I think woman see size in a similar way to men. I think there is always a bit of anxiety when we see someone naked. I also think that the world is programmed to see a penis as small, normal or huge and the measurements that go with these name usually fall into pre-determined numbers. For instance a woman sleeps with a man, in her opinion the guy was huge, she never sleeps with the guy again. As time progresses I think the title huge eventually gets slapped with a number; she may say "He was like 14 inches" even though the guy may have been 7".
 
this is funny as shit.
in a past post i wrote that my girls ex husband (and a couple of boyfriends) were hung like john holmes.so last night we get into a "penis size discussion",and i get a little curious and pick up this ladies shaving gel can,and say "you mean it was this big"? she takes the can rolls it in her hand eyin it up,and says "no,they werent quite as long as this,and none were as thick either".now keep in mind that all this time ive been thinkin her ex husband(who was the "biggest" guy she'd ever been with) was hung like john holmes(or bigger)...anyway the can is 6 3/4 girth,and 8 3/4 long (lol,i cant believe i'm measuring the "girth" of a can)...the bottom line of this story is here i am thinkin i could pe for 50 years and not get as big as her ex.and i find out he wasnt even 9"....shit man,that put me back in the running.those are attainable sizes.my goal is 8 x 6.5 so my vote is women dont know shit about guessin size,buuuuuut i thought the can was at least 10 " myself :)
 
Blu said:
I thought you guys might be interested in this: actual female pornstars talking about male performers' dick sizes. Just read thru the thread patiently, and you will have some interesting revelations. FYI, this forum is where adult entertainment industry insiders gather to informally discuss adult entertainment (talent, production, fan feedback, etc.).


http://www.adultdvdtalk.com/forum/topic.dlt/topic_id=45299/forum_id=1/cat_id=1/45299.htm

Wow, that is crazy! I never knew a board like this existed. I gotta spend some time reading those threads.
 
jclark246 said:
Well, speaking as a black man, 24 years old, I was attracted to this site b/c I was thinking about getting a little larger. I have never practiced any form of Penis Enlargement and I am currently anywhere between 7.6-8.0 inches long and about 5.3 inches around. Let me also add that I am 6 foot 5 and 325 lbs. Needless to say that my 7 and a half looks relatively smaller on me in the mirror. It wasn't until a girl grabs it and I see it in her hand, mouth, or whatever that I realized I had pretty good size. Plus, i am a grower. When flacid I am about 5 inches (but because I'm so big, it looks like 2 or 3 inches to me). I wanted to have a longer flacid length, more girth etc... Now I realize that I am big enough and besides that, none of my lovers have ever complained about my sex or size.
As for the black stereotypes, these are ages old, and I do think that as a whole it is probably true about the size myth. Need some proof--look at the average size of a black woman's hips, thighs and her ass. On average, black women are overwhelmingly the thickest women out there, so if this is true, it makes sense that we, as black men are naturally larger in order to be able to mate. (some positions would be impossible for a 4 inch guy with a super thick black woman). But there are always exeptions. More than anything, I think women are attracted to black men because of our confidence (in most cases). If you come in the bedroom and tell her your going to knock the bottom out, she's gonna get very excited, but if you are insecure--any woman can sense this-- before long she'll be looking for someone else.
Also, I think there is another issue that gets lost in the size myth--more often than not black men have good sexual rhytHydromax. This stems from a non--sexual rhytHydromax that is a part of our culture. Sexual rhytHydromax is what can help get a woman off vaginally. We all talk about Mandingo or Lex and we want to be their alleged sizes, bt ask any woman, white black or green who they want to be with and most will say the same thing--Mr. Marcus.
Mr. Marcus is obviously smaller in size but has great confidence in himself and great sexual rhytHydromax. Sure, he isn't small either--he's got good size, but it just goes to show that it doesn't take an abnormal cock to get some chick off, good size and rhytHydromax go a long way.

I'm 6-3, 230, not as big as you are, but I definitely feel you on the body size point. It's all relative. If you have a larger frame, your piece tends to look smaller, all things equal. Because women don't live with dicks between their legs everyday like we do, they don't obsess over how many hand widths long a dick is, how far it stretches to someone's navel, etc., etc., etc. So they are just not very good at estimating length. In my experience, they are even less good at estimating thickness in terms of numbers. It's all about how it feels to them, and they may just attach a number to it because the number represents "big," "small" or "average" in their minds. Probably has very little to do with what the ruler says.
 
I read the thread on this all the way back, and as a woman who does know sizes I'd like to jump in here. My hand from the base of my palm to the end of my middle finger measures 6 1/2 inches. When I snug the base of my palm into the base of a man's penis (which I always do) and measure up from there I can get a pretty close inch size estimate. Because I have been sexually active and have had many partners I do have a good idea of men's penis sizes, first hand, and 6" erect I would say is probably about average, seven being delightful. The biggest variations are in girth (erect) and maybe head size and shape. But take into consideration here the fact that women's vagina LENGTHS are different, too. Just like some women have a short or long torso, some have short or long vaginal canals and may THINK this or that guy is ten inches because he hits bottom and hurts.... but maybe they haven't actually ever measured. And, if a woman's uterus is tipped to the side instead of straight on, there is some extra play room in there. I have a tipped uterus and like to play with 8 1/2 inch men, but after I'm warmed up and relaxed I can (and have) taken a 10 inch man all the way, but that was because he was slow and gentle and we worked up to all the way in. Some jerk who is violent and careless would kill most any woman with nine inches. So the point jclark246 made about rhytHydromax and confidence is excellent, because technique is imperative. Length is nice and sounds good chatting around the watercooler at work but hey, girth is way more fun and that's why I appreciate REDZULU's pic so much, his girth is awesome. Supra looks balanced with length and girth. Just don't say that ALL women don't know size, some of us do. And we appreciate what you guys are going through to improve yourselves....it's impressive how much you are working towards and hitting your goals. And keep up the photo posts, makes my day!







brianrex said:
I'm 6-3, 230, not as big as you are, but I definitely feel you on the body size point. It's all relative. If you have a larger frame, your piece tends to look smaller, all things equal. Because women don't live with dicks between their legs everyday like we do, they don't obsess over how many hand widths long a dick is, how far it stretches to someone's navel, etc., etc., etc. So they are just not very good at estimating length. In my experience, they are even less good at estimating thickness in terms of numbers. It's all about how it feels to them, and they may just attach a number to it because the number represents "big," "small" or "average" in their minds. Probably has very little to do with what the ruler says.
 
Molly Jones said:
I read the thread on this all the way back, and as a woman who does know sizes I'd like to jump in here. My hand from the base of my palm to the end of my middle finger measures 6 1/2 inches. When I snug the base of my palm into the base of a man's penis (which I always do) and measure up from there I can get a pretty close inch size estimate. Because I have been sexually active and have had many partners I do have a good idea of men's penis sizes, first hand, and 6" erect I would say is probably about average, seven being delightful. The biggest variations are in girth (erect) and maybe head size and shape. But take into consideration here the fact that women's vagina LENGTHS are different, too. Just like some women have a short or long torso, some have short or long vaginal canals and may THINK this or that guy is ten inches because he hits bottom and hurts.... but maybe they haven't actually ever measured. And, if a woman's uterus is tipped to the side instead of straight on, there is some extra play room in there. I have a tipped uterus and like to play with 8 1/2 inch men, but after I'm warmed up and relaxed I can (and have) taken a 10 inch man all the way, but that was because he was slow and gentle and we worked up to all the way in. Some jerk who is violent and careless would kill most any woman with nine inches. So the point jclark246 made about rhytHydromax and confidence is excellent, because technique is imperative. Length is nice and sounds good chatting around the watercooler at work but hey, girth is way more fun and that's why I appreciate REDZULU's pic so much, his girth is awesome. Supra looks balanced with length and girth. Just don't say that ALL women don't know size, some of us do. And we appreciate what you guys are going through to improve yourselves....it's impressive how much you are working towards and hitting your goals. And keep up the photo posts, makes my day!

Molly, what can I say...I definitely stand corrected. You know how to size up a dick for sure! rofl
 
REDZULU2003 said:
Wheres the video of that skinny cunt getting measured? I cant belive hes 8X6 ...ONLY that, he looked AT LEAST around 6.5 inches girth .... maybe he had a BAD pump day? lol

Skinny people are bastards. They don't have to work as hard to look big. A guy with an 8x6er that is 5'7" and 130 pounds on camera would look like a 6' 150 pound guy with a 10x7. Good example? Mandingo. The guy is huge, no doubt, but his build makes him look 2x bigger.

Being skinny kicks ass, haha
 
Spektrum said:
Skinny people are bastards. They don't have to work as hard to look big. A guy with an 8x6er that is 5'7" and 130 pounds on camera would look like a 6' 150 pound guy with a 10x7. Good example? Mandingo. The guy is huge, no doubt, but his build makes him look 2x bigger.

Being skinny kicks ass, haha


6' 150 pounds is still a skinny bastard. It may even be skinnier than 5'7 130.
 
I was talking with this girl the other day about does size matter. She was giving me the same tired stories saying no it doesn't matter,

"I slept with this guy last summer, he was massive, like 10", I couldn't fit it in my mouth, and he sucked in bed"

then her boyfriend "he's got the smallest dick I've ever seen, it's about 6" (wtf?)"

is so great in bed. First off since when was 6" small? (she must be talking about NBP here). If you probably scaled down these sizes an inch or so then it would make sense to me. Also, she cheated on her 6" boyfriend with the 10" monster, big surprise there, so much for size doesn't matter lol.
 
REDZULU2003 said:
Girls girls girls, who need um? I am turning homo at the end of the month.
Send an application form with stats and a LARGE photo to DLDs HOME address.
The winner will get ass-raped by me and DLD, plus a few freinds from here, like still and supra, they might fancy a DIG.

So you are telling us Red, is that if we are in the shower with you, just don't bend down to pick up the soap, or one might find that somthing has been slipped into the rear cavity.
 
My friend from the Havana, has got such a large dick that he has to ware baggy paints all the time, When he wares a swim suit his bulge is at least 3" that is if he is in a flacid state. He cannont ware a swim suite if he has a an erection. Most women go berserk when they see his cock. 90% of the women he dates refuses to have sex with guy.
 
What's up people,

I was just reading the post and I must say that we are looking at size too much. The winner of the game is the one who can get his lady so aroused in the mind that everytime he touches her she shivers. I only have 7in but when I get down with a lady my focus is having her go through those convulsions and the only way I get there is by keeping the coochi wet and spending the time. The only way you keep the coochi wet is by entering the head. How? Look into her eyes while you are on top. Kiss the back of her neck in doggystyle. When trading positions bite her on her ass cheeks. Do what ever but keep her focus on the feeling. Now keep in mind that everytime I go I can't get her to shake, rattle and roll but she knows that right here and right now this dick is hers.

All in all fuck the size but more so fuck the shit out of your girl. Also, learn to dance because when you use your hips you don't need your lips. rofl

Peace
Nos
 
Nos said:
What's up people,

I was just reading the post and I must say that we are looking at size too much. The winner of the game is the one who can get his lady so aroused in the mind that everytime he touches her she shivers. I only have 7in but when I get down with a lady my focus is having her go through those convulsions and the only way I get there is by keeping the coochi wet and spending the time. The only way you keep the coochi wet is by entering the head. How? Look into her eyes while you are on top. Kiss the back of her neck in doggystyle. When trading positions bite her on her ass cheeks. Do what ever but keep her focus on the feeling. Now keep in mind that everytime I go I can't get her to shake, rattle and roll but she knows that right here and right now this dick is hers.

All in all fuck the size but more so fuck the shit out of your girl. Also, learn to dance because when you use your hips you don't need your lips. rofl

Peace
Nos
This is a good post, but it's been debated many times before. Nobody is saying that size is all-important. You've got have skillZ like what you've mentioned. But most people who do Penis Enlargement rightfully argue that having both the big dong AND skillZ is best.
 
quijjiboo;131030 said:
This is a good post, but it's been debated many times before. Nobody is saying that size is all-important. You've got have skillZ like what you've mentioned. But most people who do Penis Enlargement rightfully argue that having both the big dong AND skillZ is best.

Thats why we have [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words]:)
 
I don't swing, but I was surfing a few months ago and found www.swingersboard.com. There was a thread there which inspired me to write this post. We are all consious of our size weather 2 inches or twelve. If we are totally fine with our endowment, we find other things to worry about. For example, we have all asked or wondered about our girls past sexual experiences, and tried to make comparisons (Am I better than him, did he make you cum/ do I make you cum, who was your best lover etc..). When we hear an answer that we don't like we get insecure about ourselves and possibly our manhood.
And what more obvious thing is there to ask about than size? I read these post on [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] alot and many of you guys complain about a girl saying that the last guy she was with was 10 inches, or 12 or whatever. You get pissed, think she's a ho, and your confidence is crushed. Well, let me tell you about these alleged monsters these chicks boast about.
To make a long story short, these experienced, swinging women were only taking their partners word for how large they were and no one was confirming it. It was not until some observant woman got a ruler, took a look at a real 10 inch measurement that these women realized these guys were smaller--alot smaller.
Some women said the guys must have been measuring their cocks from their asshole to get up to the ten inch range. Another woman with a ruler aggreed saying that most of the guys she's been with claimed 9 or 10 inches, but after looking at the ruler, she determined that some were as small as 5 or 6 inches.
One women suggested that all women should measure the width of one of their hands. The average measurement of the width of their hands was 3.5 inches. Next, she told them to hold the ruler at its base. The next reaction was both surprising and unanimous.
All of these chicks were amazed at just how enormous 7 inches really is. All of these women were now saying things like, "Oh my God, 7 inches would rip me in half." and "It's no way these guys were 7 inches let alone 10!"
So for all you guys that are comparing your self to a girl who claims to have been with a 10 incher, just remember this post and that when it comes to size, most women don't know their measurements.
 
I don't swing, but I was surfing a few months ago and found www.swingersboard.com. There was a thread there which inspired me to write this post. We are all consious of our size weather 2 inches or twelve. If we are totally fine with our endowment, we find other things to worry about. For example, we have all asked or wondered about our girls past sexual experiences, and tried to make comparisons (Am I better than him, did he make you cum/ do I make you cum, who was your best lover etc..). When we hear an answer that we don't like we get insecure about ourselves and possibly our manhood.
And what more obvious thing is there to ask about than size? I read these post on [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] alot and many of you guys complain about a girl saying that the last guy she was with was 10 inches, or 12 or whatever. You get pissed, think she's a ho, and your confidence is crushed. Well, let me tell you about these alleged monsters these chicks boast about.
To make a long story short, these experienced, swinging women were only taking their partners word for how large they were and no one was confirming it. It was not until some observant woman got a ruler, took a look at a real 10 inch measurement that these women realized these guys were smaller--alot smaller.
Some women said the guys must have been measuring their cocks from their asshole to get up to the ten inch range. Another woman with a ruler aggreed saying that most of the guys she's been with claimed 9 or 10 inches, but after looking at the ruler, she determined that some were as small as 5 or 6 inches.
One women suggested that all women should measure the width of one of their hands. The average measurement of the width of their hands was 3.5 inches. Next, she told them to hold the ruler at its base. The next reaction was both surprising and unanimous.
All of these chicks were amazed at just how enormous 7 inches really is. All of these women were now saying things like, "Oh my God, 7 inches would rip me in half." and "It's no way these guys were 7 inches let alone 10!"
So for all you guys that are comparing your self to a girl who claims to have been with a 10 incher, just remember this post and that when it comes to size, most women don't know their measurements.

This is a good read. It is a known fact that, many women don't know anything about penis sizes. It's mostly exaggeration.
 
This is a good read. It is a known fact that, many women don't know anything about penis sizes. It's mostly exaggeration.

2 inches bigger when your together and 2 inches shorter when broken up
 
2 inches bigger when your together and 2 inches shorter when broken up

It is the same everywhere even in my country. You have the best penis when you are in a relationship with them and then, your sex game becomes trash when you leave.
 
It is the same everywhere even in my country. You have the best penis when you are in a relationship with them and then, your sex game becomes trash when you leave.
Yup. Women know the power of the penis.
 
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