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[LONGERDICK7+]

I could not have said it better.

I like to think of things in the way off they were done to me. If I had a girl and she was masturbating to adult entertainment, when she could be having sex with me, I would be extremely offended and think that she is not getting from me what she wants, hence cheating.

Would be a sad scene yep no fecking doubt D

 

[DLD]

Would be a sad scene yep no fecking doubt D

I always try to see things from the perspective that "would I be OK with this if it were done to me" if I am honest with myself I would know if the thing I was doing was right or wrong. If I were with a woman and she needed to get sexual enjoyment outside of our relationship I would kick her to the curb and never speak with her again" Would I want this to happen to me?

 

[megamike]

I always try to see things from the perspective that "would I be OK with this if it were done to me" if I am honest with myself I would know if the thing I was doing was right or wrong. If I were with a woman and she needed to get sexual enjoyment outside of our relationship I would kick her to the curb and never speak with her again" Would I want this to happen to me?

if my woman does that,she isn't my woman to begin with. she gotta be faithful and loyal,thank god I got me one of those lol

 

[IAmSpartacus71]

I always try to see things from the perspective that "would I be OK with this if it were done to me" if I am honest with myself I would know if the thing I was doing was right or wrong. If I were with a woman and she needed to get sexual enjoyment outside of our relationship I would kick her to the curb and never speak with her again" Would I want this to happen to me?

Well, get ready to be disappointed. According to statistics about 50% of women (it's a little higher number of men) will cheat, and most women will eventually lose their interest in the partner, so even if they will not cheat, sex with the same partner will become a chore for them and they will have less and less sex.
Of course, there are some people who can have a very long relationships (for many years or even a lifetime) with the same partner, and even still have sex, but they are minority. Most of us (men and women) can't do this because of the Coolidge effect.

 

[LONGERDICK7+]

I always try to see things from the perspective that "would I be OK with this if it were done to me" if I am honest with myself I would know if the thing I was doing was right or wrong. If I were with a woman and she needed to get sexual enjoyment outside of our relationship I would kick her to the curb and never speak with her again" Would I want this to happen to me?

true thats bull,she is not the one then,if she is hot ,attractive or whatever,and wants to get involved whit another guy(s)girl(s) well that would be ok if she gets a girlfriend.

But true real relationships arent that common anymore,unfaithful people is the new disease LOL haha...

 

[LONGERDICK7+]

Well, get ready to be disappointed. According to statistics about 50% of women (it's a little higher number of men) will cheat, and most women will eventually lose their interest in the partner, so even if they will not cheat, sex with the same partner will become a chore for them and they will have less and less sex.
Of course, there are some people who can have a very long relationships (for many years or even a lifetime) with the same partner, and even still have sex, but they are minority. Most of us (men and women) can't do this because of the Coolidge effect.

yep Remember a few years ago i met this girl she seems "interested" in me but i wanted to know her better i think she just wanted to have sex or something,We even slept together sometimes, but never screwd her,Another person i know had sex whit her and he told me about it,Thats when i realized she just wanted to have sex and didnt want something else I think she had sex whit some other guys too for some reason im thankful i dint fuck her lol.... Is a reality relationships dont last much anymore,people dont have the same endurance than the people in the past,There are tons of reasons,excuses why or whatever they can be called...

 

[IAmSpartacus71]

yep Remember a few years ago i met this girl she seems "interested" in me but i wanted to know her better i think she just wanted to have sex or something,We even slept together sometimes, but never screwd her,Another person i know had sex whit her and he told me about it,Thats when i realized she just wanted to have sex and didnt want something else I think she had sex whit some other guys too for some reason im thankful i dint fuck her lol.... Is a reality relationships dont last much anymore,people dont have the same endurance than the people in the past,There are tons of reasons,excuses why or whatever they can be called...

I'm in the mood to meet one of that kind of girls, it's a lot of fun with them. Problem is that they lose their interest with you pretty fast and move on to the next guy...

 

[DLD]

That's exactly the reason why I think that polyamory and open relationships are great, one person can't satisfy all of our needs (sexual or otherwise) and that's completely normal.

Perhaps the world has made them acceptable but to many they are very bad things. Everyone has there own views but I try to stick to the Word or God.

 

[Sinthious]

Perhaps the world has made them acceptable but to many they are very bad things. Everyone has there own views but I try to stick to the Word or God.

Realistically Polyamory was along far before monogamous relationships, Monogamous relationships came more out the desire to own your partner and property as such not wanting to hand down your stuff to someone who is not your flesh and blood. Today i would like to believe that relationships are help higher with more respect then that but history cannot be denied. That said to each their own whither you follow what current religious views which are monogamous only or old christian/mormon etc views where you can take multiple women as your partners (polygamy) or even going polyamory as long as you follow your own moral views.

 

[IAmSpartacus71]

Realistically Polyamory was along far before monogamous relationships, Monogamous relationships came more out the desire to own your partner and property as such not wanting to hand down your stuff to someone who is not your flesh and blood. Today i would like to believe that relationships are help higher with more respect then that but history cannot be denied. That said to each their own whither you follow what current religious views which are monogamous only or old christian/mormon etc views where you can take multiple women as your partners (polygamy) or even going polyamory as long as you follow your own moral views.

Monogamous relationships exist only 2,000 years, that's nothing compared to millions of years of polyamory, so no offense to anyone who read this but the way I see it is that monogamous relationships are very unnatural. Yeah everyone has their own views but many of the people who believe in monogamous relationships eventually go and cheat.

 

[LONGERDICK7+]

Monogamous relationships exist only 2,000 years, that's nothing compared to millions of years of polyamory, so no offense to anyone who read this but the way I see it is that monogamous relationships are very unnatural. Yeah everyone has their own views but many of the people who believe in monogamous relationships eventually go and cheat.

Sounds great and yeah relationships can last but thered be a few times when the partner may mess whit someone else,STDs is one of the things people should watch out for.

There are sometimes when its hard to understand why some people can stand each other.LOL

 

[DLD]

Realistically Polyamory was along far before monogamous relationships, Monogamous relationships came more out the desire to own your partner and property as such not wanting to hand down your stuff to someone who is not your flesh and blood. Today i would like to believe that relationships are help higher with more respect then that but history cannot be denied. That said to each their own whither you follow what current religious views which are monogamous only or old christian/mormon etc views where you can take multiple women as your partners (polygamy) or even going polyamory as long as you follow your own moral views.

GOD said "And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man. Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh."

ONE FLESH! from the beginning of time.

 

[DLD]

Sounds great and yeah relationships can last but thered be a few times when the partner may mess whit someone else,STDs is one of the things people should watch out for.

There are sometimes when its hard to understand why some people can stand each other.LOL

That is a punishment of sexual perversion. If you are going to commit adultery you are messing with std's and many other deadly things.

 

[Sinthious]

GOD said "And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man. Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh."

ONE FLESH! from the beginning of time.

Alright this is getting to a point that could end in a bad argument, I think this should end here as many people have different views and i do not want to challenge anyone beliefs. myself i am agnostic i was raised by family that one side is Mormon other Christian, I am married in a mostly monogamous relationship it is my solomn belief that this is something that god and society would accept, I respect the choice that each person makes if that is the belief that the word of there religious text no matter which version they choose to take as truth, or one that views it as fables or vaguely true that is there choice to make and I do not want to offend anyone either way. Debating religious is a loaded gun you never know whos face it will go off in.

 

[LONGERDICK7+]

That is a punishment of sexual perversion. If you are going to commit adultery you are messing with std's and many other deadly things.

Even if i do have sex whit a girl i may know..LOL or someone that isnt a promiscuous whore then..

 

[DLD]

Even if i do have sex whit a girl i may know..LOL or someone that isnt a promiscuous whore then..

Always be careful!

 

[arkailija]

Always be careful!

Exactly! If you're approaching sex from a One Night Stand point of view or just that it's a new relationship, it's always best to use a condom. In oral sex as well, although I know how easy it is to pass not using a condom during oral.
Nowadays the variety is huge in the comdom market, with more sizes than before I would say. And of course you have the flavor condoms, especially good for oral sex.
I think a very interesting condom in the market is Aoni, very thin latex condom. Haven't had the chance to test it though.
Doesn't suit the ones allergic to latex though, but I would say Skyn provides non-latex ones, surely Durex as well. Even if one is not allergic to latex, sometimes these non-latex condoms are actually thinner than their latex brothers and can feel better. Can, not necessarily.

To be about the topic, keep on working out Spartacus and others as well!

 

[IAmSpartacus71]

I have no problem with the belief in god many people have, but it really makes me sad to see intelligent people who live in the 21st century and actually believe in the bullshit that written in the bible (with all the respect, that IS bullshit written by humans, not by god). And actually believe that open relationships are a sin, masturbation is a sin, STD's are punishment for "sexual perversion" (what the fuck is sexual perversion and who the fuck has the right to decide what it is?!). Those arguments are terrible, and they created only to control people behavior and sexuality and I don't like it.
I joined this forum in order to IMPROVE my sexuality, not to read religious bullshit that created to depress it. This entire thread is depressing me and I think it's better to close it.

 

[acromegaly]

I'm in the mood to meet one of that kind of girls, it's a lot of fun with them. Problem is that they lose their interest with you pretty fast and move on to the next guy...

Get tinder on your phone, you can definitely find a hook up lol

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I have no problem with the belief in god many people have, but it really makes me sad to see intelligent people who live in the 21st century and actually believe in the bullshit that written in the bible (with all the respect, that IS bullshit written by humans, not by god). And actually believe that open relationships are a sin, masturbation is a sin, STD's are punishment for "sexual perversion" (what the fuck is sexual perversion and who the fuck has the right to decide what it is?!). Those arguments are terrible, and they created only to control people behavior and sexuality and I don't like it.
I joined this forum in order to IMPROVE my sexuality, not to read religious bullshit that created to depress it. This entire thread is depressing me and I think it's better to close it.

I think pastor mike was just trying to say be careful and don't think with your penis

 

[DLD]

I have no problem with the belief in god many people have, but it really makes me sad to see intelligent people who live in the 21st century and actually believe in the bullshit that written in the bible (with all the respect, that IS bullshit written by humans, not by god).

Bullshit? DO NOT call the Bible bullshit as it shows disrespect to most of the forum. The Bible is God's word, not mans! If you believe differently that is fine, but DO NOT make attacks on the book many of us believe in.