study shows "size matters"?

http://www.nydailynews.com/life-style/health/size-matter-bed-study-shows-article-1.1200988


personally, i think its bullshit. i was born above average length and girth. not bragging considering the site. my wife wont cum from sex only not matter what i do or how long. she cums multiple times if i use hands or mouth. she really doenst even like much vaginal penetration at all for cumming. makes me slow down or stop, put it in half way and rub her clit if she is trying to cum when im in her.

. she cums hardest from anal plus rubbing clit. im not super into anal, really because i cant put it in super deep or go hard, but she loves it so i do it.


ok, before i was married I had girls who could cum from vaginal sex only. one seemed like she could cum super easy and loved to ride it.

what im saying is I think the study is BS some what because women are women and they like what they like. the only way i could see it makes sense is if the lady is one who cums from penetration sex would enjoy a big one. the rest i doubt it matters, its actually probably worse. i know my wife starts to get in pain when im going deep and hard, i guess from hitting the cervix and stretching her out.

what do yall think?

I had a gf who could only come by clitoris stimulation, but she said she still enjoyed the feeling of vaginal sex very much.

My last gf I had was a sexual beast, she came from vaginal and even anal without other stimulation. She was 16 when we met(legal to have sex with girls as young as 15 in sweden. ^^) and we where togheter for 1.5 years. She liked it when you bottomed and smashed her cervix and came hard from g-spot stimulation. I think she would have liked the cock even bigger. But when we first met she couldn't come as easily from vaginal and g-spot stimulation but I think in a way I taught her by "awakening" her g-spot with loads of rubbing almost every time we had sex, and she just came easier and easier as time went by.

So I think that my first gf didn't care much about size, she didn't like bigger toys either.
My last gf would probably like bigger cocks but she easily came several times anyway every time we had sex, but since she was so in touch with her vag she would probably like to be really stretched out.

Only had 2 gf's and the other girls I've had sex with came as far as I know, even if I'm not that big. But I think almost all girls like a big cock visually and most girls probably like it a bit bigger than average. and of course there are size queens who like it really big.

well, a lot of girls might act like they are cumming. especially young ones who dont know any better. not saying you are wrong; almost every dude will say women they are with can come from vaginal sex but when you poll women the majority say they cant do it form vaginal alone. so someone isnt being honest in all these sexual situations.

watch her masturbate herself if you want to see their real "o face" ha. relationships are more reliable obviously. i do miss one girl i had who would always cum easy as hell and always finish by sucking me. she loved it.

Yea I get what you are saying, but I'm 100% sure my last gf came all those times. But she really was one of a kind, really sexual. If she was a man she would probably be a freakin rapist and sexual predator.

and I watched her masturbate loads of times .

But what I heard only 30% can come from vaginal sex, 70% needs stimulation on there clitoris. So if that's the case the size of the cock shouldn't matter 70% of the cases?

Most girls I met come from Vaginal sex, some from both stim clit and vaginal.

The thing is, all pussies are different, women experience sex differently from other women. Orgasm is usually mental, it's how you have treat her outside bed, it's the way you treat her in bed. A bigger cock can be a big mental stimulation, which will make it easier (the study says, bigger cock makes it easier) to achieve an vaginal orgasm. If you train your girl well, she can cum even when she sucks you off or when you lick her nipple. That is how powerful women brains are when it comes to sexual stimulation. Almost every women is capable of squirting as well, but if she hasn't learnt it (it's a learnt thing is most cases) by herself, it has a lot to do with trust outside and inside the bedroom.

Bigger penis gives women extra stimulation, mentally and physically at the same time. And to the OP, you are trying to compare the study to one or two women your wife and your past girlfriend, if you guys are basing your experience on 2 girls only it's not going to give you anything but false believe.

There are women who believe they can orgasm only from the stimulation of their clitoris, but the same women will admit to being able to orgasm vaginally after they had a bigger lover than usual. And this comes from my experience.

And about the study, again, it says bigger penis = EASIER vaginal orgasm. It doesn't say bigger penis = vaginal orgasm all the time. Before you hate any study and thing it is BS, re-read what it actually says and claims. There are 100 different factors that play a role in vaginal orgasms of women. Even more important factor is the mental aspect.

im not really only basing it off my experiences, just what other studies have said. like i mentioned and its showing in this thread; every guy so far says all their woman comes from vaginal only but when women have been polled (multiple different studies) they always say that most need clitoral stimulation. probably one reason you dont see girls cumming all the time getting railed in �naked people movies�os... i mean, how many strokes is it gonna take im sure some can learn to cum from only vaginal intercourse just like guys can learn to cum from prostate stimulation only. it just might take a long time to master.

if you have lesbian friends ask them about their sex and what they do. some are using strapons or huge dildos but not all of them. the girls i know do oral and fingering mostly. i don't think you can argue that only women who dont like penetration become lesbians. lesbians do a lot of stuff other than penetration and i would place money that the % of them that get off everytime with sex is waay higher than guy/girl sex. ha

maybe most need clitioral stimulation because their guys are small but i really doubt thats the case.

they should have asked the girls if they masturbate and how long it was since last time they had sex. im pretty certain that would make more of an impact for them to cum regardless of their partners size.

on the flip side: i was with one girl who was super tight like a fist and it didn't make it easier for me to cum. it actually took longer i think because it could hurt or make it hard to slide around. however she told me i was the only guy who ever made her cum vaginally. she was surprised because she didnt think she could. so maybe the study is true i had sex with her multiple times, including threesomes with another guy and she def preferred me. i wonder what she would think about me today

The thing with women saying they need clitoral stimulation to cum is that in a lot of cases those women don't even think achieving vaginal orgasm is possible. This comes from the inexperience of guys those women have been with in the past and limiting beliefs according to orgasms women have and also those women have often partners with small penises which can be a big factor too. So again, it's most likely mentally on the side of women, but it has a lot to do with the mentality of guys as well, as a lot of guys believe clitoral way is the only way.
Most of women will tell that a penis size doesn't matter, but sense of humor does those women are usually the ones who never experienced a big one, but when they actually get into a really big penis, they don't care about their sense of humor.

when you are having senx unless you are super huge chances are you are rubbing against her clit as you go all the way in. In a sense you are making her cum from penetration, but also stimulating her clit through rubbing your body against it.

What's the surprise about 5.8 inches? I don't get it.

walkingmoon;519020 said:

The thing with women saying they need clitoral stimulation to cum is that in a lot of cases those women don't even think achieving vaginal orgasm is possible. This comes from the inexperience of guys those women have been with in the past and limiting beliefs according to orgasms women have and also those women have often partners with small penises which can be a big factor too. So again, it's most likely mentally on the side of women, but it has a lot to do with the mentality of guys as well, as a lot of guys believe clitoral way is the only way.
Most of women will tell that a penis size doesn't matter, but sense of humor does those women are usually the ones who never experienced a big one, but when they actually get into a really big penis, they don't care about their sense of humor.

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well, odds are they had partners with average penises. thats how averages work. they are just as likely to find a monster as they are a micro, which is not likely for most women. most women dont have a lot of partners so that would also limit the likelyhood they found a partner with a small dick.

and unless you put it back in after you cum and keep fucking her.. or you had to hold off while she got off... odds are she didnt get off on penetration and you better not just roll over after you nut.

to me, it makes sense that women need clitoral stimulation because the clit is basically a dick head. thats what a dick head was before it developed into a dick in the womb. so, most dudes need to have their dick head rubbed to cum.... correct? ok then. well, a womans clit does have nerves that extend around the sides of the hole... and internally they have spot (so called g-spot area) that is also sensitive, similar to mans prostate area. (in likeness not location).

Im not saying that penetrative sex orgasm is impossible, ive had women that can do it. im an excellent lover and have always been, so i tend to have had multiple experiences with the same women (they want more)... you get to know what works and in my experience some women like different things and it doesnt have anything to do with my dick or my love making. my dick was always fat and bigger than 5.8. it didnt matter.

anyway, neglecting the clit is some rookie shit and you probably wont get many call backs. women talk about their lovers, my girl does hair so I hear it all. you wouldnt believe the number of women who never get off and just fake it rather than hurt their partners feelings. a lot of women talk a bunch of shit when men arent around, believe that.


to the study... pretty sure its bullshit. does anyone think they really found women with average size partners and then had them fuck guys with 8 inchers to see if they came easier? thats what the title implies: bigger dicks make women cum easier but i 100% guarantee thats not how they collected data. some women jsut come easier in general... and I doubt accurate measurements were even taken.

it was probably self reports if anything and we all know how great women are at doing accurate measurements with their eyes haha. how much bigger than average would it need to be? 6 inches instead of 5.8? 7 inches? is that big enough to send them to the moon vaginally? or do you need to be dld and get her eyes rolling back and toes curled before you even put it in?

Fair enough, women always thought I was an inch bigger than I was. This is unsolicited stuff in relationships. Not one night stands.

They don't specify how they got these results.

Women say their mans penis is size X. We all know what girls know about penis size. 7" is 9".

More bogus sex science.

Most women I've slept with prefer lots of oral over vag pen. It's a good trade, I prefer more oral over vag pen too.

Not all people are sexually compatible for one another. Mother told me to always test drive several times before you commit to buy.

who is interested from pg. 4 on
study/survey

but the most important part is :


Thus the Landis data distinguish between the two groups of
women much less reliably than do the Bonaparte data. However,
taken together the two studies suggest that a CUMD(clitoral-urinary meatus
distance) in the region of
2.5 cm distinguishes between those women likely to experience
orgasm in intercourse and those where such orgasm is unlikely to
occur.


hope this helps.


My prior gf had a bigger distance and she came really hard (tough workout for me, but had about 30lbs less)
my actual gf has a small distance and she is able to cum within a few seconds and depending on her stamina cum 3-8 times before she gives up,
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The study is correct, i laugh at the sili comments by guys who say size doesnt matter, thats just something say to save your feelings.

Threak-X;519582 said:

Not all people are sexually compatible for one another. Mother told me to always test drive several times before you commit to buy.

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Unless you are able to test drive indefinitely for free My Mother says, "why buy the cow when you get the milk for free?"

Of course it matters, would we be here if it didn`t....

It`s not like there`s whole forums dedicated to growing your nose or your ears, ppl want to make certain parts of their body bigger because they`ll be more useful.

I am in my 40's now so I can't say much about the studies other than my own personal experience. I was at the average of 5.8" and although my sexual experience in the number of partners isn't high I have had my share of different size women, different races, virgins, had babies and those that have had multiple lovers. What I have found that it isn't always the size but how you use it. Foreplay is the biggest key, stimulating the nipples, skin, clitoris, gspot prior to penetration is key. Then when you penetrate if you go deep enough and rub her clit with your pubic bone that is a plus. If you take her from behind and your balls slap her clit or you rub her clit without hands that is a plus. Most women like rear entry or doggy because the penis if angled right stimulates the spot and you can hit that with your finger depth so a penis is usually plenty long enough and the balls slap the clit. I have found that my partners that have had men of all sizes tell me that girth is still more important as well as foreplay. I think that quite often women associate a long dick as more pleasurable because often with length comes girth.

I have only had a few partners that weren't orgasmic but these also were women that have never masturbated and orgasmed on their own. Some I was able to teach how to orgasm and they were some of the best partners I had because I gave them a gift that they could enjoy the rest of their lives. It was always fun when they experienced that first real orgasm and that body loses control. It was always fun to run into their girlfriends later because women talk and you know when they enjoy sex they share it with their girlfriends. So the girlfriends that have lousy partners are always a little flirty with you. I have had a few girlfriends that have shared me with their friends because they wanted their friends to experience the same thing.

It is always good when you have a reputation of being a great lover. I am married now but have the itch to go out and have some fun now that I am almost 7" now and a little more girth. I have a friend who just lost alot of weight who is damn sexy and isn't happy with her husband she says he is lousy in bed and has a 4" penis doesn't eat pussy and she hasn't experienced an orgasm. She has already had an affair and thinking about a divorce but the guy she had an affair with is bigger and she enjoyed it so she thinks a bigger cock is all she needs but she still hasn't had an orgasm. We kid about me giving her the big O but haven't taken it to that level yet. She doesn't know that I am bigger than the guy she had an affair with. I told her that I bet I could give her an orgasm without even dropping my pants. She is intrigued by it. I told her that she should openly discuss sex with her husband and I bet he could become a great lover if he wanted to. I know several women I have talked with say that they have been with men with small penises that could give them orgasms.

So the moral of the story is it isn't always the size of the boat but the motion on the ocean. Although if you have large boat and you know how to sail it is always easier to stay afloat.

magicjohnson;521112 said:

Of course it matters, would we be here if it didn`t....

It`s not like there`s whole forums dedicated to growing your nose or your ears, ppl want to make certain parts of their body bigger because they`ll be more useful.

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True that! But I think we would still want bigger cocks despite women, I think the penis competitiveness is very ambient with males to males.