How did your Girlfriend/Wife react on your PE Training

[savageblue]

Guys, I honestly think some of you are getting too obsessed with Penis Enlargement.

You have to decide, once and for all, why you are doing this.
Is it because you've always dreamt of having a huge penis because you like to see it hang between your legs when you check yourselves in the mirror (I can easily relate to this)? Or is it because you want be able to provide extra pleasure to your partner (I can easily relate to this too)?
If you're doing this solely for the first reason, then by all means go for it and work on your Penis Enlargement with dedication and perseverance, and go chase that huge cock you're aiming at. And don't let anyone stand in your way.
However, if there is even just the slightest bit of the second reason (providing more pleasure to your partner), then, for the sake of your relationships, don't be so hard minded in your Penis Enlargement. If your partner is telling you that she/he is already having trouble taking your whole length/girth, then why keep on adding inches? If the aim is to provide more pleasure, why go beyond discomfort and pain? It makes no sense and you could be ruining your relationship.

I see lots of guys here saying that if your partner doesn't respect your wishes in that matter, maybe you should move on to a different person. Well, although I can understand what they are saying and agree with them to some extent, remember that if you insist in growing a larger dick even after your partner says you're already too big, you are not respecting their wishes either.

So be careful there guys, Penis Enlargement is loads of fun, it's a nice challenge and can bring awesome results. But don't let it get over your heads. Use your common sense and be happy with a larger dick, even if it's not a gigantic one.
Remember that growing even 1/2 an inch means a victory. Don't underestimate that conquer.

Use Penis Enlargement, grow from it, both dick and person-whise, but use good judgement.

 

[DLD]

Guys, I honestly think some of you are getting too obsessed with Penis Enlargement.

You have to decide, once and for all, why you are doing this.
Is it because you've always dreamt of having a huge penis because you like to see it hang between your legs when you check yourselves in the mirror (I can easily relate to this)? Or is it because you want be able to provide extra pleasure to your partner (I can easily relate to this too)?
If you're doing this solely for the first reason, then by all means go for it and work on your Penis Enlargement with dedication and perseverance, and go chase that huge cock you're aiming at. And don't let anyone stand in your way.
However, if there is even just the slightest bit of the second reason (providing more pleasure to your partner), then, for the sake of your relationships, don't be so hard minded in your Penis Enlargement. If your partner is telling you that she/he is already having trouble taking your whole length/girth, then why keep on adding inches? If the aim is to provide more pleasure, why go beyond discomfort and pain? It makes no sense and you could be ruining your relationship.

I see lots of guys here saying that if your partner doesn't respect your wishes in that matter, maybe you should move on to a different person. Well, although I can understand what they are saying and agree with them to some extent, remember that if you insist in growing a larger dick even after your partner says you're already too big, you are not respecting their wishes either.

So be careful there guys, Penis Enlargement is loads of fun, it's a nice challenge and can bring awesome results. But don't let it get over your heads. Use your common sense and be happy with a larger dick, even if it's not a gigantic one.
Remember that growing even 1/2 an inch means a victory. Don't underestimate that conquer.

Use Penis Enlargement, grow from it, both dick and person-whise, but use good judgement.

This is Gospel right here folks!

 

[herr röhrich]

Nice spoken savageblue. Praise the "Dick"!

@ Erikvanderty: I agree with what you say, but it is not 100% as easy as just give her the choice: "Accept it or not!" My GF also has her motives and cares that move her in this case. If your just moving along your way and not care about your partner it's not very nice and clever if you really care about the other person. By the way I'm not planning to stop with it, but I've to care about her and make some compromises, from time to time she will understand that there is nothing to worry about.

I startet this thread in the hope for getting more input that let me understand the reasons why my GF is much against Penis Enlargement. So I'll make a general summary of reasons why your partner is not fine with Penis Enlargement in general. We all can discuss and add than more points:

- Penis envy: very hard for men to understand and perhaps very hard to deal with -> any suggestions?

- Balance of Power in the relationship: Afraid of being cheated, "He's doing that because he's planning to cheat me.."

- Man is not lucky with the sexlife: If the partner projects it onto herself and thought, "there's something wrong with our sexlife, with me???..."

- She things it is pervers: She just din't understand that it is no big deal and things Penis Enlargement is a pervertet thing

- General Idea of body improvement: It is also a point of view, to be lucky with "what god gave you" in every way and manner of life. So bodybuilding, Penis Enlargement, sick effort in the job ... that are all sign of an deep insecure which doesn't make your personality more attrative(but your
appearence) <-- very important point

So I'm curious to your further posts.

 

[DLD]

The best way to deal with a partner who does not want you to pe is to lie.

 

[herr röhrich]

If you cann't close the door behind yourself and no one is then bothering you, thats an option. Otherwise you have to find another way. But your right, enough is said on that topic I think.
Love it or leave it.

 

[herr röhrich]

I want to wake this threat up again. I think one man reason why some of our partners don't want us to do Penis Enlargement ist perhaps that it is not nessessary. I mean if the EL is 6,3 (16cm) and the grith is 5,2 (13,2cm) like my unit after 3 month of Penis Enlargement and like the willy of most of the people here in this forum before they startet with Penis Enlargement there should be probatly no reason for doing it. A question to the "hung" ones. If your dick measures 8" so about 20 cm did this make your sexlife better? I can imagine that an increase in grith is of course nice but what about if your dick is beyound 7"? If you get it rock hard are you still able to fuck her hard??

I know this topic is discussed a thousand times before, but perhaps not in the context of that the partner is not fine with our Penis Enlargement training.

Just like to know this.

Greetings

 

[stillwantmore]

You know, I don't understand women that insist men to quit Penis Enlargement. Believe me... IF women could grow their breast naturally (without too much effort), they ALL would do it!!!
They care way more about their appearance. They enlarge their breasts, wear make up, wear a push up bra, buy fake nails, buy the most exclusive perfumes and the TONS of beauty products ect.
I think when they have penis envy, it paired with not trusting the partner. You do not need a bigger penis do cheat on someone.

That's my personally philosophy as well. I'm glad my wife sees eye to eye with me on it. From MY experience, women who have been insecure with me doing Penis Enlargement (all of my ex's including my first wife knew) were insecure about it because of something like they thought I was making it bigger for someone else despite what I told them. It's MY Penis EnlargementNIS, I will do with it what I please. I make it bigger because it's an aspiration or desire of my own. It's like bodybuilding per se for my penis. I don't have to explain my ''why'' it's just something I enjoy and will continue doing...get used to it.

 

[stillwantmore]

I want to wake this threat up again. I think one man reason why some of our partners don't want us to do Penis Enlargement ist perhaps that it is not nessessary. I mean if the EL is 6,3 (16cm) and the grith is 5,2 (13,2cm) like my unit after 3 month of Penis Enlargement and like the willy of most of the people here in this forum before they startet with Penis Enlargement there should be probatly no reason for doing it. A question to the "hung" ones. If your dick measures 8" so about 20 cm did this make your sexlife better? I can imagine that an increase in grith is of course nice but what about if your dick is beyound 7"? If you get it rock hard are you still able to fuck her hard??

I know this topic is discussed a thousand times before, but perhaps not in the context of that the partner is not fine with our Penis Enlargement training.

Just like to know this.

Greetings

Again, I believe it's directly related to the partner's self esteem and insecurity issues. ALSO, how many men really know how to use their penis? Exactly.

 

[rakas]

Bumping this as a very interesting thread.

I never told any of my gf's about Penis Enlargement really as i never remained consistent (odd month here and there) however when i told one of my gf's that i was going to go the gym and get ripped i got the whole 'no' reaction as she was insecure and thought i would cheat. I expect that if i had being doing Penis Enlargement, i would have gotten a similar reaction.

My advise is to wait until you hit the 7 or 8 inch mark and tell her that you have gained an inch (get her reaction) and then essentially tell her to admit that she prefers it now.

 

[DLD]

If she is jealous of the gym then Penis Enlargement is OUT OF THE QUESTION! She will have a case of penis envy brighter than the greenest green!

 

[Aimingforthetop]

Had a romanian girlfriend a year ago where i increased the most. She was in shock with it. I was alot bigger than her (viking!) and could really fuck her brains out. And then my cock started to increase in size. She had some time needed to get accustumed to it. But nevertheless she enjoyed the size of it, i went from being normal size to slightly above average. Next goal is from above average to fucking huge. Im starting slow and these days just working on having the most insane kegel muscle.

 

[savageblue]

You know, I don't understand women that insist men to quit Penis Enlargement. Believe me... IF women could grow their breast naturally (without too much effort), they ALL would do it!!!
They care way more about their appearance. They enlarge their breasts, wear make up, wear a push up bra, buy fake nails, buy the most exclusive perfumes and the TONS of beauty products ect.
I think when they have penis envy, it paired with not trusting the partner. You do not need a bigger penis do cheat on someone.

This is all very true.
However, I believe you seem to be forgetting one simple factor: none of the above will be entering any of your orifices.
Come one, guys, let's try and step into our ladies' shoes for a while. They're the ones who get penetrated.
Imagine sex was completely different from what nature made it, and that instead of us inserting our penises in their vaginas, it was their fingers up our ass. Would you guys be perfectly OK with them engaging in a Finger Enlargement programme? And if you'd say "honey, your 6" girth middle finger is awesome, but if you make it any larger, you'll hurt my ass", how would you like your lady to react? Would you feel respected if she'd say "oh, come one, that's just finger envy / You're just affraid I might cheat on you because I have a big middle finger / bigger turds have come out of your ass (yuck), I know it stretches and you can acomodate my finger / we can always use lube...". I'm sure I've made my point by now.

Make sure you know exactly why you are doing Penis Enlargement and make sure you know exactly why your girlfriend doesn't approve it if that's the case. Talking things over can have awesome results.

Anyway, this is just my point of view.

 

[shavenasian]

Very interesting thread. I hid Penis Enlargement from my wife - but then because I over did the Vaccum pump, had 2 -3 incidents of very poor EQ. I took it as an opportunity to make my Penis Enlargement more public by telling her I would do some dick exercises to improve EQ. She was fine with it and let me have privacy to do Penis Enlargement - even to the degree of wearing a pump under my clothes at home. She saw the benefits as I could do more Penis Enlargement, my cock was much harder and thicker. Then I wanted to do the [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]SG[/words] for long hours, and she was fine with it. She has commented that my cock goes in too deep in certain positions, but she is also having stronger orgasms. I now pretty much am comfortable doing Penis Enlargement when she is around, or wearing a device under my clothes. Having said all of this, I havent told her its really to make it larger. I want to get to 8x6 and currently am at 7.25x 6.25 - I am gaining slowly so I suspect she hasnt been able to tell the difference as she is getting used to the look and feel over time rather than overnight!

 

[DLD]

My girlfriend got a case of penis envy and broke out!

 

[rakas]

You could always take the stance of telling her that it is your penis and she will be moaning like a whore once your 9*7.

 

[DLD]

Best thing top tell a girl is that your penis is still growing for some reason, your not sure why but Hell? It feels good, right?

 

[huge-girth]

Hey,

I startet Penis Enlargement a few weeks ago and I'm willing to reach a 8 x 6'er as a long term project.
My BPenis EnlargementL so far is about 6,6 and the EG about 5,1.

So I doing twice a day a streching and a grith routing and already see some progress (beneth the nice feeling that a fresh jelqed and claimed dick gives to you).

My girlfriend and I having a relationship over a long distance and in die Semester(we are student's) we only see on some few weekends.

But now the Semester comes to the end and we will spent the whole holidays together, so my question ist:

What are usual reactions of your girlfriends/wifes when you confronted them with your Penis Enlargement Training. Do you train I front of them. I mean it's some kind of difficult because most people didn't what to know the they are doing Penis Enlargement. We have a very goog relationship (lots of good sex, and we speak about everythink) but I don't know how she will react I tell her about my plan.

Please post your experience, tell me the reaction of your GF/wifes, or your opinion to this point.

Thanks

Mr. Röhrich

(to the experts: by the way, I knew I could use the search funktion but I you answer my original question please write also your opinion about REST DAYS. How often, are they neccesarry??)

My current girlfriend is supportive of PE. She is worried that I might become too thick for her though. I'm making sure she gets used to the temporary expansion by using it on her after my session.

I'm doing PE for myself and won't stop until I cement 7 inches of midshaft girth.

 

[oldandlively]

Newly relationship may appear odd in the lady's mental state, but long term relationships only see benefits. The partner will support you since the partner will only see the positive sides.

 

[MickeyDeese]

Let's rewind... when I was 17 my girlfriend at the time said she wished I had a bigger D. I didn't realize it at the time, but she said it in retaliation to something I had said to her days or weeks before hand about wishing her boobs were bigger. This was the mid to late 90s. I went online and found some instructions on Jelqing. At the time it was marketed as some ancient Arabic technique with rumors of men teaching their teenage sons and over years by the time they became men themselves had rumored of up to 14 inch penises. I tried it, and due to my ADD lost interest very quickly. What my ex had said though... that stuck with me, and realistically caused an amount of embarassment and shame which resulted in a bit of body dismorphia which took decades to overcome.

At 22 I purchased a pump from a sex shop and used it a few times. Once again sold on the possibility that I could be as big as the photoshopped pornstar on the box cover. Understand this was 20+ years ago before guages and other ease of use features you can purchase to accompany pumps nowadays. Unknown to me it was the wrong size and I was pumping for too long at the wrong pressure. It gave me lots of edema and lots of those red spots. Not understanding how PE worked and seeing that it was fluid build up (and not actually making my inner D bigger) I chucked the thing after a couple weeks.

Regardless, last year I stumbled across a R3dd1t forum about PE and was blown away at the advances in PE tech, the routines, and community which was available. I did a ton of research, looked at proven routines, compared notes from verified PE enthusiasts, saw there was actual bio-medical science behind many of these outlandish online claims, and developed my own routine off the budget I had available. I was now determined to overcome the stigma I had developed because of some shitty thing a dumb girl said to me when I was a angsty teen susceptible to the influence of others.

I started with a pump. Quickly realized I made the same mistake from 20+ years ago, the length was fine but the chamber was too wide. I got a 2nd pump, quality from a reputable supplier. Combined it with stretching and soft clamping. Big gains happened very quickly. So quickly that my wife very quickly caught on. "Fuck thats a tight fit!" Was the first comment she made I remember. It was a tight fit. There is a huge difference when you wear a cockring right after a pump sesh then have sex. Yet, she didn't ask if I was bigger, but she knew something was up.

I purchased an extender, and the lengthmaster. She assumed these were somehow related to the tools I use when building guitars. Luthiery is a hobby of mine. It wasn't until she noticed a weight hanging under my desk that it clicked. At that point I was about 5 months in. She asked if I could really hold up the lbs I had stationed near my desk. As a health conscious individual herself who goes to the gym every day she wanted to see how I worked out my penis. It was oddly fascinating to her. I attached a cup and sleeve and hung, then transfered to the extender, then told her about the bath pump. Key to a healthy relationship is honesty, even if it's embarrassing.

She said she knew something was different, that I felt bigger. She also said I didn't need to do any of this stuff. I told her about my ex. She said my ex was a dumb little girl who made me feel insecure because I did the same to her and that I should know that teenagers are vicious and fucking suck cause we have two. She then told me she understood and if doing it made me feel more confident I should continue but if she felt I was getting too big, there is such a thing, that I would have to stop. She has since referred to my PE work outs as her build a dick, and occasionally says things like, "Hey Mr big dick," before we have sex. Which is a huge ego boost. I have gained approximately 2 inches length and 1 inch girth in the last 9 months . Over all this has been an extremely positive experience, but is even better having a woman who not only understands me, and why I do PE, but also encourages me to continue.

 

[DLD]

My current girlfriend is supportive of PE. She is worried that I might become too thick for her though. I'm making sure she gets used to the temporary expansion by using it on her after my session.

I'm doing PE for myself and won't stop until I cement 7 inches of midshaft girth.

Love your attitude! I always did it for my self. The entire time, even when she said it was too much, I still went on to go for my goal. Granted, I did lose my girlfriend but I gained so much more then she was worth.

 

[huge-girth]

Love your attitude! I always did it for my self. The entire time, even when she said it was too much, I still went on to go for my goal. Granted, I did lose my girlfriend but I gained so much more then she was worth.

I agree with all you have written Boss. I have same mindset. I always ask myself this question 'what if I stop PE to please her and then one day we break.up'

I will be the biggest loser to stop PE because of my partner. When it comes to my girth goal, it's my way or the highway.

 

[DLD]

I agree with all you have written Boss. I have same mindset. I always ask myself this question 'what if I stop PE to please her and then one day we break.up'

I will be the biggest loser to stop PE because of my partner. When it comes to my girth goal, it's my way or the highway.

That's the attitude that will get you to where you want to not worrying what other people think but doing it for yourself. This will give you the ultimate confidence in whatever you do

 

[huge-girth]

That's the attitude that will get you to where you want to not worrying what other people think but doing it for yourself. This will give you the ultimate confidence in whatever you do

Yes Sir