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doublelongdaddy;748555 said:For me it was crossword puzzles
LOL, I used to do The NYT Daily crossword, Friday and Saturday were damn difficult! (but now I only have time for The Sunday one)
doublelongdaddy;748555 said:For me it was crossword puzzles
Big Schwanz Acht;748562 said:LOL, I used to do The NYT Daily crossword, Friday and Saturday were damn difficult! (but now I only have time for The Sunday one)
doublelongdaddy;748555 said:You know I can relate to you and I know that the place you are is dark and seems hopeless but remember this, without the darkness there could be no light. You feel as you do now because you have reinforced it through continuous circular thought, from the minute you wake to the time you sleep and that is not living! I went through it for years and I hated my life, I hated me, I hated everything. For me what changed much of this was medication, it took me 20 years to find the right cocktail and I found it 3 years ago and my life went from total suicidal hell to normal and then to better and better. Medication was one piece but the other was cognitive and as sili as this seems, it works. Here is the medications I am on and why:
Serequel (Antipsychotic): This is to keep my thoughts rational and clear. It also is a wonderful sleep aid.
Lamictal (Mood Stabilizer) This is the miracle medication that changed everything for me. It completely deals with mood swings, it keeps you completely level headed and rational.
Wellbutrin (anti-depressant) I tried every antidepressant and this is the only one that has no sexual side effects. It aids in weight loss and quitting smoking. As a antidepressant it is miraculous.
Klonopin (benzodiazepine) Out of all benzodiazepines this is the least addictive and it is a extended release, lasts for 12 hours. There is little addictive properties since it does not hit you like a typical Benzo (euphoric, high, drugged out, etc) It gives all the good of a Benzo with none of the bad. It helps slow the mind and give pause before reacting to things.
These 4 medications are the cocktail for the PE'er, no side effects and after a month pure relief and change for the positive!
The cognitive part is very important too. What worked best for me and I think will work great for you, (D.B.T. Dialectical Behavior Therapy. You can find it online everywhere. Basically it is a practice of keeping things in the moment. When we allow ourselves to dwell in the past it brings depression and when we dwell in the future it brings anxiety, staying in the moment gives you the ultimate power, no allowing it slip to one side or the other. For me it was crossword puzzles, for you it could be something completely different. Please check these things out as they gave me hope and eventually complete relief.
I will pray for you!
cladre60;748668 said:I have tried antidepressants...Cymbalta (which is SSRI and the other type which is similar to wellbutrin mixed together), Lexapro, and another. I've also tried Seroquil and another that helped me sleep (zyprexa? I don't remember), Ativan, klonopin, buspirone/buspar....
You know what's helped me the most? LIFE. When my life is shitty I'm miserable. When my life is decent I'm happy. The only thing is when my life is miserable I can't forget about it. I'm afraid to go back on medication for fear that I'll simply accept that I'm barely surviving living week to week and never look to improve things.
I'm sure I do need therapy as well. I've got a lot of things in my past that haunt me and I'm unable to let them go. When I was medicated I didn't feel them but I also didn't feel ANYTHING. I was numb even being on just 1 med at a time and didn't like it when I realized that all my emotions were turned down so far they were almost gone. I was pleasant to deal with and usually smiling or in a good mood but I didn't care for the trade off.
I have thought many times that I might need to go back on some meds but I keep rejecting it. I'm not against meds, not at all, but they need to be prescribed right. If done correctly they're amazing. When they Aren't you turn someone into a zombie.
Big Schwanz Acht;748685 said:Hey Clad, your mind is strong and very pragmatic/logical (95% of the time these are assets, but sometimes being 'in your own head' can create a 'loop'), so use it to your advantage. Every thought/memory/feeling can become a choice...you can choose to allow it to have an affect, or choose not to. Once you've mastered the simplicity of 'choice' you'll be empowered to never let 'stuff' impede whatever direction/goal/dream you have. Much love to you, bro
Big Schwanz Acht;749100 said:It sounds like you've identified the areas that are creating this 'drag' you're feeling, (it also sounds like those 'drags' might be around for the long-haul). Life's short, don't waste time in an eddy, find your way out and you'll be a much better man for everyone around you
Big Schwanz Acht;749247 said:can't wait until you're healed and back in the game!
Lookn4girth;749275 said:1" in 11 months, that is pretty awesome Clad, I would take that. I would talk to my doctor about the discomfort you are having, it may be normal but if they told me everything would be good in a couple of months and it still bothered me I would call and make sure. After that 1" gain you will be hard to catch once you are back 100%
Big Schwanz Acht;749401 said:it could be something that a simple antibiotic can cure...call 1st thing
Big Schwanz Acht;749682 said:your agoraphobia has weakened your immune system
doublelongdaddy;749730 said:I mean, just as I was typing this a worker took a huge shit in the bathroom (I heard to splash of shit!) and he did not wash his hands! So fucking dirty!
cladre60;749365 said:Bathmate and Lengthmaster both worked like a charm to gain that length. Both are totally worth having. I'm still in shock, awe, and amazement. I want that last 1.5" though. If I can get to 7.5" EL I'll have a solid 2 hander...2 hands and the head sticking out.
I'm going to call the surgeon this week. I should be feeling better than I am and my penis isn't going to gain on its own.