Can I get an honest answer from gf re her size peference? Girth increase = tighter?

My girlfriend said one of her prior boyfriends "was just too huge" (this statement was more or less out of the blue, we hadn't been talking about her exes or their size) Later, I read some old emails sent between her and this ex (she had left the computer without logging out of her email and I couldn't resist the temptation to read her old emails) In one of the emails, she said she couldn't wait to bend over and have him ram his huge cock in her wet pussy. She's never sent me any emails like this. (unfortunately, I still see her ex at social functiions because he is now seeing a woman who is in my gf's circle of friends)(no fun)

She tells me I have a nice sized penis and so on (I'm a little over 6" NBEL, about 5.75" girth), but she was either lying to me when she said her ex was just too huge, or she lying to him when she said she couldn't wait to have him ram it in her.

I asked her awhille back if I was too big, and she said "no" without hesitation. Hence, I'm pretty sure I could get at least a bit bigger without it being a problem, but I have no idea what her actual size preference is. Any idea how to get an honest answer out of her?

Part of the reason I'm doing Penis Enlargement is due to insecurity from reading her old emails, but I'm also doing it to hopefully increase how tight she feels to me so I get more sensation during intercourse. For those who've been able to increase your girth significantly while with the same woman, did it result in noticably more friction/sensation during intercourse?

get angry and do at least 1 year Penis Enlargement, do not care about that, let your anger fuel you!

Mr Clark from personal experience in my life with women and from the scenario you explain I seriously advise you ditch her and forget about getting any more involved, unless you have the love bug?. I say this because why does someone keep old emails from an ex? that doest sound good to me, okay if it was something IMPORTANT like details of joint account such as a bank account but what you have described her being bent over wanting his huge manhood is sick.

Again her saying that shit about the ex being huge, it sounds like she yearns for a large cock ... size queen perhaps. Look I don't know you or her but from what you say and my own bad experiences I smell something burning in the kitchen and you should hit the eject button now, save your pride and dignity before its too late. Work on your Penis Enlargement and forget this whore mate ... ditch her, make something up and get fucking shut. We at MOS are here for you. Enter the brotherhood of MOS because your worth it

There is no reason for her to say these things but to make you feel badly. It is totally fucked up, it is like you telling her that your ex had a much tighter pussy, bad taste! Women do this to gain power in the relationship and when it works they have you in a really shitty position. Turn the tables and gain control or ask her politely to get on with her life elsewhere.

Yeah I bet she will start trying to see this ex again and its tempting to chop off his legs isn't it? don't do that just phone her and say hey I need to have an important talk later, she will insist on it than but you say no its better in person so meet me such a time and place and phone goes off. You tell her things aren't rosy like she thinks and you've become bored with it all, its not what you want. You could even be nasty if you like and say you've found someone else with a great sense of humour, fantastic career and the best toned body ever along with a fucking great tight pussy unlike her loose flaps bucket hole so fuck off and kick her ass out the front door into the street, have and show NO MERCY it isn't being bad, evil or cruel because you have to be like this mate you really do otherwise feel hurt and pain like men such as myself do, we were nice guys and got stamped all over but we learned ... don't learn just KNOW and get shut of this slut because she loves huge cocks, has a taste for them with the ex, has hinted it to you, saved old big cock emails and the ex is still nearby ... nah its a fire waiting to become a blaze nad unless you want to play some nasty mind games EJECT EJECT EJECT.

I don't know you or her so I will not give any advice on relationships or anything like that but I would suggest that you use this as a motivation for Penis Enlargement..Always try to find something positive no matter the situation

Too much humiliation, what happened to a man of pride?

REDZULU2003;418855 said:

Yeah I bet she will start trying to see this ex again and its tempting to chop off his legs isn't it? don't do that just phone her and say hey I need to have an important talk later, she will insist on it than but you say no its better in person so meet me such a time and place and phone goes off. You tell her things aren't rosy like she thinks and you've become bored with it all, its not what you want. You could even be nasty if you like and say you've found someone else with a great sense of humour, fantastic career and the best toned body ever along with a fucking great tight pussy unlike her loose flaps bucket hole so fuck off and kick her ass out the front door into the street, have and show NO MERCY it isn't being bad, evil or cruel because you have to be like this mate you really do otherwise feel hurt and pain like men such as myself do, we were nice guys and got stamped all over but we learned ... don't learn just KNOW and get shut of this slut because she loves huge cocks, has a taste for them with the ex, has hinted it to you, saved old big cock emails and the ex is still nearby ... nah its a fire waiting to become a blaze nad unless you want to play some nasty mind games EJECT EJECT EJECT.

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I am a nice guy and I had bad things happen to me and I would NEVER do such a thing I don't care what she says or wants.It's a matter of understanding that there is lots of different people and that no matter how they act and behave they can still suffer if you say wrong things.And being nice means you don't want others to suffer in any way,shape or form. If there is no way out get hurt,and forgive her,and close the chapter.Don't hurt back because its easy to forgive others,forgiving yourself is difficult

Alex DeLarge;418858 said:

I am a nice guy and I had bad things happen to me and I would NEVER do such a thing I don't care what she says or wants.It's a matter of understanding that there is lots of different people and that no matter how they act and behave they can still suffer if you say wrong things.And being nice means you don't want others to suffer in any way,shape or form. If there is no way out get hurt,and forgive her,and close the chapter.Don't hurt back because its easy to forgive others,forgiving yourself is difficult

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See this is your problem, this kind of attitude will give you sympathy in church circles or some high class company, but women simply do not respect men who do not stand up to humiliation, they stamp them over, and will replace them with guys who react!
They want drama, and will start drama just to test a man!

You are on a downhill slope and being nice is going to get you hurt,betrayed, and cheated over and over again!
Your self esteem is everything, not reacting is worse than going against her and loosing the relationship!
IF you leave this uncontested she will brake you apart, and no Penis Enlargement will help, she will eat all your soul away, and leave you to another woman to strap on a dildo and finish you off!

Bro give your soul a gift, give to yourself, it's better to be alone that with a person that devalues you!

Alex78;418860 said:

See this is your problem, this kind of attitude will give you sympathy in church circles or some high class company, but women simply do not respect men who do not stand up to humiliation, they stamp them over, and will replace them with guys who react!
They want drama, and will start drama just to test a man!

You are on a downhill slope and being nice is going to get you hurt,betrayed, and cheated over and over again!
Your self esteem is everything, not reacting is worse than going against her and loosing the relationship!
IF you leave this uncontested she will brake you apart, and no Penis Enlargement will help, she will eat all your soul away, and leave you to another woman to strap on a dildo and finish you off!

Bro give your soul a gift, give to yourself, it's better to be alone that with a person that devalues you!

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Man I understand everything you're saying,and believe me I do not expect or care for sympathy from others,this is something I feel is right thing to do.And I never said I don't react or I put up with humiliation,I just said I refuse to hurt other people.If a girl hurts me or cheats on me I will break up with her and will never and under no conditions go back to her,but I will also not hurt her in any way.

REDZULU2003;418843 said:

Mr Clark from personal experience in my life with women and from the scenario you explain I seriously advise you ditch her and forget about getting any more involved, unless you have the love bug?. I say this because why does someone keep old emails from an ex? that doest sound good to me, okay if it was something IMPORTANT like details of joint account such as a bank account but what you have described her being bent over wanting his huge manhood is sick.

Again her saying that shit about the ex being huge, it sounds like she yearns for a large cock ... size queen perhaps. Look I don't know you or her but from what you say and my own bad experiences I smell something burning in the kitchen and you should hit the eject button now, save your pride and dignity before its too late. Work on your Penis Enlargement and forget this whore mate ... ditch her, make something up and get fucking shut. We at MOS are here for you. Enter the brotherhood of MOS because your worth it

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Thanks for the input. She hadn't saved the emails, I found them in her sent folder. When I asked her about the emails, her response was that it was just BS to spice up ther relationship. She broke up with him because he was a swinger, and he was tryign to get her to have sex with other men. My impression is that he wanted to use her for sex, and as a bargaining chip to have sex with other couples.

For what it's worth, I also found an email exchange between my gf and the woman who is currently seeing her ex. It was a pissing contest of sorts, so I don't know how much stock to put into it, but my gf basically said I kicked her exe's ass in every way shape and form (better person, better looking, better career, and, in her words "best of all he has a beautiful body")

At the risk of turnign this into a soap opera, my situation is somewhat complicated because I've had an on and off relationship with my gf for almost 8 years and we have a 6 year old daughter together. She had wanted to get married to me very, very badly for several years but I dumped her. I found a diary of hers (yes, I am nosey) in which she said she cried buckets of tears over me.

Yea, it's a mess! Hopefully you'all will feel better now knowing you're not in my situation!

For what it's worth, the "he was just too huge" comment was in response to me saying to her that I wondered at times if she just likes me because I have money. Her response was "No, that's what my friends say, but that's not it. They thought I liked my ex because they knew he had a big penis, but that wasn't it, he was just too huge". I do think she was trying to let me know her ex had a big unit as a way to play games with me. In yet another for what it's worth, she had said in her emails that he was 8". But, I know from prior conversations that she had thought I was 7".

Mr._Clark;418881 said:

In yet another for what it's worth, she had said in her emails that he was 8". But, I know from prior conversations that she had thought I was 7".

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And what are you?

Alex DeLarge;418858 said:

I am a nice guy and I had bad things happen to me and I would NEVER do such a thing I don't care what she says or wants.It's a matter of understanding that there is lots of different people and that no matter how they act and behave they can still suffer if you say wrong things.And being nice means you don't want others to suffer in any way,shape or form. If there is no way out get hurt,and forgive her,and close the chapter.Don't hurt back because its easy to forgive others,forgiving yourself is difficult

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I'm me and your you

Mr._Clark;418878 said:

Thanks for the input. She hadn't saved the emails, I found them in her sent folder. When I asked her about the emails, her response was that it was just BS to spice up ther relationship. She broke up with him because he was a swinger, and he was tryign to get her to have sex with other men. My impression is that he wanted to use her for sex, and as a bargaining chip to have sex with other couples.

For what it's worth, I also found an email exchange between my gf and the woman who is currently seeing her ex. It was a pissing contest of sorts, so I don't know how much stock to put into it, but my gf basically said I kicked her exe's ass in every way shape and form (better person, better looking, better career, and, in her words "best of all he has a beautiful body")

At the risk of turnign this into a soap opera, my situation is somewhat complicated because I've had an on and off relationship with my gf for almost 8 years and we have a 6 year old daughter together. She had wanted to get married to me very, very badly for several years but I dumped her. I found a diary of hers (yes, I am nosey) in which she said she cried buckets of tears over me.

Yea, it's a mess! Hopefully you'all will feel better now knowing you're not in my situation!

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At least things sound better from reading this post and with a young daughter you cant do as I said before That what I said isnt word for word as I'm sure you know. Never have I literally kicked someone in the gutter and its an expression of term that non-English speakers on these forums dont grasp and take literally sometimes.

I'm pleased actually and perhaps you can work into something more formal one day. A child certainly is special and means you both have to act mature and not think about your own desires which is what you must have been doing anyway.

Keep us informed on it all buddy.

She was just horny when she wrote that to the guy.. I have a buddy who Im guessing isnt that big *due to his ethnicity* and he showed me a text of when his at time girlfriend said she wanted to suck his big cock.

Honestly dude, dont worry or think about if she had bigger guys before, bigger doesnt always mean the best experience.

mr. clark,
She's keeping old boyfriend e-mails even after you confessed to reading what should have remained private. And you repeatedly read what should remain private.

Personally I don't see a lot of integrity or compassion from either of you. Not to mention honesty or trust.
I'd say call it a draw, cut yer losses and each of you move on.

You guys do know the insecurity thing works both ways. I never approach the subject anymore because honestly I don't care if her previous lovers were bigger than me.

If I was there I would have immediately asked what brought that up since you weren't talking about ex's. But if she wants to go that route why not mention the crazy wild sex you and an ex used to have. She might have just been trying to get a reaction from you. I've had to do it before, "I don't want to hear this shit, I don't talk about the gymnast I dated that I could fold up like a pretzel" or "Did I ever tell you about the girl that would have actual orgasms from blowing me? Can you imagine the skills a girl would have if she came from giving oral? No because I don't tell you these things out of respect for you and because I'm not concerned about that anymore. I'm concerned with us."

I wouldn't approach it like Redzulu said because to me thats just something an insecure guy would do. There was a time when I would have done the same thing, like he said I was a nice guy that was hurt but I don't think thats the best route to go. This route would only show that your past wounds have not healed and you still have taken some of the hurt from a past women and generalized it to all women. I'm not saying to be a pussified nice guy. All you have to do is show her that there is a boundary about the subjects of ex's and you find it disrespectful and hurtful for her to talk about it like that. She already knows this so like others have said this is showing some true colors and insecurities in her.

*Edit* I saw your post why you think she said that and it does put it in a different light. I would say work on your own insecurities. Learn to evoke a playful relationship instead of snooping through her emails and journal and worrying about if you're good enough or not. "I wonder if you like me for my money or my devilish wit". Right now you're both displaying signs of insecurity and lack of trust with each other. These things seem to naturally come up in relationships from time to time so you need to work on developing and strengthening your relationship. If her last boyfriend was a swinger I'm assuming he gave her more freedom than you do, based on your reading through emails, diary and obsessing on her ex boyfriend's dick more than she might be.

There has been a lot of good insight in people's responses, but I hadn't actually asked if people think I should stay with my gf, what people think of my gf, what people think of me reading her emails, etc. Assume for the sake of discussion that I have decided to stay with this woman for the rest of my life come hell or high water. Given that, I would like to optimize our sex life as much as possible. If increasing the size of my unit will help, then I'd like to do it. But, I don't want to do it if it's counterproductive.

I'd asked my gf if she thought I was too small, and her respons was "Oh my lord Jesus Christ! What in the world would make you think that?!?" (She almost fell off the sofa. I don't think the current size of my unit is a huge problem or anything, but I'd still like to improve our sex if possible (yes, I do read as much as possible about oral, positions, getting a woman in the mood, etc.). But, odds are my unit is not absoutely perfect for her as-is in every respect, and I highly doubt she will give me a completely honest answer if I ask.

Thus, the original question: does anyone have any ideas on how to get an honest answer out of her with respect to her size preferences? I'm considering just telling her I'm doing Penis Enlargement and ask her if she wants me to continue. Given that she said "no" without hesitation when I'd asked her if I was too big, my current plan is to just keep doing Penis Enlargement and stop if she starts to make comments that I'm getting too big (I'm at about 6.375" NBPenis EnlargementL and 5.75" girth right now).

Another reason I'm doing Penis Enlargement is because my gf is not quite as tight as I'd like, and I don't get quite as much stimulation as I'd like during intercourse. I tried very gently suggesting that she do kegals, but she didn't seem too interested in it and I don't want to push it too much for fear that she'll start feeling insecure about how tight she is. Here's the second question: for those who have substantially increased your girth while being with the same woman during the period of time in which your girth increased, did you notice a difference in terms of how tight your woman felt? Did it increase the sensation you felt during intercourse, or did she just stretch bit by bit over time so it didn't really make much difference?

I would say then you're not ready for what I think, but I'll tell you anyway.

I say do Penis Enlargement 1st for you. Her satisfaction should only be icing on the cake. Girls will adjust and love you for the way you are and the way you become if she truly loves you. And yes the thicker you are the more the both of you will feel it. I'm sure the longer you Penis Enlargement the more you will realize this and experience it on the gut level. The girlfriend that I had that I did tell kept telling me to stop but she didn't seem to mind being stretched a little more each time.

Tell her your doing kegels and ask her if she can feel your cock muscles squeeze, it'll at least get her thinking about it.