REDZULU2003
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Nothing wrong with that
NoFap no Pornography Accountability Thread
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Happened again but this time I went into territory I should have avoided. I have so much trouble on mind mind, so much in the air, I think I go to masturbation for a sure relief for stress. It is short lived but effective. The true solution is tackling these issue and dealing with them, not becoming overwhelmed. So if I do masturbate in these times more often it is purely for this reason and as long as I remain with my safe zone (wife thought and women who resemble, boobs and butts and no nudes) I have no grief but if I go outside this realm I add to my to my stress by grieving my Spirit. A fine line indeed.
I do not think I can give a rhyme or reason to frequency other than I remain mostly abstinent in peacetime but active in stresstime.
Red is right, it does rob you of your energy but in my stressful times that is the exact energy I want to part with, replace it with a more relaxed state. It can also grieve the Spirit when we follow a bad habit as such, and that can replace much needed spiritually, again as Red said.
REDZULU2003
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Yeah its a funny thing is masturbation, because you've just made a good point in that it can have advantages in using up lets say, nervous anxious energy over something.
But, then again, one could do another activity, and its what is the person using to masturbate over? if its adult entertainment, then its a huge negative, it can lead to addiction, and desensitize around sex in general.
I have masturbated a few times this week, however, in my defense is has been at nighttime regarding penis enlargement. I needed to be erect, so simply had a tug. I didn't use adult entertainment, but imagined in my mind past encounters, and pretending a sexy black babe was in my room sucking my cock.
This works for me, I can remain erect. So, I really dont need any adult entertainment thank god.
So, yeah I'm "behaving" with using it only when need be. I refrain from ejaculating, doing it once - twice at most each week. I think the ejaculating can drain you, its life force after all. I know this is disgusting to many, and I dont do it out of fetish, its something I have done for 20 years, but I consume my own ejaculation.
I think its taking back my life force into me, its filled with goodness after all.
But back to the thread. Yeah, just use masturbation wisely, in low amount when not engaged with PE.
I haven't done it for awhile, but try sitting in meditation posture and visualize having sex ... eyes closed, dont touch yourself at all ... your using the mind to remember it clearly, and go through the whole scene from start to finish. That may help.
But, then again, one could do another activity, and its what is the person using to masturbate over? if its adult entertainment, then its a huge negative, it can lead to addiction, and desensitize around sex in general.
I have masturbated a few times this week, however, in my defense is has been at nighttime regarding penis enlargement. I needed to be erect, so simply had a tug. I didn't use adult entertainment, but imagined in my mind past encounters, and pretending a sexy black babe was in my room sucking my cock.
This works for me, I can remain erect. So, I really dont need any adult entertainment thank god.
So, yeah I'm "behaving" with using it only when need be. I refrain from ejaculating, doing it once - twice at most each week. I think the ejaculating can drain you, its life force after all. I know this is disgusting to many, and I dont do it out of fetish, its something I have done for 20 years, but I consume my own ejaculation.
I think its taking back my life force into me, its filled with goodness after all.
But back to the thread. Yeah, just use masturbation wisely, in low amount when not engaged with PE.
I haven't done it for awhile, but try sitting in meditation posture and visualize having sex ... eyes closed, dont touch yourself at all ... your using the mind to remember it clearly, and go through the whole scene from start to finish. That may help.
Agree completely. This is been such a hard week for me! Medical issues, dental issues, my sewage system is completely broke, just everything is going wrong at the same time. And when I get this immerse in stress I go to what brings me instant relief.
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Very good thread!!!
Interestingly, I agree with both initial statements @DLD and @Big Schwanz Acht
I struggle to eliminate adult entertainment and masturbation, but in may case IS NOT because I am trying to eliminate sex or lust. The reason in my case is, because sex feel SO MUCH BETTER with a real woman WITHOUT adult entertainment and masturbation in your life.
Sure, if you're single or even if you're dating somebody, there will be moments in which you're so fucking horny that cant handle it anymore and need to explode in milk, but I think this should be done only under those circumstances and NOT as a consequence of watching adult entertainment. Nither if you feel horny should have the need to watch adult entertainment to release. Beat the monkey just because hormones dictate so with the help of your brain.
I just happened to grow up in this transition between not having internet/cellphones/computer when I was a kid, to growing up with more and more access to adult entertainment due to technology. And I remember how horny I would get as a kid when just thinking about the possibility of watching unlimited adult entertainment which was more like a dream, compared to today were adult entertainment is accessible 24/7 in HD quality of all kind, types, etc. It feels and seems so normal that is not even a turn on anymore.
I haven't accomplished it yet, but I REALLY WANT to not watch adult entertainment anymore. Masturbate yes, because I think when you eliminate adult entertainment becomes a normal act of nature. But when maturbation is triggered by an habit of watching adult entertainment, then theres a problem. adult entertainment really desensitize the brain to the point that a real woman could feel not as good as watching good adult entertainment and jerking off.
Interestingly, I agree with both initial statements @DLD and @Big Schwanz Acht
I struggle to eliminate adult entertainment and masturbation, but in may case IS NOT because I am trying to eliminate sex or lust. The reason in my case is, because sex feel SO MUCH BETTER with a real woman WITHOUT adult entertainment and masturbation in your life.
Sure, if you're single or even if you're dating somebody, there will be moments in which you're so fucking horny that cant handle it anymore and need to explode in milk, but I think this should be done only under those circumstances and NOT as a consequence of watching adult entertainment. Nither if you feel horny should have the need to watch adult entertainment to release. Beat the monkey just because hormones dictate so with the help of your brain.
I just happened to grow up in this transition between not having internet/cellphones/computer when I was a kid, to growing up with more and more access to adult entertainment due to technology. And I remember how horny I would get as a kid when just thinking about the possibility of watching unlimited adult entertainment which was more like a dream, compared to today were adult entertainment is accessible 24/7 in HD quality of all kind, types, etc. It feels and seems so normal that is not even a turn on anymore.
I haven't accomplished it yet, but I REALLY WANT to not watch adult entertainment anymore. Masturbate yes, because I think when you eliminate adult entertainment becomes a normal act of nature. But when maturbation is triggered by an habit of watching adult entertainment, then theres a problem. adult entertainment really desensitize the brain to the point that a real woman could feel not as good as watching good adult entertainment and jerking off.
REDZULU2003
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I've had a few too many wanks this week. Wonder if it has anyhing to do with the sun, and getting horny? I'm also stressed due to worry about my thyroid, which is abnormal atm.
The Sun will DEFINITELY make you feel horny since exposure to Sun is IMPERATIVE. Please NEVER follow the advise from doctors about avoiding sun light. Is one of the most harmful things we an do. Skin disorders and cancer IS NOT a consequence of sun exposure but rather a chronic deficiency of essential nutrients to process the UV light from the sun.
If you have issues with your thyroid, you are most probably severely chronic deficient in Selenium. BUT, as Naturopathic Doctors say, running to walmart and buying a bottle of Selenium caps WILL NOT cure the chronic condition. It takes nutritional science behind and a lot more understanding of nutrition.
Naturopathic Doctors are always opposed to tell "this disease is a consequence of lack of this" "that disease is a consequence of the lack of that", because then people run to the store to buy a cheap bottle of that nutrient, take it, to only come back and say "it did nothing" at which point allopathic medicine takes adavatge of the situation to label Naturopathic Medicine as quack which is not the case.
Please Jack get on the no fap diet! I’ve never felt better about myself then when I quit watching this filth. I’m not perfect and I do mess up and when I do I come directly here to confess what I did. This helps me with my regret and guilt and also helps other people to help me. adult entertainment has become a massive issue in life in general. It takes the place of true intimacy and it completely screws up your expectations in sex.
Diet could definitely be a factor - Intermittent Fasting, Fasting & or Keto (thinking atleast one can help most people tremendously especially for westerners) - Darren Schmidt, Eric Berg
Its about getting to that 90 day Goal (The Reset), Just going 90 days no P (step 1 for No PMO / No FAP) is a big deal though.
Definitely cut it down to a 7 day goal then 15 etc. (or whatever works.)
Its about getting to that 90 day Goal (The Reset), Just going 90 days no P (step 1 for No PMO / No FAP) is a big deal though.
Definitely cut it down to a 7 day goal then 15 etc. (or whatever works.)
What is so important about 90 days? What is this reset? I have it down to 7 days lately. adult entertainment I really don’t watch. I look at R rated stuff and picture my wife. Is it the lack of adult entertainment for 90 or fap or both?
To remain accountable I let one off tonight. Nothing to feel guilty over. It seems like one week is as far as I can go for now. I will remain away from adult entertainment or xxx material. Perhaps I can go longer but over the last few month 7 to 10 days has been my max.
I also want to say and see if anyone else is like this. I never have the urge to masturbate, I kind of have to force or talk myself into it. As if it is a chore.
The no adult entertainment for 90 Days is suppose to reset you back to before you started watching the stuff (90 Days+ I'm no Expert though)
Add in The MO part (or Hard Mode) usually builds a very strong willpower (potentially) - work ethic and other benefits. But No FAP is too Risky for 1 of the 5 energetic character structures from what i'm reading. (atleast until they resolve that)
The Schizoid Character structure (in Bioenergetics) should not do NoFAP until they fix the energy blockage they have.
Add in The MO part (or Hard Mode) usually builds a very strong willpower (potentially) - work ethic and other benefits. But No FAP is too Risky for 1 of the 5 energetic character structures from what i'm reading. (atleast until they resolve that)
The Schizoid Character structure (in Bioenergetics) should not do NoFAP until they fix the energy blockage they have.
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REDZULU2003
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Your doing fine DLD.
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Also members please keep this thread in topic, and dont go off on tangents.
Keep in mind, be RESPECTFUL to others that follow this path of celibacy.
Keep in mind, be RESPECTFUL to others that follow this path of celibacy.
REDZULU2003
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Your welcome. I released one last night, thats the first in 7 days, and will last me for a week. That was over a celebrity crush I have LOL no adult entertainment or nude pix required, just used my mind.
God bless you my brother! Excellent work.
No adult entertainment no masturbation
I've been in the same spot /
the first serious goal / achievement is no P orn for 90 days (headbang)
(includes images and practically naked women anywhere)
as long as you keep yourself aware those can end your streak EZ
Gonna try 15 Days and see from there(shivering)
good luck - Future 90+ Days no Masterbaiter (like)
the first serious goal / achievement is no P orn for 90 days (headbang)
(includes images and practically naked women anywhere)
as long as you keep yourself aware those can end your streak EZ
Gonna try 15 Days and see from there(shivering)
good luck - Future 90+ Days no Masterbaiter (like)
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For those who do mess up from time to time this verse gives me great strength.
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Tonight for about 2 minutes but visual material was dirty. I wish I could remain in an innocent visual place but then I spend too long. What to do? I think this is 2nd time in 30 day period. I feel regret, I wish I kept it clean. Pray for me Brothers!
Getbiglonger7
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Lol lol lol Pussy Doo where r u?
Getbiglonger7
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It is good to see this kind of positivity in this community....
I too watch adult entertainment(regularly), but I do not watch it because I am addicted to it. I watch it so that I could jerk off and then do my stretching. Sometimes I watch it so that I could learn(positions, foreplay, etc). I diverted its energy towards my own benefit.
I was also once addicted to masturbation & adult entertainment and the reason was that I couldn't keep myself busy enough. Now I try to keep myself busy whenever it is possible. Sometimes I even workout in the gym or play sports so much that I would have no energy left to even hold my dickLMAO.
So my advice for people here would be:
"Focus on the thing which made you addicted and then overcome it."
"Whatever your addiction is, focus it's energy towards good."
With that said, Happy PE
I too watch adult entertainment(regularly), but I do not watch it because I am addicted to it. I watch it so that I could jerk off and then do my stretching. Sometimes I watch it so that I could learn(positions, foreplay, etc). I diverted its energy towards my own benefit.
I was also once addicted to masturbation & adult entertainment and the reason was that I couldn't keep myself busy enough. Now I try to keep myself busy whenever it is possible. Sometimes I even workout in the gym or play sports so much that I would have no energy left to even hold my dickLMAO.
So my advice for people here would be:
"Focus on the thing which made you addicted and then overcome it."
"Whatever your addiction is, focus it's energy towards good."
With that said, Happy PE
Getbiglonger7
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I'm addicted to PE from now on what can I do wherever Im I want to stretch use a device do PE Ill see what can I do when I'm away not at home or something ....
Getbiglonger7
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Idle hands are the devils workshop.
Getbiglonger7
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Visually stimulating lol
Phew....
I thought it was some kind of adult entertainment induced erectile dysfunction(cwl)
Getbiglonger7
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Nope adult entertainment is ok lol
adult entertainment is in no way necessary to gaining and maintaining an erection. There are many stimulating sources that do not cross the line, you have be creative. I know that when I cross the line I feel it because I have regret but when I stay in a safe zone I never feel regret. One needs to be honest with himself.
Getbiglonger7
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adult entertainment I was going to watch a clip yesterday didn't I didn't need that shit at all yeah adult entertainment is big business tough
The other night I jerk off but I felt absolutely no guilt or regret because I did it within the boundaries of my own justifications. Watching adult entertainment that was just so nasty, I hate when I do that.
Getbiglonger7
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Well being realistic is quite hard to not masturbate,once a month or so..
I go maybe two times a month to keep myself free of frustration and in a good space. If I do it as I did it the other night there is no regret or guilt. The biggest thing I need to keep in mind is to keep my nose out of the nastiness of what’s online.
Getbiglonger7
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I have said goodbye but occasionally I give into temptation but I don’t hold that against me I know that Jesus has already forgiven all of my sins past present and future. This does not give me a license to sin but it does give me great appreciation to try to stay on the straight path and avoid Internet filth.
Getbiglonger7
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Behind that damn screen ..No adult entertainment today either lol
REDZULU2003
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It's also more difficult for some due to the intense sexualized music, and entertainment we're exposed to now.
Getbiglonger7
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Good point that's exactly what it is Music, Entertainment, music most genres are already corrupted one way or another..Some musicians say the stuff they write is poetry
Getbiglonger7
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Absurdity as real life lol