Horrible flaccid dick experience!

jekyllnhyde360

jekyllnhyde360

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first off, ill start off by saying im 7x5.1, so im not huge but im definitely not small when erect!
Anyways, today i had a girl from my class sit on my lap, now i am not a shower by any means, plus i have the bonus of being over weight (sarcasm)
so when she was sitting on my lap, she was like, i can feel your dick, and then she was like it's small. <:( >:(
i felt like saying, bitch im prob bigger than half the dudes in this class.
so now she's being all weird with me and i don't know what to do, but fuck her anyways!!!!
my main reason for typing this, is because if there is any way possible on becoming a shower, i NEED to know how?
and i've already done the wrap technique, also i've worn an [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]extender[/words].
doesn't work for me.
is their anything in the world that can give you a big hang?
 
jekyllnhyde360;626117 said:
first off, ill start off by saying im 7x5.1, so im not huge but im definitely not small when erect!
Anyways, today i had a girl from my class sit on my lap, now i am not a shower by any means, plus i have the bonus of being over weight (sarcasm)
so when she was sitting on my lap, she was like, i can feel your dick, and then she was like it's small. <:( >:(
i felt like saying, bitch im prob bigger than half the dudes in this class.
so now she's being all weird with me and i don't know what to do, but fuck her anyways!!!!
my main reason for typing this, is because if there is any way possible on becoming a shower, i NEED to know how?
and i've already done the wrap technique, also i've worn an [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]extender[/words].
doesn't work for me.
is their anything in the world that can give you a big hang?
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I had a similar experience a few years back. Back then I had a very hot body, and would get a lot of attention from women without even trying. I went to strip club one night and this one stripper was into me and gave me a free lap dance. At the end of it she put her teeth on my bulge and when she did she looked up at me, and got up real quick and said she had to go. I guess I disappointed her lol.

Don't let that sort of thing get to you. Any woman who uses penis size against you, especially before you have even had sex with each other, is either a total size queen (I can't blame size queens, it isn't their fault) or just a stupid hoe trying to hurt your feelings. Fuck that bitch...

If you have tried the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?44-Ace-Strapped-Jims-Joint]UJW[/words] and extending options, then try edging without ejaculating more often or wear a loose fitting cockring throughout the day. Honestly though I think the best way to get a bigger flaccid is just to continue PE and let it slowly grow out along with your erect gains. If you are steady with your PE for the next couple of years you shouldn't ever have that problem again.
 
Never show weakness to girls. There is no point in it. Girls are all weak by nature lol. She probably acts weird cause you acted weird about your dick and her comment getting all serious and hurt.

It was a test. If she is so direct you should counter it with the same directness without getting serious about it.
If she sits on you and feels your dick she wants to fuck your dick 99%! If you are insecure about it and unable to take responsibility she will loose interest.
Doesnt have to do anything with your size.

[words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]Bathmate[/words] is the best tool to get a good flaccid and BTC stretches.
 
Never show weakness to girls. There is no point in it. Girls are all weak by nature lol. She probably acts weird cause you acted weird about your dick and her comment getting all serious and hurt.

It was a test. If she is so direct you should counter it with the same directness without getting serious about it.
If she sits on you and feels your dick she wants to fuck your dick 99%! If you are insecure about it and unable to take responsibility she will loose interest.
Doesnt have to do anything with your size.

[words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]Bathmate[/words] is the best tool to get a good flaccid and BTC stretches.
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I didn't get all serious and hurt , i just brushed it off like it was nothing, but she was acting different!
I was pissed, but she had no idea.
As for the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]BM[/words], i have an [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]x40[/words], i went to big, so i might have to buy an [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]x30[/words].
When using the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]BM[/words], i heard that after using it for a while, you'll start noticing that your flaccid stays big for hours after use , and i was just wondering how long do you have to use the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]bm[/words] before you start to get this benefit?

has your flaccid hang increased at all with your erect size gains? What other methods of PE have you done?
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i've gained an inch in length and 1/2 in girth, but i have no idea how big my flaccid length or girth was, to be honest, that was the last thing on my mind, i was just worried about erect gains.
 
Wow! I definitely see how that bothers you! Well, I agree 100% with the posts above, I am a grower too, the only way to help it is to just use [words=http://www.phallosan.com/shop/catalog/default.php?z=eNortjIxtVKyL0pNszWxMFcrSSxKTy2JL0hMT7U1UisoykyxtbBQSy4tLsnPjS8uKcrMS7dVsgZcMMpbEbo%2C]ADS[/words] and [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]extenders[/words] to keep your flaccid extended for LONG periods of time. YKM- you have been extending through the whole day- what improvements in flaccid did you get? :)
 
So, instead of wearing your heart on your sleeve and letting her comment go to your head...assuming it was an insult right off and not a tongue in cheek "show me" challenge, why not either:

1) Get over it dude, there are plenty of women out there. We have the cookies too. Women aren't the only ones who can string us along. Quit buying into the bullshit in society that says women run the world, they really don't.

2) Prove her otherwise. Bone her like you own her. The rest is up to you.
 
Anyway girl sitting on your lap means she wants to fuck you. If you want too you should take initiative after her first sign ;)

jekyllnhyde360;626161 said:
I didn't get all serious and hurt , i just brushed it off like it was nothing, but she was acting different!
I was pissed, but she had no idea.
As for the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]BM[/words], i have an [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]x40[/words], i went to big, so i might have to buy an [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]x30[/words].
When using the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]BM[/words], i heard that after using it for a while, you'll start noticing that your flaccid stays big for hours after use , and i was just wondering how long do you have to use the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]bm[/words] before you start to get this benefit?



i've gained an inch in length and 1/2 in girth, but i have no idea how big my flaccid length or girth was, to be honest, that was the last thing on my mind, i was just worried about erect gains.
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3-4 sets of 6 minutes give me a good flaccid all day.
Try playing with cold and warm water in exchange.

Then you can also wear a not so tight cockring.
Some Jelqs(before after pissing) throughout the day help too.
 
That sounds like a bad experience. She probably is a bitch.
Could have been a good moment to say: "Well, you should see it, when I'm turned on."
 
stillwantmore2;626178 said:
So, instead of wearing your heart on your sleeve and letting her comment go to your head...assuming it was an insult right off and not a tongue in cheek "show me" challenge, why not either:

1) Get over it dude, there are plenty of women out there. We have the cookies too. Women aren't the only ones who can string us along. Quit buying into the bullshit in society that says women run the world, they really don't.

2) Prove her otherwise. Bone her like you own her. The rest is up to you.
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wise words
 
Play right into it. Next time you see her ask her out but in the same question make sure you reestablish that you have a small penis. Say something like "My penis looks just like a penis only smaller" She will laugh and you will charm her. Once the time comes for sex she will be expecting something completely different than what you have. Pull out that 7 x 5 and slay her. She will go on to tell her entire world that you are huge. There is no sweeter revenge.
 
jekyllnhyde360;626236 said:
D, that sounds like a fucking plan! :cool:

i would hit it to, thats why it sucked, but she didnt say shit today.
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You as the man have to make the moves, you can't wait for her to say something. The longer you fail to address it the weirder it gets, so just say something about it and move on.
 
You knowing the fact that its bigger than most guys still affects your sentiments ????? well the best way to get your revenge is flash it to her somehow purposely so she can see and gets turned on by you........rest you know what to do rofl
 
Hey man ignore what these girls are saying, they have no idea. While i was doing intense girth sessions 2x a day and was at my max girth, i wen to a strip club with a friend.
Prior to that i had a [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]bathmate[/words] pump session, at the time after girth session i was at 6.5+ EG. So it is fair to say that my flaccid was at 6.5 length and 5.7 or more girth.
So we were joking with the stippers and one was putting her heal in my crotch then went and super lightly grabbed my dick, barely touching it then went on to say "it wasnt big". I said YES with a huge smile. (internally her commed hit me but i knew my dick was huge so i stopped thinking about it)
Later that night when we were leaving she was with her back on the pole standing and i was infront of her, she was doing some kind of dance on me.Then i started to get hard, and i told her it getting hard, then she grabbed it and while i was looking at her eyes, they were WIDE OPEN, as well as her nipples became hard and she became super nervous. Needless to say her little hand couldnt grab even half of my dick lol.

I think some women are talking without thinking, or she thinks you are so confident that saying that your dick is small is like a joke.
I have 1 or 2 similar situations with different girls, saying similar stuff.Until i position my dick in a way they can take a good feel at it and grab their hand and put it on my dick, then from confident small dick shamers they become nervous as fuck. :)
If a girl says something similar to me, i start to escalate sexually on her and make sure i put her hand on it or do something so she feels it a little better. I always say my dick is small, it takes the pressure of from me, and i dont feel anexiety that way.
Also another idea is to start asking her aobut her pussy, how much dick she can take, is her pussy tight etc.Start acting like a man judging her pussy quality (do this in a joking way, just like her) if she wants to play that game she deserved it :P
 
ishuge;626364 said:
Hey man ignore what these girls are saying, they have no idea. While i was doing intense girth sessions 2x a day and was at my max girth, i wen to a strip club with a friend.
Prior to that i had a [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]bathmate[/words] pump session, at the time after girth session i was at 6.5+ EG. So it is fair to say that my flaccid was at 6.5 length and 5.7 or more girth.
So we were joking with the stippers and one was putting her heal in my crotch then went and super lightly grabbed my dick, barely touching it then went on to say "it wasnt big". I said YES with a huge smile. (internally her commed hit me but i knew my dick was huge so i stopped thinking about it)
Later that night when we were leaving she was with her back on the pole standing and i was infront of her, she was doing some kind of dance on me.Then i started to get hard, and i told her it getting hard, then she grabbed it and while i was looking at her eyes, they were WIDE OPEN, as well as her nipples became hard and she became super nervous. Needless to say her little hand couldnt grab even half of my dick lol.

I think some women are talking without thinking, or she thinks you are so confident that saying that your dick is small is like a joke.
I have 1 or 2 similar situations with different girls, saying similar stuff.Until i position my dick in a way they can take a good feel at it and grab their hand and put it on my dick, then from confident small dick shamers they become nervous as fuck. :)
If a girl says something similar to me, i start to escalate sexually on her and make sure i put her hand on it or do something so she feels it a little better. I always say my dick is small, it takes the pressure of from me, and i dont feel anexiety that way.
Also another idea is to start asking her aobut her pussy, how much dick she can take, is her pussy tight etc.Start acting like a man judging her pussy quality (do this in a joking way, just like her) if she wants to play that game she deserved it :P
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Wow! That was a good read deifinitely! That fucking stripper must've been dumb as f*ck to tell you you weren't big! Good to have you back ishuge! :)
 
jekyllnhyde360;626236 said:
D, that sounds like a fucking plan! :cool:

i would hit it to, thats why it sucked, but she didnt say shit today.
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She is only playing it off, be charming and give her time and most of all make her laugh, she will come around and when she does you can prove to her just how small BIG is:) I kind of like the idea of having a small flaccid size that grows into a monster, it gives us more mental warfare to attack with. You are a good dude with a large penis and she will know the truth because I know you will not let this go until you conquer!
 
jekyllnhyde360
is their anything in the world that can give you a big hang?
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A couple of things that I haven't seen posted yet ... these are more of a temporary effect, (the gained size will wear back off if you stop doing them) but they are fast and will give you a larger difference than just a typical post-PE flaccid.

Look up any make of Arginine Alpha-Ketoglutarate. Products by Swansonvitamins.com , or Bulksupplements.com , or Prima Force (check bodybuilding.com) are low cost and high quality. Taken for several days in a row, AAKG should begin to give you a noticeably fuller hang - ongoing 'semi'/'chubby'.

(If I'm doing an AAKG series at the gym, - as a vasodilator it helps with repair speed and nutrient transport - the difference in my flaccid hang is enough to make my dick kindof aggravating ... like it's always in the way, and you have to watch out about staying out of the water on strange toilets, etc. But it hangs Huge and the printing effect under clothing is really impressive.)

((Spent a couple of minutes getting nuked in a terahertz scanner going through Denver International one time while some T'S'A fa**ots stared at it ... still feel a certain kind of way about that, but I digress))

If you see similar references to L-Citruline Malate 2:1 Complex, that stuff is great for remaining in the body longer for a positive effect on erections and/or erection hardness ... but doesn't have the same increase in flaccid size as AAKG in my experience.

There are articles on this stuff all over here at [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MoS[/words] going back 5 if not 10 years ..

And if you're not going to be getting naked in front of the chick -at that very moment- find yourself a soft (silicone or rubber) cock ring that fits you without being tight, a snug but not strong fit. This, after a few minutes, will chub you out like crazy, and you should be able to wear it for hours without any problems. The light fit will give you a big chub .. for impressiveness .. but not an actual erection .. which could seem creepy or needy. And the ring itself shouldn't be noticeable through clothing. (Be careful to verify that there are no problems in private where you can experiment and keep watch over it before going out clothed in public where you cannot keep a watch on it. It should never hurt or get dark colors.) Check out the cock rings that are made in a 'flat' style, their force will be spread out over a bigger area and the skin/tissue at your dick's base will thank you for it.

Either one of these tricks could do what you're after. Both of them would be obnoxious. :cool: Plus go ahead with regular PE to get the permanent effects across time, if anything these two tricks will also help with that as well.
 
No individual woman is worth bothering oneself over except possibly a wife or mother of your children. There are plenty of women out there, so although you should still go for this one, don't let it get to you. The only good part about a woman commenting on your size is it should spur you to keep pushing your PE to make yourself the size you want.
 
A couple of things that I haven't seen posted yet ... these are more of a temporary effect, (the gained size will wear back off if you stop doing them) but they are fast and will give you a larger difference than just a typical post-PE flaccid.

Look up any make of Arginine Alpha-Ketoglutarate. Products by Swansonvitamins.com , or Bulksupplements.com , or Prima Force (check bodybuilding.com) are low cost and high quality. Taken for several days in a row, AAKG should begin to give you a noticeably fuller hang - ongoing 'semi'/'chubby'.

(If I'm doing an AAKG series at the gym, - as a vasodilator it helps with repair speed and nutrient transport - the difference in my flaccid hang is enough to make my dick kindof aggravating ... like it's always in the way, and you have to watch out about staying out of the water on strange toilets, etc. But it hangs Huge and the printing effect under clothing is really impressive.)

((Spent a couple of minutes getting nuked in a terahertz scanner going through Denver International one time while some T'S'A fa**ots stared at it ... still feel a certain kind of way about that, but I digress))

If you see similar references to L-Citruline Malate 2:1 Complex, that stuff is great for remaining in the body longer for a positive effect on erections and/or erection hardness ... but doesn't have the same increase in flaccid size as AAKG in my experience.

There are articles on this stuff all over here at [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MoS[/words] going back 5 if not 10 years ..

And if you're not going to be getting naked in front of the chick -at that very moment- find yourself a soft (silicone or rubber) cock ring that fits you without being tight, a snug but not strong fit. This, after a few minutes, will chub you out like crazy, and you should be able to wear it for hours without any problems. The light fit will give you a big chub .. for impressiveness .. but not an actual erection .. which could seem creepy or needy. And the ring itself shouldn't be noticeable through clothing. (Be careful to verify that there are no problems in private where you can experiment and keep watch over it before going out clothed in public where you cannot keep a watch on it. It should never hurt or get dark colors.) Check out the cock rings that are made in a 'flat' style, their force will be spread out over a bigger area and the skin/tissue at your dick's base will thank you for it.

Either one of these tricks could do what you're after. Both of them would be obnoxious. Plus go ahead with regular PE to get the permanent effects across time, if anything these two tricks will also help with that as well.
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Dude, that was awesome, thank you man, i will deff be getting some AAKG!
She is only playing it off, be charming and give her time and most of all make her laugh, she will come around and when she does you can prove to her just how small BIG is I kind of like the idea of having a small flaccid size that grows into a monster, it gives us more mental warfare to attack with. You are a good dude with a large penis and she will know the truth because I know you will not let this go until you conquer!
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I see what your saying, but honestly i would rather have a big bulge either way! LOL ;)

Hey man ignore what these girls are saying, they have no idea. While i was doing intense girth sessions 2x a day and was at my max girth, i wen to a strip club with a friend.
Prior to that i had a [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]bathmate[/words] pump session, at the time after girth session i was at 6.5+ EG. So it is fair to say that my flaccid was at 6.5 length and 5.7 or more girth.
So we were joking with the stippers and one was putting her heal in my crotch then went and super lightly grabbed my dick, barely touching it then went on to say "it wasnt big". I said YES with a huge smile. (internally her commed hit me but i knew my dick was huge so i stopped thinking about it)
Later that night when we were leaving she was with her back on the pole standing and i was infront of her, she was doing some kind of dance on me.Then i started to get hard, and i told her it getting hard, then she grabbed it and while i was looking at her eyes, they were WIDE OPEN, as well as her nipples became hard and she became super nervous. Needless to say her little hand couldnt grab even half of my dick lol.

I think some women are talking without thinking, or she thinks you are so confident that saying that your dick is small is like a joke.
I have 1 or 2 similar situations with different girls, saying similar stuff.Until i position my dick in a way they can take a good feel at it and grab their hand and put it on my dick, then from confident small dick shamers they become nervous as fuck.
If a girl says something similar to me, i start to escalate sexually on her and make sure i put her hand on it or do something so she feels it a little better. I always say my dick is small, it takes the pressure of from me, and i dont feel anexiety that way.
Also another idea is to start asking her aobut her pussy, how much dick she can take, is her pussy tight etc.Start acting like a man judging her pussy quality (do this in a joking way, just like her) if she wants to play that game she deserved it
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First of all, thanks for sharing!
And secondly, yes im beginning to believe that woman have no idea wtf their talking about, at the post expansion size you where at, you would have still been huge flaccid dude!
 
These days Western societies, and actually all societies around the world, have completely changed in terms of the relations between the sexes. Before men had a lot more power, and now that women have come to be sexually liberated they are in a phase of going overboard. Making fun of a guy about his dick is common practice, so don't let it bug you.

On the other hand, I have some particularly good news for you. If this girl was sitting on your lap and decided to neg you (this is a term from the PUA community that basically means a comment where you try to lower a high value person's self esteem just a little bit), then it means you came off as really cool and confident. She was probably internally intimidate by you and wanted to throw that out there to see how you would handle it. I would seriously try to make something happen with that girl if I were you.
 
Yeah that penis humiliation thing is a terrible thing...but whit that kind of stuff its not a hard thing to see their way of thinking
 
If ask her how small she thinks it is halfway down her throat. I'm narrowing down on the big 7" here, and I can bottom out all girls I hook up with and not a one of them can take more than 3/4 down their throat. Ruin that bitch's pussy, have her walking funny to class and ask her if she wants to put her tender hole on yer lap. Something tells me she would want to.
 
BornInFigi;626525 said:
Better yet, put it in her butt. ask how small it feels then.
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Just a side note, but according to many pornstars whose interviews I have seen they can apparently fit much more dick in their ass then they can in their vagina. That was pretty surprising to me and I am not so sure how true it is, but that is what they said.
 
boohoohoo;626654 said:
Just a side note, but according to many pornstars whose interviews I have seen they can apparently fit much more dick in their ass then they can in their vagina. That was pretty surprising to me and I am not so sure how true it is, but that is what they said.
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Makes sense. Vag is only like 4-6 inches deep. Rectums plus colons can go for miles.
 
boohoohoo;626654 said:
Just a side note, but according to many pornstars whose interviews I have seen they can apparently fit much more dick in their ass then they can in their vagina. That was pretty surprising to me and I am not so sure how true it is, but that is what they said.
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It has more capability but needs to be trained. Doesnt mean you can fuck a girl raw into the ass.

Ever shit a huge turd? Thats what an ass can take the other way too lol.
 
dickerschwanz;626775 said:
Ever shit a huge turd? Thats what an ass can take the other way too lol.
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That just confirmed my distaste for the Hershey Highway:)
 
boohoohoo;626654 said:
Just a side note, but according to many pornstars whose interviews I have seen they can apparently fit much more dick in their ass then they can in their vagina. That was pretty surprising to me and I am not so sure how true it is, but that is what they said.
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There's a simple, general rule of thumb here: big girth = won't fit well anally, big length = won't fit well vaginally and the other way around. If you got a long pencil dick, you will most likely have no problems to park it deeply in her butt (presumed that she likes anal), but you may have problems to go balls deep in her pussy, whereas a thick, short dick will hurt anally but usually it'll give much more pleasure vaginally than a thin one).

Edit: I strongly believe that these pornstars fall prey to the popular abbreviation of size=length, while it really is length+girth and thus this means an unjustified marginalization of girth. So often I've heard men and women outside of PE circles talkin about a small penis, which was at the same time considered "pretty girthy" as if it necessarily couldn't qualify as a big dick or as if a long pencil would necessarily make for a big one. Symptomatic of this is also the common talk about x inches in length while the very same persons aren't able to tell or don't even give a thought about measuring girth precisely in inches (or cm, that is). There's so much cliché to the whole length adoration.

Edit 2: I love the Hershey Highway and - just a small anecdote about personal experiences with the aforementioned rule of thumb - sadly my dick has gotten too thick to get in there lately.<:( It had been a manageable, though delicate and difficult task when I had been 5,5" pre-PE but once I surmounted the 5,8" mark every trial constantly failed due to too much pain.
 
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boohoohoo said:
I had a similar experience a few years back. Back then I had a very hot body, and would get a lot of attention from women without even trying. I went to strip club one night and this one stripper was into me and gave me a free lap dance. At the end of it she put her teeth on my bulge and when she did she looked up at me, and got up real quick and said she had to go. I guess I disappointed her LOL.

Don't let that sort of thing get to you. Any woman who uses penis size against you, especially before you have even had sex with each other, is either a total size queen (I can't blame size queens, it isn't their fault) or just a stupid hoe trying to hurt your feelings. Fuck that bitch...

If you have tried the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?44-Ace-Strapped-Jims-Joint]UJW[/words] and extending options, then try edging without ejaculating more often or wear a loose fitting cockring throughout the day. Honestly though I think the best way to get a bigger flaccid is just to continue PE and let it slowly grow out along with your erect gains. If you are steady with your PE for the next couple of years you shouldn't ever have that problem again.
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To contribute to this lovely post, I think losing the fat pad would help tremendously.
 
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