Call your credit card company and charge it back.
This seems to be a very common occurrence when dealing with [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words]/DLD.
Lots of guy's paying for products that never arrive, or arrive months after they paid for it.
Also lots of guys that can't get in to the member site, and not even being able to get a response back.
This place is getting worse and worse every day.