my regular measuring day each month but heck who cares right? I'll measure again on the 27th and see if these gains were permanent or if I just had a amazing boner today. Lets hope for the best!
 
Just keep at it. Congrats on the gains. Girls just need time to figure out what's really important to them. As far as putting on weight, it's all about caloric intake. You're burning a lot of calories with your routine so you've got to pump em in. Count em for a week or two so you get an idea where you are at. You should be taking at least 3000 in. Minimum for all that work. Especially if your metabolism is high. Stick to an amount and if you gain no weight in a week or two, up it by 250-500.

You want more girth? Jelq hard. I gained over 1/4 inch in about 3 weeks. I say after a few months to start cable clamping. Here's the link to RedZulu's constrictor guide. This is giving me amazing post workout pump in length and girth.

http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?t=5913&highlight=constrictors

By the way the first link in the thread may not work but there's another one further down. Keep at it and just enjoy the gains. Hell if anything, you're erections stay strong and your penis remains healthy so you can be banging away well into your 60's like a lot of guys here.
 
Hey guys, today is the 26th but I will not be able to get in a session tomorrow becuase I'm going to be with my family and all for thanksgiving, so I dont think I'll be able to measure either so I just took my measurements today.

I know I posted a couple days earlier that I am 5.5" NBPenis EnlargementL. Prior to my session today, I measured my boner and it came out to about 5.3-5.4 but during my session when I was rock hard at the end, I measured out to 5.5

Im just going to say that after 2 months of Penis Enlargement that my:

NBPenis EnlargementL is 5.3"
MSEG is still a sad....3 7/8"

I dont want to say 5.5" because although I do hit it during my sessions....in real life am I going to be able to stretch and jelq right before I'm about to bone a girl? nahhh so I'd rather not fool myself and just say im 5.3"

Still happy however...I remember prior to Penis Enlargement I would only hit 5" on a REALLY good day, very rare. Now, I pass that no problem and am looking at 5.5 as my goal. I want to get up to a consistent 5.5" and at least 4" EG before I go back home for the holidays, which is in 2 weeks.

Im going to start jelqing at higher erection levels, with a tighter grip and throw in alot more Uli's and manual clamped bends. Any other suggests, tips would be nice!!

ALSO - When doing rotary stretches....I sometimes feel something popping inside my penis. Im not sure if this is good or not. Im guessing its just the sound of ligaments being pulled...and twisted and slipping off one another or something like that. It doesnt feel like a POP where you know "ohhh that felt good...im sure that must have done something good" more like a POP "oh that felt weird...i better stop and make sure that doesnt happen again" you know what im saying?
 
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formygirlfriend;324553 said:
Hey guys, today is the 26th but I will not be able to get in a session tomorrow becuase I'm going to be with my family and all for thanksgiving, so I dont think I'll be able to measure either so I just took my measurements today.

I know I posted a couple days earlier that I am 5.5" NBPenis EnlargementL. Prior to my session today, I measured my boner and it came out to about 5.3-5.4 but during my session when I was rock hard at the end, I measured out to 5.5

Im just going to say that after 2 months of Penis Enlargement that my:

NBPenis EnlargementL is 5.3"
MSEG is still a sad....3 7/8"

I dont want to say 5.5" because although I do hit it during my sessions....in real life am I going to be able to stretch and jelq right before I'm about to bone a girl? nahhh so I'd rather not fool myself and just say im 5.3"

Still happy however...I remember prior to Penis Enlargement I would only hit 5" on a REALLY good day, very rare. Now, I pass that no problem and am looking at 5.5 as my goal. I want to get up to a consistent 5.5" and at least 4" EG before I go back home for the holidays, which is in 2 weeks.

Im going to start jelqing at higher erection levels, with a tighter grip and throw in alot more Uli's and manual clamped bends. Any other suggests, tips would be nice!!

ALSO - When doing rotary stretches....I sometimes feel something popping inside my penis. Im not sure if this is good or not. Im guessing its just the sound of ligaments being pulled...and twisted and slipping off one another or something like that. It doesnt feel like a POP where you know "ohhh that felt good...im sure that must have done something good" more like a POP "oh that felt weird...i better stop and make sure that doesnt happen again" you know what im saying?

Hey that's awesome! Keep working your goals and keep making progress! The pop isn't bad, I've heard them referred to as "lig pops" on thunders, and they're supposedly completely harmless and sort of a sign you're making gains. As long as you felt no pain or anything you shouldn't worry, it's somewhat of a normal occurrence.

As far as your girl goes:
1. Get over spending the rest of your life with her. You're not needy, you're strong, independent, and powerful in your own right! I'm not saying you won't marry this girl, but you have to get over it right now, and if more happens you can be happy with it.

2. Go read some pick-up-artist material, or something like David Deangelo's double your dating. They offer some great stuff about how to actually handle your girlfriend in terms of not being a wuss. Also gives advice on how to meet new girls should you feel the need.:)

Take care.
 
So true. I got pushed around early in marriage because I'm a giver but that changed. Dependency on a woman is an awful, AWFUL thing! Once you are content at the thought of being single, then you're ready to be in a serious relationship. Trust me, women need a strong man that won't be pushed around. You can be giving and kind but YOU have to wear the pants. Show them committment, but don't let them believe for a minute that you can't live without them. It's a fine line...

Keep pressing. I get lig pops and don't really find them comfortable. I usually only do rotary cranks to check for pops. That's the sign of a good stretch. No pops, I stretch a little longer. Oh and see your penis as a tool for pleasing your woman. Just like your hands, mouth, cheeks (face that is), arms...
 
I'm glad you're over that funk and back into serious P.E. Your love life, my love life, all our love lives ebb and flow. But you and your dick are the one stable thing in this equation. Lots of great advice here. As time passes, you'll learn that we must do this activity for ourselves. As you grow, penis-wise and otherwise, you'll realize this more and more.

Who knows? You may eventually even change your signature to

"ForMeMyselfandI."

;)

:P:

mrgrin:





Good
 
First, congratulations on your gains. I myself started at 4.7x4.3 (or maybe even lower), but will slowly get to my goal. Don't get discouraged and stay vigilant! :P
About your girlfriend...I hope you have better luck than me, because I went through the same shit. Started a "remote relationship", had an "agreement" (there is no such thing in love though), but my girl just couldn't wait for 5 more months and we broke up after 2 months.
I went with option 3 for a whole year. I mourned, I isolated myself and it didn't do anything good for me.
I still miss her, she has a new boyfriend (who is btw 12 years older than me, I fucking hate that), but I finally decided to start Penis Enlargement-ing. And really, don't do it for your girlfriend, do it for yourself. It does feel better.

AdmiralLongDong;323794 said:
Focusing on someone else to make you happy won't make you happy in the long run. It's like a drug or booze addiction. Feels good at first and then it turns on you and you are hooked.

Dig deep into yourself. Feel the pain and learn that it is just a feeling that will pass. Be open to what life brings you.
Great thought, man, made my day. I wish I only knew it earlier.

GL & HF
(Get Laid & Have Fuck) rofl
 
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