you are not my first student my friend. and you are not a loser.
you possess the ability to look at yourself and realize that something needs to change.
this might look like an action of a loser. seen from the perspective of the alter ego.
but if you know how to valuate yourself and change bad habbits with good ones.
then you become unlimited. only your imagination becomes the cellar you are in.
you see just about everyone is being put in a box through their life:
"im not intelligent"
"fat runs in the family"
"my family have bad backs"
"im not social"
"i have never been good at anything"
"i can't get a job because of (insert anything pretty much)"
the problem with these things is.
that by saying them they will work like a mantra.
words becomes thoughts. that manifests in you as part of your being. that eventually ends up affecting your actions.
what do you think happens with a young guy who has convinced himself that he will never meet anything but bad heartship in his life. when a dropdead gorgeous girl is hitting on him?
he panics makes an excuse and runs away!
basicly he is so caught up in his own cell. that he can't see beyond it. and he literally sabotages anything that can prove that the cell is only in his imagination. this is the reality of 99% of the society. just try and notice when i write in these threads things like this. on several occasions guys reply to me with angry responses (i am telling them the walls are in their imagination which lead to them being defensive)
and as i try and talk them out of it they just dissapear.
it's the same with guys who joins the forum. and their first post is something like:
"im depressed about my size and hate my life and i don't really believe that this works. because i have done this 1 thing for 3 months and nothing has happened"
now i am trying everytime to establish a connection with them. but i know that i can't catch all of them.
why?
they are at a low vibration.
they don't hear what im saying they only hear what they want to hear. and what they want to hear is someone who acknowledge the fact that their life is miserable and how much of a shame it is for them.
but. occationally you can penetrate through their filter of bullshit. get them to realize that perhaps. there is another way.
you on the other hand.
you where insecure.
but you wanted knowledge. (perhaps a little too eager at some point
knowledge is not everything my friend action needs to be taken aswell)
and you already had a fire burning.
what you needed was a few pushes in the right direction.
you didn't really need a babysitter.
and yes. please. try and help other people. you will realize that this. just as anything else has a learning curve. but to actually be able to help someone else.
is an amazing feeling
