NoFap no ���� Accountability Thread

[DLD]

If God forgives our future sins means that people can be sinful n be forgiven anyway?

WTF this is confusing LOL

It sounds that way doesn’t it LOL that’s not how it works. Once you’ve become saved by the grace of God all rules are taken away, all sins are forgiven and forgotten as far as the east is from the west. But if you’re still continuing in sin without guilt you’re not saved.

Once you become saved by grace your identity has changed and you no longer want to do the things you did in the past, the Holy Spirit inspired you to do better things.

 

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My brother watch the six minute video and your whole life will change. You you understand exactly what I’m saying.

 

[GoodWillHunging]

I just joined MOS yesterday and while I browse through the newbie forums and read all the basic resources I will start by posting here first. I've been struggling with ���� addiction for years and even though I've even had streaks longer that 12+ months, I haven't fully managed to kick the habit out 100%. At the point that I'm at, I have a profound disgust by ����, the ���� industry and anything ���� related in general and I have strong systems to keep me at by but from time to time I get weak and the demons creep back in. Between last's and this year I must have watched ���� in ~10-12 days max but I want to literally nuke that number to 0. I want to be ���� free for life and I'll use this thread as the perfect accountability partner.

At the moment I am on a 6-day streak and I'll work on staying on track as much as possible. I have identified all my triggers and I have made plans of actions in case any of them come up since, just like AA teaches, when you've been addicted to something it doesn't matter for how long you abstain because you will always be vulnerable to relapse.

If anyone has any special techniques that they have used for long term success I'm more than happy to hear them and if anyone wants to join me on this feel free to say so. I will be posting every Sunday with an update on how the streak is going. I'll probably do it together with general dopamine fasting procedures because I know my triggers and how some of these things are related.

Absolute goal: no more ���� watching (even if no masturbation) for the rest of the year.

Let's get it.

 

[squirt_inducer_man]

So eliminate guilt and shame from the equation, live fully, make mistakes, apologize quickly and sincerely, learn every day and treat all that you encounter with respect (most importantly yourself)!

Always so wise.

 

[squirt_inducer_man]

i dont think id be able to stop masturbation completely,i dont have someone to have intimacy whit, and the lack of privacy i have is terrible..

But yeah i have try to decrease the number of days i jerk off..LOL

I know this was a long time ago...but I want to convey some information about this.
@LONGERDICK7+, If you stop masturbation your physiology will find a way. You will find a woman. I'm certain of this. You seems like a good guy.

Your sexual energy will be out of this world, and women will feel your present sexual energy seep out of you. You will have an advantage of all the other men that watches ���� and masturbate to that. Your life will also become a lot more focused. Noting wrong with masturbation, but if you need to do it every day...it goes more into the realm of obsession/can't control ones urges. When you feel the urge to masturbate...turn off your computer/phone, and sit with the feeling. You can do PE instead to distract yourself if the urge is to strong. If you have problems with watching ���� you can even filter those sites out, with a filter through, OpenDNS (free to use for home users).

Since I stopped masturbate so much, and have focused on PE to 200%, this have increased my focus in life (every aspect of it).
I know I put out a different kind of energy to my inviroment, now then before. Women feel this. Can't be out and about, without a woman watching me closely. The bulge have something to do with it for sure, but there is something more to it.

Try my suggestions if you have the same "problem" right now. I had this problem in my past (masturbate to much). PE have helped me to see the way.

In my experiences masturbation will make it difficult to keep PE in your life. For example: Stretching with the lengthmaster is painful if I masturbate/ejaclate that day. Then I feel worthless due to the fact I have killed maximum gains this day.

If you still have this problem I will suggest that you try my suggestions. Your life will change. Try to focus on the present moment and make the best of it with what you have.

I believe in you brother. If you want something you can make it happen.

 

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It's a tough thing but consistently In avoiding this will train you to depend less and less on ����

 

[squirt_inducer_man]

It's a tough thing but consistently In avoiding this will train you to depend less and less on ����

And you will be more aware of your own reality/present moment. The present moment will have everything you need, and here you have all your opportunities. The screen only tricks you that you have it all. 1000's of women at your fingertip.

 

[DLD]

Yeah I'm still fucking up

 

[squirt_inducer_man]

Yeah I'm still fucking up

You are not alone. I use it sometimes but due to PE, I can't use masturbation as much...so I disconnect from the urge/need.

 

[DLD]

You are not alone. I use it sometimes but due to PE, I can't use masturbation as much...so I disconnect from the urge/need.

Me too....

 

[GoodWillHunging]

Accountability post. Updated streak: 13 days. No urges or much temptation this week. Kept all triggers at bay and will continue to do the same.

Let's get it.

 

[DLD]

Accountability post. Updated streak: 13 days. No urges or much temptation this week. Kept all triggers at bay and will continue to do the same.

Let's get it.

Here too

 

[huge-girth]

I only use ���� mostly for pumping. I don't watch it because I want to masturbate. I've always masturbated without ����. I need ���� for girth work.

I was one particular ���� video for up to 30 days. It no longer arouse me when pumping. The mistake many members watching ���� are making is that, they watch hot ���� videos everytime.

I stick to one video only for a long time.

 

[DLD]

Great point

 

[GoodWillHunging]

For me even watching a single video doesn't work because I can't restrict myself to not watching other stuff and ending up in a binge. In any case, another week in the books. Updated streak: 20 days.

Let's get it.

 

[huge-girth]

For me even watching a single video doesn't work because I can't restrict myself to not watching other stuff and ending up in a binge. In any case, another week in the books. Updated streak: 20 days.

Let's get it.

I feel off last night after 5 days. The thing I hate about masturbation is that, it makes you weak and uninterested in women until you abstain from it for few days.

But if I have sex with a woman, I don't feel that way.

 

[squirt_inducer_man]

I don't feel the need to masturbate for the monent since I'm only working on length. But it has more to do with the knowledge that ejaclate will destroy my LENGTHMASTER 3 sessions.

I know going NoFap + no ���� for 3 weeks will take my horniness to a superhuman level, and my energy level will be completely diffrent (I have done it once before). But this energy need to be released sometime, or I will become extremely stressed out, and desperate to have sex with anyone.

I will also feel more happy and content with my own life, since the ���� do not warp my sense of reality. I do not trick my brain and believing that I have sex with 100's of women. Since your brain doesn't make a difference if you watch people fuck on a screen, or if you fuck a woman in real life. Our brain is not developed to deal with this intense superficial stimulation from the screen. The stimulation on our brain is to much, and it can mess with our reward pathway system in our brain, for example the release of the neurotransmitter dopamine. The brain are using dopamine to be able to do what is important. If you do something that's important, then at the end of that dopamine will be released, also during that activity.

Watching ���� can inhibit our ability to keep our dicipline in other areas in our life, since that system is desensitized from the external stimulation (your life, and the screen). This is the "danger", you start to act like a drug addict and you need high level of ���� to function properly. You get addicted.

Haven't watch ���� for a couple of days now. But I know in order to have good sperm quality you need to ejaclate regularly. But I think the way to do this for me is without ���� and let my own experiences create this need instead. If you do not ejaclate for 3 weeks you will with your eyes, see that your sperm quality is bad. It will on your first ejaculation after like 3 weeks with none, be very clumsy and it will squirt out slowly. After that first ejaculation it will go back to normal. I think ejaculation regularly without ���� is the way to do it for me. It's what we are designed to do.

Analogy:
It's like if you let a car only be driven slow and sit for to long, it will not function properly. Then taking the car on a long drive with high speed, and the car will feel like new again.

When I start my girthwork, I may need ����. But then I need to stick with only one video to stimulate my nervous system, otherwise I will probably abuse ���� once again, and become addicted.

 

[squirt_inducer_man]

It's hard because you think you need ����.

 

[huge-girth]

I think I'm one of the people who always ejaculate without ����. I can't recall how many times I've ejaculated with ����. It has never been my style. I'm the master of mental stimulation.

 

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I hope when you are tempted you turn to God ♥️