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Exactly! I haven't met a woman like that either....but I suppose the do exsist. They will end up very unhappy, lonely women...if you ask me!

Also, why would any woman trade their guy in for another guy who has bigger equimpent, when there is Penis Enlargement?? Just show them the exersices, and hope for the best. In the end, the effort is worth 1,000 words.....IMHO.

millionman said:

Thewife, It is good to see that a woman who really loves her husband doesn't concern herself with the "bigger, better, deal". I haven't run into a girl, or woman who would up and leave her significant other for a big dick, but I'm still a young man. A woman can really and truly love a man for who he is and want to be with him and only him regardless of his short comings. We're all just human and if a relationship is going to survive the pitfalls of life it has to be stable, and stability only comes from being honest, repectful, and loving at all times. Thanks for the post, and if there's anything you'd like to add I think it would be very helpful to a large percentage of the men here to get that "diffferent perspective".

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jonny rod said:

Alot of you bring up some really good points. I guess I am just young and insecure.

and as for sexual variety with women, there has to be other ways than using sex toys. To me these things represent insecurity in your own abilities.

whoa DWTSOO, you have a more negative worldview than me and I'm pretty bad off. I agree that humans are pretty fucked up, but you know why this is? Because WE"RE TOO DAMNED INTELLIGENT! Any race that spends time trying to find more efficient ways of pulverizing each other is DOOMED. Lol.

However, if you despise having kids that much you must hate yourself and your genetics. Children are nothing more than an extension of YOU. It must suck to be that self negating.


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No, way. Thinking that using toys in the bedroom is showing signs of insecurities in your ability. Sometimes it's about just fucking or getting off as hard as possible. In a relationship I would think that sexuality is obviously a personal thing, but like most things when you are involved with someone you need to share your feelings and desires so that you can be the person to fulfill your partner's wants/desires/"needs" etc. Exploring your sexuality shouldn't be constricted and definitely not confined. Be safe, be happy, and open up to each other about what those desires are in the bedroom. If your partner finds that you are not wild enough or the opposite is true then work it out, but above all else realize that sex isn't everything and if you think that only sex is the end all that will set you free and will make you happy then you are crazy. Anyone that would cheat and cheat and cheat or abuse someone's body and/or trust in a relationship doesn't deserve to be with the other person/deserves whatever treatment they get to some degree or another if people are advising you to "get out" and you ignore it. (That is to a degree as I know some people have had emotional/psychological trauma that just shouldn't be treated like that person is incapable of fleeing that type of relationship simply because they are stupid or naive or whatever...that's just not the case and is unfair to suggest) We all have had problems in relationships and we either work it out or don't, but we try to work it out because we care or should care. You will never mature if you fail to recognize your own flaws and mistakes of the past. I'd say a common fault of many young men and women is that we are insecure about our sexuality as well as being unsure about who we are and what it is we want out of a relationship, if we even need to be in a relationship at the moment in addition to failing to recognize what is healthy/unhealthy characteristics/behavior in a relationship. It takes time to get to a comfortable enough point where you are familiar with yourself and your partner. Usually we are too busy with our own problems whether that means being busy worrying about our own problems or ignoring them/failing to recognize them to even sustain a healthy relationship. When you are with someone you leave yourself open to feeling betrayed at some point and you just have to deal. We all have scars. At some point the jealousy and other bullshit fades and we mature and we are comfortable with who we are.

Agreed. And exactly my point.......well said.

iwant8inches said:

No, way. Thinking that using toys in the bedroom is showing signs of insecurities in your ability. Sometimes it's about just fucking or getting off as hard as possible. In a relationship I would think that sexuality is obviously a personal thing, but like most things when you are involved with someone you need to share your feelings and desires so that you can be the person to fulfill your partner's wants/desires/"needs" etc. Exploring your sexuality shouldn't be constricted and definitely not confined. Be safe, be happy, and open up to each other about what those desires are in the bedroom. If your partner finds that you are not wild enough or the opposite is true then work it out, but above all else realize that sex isn't everything and if you think that only sex is the end all that will set you free and will make you happy then you are crazy. Anyone that would cheat and cheat and cheat or abuse someone's body and/or trust in a relationship doesn't deserve to be with the other person/deserves whatever treatment they get to some degree or another if people are advising you to "get out" and you ignore it. (That is to a degree as I know some people have had emotional/psychological trauma that just shouldn't be treated like that person is incapable of fleeing that type of relationship simply because they are stupid or naive or whatever...that's just not the case and is unfair to suggest) We all have had problems in relationships and we either work it out or don't, but we try to work it out because we care or should care. You will never mature if you fail to recognize your own flaws and mistakes of the past. I'd say a common fault of many young men and women is that we are insecure about our sexuality as well as being unsure about who we are and what it is we want out of a relationship, if we even need to be in a relationship at the moment in addition to failing to recognize what is healthy/unhealthy characteristics/behavior in a relationship. It takes time to get to a comfortable enough point where you are familiar with yourself and your partner. Usually we are too busy with our own problems whether that means being busy worrying about our own problems or ignoring them/failing to recognize them to even sustain a healthy relationship. When you are with someone you leave yourself open to feeling betrayed at some point and you just have to deal. We all have scars. At some point the jealousy and other bullshit fades and we mature and we are comfortable with who we are.

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thewife said:

Actually I do. They are both single mothers Still need a date HA!!

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Hmm. lol Will keep that in mind.

I havent read through the entire postings (sorry) - but I'm a member of some of those cuckold sites (same name, generally) and small penis humiliation sites (now using as motivation, but only for a week, we'll let time speak for itself).

I have to say that most likely 90% of it is all in the guys head (including mine) it's based on a truth (Women like fucking big cocks, and many women are not monogamous) but this truth misses the larger truths about how a women feels like she had two sides (a motherly, caring side; and a bitch that just wants to be slapped around and given sexual pleasure) - and it exists in the SAME person. It's this confusion WITHIN the girl (women are ones whose lives control sexual behavior, a girl is somone who lets sex control them) that causes the split - IMO at least. Genetically, I think it's the traditional "genes vs. resources" debate - a guy who can fuck anything that moves and give it emense pleasure? or the a guy who can provide for the children once they are born? Why not both?

But this split bothers guys, and not exclusively guys with little dicks althought that is the huge majority. The idea of a cuckold in his midst is probably one of the least pleasant thougths for a guy - but it has been turned into a fetish by small group of guys, since it's a power emotion, poking at it with thoughts of real/faked cheating gets us off.

So, in a sense, dont worry about it. If you're not a "cad" you're a "dad" and you have to be the most genetically logical dad around (since women these days, maybe always, but today as well, think that it's okay to lie about whose child it is); check the child's DNA and be careful about marriage to a chick who always thinks that she can win because she's better. They're the ones that'll leave a VCD of her lover fucking her with his huge cock up her ass.

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I havent read through the entire postings (sorry) - but I'm a member of some of those cuckold sites (same name, generally) and small penis humiliation sites (now using as motivation, but only for a week, we'll let time speak for itself).

I have to say that most likely 90% of it is all in the guys head (including mine) it's based on a truth (Women like fucking big cocks, and many women are not monogamous) but this truth misses the larger truths about how a women feels like she had two sides (a motherly, caring side; and a bitch that just wants to be slapped around and given sexual pleasure) - and it exists in the SAME person. It's this confusion WITHIN the girl (women are ones whose lives control sexual behavior, a girl is somone who lets sex control them) that causes the split - IMO at least. Genetically, I think it's the traditional "genes vs. resources" debate - a guy who can fuck anything that moves and give it emense pleasure? or the a guy who can provide for the children once they are born? Why not both?

But this split bothers guys, and not exclusively guys with little dicks althought that is the huge majority. The idea of a cuckold in his midst is probably one of the least pleasant thougths for a guy - but it has been turned into a fetish by small group of guys, since it's a power emotion, poking at it with thoughts of real/faked cheating gets us off.

So, in a sense, dont worry about it. If you're not a "cad" you're a "dad" and you have to be the most genetically logical dad around (since women these days, maybe always, but today as well, think that it's okay to lie about whose child it is); check the child's DNA and be careful about marriage to a chick who always thinks that she can win because she's better. They're the ones that'll leave a VCD of her lover fucking her with his huge cock up her ass.

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There is some truth about what you mentioned about the genes vs resources thing. A recent study showed a wife who had three kids, all from different fathers, none of whom were her husband. They also found that the highest occurance of this in women was when they are ovulating. Then they will find a guy based only on his perceived genes to have sex and get impregnated by, all while fully understanding that he would not make a good partner just a good source of sperm.
That said I would be quite interested in hearing your story if you wouldn't mind sharing. It sounds as though you've been through some serious shit that we could all learn from.

bIgjOe said:

That said I would be quite interested in hearing your story if you wouldn't mind sharing. It sounds as though you've been through some serious shit that we could all learn from.

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Oh. I dont mind. I just havent gone through TOO terrible a time; and the insecurities go back to my personality than it has to do with my actual size. My brain has been the one giving me "bad times" - not so often things out side of it.

However, that being said the worst was probably the event that got me started on SPH.

A girl (not girlfriend, never had that deep a relationship) I f-ed a few times, and had some real interest in, decided that it would be fun to fuck with my mind by making a vid of her and her fuck buddy, who was HUGE, literally the thickest thing I've ever seen on a human being outside of size related ����, and then left it in my DVD player to see. She was moanin and groinin and comin like it was nothin.

It sent me a bit off the handle. For a few days I barely slept and just wanked, watching the vid and looked for ���� online. After about 96 hours my self-preservation mechanism finally kicks in and I destroy the VCD (no copies, nothing, it was TOO unhealhty, and glad of it too, because the darkest corners of SPH are REALLY unhealthy). I go on AIM to find her IM (hadnt spoken to her in days) and I look up the "Get Info" and it says "Bigger ones just feel better"; I declined to talk to her but that event made me start into SPH.

Now, do I ever expect to meet another asshole of a girl who wants to fuck with my mind more than anything? (she could have just told me that she wasnt interested, I never would have found SPH if that happened) Probably not. But at the time I didnt expect it from her either; she was going to grad school (not any more I guess), cute, from a decent family, nothing too torid from the info I gathered. Yet, she fucked me good, but not in a good way.

The only question I have had in my mind is "Why?" as in, WHY DO THIS? I dont know. I dont want to talk to her because apparently all she wanted to do was hurt me and use my insecurities against me. The best I can figure (and probably the easiest answer) is that she's just a bit crazy - but she didnt SEEM crazy. It's f-ed up.

Hope nothing ever like this happens to anyone here, or to anyone for that matter.

BTW - I'll occasionally write blurbs on SPH sites with a story LIKE this, or only parts of the story, or an embelished version of the story; I write those for my SPH fetish and are stories that have their origins in this one.

Man...That was more painful to write than I thought it would be.

That's really fucked up. That girl sounds terrible. I seriously feel like I need to stay away from the internet, and girls who are whores, just so I don't think about shit like this. Just remember there are a lot of girls who aren't that superficial, try your best not to get hung up about the bad ones.

I actually had this same thing happen to me just recently. This was a girl that I thought was the one but she fucked with me big time. I'm so sick of these girls fucking games. One minute she says "I love you" then doesn't phone or msn me for months on end. Oh ya she hasn't gotten over her ex who was 8x6. So w/e to this getting a gf shit. Also sorry for hijacking this thread if I did.

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Oh. I dont mind. I just havent gone through TOO terrible a time; and the insecurities go back to my personality than it has to do with my actual size. My brain has been the one giving me "bad times" - not so often things out side of it.

However, that being said the worst was probably the event that got me started on SPH.

A girl (not girlfriend, never had that deep a relationship) I f-ed a few times, and had some real interest in, decided that it would be fun to fuck with my mind by making a vid of her and her fuck buddy, who was HUGE, literally the thickest thing I've ever seen on a human being outside of size related ����, and then left it in my DVD player to see. She was moanin and groinin and comin like it was nothin.

It sent me a bit off the handle. For a few days I barely slept and just wanked, watching the vid and looked for ���� online. After about 96 hours my self-preservation mechanism finally kicks in and I destroy the VCD (no copies, nothing, it was TOO unhealhty, and glad of it too, because the darkest corners of SPH are REALLY unhealthy). I go on AIM to find her IM (hadnt spoken to her in days) and I look up the "Get Info" and it says "Bigger ones just feel better"; I declined to talk to her but that event made me start into SPH.

Now, do I ever expect to meet another asshole of a girl who wants to fuck with my mind more than anything? (she could have just told me that she wasnt interested, I never would have found SPH if that happened) Probably not. But at the time I didnt expect it from her either; she was going to grad school (not any more I guess), cute, from a decent family, nothing too torid from the info I gathered. Yet, she fucked me good, but not in a good way.

The only question I have had in my mind is "Why?" as in, WHY DO THIS? I dont know. I dont want to talk to her because apparently all she wanted to do was hurt me and use my insecurities against me. The best I can figure (and probably the easiest answer) is that she's just a bit crazy - but she didnt SEEM crazy. It's f-ed up.

Hope nothing ever like this happens to anyone here, or to anyone for that matter.

BTW - I'll occasionally write blurbs on SPH sites with a story LIKE this, or only parts of the story, or an embelished version of the story; I write those for my SPH fetish and are stories that have their origins in this one.

Man...That was more painful to write than I thought it would be.

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spinner2 said:

That's really fucked up. That girl sounds terrible. I seriously feel like I need to stay away from the internet, and girls who are whores, just so I don't think about shit like this. Just remember there are a lot of girls who aren't that superficial, try your best not to get hung up about the bad ones.

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Yeah, well the hardest part was that she really didnt give any hints at being nutty, and I'm generally try to be an easy going (read:lazy) guy. The thing hit me out of the blue. That's what shocked my system. After a few years of getting in and out of SPH (it's never something you totally forget IMO) I realized the thing about my brain being the bigger pain-maker, but it only starts to put things into perspective, it doesnt quite bring it all the way out the "healthy".

kdogg101 said:

"I actually had this same thing happen to me just recently. This was a girl that I thought was the one but she fucked with me big time."

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Just to clarify - you mean, she left you video/photos or something? Or that she had a fuckbuddy with a big cock?

Either way - it's shitty that this happens in the world. It's just that when you ARE small to begin with it's easier to get trapped into the debilitating fear and anxiety.

Anyhow, if you arent into it, I wouldnt recommend SPH; it's never REALLY warped my mind, but it's come close, the emotions and the areas of the brain you're messing with are very powerful.

BTW - dont worry about "hijacking" any thread. So far, as far I can tell, you're just posting.

I was meaning pictures. Also what is SPH? I haven't heard of it

needkitkats said:

Yeah, well the hardest part was that she really didnt give any hints at being nutty, and I'm generally try to be an easy going (read:lazy) guy. The thing hit me out of the blue. That's what shocked my system. After a few years of getting in and out of SPH (it's never something you totally forget IMO) I realized the thing about my brain being the bigger pain-maker, but it only starts to put things into perspective, it doesnt quite bring it all the way out the "healthy".




Just to clarify - you mean, she left you video/photos or something? Or that she had a fuckbuddy with a big cock?

Either way - it's shitty that this happens in the world. It's just that when you ARE small to begin with it's easier to get trapped into the debilitating fear and anxiety.

Anyhow, if you arent into it, I wouldnt recommend SPH; it's never REALLY warped my mind, but it's come close, the emotions and the areas of the brain you're messing with are very powerful.

BTW - dont worry about "hijacking" any thread. So far, as far I can tell, you're just posting.

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SPH is Small Penis Humiliation.

Pictures? It's really terrible aint it? When you have it in your face like that? At least when she only tells you then you can "imagine" a better solution in your head to "what happened" - but when the evidence is in your face like that, it's really something else. It's like taking on a brick wall with full force, at least it was for me, for a short while.

Not saying that the lingering effects arent really fucked up or anything.

Like I said again, I WOULD NOT RECOMMEND THIS as a thing to get into. It CAN become a real difficulty in your life - I try for it not to be, but somethings you just cant quite control, since pretty much everything that happens happens in your mind and no one can see what's "actually going on inside" and in all other aspects I lead a modest, comfortable life; so no one really suspects all that much. And the vast majority of the time I'm "fine" - while working, while socializing, etc I'm pretty normal, rational and even happy. But it comes in flashes occasionally (I imagine something or a portion of the vid pops up in my mind, triggered by something/anything) and in occasional weekends that kind of go missing to SPH. Like I said, can get a bit unhealthy. Also something that you cant quite forget (probably, not sure, will tell you in a few decades).

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It's not a matter of STDs or health. Some people sleep with one person and get an STD, while some sleep with hundreds and never do. That can be checked and confirmed by a physician rather easily.

It is about the likelihood of a person cheating or giving up on the relationship in difficult times. As I mentioned earlier, a large number of sex partners means a person either thinks very little about engaging in casual one-nighters or has been through an exceptional amount of relationships. Either way, it is some concern for the well-being of your relationship. And while this might sound sexist, it is a much bigger red flag when a female is concerned. That is because men are biologically wired for casual sex, while women are more wired towards the love and relationship aspects. I mean, there is a reason where there are numerous books written for men about how to attract and seduce women, while there is basically not a real market for teaching women how to pick up men. So, if you think about the expression "been around the block" there may be a little cause for concern. And if a woman has been around the neighbor and a few adjoining municipalities that is a major red flag.

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Emphasis partially mine: I want to repost this because I think it's essentially correct. Women who sleep around arent known as "ho's" because it's a good thing; and the fact that women who sleep around have been disliked in most human societies lets you know that while there were always women who liked sleeping around, society was never too appreciative of these women. You must wonder why this pattern keeps on emerging? I would speculate that it has something to do with our evolutionary past, and goes back to the resources question.

However, I do think one important differnce between our evolutionary past and the (still evolutionary) present, is that women in the first world have been afforded many more political, social and (importantly) economic rights.

While these have been a boon for countries that practice relative moderation in their moral and civic affairs (who hears of Swedish people obessing over weight as much as Americans? And who's fatter? Isnt that odd?) the powers American style "bigger is better" mentality AND the VERY American notion of "going it alone" "WIN at all costs" "the pursuit of Happiness" etc combined with the literally astounding power the "media" (think about that word for a minute, are we like bacteria growing in it?) forcing people into beleiving that if only they bought something, made this, were skinnier, had firmer skin, a "bigger" boyfriend, etc has caused, in a sense, a Hyper-Sexualization in a fair number of women, people become critical of every aspect of their lives, constantly asking "Am I happy?" "Am I happy?" without realizing the reason they have to keep on taking anti-depressants is because they keep on asking that stupid question (if you're unhappy, you mind will tell you, trust your brain and keep it occupied with something, dumbass, IMHO).

I think more women now have a "base-line" of sexual expectations and fullfillment expectations that are MUCH higher than those a even a couple of generations ago. Women may always have prefered large penises, but now I think they have the political and social freedom to state their preference openly. Many may feel that they "deserve" to orgasm; and with their economic independence, they're isnt much of an insentive to settle down with a husband unless he's really raking in the money.

Now - you may say "But Needkitkats I dont know these women, the women I know are kind, gentle and not that sexual".

Two things - these are a narrow band of women, but their numbers are growing, it's the "MILF" wife, the hot lady in her 30s who still runs and looks great but is single so she can fuck who she wants, the lady that takes Yoga. These women arent ALWAYS cheaters, but many of them are, or remain single and free, and it's usually not "emotional reasons" that they cheat. So, in a sense, it's a small subset of the population that was never there before, and exists only because of the social and economic environment.

Second thing - not all women are always like this, and not all women will want this; it's that simple. Not all women are retarded like this, there are good ones out there, but it's a rare find, and the fact that you cant really be sure...that's something I guess.

ON the other hand, maybe we should accept cheating/promiscuos as a social reality and kind of codify acceptable and unacceptable behavior. Some countries have moved in that direction in law, and in practice brothels have been around forever - as have prostitutes (although looked down upon).

So, it's hard to say exactly, there's a case to be made on each side, but I still think that what I'm seeing (in terms of this "new" women) is absolutely real and is hard to deny.

It should be noted that the subset includes a whole lot of people, essentially any girl/woman that could get a job to support herself (or has a job to support herself) that believe that they want a larger cock to fuck. Or a girl whose willing to cheat on a steady boyfriend (resources) and still get the fuck (genetics).

Also; I think the era of Mutally Destructive Pressure has arrived. We expect too much from imperfect bodies and minds. We need to settle for a lot less than what we "expect". Just a thought.

BTW - in a sense I think that Penis Enlargement is like Breast Enhancement or teeth whitening, you're just altering the look, but not the underlying genetic structure; it'll be an interesting area to study once it becomes big.

What is it that is so tormenting about your (i'm refering to everyone) girl fucking another guy? Hey, I will not cut my balls off because i'm in a relationship with a girl i love, and i dont expect her to put her chains on because she's with me! I'm not talking about manipulation and treason here; those are far to be honorable behaviors. I'm talking about respect (keeping a lion in a cage is not respectfull),
about acceptance towards the fact that you just cant threat your lover like a prisonner... assuming that she's/he's the lion kind.

This is skin, this is sex, instincts... this is WILD. Sex is the wildest human action, maybe even the only that is truly wild, and that's what, to me, makes the "beauty" of sex. If your getting a "faithfull" girl, good for you; if your getting a wild girl, good for you: in both cases, you are a winner. Let your vanity and prejudices on the side... cause these are the only voices that make you/us act like this. "What? You are upset that your girl has sleep with another one, ready to dump her and suffer from her "cheating" (read: a purely natural and instinctive thing) because of your vanity? And you would accept the fact that she suddently "stop" loving you and move on! Are you saying that you care more about her skin than her love?!"

Sorry for the bad english and the lack of details/explanations. That's all i can do with english.

Breidablik said:

What is it that is so tormenting about your (i'm refering to everyone) girl fucking another guy? Hey, I will not cut my balls off because i'm in a relationship with a girl i love, and i dont expect her to put her chains on because she's with me! I'm not talking about manipulation and treason here; those are far to be honorable behaviors. I'm talking about respect (keeping a lion in a cage is not respectfull),
about acceptance towards the fact that you just cant threat your lover like a prisonner... assuming that she's/he's the lion kind.

This is skin, this is sex, instincts... this is WILD. Sex is the wildest human action, maybe even the only that is truly wild, and that's what, to me, makes the "beauty" of sex. If your getting a "faithfull" girl, good for you; if your getting a wild girl, good for you: in both cases, you are a winner. Let your vanity and prejudices on the side... cause these are the only voices that make you/us act like this. "What? You are upset that your girl has sleep with another one, ready to dump her and suffer from her "cheating" (read: a purely natural and instinctive thing) because of your vanity? And you would accept the fact that she suddently "stop" loving you and move on! Are you saying that you care more about her skin than her love?!"

Sorry for the bad english and the lack of details/explanations. That's all i can do with english.

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It is true that instinct drives a great deal of human relationships and interactive behaviors with the opposite sex. In fact it is this very thing that I believe makes guys not want their girl fucking around. The "Alpha Male" mentality or what have you.

Besides all that though, here are some other reasons why a guy wouldn't want his girl sleeping around on him. Anybody can add to this list if they want, and I believe these are pretty reasonable, logical things to believe in.

1. Diseases - Perhaps one of the most obvious. Of course you have to accept your girl has probably been with guys before you, but even then you can go get tested together or something to that affect. If she is sleeping around she probably doesn't want to raise extra suspicion by risking a trip to the local clinic for a little scrape test. So in short I would rather not have to guess where these spots on my dick, or my tongue are coming from.

2. Mental Health - It has not been proven whether or not human beings are "instinctively" monogamous. Once you really settle down with someone, it is supposed to be because you have found someone you are supposed to be happy with, if you are not happy with this person then break up with them, and then go sleep around. At least it would show some courtesy instead of making them into a cuckold.

3. Mental Healthx2 - If you are in a relationship with a girl, and you two are having sex, as most women would expect that if you have sexual urges that is what they are there for. If you have a girl who is cheating on you, now you have to wonder what she is looking for elsewhere that you aren't giving her. Whether it be a bigger penis, better look, better oral skills what have you. You now are left with whatever feeling of inadequacy you believe (or are told) caused her to cheat on you.

4. Respect amongst peers - Whatever the reasons she is cheating on you for, once word gets out (and it will, maybe even before you hear about it because that is the nature of the beast) others who know you are going to question why. Now given the society we are in the man is blamed if he is cheating outright, but if a girl is cheating it must be because of something the man is not giving her. Thus his social standing amongst his peers, and as a potential mate for other females who know about it, is significantly lowered.

If I missed any, anyone can feel free to add to it.

People like this make me want to crawl into a shell and stay alone. The only way I've found to deal with it is just to drink a lot and listen to the sex pistols all the time and watch skateboard videos, then I'm too numb to care about anything. I'll probably keep it this way till I'm 9x7, at which point I'll become disgusted by the girls obsessing over my dick and not me. The process will start over, inevitably leading to a sex change operation.

Fuck it.

bIgjOe said:

4. Respect amongst peers - Whatever the reasons she is cheating on you for, once word gets out (and it will, maybe even before you hear about it because that is the nature of the beast) others who know you are going to question why. Now given the society we are in the man is blamed if he is cheating outright, but if a girl is cheating it must be because of something the man is not giving her. Thus his social standing amongst his peers, and as a potential mate for other females who know about it, is significantly lowered.

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This is completely different from what I have experienced. When a girl cheats on a decent guy, everyone just thinks the girl is a total slut. The only way I have ever seen the guy lose respect is if he continues dating the girl who is cheating on him, which shows a lack of self-respect from him. I had a girl cheat on me about a year ago, and I just dumped her and got a new girlfriend a few hours later who was even hotter. Everyone just thought I was awesome for pulling that off so fast.

spinner2 said:

People like this make me want to crawl into a shell and stay alone. The only way I've found to deal with it is just to drink a lot and listen to the sex pistols all the time and watch skateboard videos, then I'm too numb to care about anything. I'll probably keep it this way till I'm 9x7, at which point I'll become disgusted by the girls obsessing over my dick and not me. The process will start over, inevitably leading to a sex change operation.

Fuck it.

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Yeah! Non-conformists Rule!

spinner2 said:

This is completely different from what I have experienced. When a girl cheats on a decent guy, everyone just thinks the girl is a total slut. The only way I have ever seen the guy lose respect is if he continues dating the girl who is cheating on him, which shows a lack of self-respect from him. I had a girl cheat on me about a year ago, and I just dumped her and got a new girlfriend a few hours later who was even hotter. Everyone just thought I was awesome for pulling that off so fast.

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Wow congratulations on that. Maybe its just the areas we live in, but are you sure it wasn't just because you made such a quick turn around on her? Or have you seen this happen alot?