I finished day 2 of no fap. I know I’m a bit early but I took too long to consume some food now I have a terrible headache.
 
Relapse now have to start over

Excellent work my brother! Two days is a very big accomplishment in the beginning. Pick yourself up brush yourself off and let’s start again. Don’t feel guilty and don’t be down on yourself as you’re doing a great thing. Have patience with yourself and grow in strength as time progresses.
 
8 days masturbated for about 2 minutes, I watched something that I thought was safe but too much for me. Grieved and regretful but inspired by my constant successes through this journey. Reason, I watched movie that was R rated and the Spirit warned but I did not listen, from there to Instagram and from there adult site. This is always traceable back to when the original temptation that started the domino effect. Please pray for my discipline and strength, pray I do not feel regret longer than a lesson learned.
 
I hardly ever masturbate anymore, but every once a week I'll have a quick one without any ����.
 
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I hardly ever masturbate anymore, but every once a week I'll have a quick one without any ����.

Nothing wrong with that my friend. I’m glad to see you’re back where have you been?
 
Relapsed... almost make it a week. Well Don't watch attractive women eating meat (atleast not with the sound on)
 
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Ah keep going lol, resist resist!!!. Been years for me
 
Relapsed... almost make it a week. Well Don't watch attractive women eating meat (atleast not with the sound on)

I am so happy you noticed that the Temptations starts out so small and it progresses from there. Seven days is a very long time and I’m very proud of you. Don’t get down on yourself, brush yourself off and start again. Godspeed my brother
 
Wow! Give us some advice how did you accomplish this?

I'll be honest, not sure what the secret is, over the years as I've done PE etc I've read about how ���� and masturbation etc can mess up actual sex by either affecting EQ or by reducing the time taken to ejaculate so thought didn't want any of that so stopped.
 
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I'll be honest, not sure what the secret is, over the years as I've done PE etc I've read about how ���� and masturbation etc can mess up actual sex by either affecting EQ or by reducing the time taken to ejaculate so thought didn't want any of that so stopped.

I admire your strength and discipline. You are a shining example of what all of us want to accomplish in this thread. You give me such hope that I can do the same thing. God bless you my brother
 
10 days! Better than seven. I went way overboard and watched ����. Well not the first time, the second. The first was fairly innocent but the second found its way to the gutter. I’m not sure how to explain it but over the past couple days I start to get really frustrated and easily angered, a sign of I need to let one off. That plus being stuck in quarantine leaves the mind much time to get into trouble. I am proud to have gone 10 days maybe I can get 2 weeks in.

I was getting frustrated around day 5 last time. This time those feelings came on 7 days in. Perhaps this is how it goes. A little bit longer every time.

I have grieved the Holy Spirit but I know this is love in discipline ❤️ I immediately thanked God for Jesus that my sins have “forgiven and forgotten as far as east is to west!

thanks to the Brotherhood for such a great accountability thread. Pray for me as I do for all of you!
 
@49-er I messed up last night but I wanted to make note of something that way it’s included in this thread. I had no desire or interest in masturbation, I was not horny at all. It just seem like a systematic thing I do every single Sunday. I need to break that cycle. I really really need your help in Conquering this. If I can make it to a month I would be so happy. Is there anything else you can teach me that will help me?
 
This is very helpful for me and I hope it helps you to LOL this is probably one of the best Gifs I have ever seen LOL

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Why do you think you need to either stop or slow-down? Is your life negatively impacted by it? Any friends or loved ones harmed because of it? Is it inhibiting you from doing/getting the things you want? Those would be some of the questions I'd ask before walking down the road of shame/guilt.

Sometimes self-acceptance is the hardest part

Yep. This question should apply to everything we do.
 
No shame or guilt here, those are simply the enemy accusing. I know that I am forgiven of all of my sins past present and future, there are no laws above my head. I do this because I believe that ���� is a grave an awful thing. It destroys so many lives, relationships and many other things. It gives many false expectations and it also brings them into darker places but they wouldn’t go otherwise.

As Saint Paul said “all things are permissible but not all things are profitable.” Use your own conscience.
 
If God forgives our future sins means that people can be sinful n be forgiven anyway?

WTF this is confusing lol
 
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