I learned to be multi-orgasmic today

I've been trying for about a year now, experimenting with my pelvic muscles and seeking new sources of info.

I found this today, and it gives the most concise explanation I've seen on how to have multiple orgasms: http://www.whitelotuseast.com/MultipleOrgasm.htm

I will try to summarize my method of multi-orgasm into an even shorter, more concise explaination, so that others might multi-orgasm as well.

First thing is BREATHING. Deep belly breaths are needed. As you approach the Point of No Return, keep breathing deep. It's okay to breath faster, as long as it is deep. If you notice yourself holding your breath, start breathing again. Pushing all the air out when you exhale may be most important part.

If you feel like your sexual energy is rising too fast (approaching PONR too fast) try LAUGHING! I figured out that this reduces my need to cum while I was watching this hilarious Japanese nontuple creampie gangbang vid.

Anyway, here's the tricky part...

When you do crest over your PONR, do it slowly. When you do hit the PONR, relax your PC muscle as much as you can. For those of you who can Reverse Kegal, I suppose this would be the time to do it. RELAX and KEEP BREATHING. At this point it will feel like a pool of pleasure is sitting in your taint. You will feel the oncoming urge for your prostate gland to involuntarily contract and ejaculate. BEFORE this happens SQEEZE your PC like crazy. In essence we are replacing an involuntary contraction with a voluntary one.

When I started doing this I think I was not contracting my final squeeze long enough. So make that squeeze loooooong. Even if your PC does give out in the middle of your Herculean squeeze, just get right back on that and immediately squeeze again. After a certain point, you will be able to relax, and let the prostate go on with it's involuntary contractions. This may be accompanied by a serious sensory orgasm. It will feel just like an orgasm but with no ejaculation.

To Review:

1) Slowly reach PONR
2) RELAX the PC, keep breathing
3) Squeeze PC long and hard before the involuntary prostate contraction
4) Allow prostate to contract, enjoy sensory orgasm

Sometimes some semen will come out, but if you did it close to right you will notice less semen than usual. Your dick will also stay fairly hard and you will stay fairly horny.

This is a process of refinement, and you will have a lot of half-successes along the way. You will probably even have flat out failures, where you just cum all over the place and not learn anything about what works with your body. Every time you attempt a non-ejaculatory orgasm, note what you did and seek to learn from it. In the end it is up to you to get a 'feel' for how your body works, when to relax this, when to contract that.

It can take weeks or months to learn to do this. It took me a year. The real key is you've got to really want it.

A note on the emotional aspect of this: Even though this is the supposedly enjoyable activity of masturbation, I often found myself depressed, angry or frustrated at myself after a failed session of attempting multi-orgasm. It is okay to feel this way, just sit and observe the feeling. Let it propel you to do better next time.

Congrats, also try reverse kegel near ejaculation

Hey thanks for the info. I have been multi orgasmic but did not know how I made it work. Sometimes I am sometimes I am not.

I read your post and decided to try it while I masturbated. When I hit right before PONR I made myself focus on laughing. I had a mild orgasm and kept going. Then I did it again but I shot a huge load. I thought I was done but then another orgasm built up and I shot a smaller load. It was kind of like when you have an orgasm and you have a couple contractions that cause you to ejaculate. The difference being the time between contractions and the intensity of the contractions. Often when I do this I will orgasm and then keep going for a few minutes. It is like an incomplete orgasm and ejaculation if you will followed by another and another.

I have been doing some Pc muscle work out lately and that seems to help.

I think the main thing is the combo of PC control and strength as well as learning to take your mind of the PONR.

I also find that I can speed up orgasms if I kegel while masturbating or while getting a blow job. The feeling builds up and I feel a compulsion to kegel. Clenching the kegel makes the feeling in the head increase and makes me need to kegel again, etc.

Thanks for this it was very helpful. I think now I may be able to have a multi whenever I want it.

Ah! It's wonderful to know somebody has benefited from this info already! If anyone has specific questions about how to do this or questions about obstacles they are encountering in learning to be multi-orgasmic, post them here.

A couple other things I think are worth mentioning...

I notice that swallowing just after I hit PONR, just as I'm about to do my massive kegal helps for whatever reason. This is something my body showed me automatically, I don't know why it works. Yet another reason to listen to and observe your body as much as you control it.

Also, I think this belongs in the Penis Enlargement section because it is my humble belief that the hornier you are, the better gains you will make. The same hormones, chemicals and nutrients that make you horny are the same ones that will make you heal. Since only having non-ejaculatory orgasms, my libido, erection quality and morning wood have shot through the roof. My dick is literally warm to the touch. I say that learning to have non-ejaculatory orgasms is a way to cultivate sexual energy, and directly impact Penis Enlargement gains, much the same way kegals are considered a part of Penis Enlargement.

I wanna thank u for this information, ill try it tonight. And i will report back.
Thanks again.

Another note I'll make on training to become multi orgasmic: I often approach the PONR four or five times before I actually crest over it. Each time I will gauge how in control I feel. If I feel like I might fall over the PONR involuntarily, I back off. My goal is to CHOOSE when I push myself over that edge, in a deliberate, intentional manner.

Because I'm a very visual thinker, I visualized this for everyone



I'm excited to hear all the others' results!

Good on ya.

I tried it yesterday, i held it for some time, but suddenly it just came out the tip. I will curtainly try this more, im sure some practise will do!

you lucky bastards ...thanks for the info...i always wanted to get there myself but didn't have the techniques down and was focusing on other things..will read through this and try to incorporate it one day..thanks again

Luck has nothing to do with it. If it did, DLD would be lucky to have a 10"+ wang

Post to this thread any questions, successes, failures, obstacles, experiences, etc. that you may have in regards to becoming multi-orgasmic. I would love to see many men able to be multi-orgasmic, because it is such a treasure when you finally get it. I will try to answer any questions people may have about this endeavor, I appreciate that other peoples' physiology can be different and so perhaps my method of becoming multi-orgasmic may not be the best path for them. There are many paths, and I can only advise.

My next goal: become multi-orgasmic during sex. I will post here when I do with my girlfriend.

Another thing I'll mention here is that when I first achieved non-ejaculatory orgasm I was clamped with a soft-clamp (a 1"x 24" piece of stretch fabric like spandex or cotton will do). I usually can ejaculate through any clamp, but I think the clamp gave me a sort of 'psychological' safety net to work with. That said, the clamp was not making up for a weak PC. I know this because on the very same day I took off the clamp and I could create a non-ejaculatory orgasm.

Ok, I now really thank u for sharing. Yesterday i had my first multi-orgasmic experience, when I felt it coming I squeezed my PC as hard as possible and i felt the orgams with just a few drops, almost non-ejaculatory. Like 3-4 secounds after it was done, I came again, the 2. one was pretty intense. Thanks again, I will keep reporting how this progresses.

Congrats Nilso,

Once you've done it once you'll be doing more and more orgasms too. I seem to be at the three orgasm multi. It used to be a two orgasm one.

I really think PC muscle work is where it's at.

Awesome work guys! I'm glad this info has been useful.

Today I tried to have a non-ejaculatory orgasm during sex, but I forgot to tell her that I need to slow down before I climax. She kept grinding her hips and I just couldn't squeeze hard enough.

Oh well, give it another go. This is such hard work

Okay I've learned how to do this reliably now (not during sex yet) and the key is just to try, try again. Simply put just try kegalling really hard as you orgasm. Pay attention to your body and you will get the timing right. Just practicing (even if you still ejaculate) will make your PC super strong. I think flexing your PC during orgasm loads it in a way no exercise can, and it is the ultimate PC strength training technique.

Yep its all about practice practice practice. I have multiple orgasms when I want to now and never cum right away anymore, sometimes it can be a nuisance haha

The feeling is awesome when it comes and is like a wet orgasm when you shoot but ofcourse nothing is shot out the end of the penis and is a dry orgasm and often more can be had soon after this but CONTROL and DISCIPLINE must be enforced as the orgasms tend for me to get more stronger afterwards, especially when having sex and the girl is screaming her head off and begging for me to pound the shit out of her, my cock is throbbing and I have to control my desires to just shoot a load, like in the old days as a kid when we just wank and cum ... it takes strong mental discipline to overcome her moans that can make us go over and our own desires.

Once that bridge is made the part with getting the muscles stronger is easy. Kegels do all that and you just time it right as wombat says, the deep breathing helps allot and also I find contracting my calve muscles tight helps .. maybe it help you guys? they almost cramp, many times they do and I use this when I'm loosing control and need to reel it in ASAP so I cramp them very hard and they somehow bring me back, the stimulaton of other muscles must do something in the brain and take away its attention from sending messages to the pelvic muscles to fire the trigger.

Reverse kegels also seem to be like a bolder when done correctly at the time of ejaculation, like a great big rock placed in the road and the ejaculation cant fire.

Lastly something else I have done to enhance the pleasure when I'm having sex with the girl on my side or when shes on her side and I'm fucking her from the rear is I will massage the area between the anus and balls ... this is sorta like a prostate massage and does have name, you can grip it and do alsorts with it ... feels nice and when you cum you feel this area flex.

No one is the best at this me incl as we are all learning and no one learns everything in life, its a constant learning curve and I crave to keep getting better and better at this.

If you guys also take Phenibut or know about it I suggest you pop 1 1/2-4g of that stuff a couple hours before you fuck as once I have had that I can fuck for like 5-6 hours and not cum once ... no BS ... it does something to the muscles to relax them and makes you less anxious, so the pelvic floor muscles dont wan to contract at all and fire ... worth a shot now and again and with whats learned here you' be a tiger

Good reading!

Didn't quite realize it but actually experienced an multi-orgasm today during sex. It has happened to me before but I've never taken the time to explore the "phenomenon" further. But since I've started Penis Enlargement and it was such an intense experience I decided to check it on MoS (my newly found and favorite read on the net).

I've got to say, homelesswombat, that the description of how to achieve an multi-orgasm was spot on what happened to me - without knowing it! And it was such an awesome experience!!! So thanks to this article I will try this over and over again, now aware of how and what I'm doing. I did drip some but didn't loose any sexual energy.

BTW: The whole Penis Enlargement Article SuBathmateission forum is VERY good and concise reading and deserves more attention (at least from a newbie perspective)!

Actually found the post in the Penis Enlargement Article SuBathmateission forum (but realized it had been moved to the Sexuality forum).

Its even better when you orgasm+ejaculate with your partner as she also has an orgasm and squirts ... sheer bliss.