The Grind

[DeepSighted]

Hello!!!!

I've been lurking on this sight for a LONG time (like, 2 years maybe?) and I've finally made the commitment to start a consistent PE journey. I was way to distracted in college, but now I've graduated and have even been offered my first real job, which means that I'll have money of my own to go towards PE. I'll be posting daily, and pictures every month.

Background:
My ego was heavily inflated due to my ex. She was small and complimented me ALL the time on how great my dick was. I would make her cum at least three times every time we had sex. Well, fast-forward things and the next time I had sex with a woman, I had to WORK just to make her have just one orgasm. Like, it wasn't even enjoyable for me, it was like 45 minutes of straight high-intensity cardio. I pretty sure the problem was a lack of girth.

Later down the line, I had not one but two instances of taking a girl back to my room (granted, they weren't the hottest, and alcohol was at play) and my member refused to get hard.
Also, my flaccid size right now is flat out embarrassing to me. It turtles way too often.

These situations led me to develop the following goals -

Long term goals:
-NBPEL: 8"
-EG: 6.5"
-Flaccid Length: 7"+
-AMAZING EQ


Starting stats:
-BPFSL: 7.5"
-MSEG: 5.25"
-BPEL: 7.6"


Once I have a little money coming in, I'm going to get a [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]Bathmate[/words]. Until then, my routine is as follows:

Morning (Girth work):
-Warm up (hot towel, 5 mins)
-Jelq (Normal, Side Jelq, Horse Squeezes. Perform kegels and reverse kegels while doing them. 20-30 mins)
-Put on a cock ring

Evening (Length work):
-Warm up (hot towel, 5 mins)
-Various manual stretches (10-15 mins)
-Put on gel sleeve (keeps penis elongated. When I'm not wearing the cock ring, I aim to have this on at all times to help with the turtling problem)

 

[DLD]

DeepSighted welcome to the Brotherhood! You have found the best place in the world to improve yourself! Forget every negative word or thought you have ever experienced and start from this baseline. You are currently 2" above average in length and a half inch over average in girth. You are literally .5" in length and .75" in girth away from the highly desired 8x6. I would suggest that you check out the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words] thread for some awesome pointers and healing and gaining. There are some other things that will help you in that thread too like Bundled Stretching, Expressive work, equipment usage, etc. Your routine looks like a good staring point. I would get all of the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-newbie-forum/1597-dlds-first-routine-i-gained-2-inches-with-this-routine-full-tutorial.html]Newbie Routine[/words] stretches in and I would also suggest the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-forum/12539-slow-squash-jelq-nothing-give-me-better-expansion.html]SlowSquashJelq[/words] as another jelqing method that is extremely gainful. I am subscribed to your thread and will watch over you each day.

 

[DeepSighted]

Thanks DLD!
There's a lot of information in the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words] thread...I'll probably have to read and re-read it several times just to retain all the information.

I do have a question though...so I'm getting the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]Bathmate[/words], but I also want to get another device for length, assisted bundled stretches, etc.
My budget will probably only allow for one at this time...so which would do you recommend?
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Day 1:

Morning (Girth)
Warm up (hot towel, 5 mins)
Jelq (20 mins)
Edge (10-15 ish mins, stopped myself from ejaculation twice)
Put on a cock ring for 3 hours after

Evening (Length)
Warm up (hot towel, 5 mins)
Manual Bundles Stretches (5 mins)
Manual Stretches (inhaled, and tried RKing as hard as I could on breath exhales and increasing tension)
-Behind the cheek, 2 sets each side, 1 set grabbing towards the top of the penis, 1 set grabbing towards the base
-Straight up, 2 sets
-DLD Blasters, 10 sets

Put on hydro-cortisone cream and gel sleeve after. I'm thinking about leaving the gel sleeve on while I sleep (after relieving the tension a bit of course)

 

[Big Schwanz Acht]

My suggestion would be to start out w/The [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?83577-Length-master-official-order-thread-now-shipping-06-16-2014!!!]LengthMaster[/words] and then win the 'Poster of the Month' contest and snag The [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]BM[/words]. My arsenal includes the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]BM[/words] [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]X40[/words] and [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]Goliath[/words] models (both w/the VacuVin mod) and The [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?83577-Length-master-official-order-thread-now-shipping-06-16-2014!!!]LM[/words]...those would be everything you need to reach/exceed your goals. Best of luck

 

[DLD]

Thanks DLD!
There's a lot of information in the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words] thread...I'll probably have to read and re-read it several times just to retain all the information.

There are some things that need to be read a few times to stick. There are some books I will read over and over to gain a better understanding. The Bible is a very good example to [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words] in the sense that both deserve deep understanding and study to master. Take you time and learn as you go but eventually it will be easy for you. Take the advice above that Big Schwanz Acht gave as it is perfectly in line with [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words].

 

[DeepSighted]

Penis seemed a bit sore today, so I only did girth in the morning, and I'm keeping the gel sleeve on for the remainder of the day just to help combat turtling.

Warm-up(hot towel, 5 mins)
Bundled Stretches (10 mins)
Jelq and [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-forum/12539-slow-squash-jelq-nothing-give-me-better-expansion.html]SlowSquashJelq[/words] (~75 Jelqs followed by [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-forum/12539-slow-squash-jelq-nothing-give-me-better-expansion.html]SSJ[/words], 4 sets). - I think I was doing the SlowSquashJelqs incorrectly, but I think I understand the technique better now. I got a good expansion regardless.
Put on a cock ring (2 hours)

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I figured for the first 30 days, I'll post every day just to keep myself accountable. After that, I'll lessen to post frequency so the thread won't blow up with posts after a long period of time

 

[DLD]

I figured for the first 30 days, I'll post every day just to keep myself accountable. After that, I'll lessen to post frequency so the thread won't blow up with posts after a long period of time

That is a very smart move. This is the truth, members who come daily and keep an account of their training and progress gains faster than most men and stick with PE much longer than their counterparts. Becoming accountable to the Brotherhood is the best way to keep you on track and us helping you.

 

[DeepSighted]

I'm trying to get more of a mind-muscle connection with the Reverse Kegels...I've been practicing by just doing random ones throughout the day, and my forcing my stream as hard as I can when I pee (as a result, I pee very loudly now lol). I've still got a long way to go though, I find myself flexing my abs rather than the muscle way too often

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Morning (girth)
-Warm up (hot towel, 5 mins)
-Bundled Stretches (10 mins): REALLY connected with these today. My penis felt nice and soft when I was done
-Jelq and [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-forum/12539-slow-squash-jelq-nothing-give-me-better-expansion.html]SlowSquashJelq[/words] (25 mins, 100 Jelq followed by [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-forum/12539-slow-squash-jelq-nothing-give-me-better-expansion.html]SSJ[/words]. 4 sets): GREAT expansion today
-Put on a cock ring (4 hours)

Night (Length)
-Warm up (hot shower)
-Bundled Stretches (5 mins)
-Manual Stretches (5 mins)
-125 quick kegels
-DLD Blasters (5 sets)

Note: My penis normally like a thin noodle by the time I'm done doing length work. By after today's session, it retained its normal girth, and looked longer! Mini Progress

 

[DeepSighted]

You know, I'm really glad I entitled this log 'The Grind.' Throughout life, I've been pretty happy with my 'stats'; i.e, skin complexion, penis sick, intelligence, and physique in particular.
However, recently I've been humbled in each and every one of these categories. I realize that I was such an average fish in a small pond...and this metaphor works completely because in a few days, I'll be moving and starting my first real job out on the own in the real world. I'm glad I got this reality check, and I'm devoting the next year to grinding out every day to better myself. I swear I'll improve in each of these areas. A lot of my peers advocate 'balance' but I feel like God is calling me for something greater. I don't want to settle for average. I want to live life how I see fit, and that means devoting myself to improvement for at least the next year. Minimal distractions...I will allow myself to bare minimal amount of social activity so I don't get lonely or depressed. I've been telling myself I've wanted to do this 'self-improvement' for so so so so long, but I've never taken the first step. But now I'm going to take it. Every single day I'm going to take a step forward for my goals. Let The Grind begin.

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Morning (length):
-Warm up (hot towel, 5 mins)
-Bundled Stretches (5 mins)
-Manual Stretches (12 mins, I got interrupted unfortunately and had to quit early)
-Gel Sleeve (7 hours. I took it off and quickly stretched my penis every 2 hours or so)

Evening (girth):
-Warm up (hot towel, 5 mins)
-Bundled Stretches (10 mins)
-60 Jelq, following by [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-forum/12539-slow-squash-jelq-nothing-give-me-better-expansion.html]SlowSquashJelq[/words] (5 sets): A note here, I made a conscious effort to relax my pelvic muscles, and I could really feel myself more in control of the pleasure levels...
For example, sometimes I would get the urge to ejaculate late into a girth session, but I really didn't feel that urge when I did this. My EQ was also like at a 9/10 doing this as well..
-Put on a cock ring until bed

 

[DeepSighted]

Rest day for girth, but I had an INTENSE length session. I always listen to motivational videos about purpose in life when I'm doing length work, and it really makes focus and get the most out of each rep. I almost didn't do any length work at all. I waited until night time due to various circumstances (which are really just excuses, I should have made time for it) and I was really tired, and had the thought "why bother with it tonight, I would only get like an hour at most in the gel sleeve after anyways." But screw that, I worked through the laziness and negative thoughts, and I'm glad I did it anyways.
Putting in the work!

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Day:
Lots of Kegels

Night (length):
-Warm up (how towel, 5 mins)
-Bundled Stretches (10 mins)
-DLD Blasters (5 sets, 10 reps each. 50 Total around 13 mins)
-Gel sleeve for 1 hour

 

[DLD]

I'm trying to get more of a mind-muscle connection with the Reverse Kegels...I've been practicing by just doing random ones throughout the day, and my forcing my stream as hard as I can when I pee (as a result, I pee very loudly now lol). I've still got a long way to go though, I find myself flexing my abs rather than the muscle way too often

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Morning (girth)
-Warm up (hot towel, 5 mins)
-Bundled Stretches (10 mins): REALLY connected with these today. My penis felt nice and soft when I was done
-Jelq and [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-forum/12539-slow-squash-jelq-nothing-give-me-better-expansion.html]SlowSquashJelq[/words] (25 mins, 100 Jelq followed by [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-forum/12539-slow-squash-jelq-nothing-give-me-better-expansion.html]SSJ[/words]. 4 sets): GREAT expansion today
-Put on a cock ring (4 hours)

Night (Length)
-Warm up (hot shower)
-Bundled Stretches (5 mins)
-Manual Stretches (5 mins)
-125 quick kegels
-DLD Blasters (5 sets)

Note: My penis normally like a thin noodle by the time I'm done doing length work. By after today's session, it retained its normal girth, and looked longer! Mini Progress

This is not a race, it is a manual journey we take together and over time, with dedication, we can make all things happen!

 

[DeepSighted]

This is not a race, it is a manual journey we take together and over time, with dedication, we can make all things happen!

I agree! And I've never felt more dedicated...I feel the importance of each day, of each set, of each rep. I can only go up from here!

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Morning (length)
-Warm-up (hot towel, 5 mins)
-Bundled Stretches (10 mins)
-DLD Blasters superset upward expressive stretch (10 sets)
-Gel Sleeve (7 hours)

Night (girth)
-Warm up (hot shower)
-Bundles Stretches (10 mins)
-50 Jelq superset [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-forum/12539-slow-squash-jelq-nothing-give-me-better-expansion.html]SlowSquashJelq[/words] (5 sets)
-Edge (10 mins, hit PONR twice, maintained around 7/10 erection)
-Put on a cock ring till bed

 

[DLD]

I agree! And I've never felt more dedicated...I feel the importance of each day, of each set, of each rep. I can only go up from here!

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Morning (length)
-Warm-up (hot towel, 5 mins)
-Bundled Stretches (10 mins)
-DLD Blasters superset upward expressive stretch (10 sets)
-Gel Sleeve (7 hours)

Night (girth)
-Warm up (hot shower)
-Bundles Stretches (10 mins)
-50 Jelq superset [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-forum/12539-slow-squash-jelq-nothing-give-me-better-expansion.html]SlowSquashJelq[/words] (5 sets)
-Edge (10 mins, hit PONR twice, maintained around 7/10 erection)
-Put on a cock ring till bed

Keep that inspiration front and center, that WILL be your pathway to motivation and victory

 

[DeepSighted]

All I did was Kegels today (granted, a lot of them during a 4 hour drive) due to hectic schedule involved with relocation. Hopefully I'll be back on my schedule strong tomorrow!

 

[DLD]

All I did was Kegels today (granted, a lot of them during a 4 hour drive) due to hectic schedule involved with relocation. Hopefully I'll be back on my schedule strong tomorrow!

Sounds like me! When I used to drive to work it was a 20 minute drive and I would Kegel the whole way. Eventually, I started to kegel the whole day long...it became a subconscious habit.

 

[DeepSighted]

Work kicked my booty today, I didn't wake up nearly early enough to do PE, and I was scrambling around trying to get my life together after work so I didn't have to after either :/
Waking up early tomorrow so I can at least get one session in...

Sounds like me! When I used to drive to work it was a 20 minute drive and I would Kegel the whole way. Eventually, I started to kegel the whole day long...it became a subconscious habit.

DLD, are your erections weaker after a day of exhausting the PE muscles? Subconsciously, I avoid girth sessions after a day of hard kegeling, but if there's no reason to worry about this then...

 

[DLD]

DLD, are your erections weaker after a day of exhausting the PE muscles? Subconsciously, I avoid girth sessions after a day of hard kegeling, but if there's no reason to worry about this then...

If you are going hard you will lose eq because the muscles that support the erection are exhausted. This will lessen as you become stronger and gain more endurance. When the muscles are exhausted there is no better time to stretch for length.

 

[DeepSighted]

Fell asleep before I could post yesterday's log, soooo:

Yesterday:
Morning (length)
-Warm up (hot towel, 5 mins)
-Bundled Stretches (7 mins)
-Expressive Stretches superset DLD Blasters (10 mins)
-Gel Sleeve (5 hours)

Today
Afternoon (girth)
-Warm up (hot shower)
-Bundled Stretches (10 mins)
-100 Jelq superset [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-forum/12539-slow-squash-jelq-nothing-give-me-better-expansion.html]SlowSquashJelq[/words] (4 sets, 30 mins)


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I'm not even mad at the fact I didn't get two length and two girth sessions in. I know that will come when I get settled into my new life, but man was my girth session today awesome! The mind muscle connection with my penis was good, and every single jelq was done slowly and deliberately. The expansion was great too.


P.S - Fun fact, ever since I've started this log, I've been sleeping naked. Weird, because I never slept naked before, but now it feels more natural?

 

[DeepSighted]

Yesterday:
-Warm up (hot shower)
-Bundled Stretches (10 mins)
-Erect Stretches (5 mins): I was very careful with these, and started with low intensity until I got the feel of them
-Manual Stretches (10 mins)
-Gel Sleeve (3 hours)

Today: (EQ wasn't the best since I masturbated yesterday and was tired. Didn't let it stop me from a girth session tho)
-Warm up(hot towel, 5 mins)
-Bundled Stretches (10 mins)
-50 Jelq superset w/ 60 second Uli (6 sets)
-Edge
-Cock ring until bed

 

[DLD]

Looking excellent! Keep up the consistent work and it will pay off!