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has anyone heard of PT-141? its a libido drug for erections and im wondering if anyone knows anything about it? does it work? and where can you buy it? maybe it will help with overcoming performance anxiety especially if its taken with Viagra or something
 
length;588388 said:
has anyone heard of PT-141? its a libido drug for erections and im wondering if anyone knows anything about it? does it work? and where can you buy it? maybe it will help with overcoming performance anxiety especially if its taken with Viagra or something

From what I have heard, it acts on the same mechanisms that melanotan I&II also produce. So also ask someone that has tried melanotan.

If your performance anxiety stems from not being aroused enough or not being able to obtain/keep an erection, then that would be the only reason it would work for performance anxiety.

You might describe your performance anxiety as this can be very broad in terms of what it means depending on the individual.
 
smerc;588389 said:
From what I have heard, it acts on the same mechanisms that melanotan I&II also produce. So also ask someone that has tried melanotan.

If your performance anxiety stems from not being aroused enough or not being able to obtain/keep an erection, then that would be the only reason it would work for performance anxiety.

You might describe your performance anxiety as this can be very broad in terms of what it means depending on the individual.

when I try and have sex in a one night stand situation I usually cant because im too nervous, I get a flood of thoughts through my head and I just lose all arousal
 
length;588390 said:
when I try and have sex in a one night stand situation I usually cant because im too nervous, I get a flood of thoughts through my head and I just lose all arousal

Sounds like a slight panic attack as long as you're not sweating or heart gets palpitating. Do you have past anxiety problems outside of sex?

There are probably a few different ways to attack it.

Would help to know what the thoughts were.

Do they stem from past experiences?
How many successful sex experiences have you had versus how many didn't occur due to anxiety?
Are they all only related to performance issues? Not that you can't perform if you didn't have anxiety, just that you can't because the anxiety is too overwhelming.

The fact that it's a girl you don't know in a ONS situation has no bearing on whether or not you're going to get anxiety?
Meaning, you're not the nervous type around women, it's just the fact that having sex is the hard part due to anxiety?

You said ONS situation. Is the situation only in the bedroom or does it also happen in the process of gaming a chick to get her to your bedroom?
Going to assume it's only bedroom related since you stated you lose arousal (even though you can lose arousal heading to the bedroom since that's when those thoughts might start racing).


Not trying to beat around the bush, just trying to get a better sense of what you're actually dealing w/ here.
Seems like you want to have sex since you're making this thread. It just seems the drive drops when the anxiety occurs.
So libido is probably not the issue here. Seems more of a serotonin/imbalance issue.


I guess the better question is: If you knew you were able to perform in bed (as in keep libido & erection), do you think you would you still get anxiety?
 
outside of sex id say im a fairly anxious guy, nothing to outrageous but I do tend to be anxious about stupid things sometimes. they might stem from past experiences, everytime ive attempted to get an erection with a girl for the first time ive failed so that probably dosent help. id say that im mostly axious about performance issues. im not that nervous around women its only when im trying to have sex. I think I would benefit from knowing I could perform, I also wonder if she will think I have a big cock or not. any help I can get would be appreciated
 
Some guys on a one night stand situation tend to be nervous about measuring up to her previous encounters. This usually means that you are too sober. So have several hard drinks, take some, viagra, play a drinking game in the bedroom with her. Now when ready: ATTACK.
 
length;590381 said:
everytime ive attempted to get an erection with a girl for the first time ive failed so that probably dosent help.
length;590381 said:
when I try and have sex in a one night stand situation I usually cant because im too nervous, I get a flood of thoughts through my head and I just lose all arousal

You say you fail to get an "erection with a girl for the first time", then also say you can't "in a one-night-stand situation".

I almost got confused and thought this meant something different, but then realized that a ONS is always a first time w/ a new girl.

So you've been in a relationship(s) before and have no problem w/ libido/erections?

length;590381 said:
id say that im mostly axious about performance issues. im not that nervous around women its only when im trying to have sex. I think I would benefit from knowing I could perform, I also wonder if she will think I have a big cock or not. any help I can get would be appreciated


To be blunt. You're better off going the viagra/citrulline route in this case. As this will let you know if deadening libido is the cause.

You know, just reading everything you said would put someone in the position of automatically assuming it is the cause (lack of libido).

I look @ it this way, if you have the desire to want to fuck, then the libido is there.
It's just it gets all fucked up when there is a gap between wanting to fuck and being put in the position to fuck, where things can lose steam.
Like the chemicals that produce the urge/libido becoming drowned out by the act of sex itself, where the actual anxiety chemicals step in.

Anxiety is a tough nut to crack (no pun). This type of performance anxiety would be best suited/tamed from something like a beta-blocker.
Don't want to say to use something like that, that's your or your doctors call.


I tend to lean more on it being a pure anxiety issue, but I don't even want to begin to try to diagnose a problem in the mental serotonin area.
That type of question would be best suited for a more proper forum. Like someone coming in for bad EQ when their T levels are the problem.


I would aim towards a libido regimen and check off that box to see if that's the actual issue. Seems it's not since you probably have the urge/libido/good EQ, outside of a one-night-stand.
 
I agree with the first time anxiety especially if you can maintain a good erection in other situations. Viagra is a big help as long as you are sexually attached to your partner.
 
Forgot to mention, I would look @ cialis before viagra. Also look into the sides of each of them.

You could get by off just 5-10mg. Some people claim around 20mg, it just depends on the potency.
Each individual is different. Just use precautions or do your due-diligence.
 
First things first...do you wake up with a strong erection??? If so, It is completely performance anxiety. If you rarely or never have "morning wood"something else is the issue.

I had erection issues with one girl. It was an on and off relationship that should have just been off because it caused a lot of stress. We were better off as friends. But meditation helped a great deal. Meditation is tough and take diligent practice but it disconnected the stress from my sexual being allowing me to fuck her good even though i knew I should just move on because we were only a good match as friends.

I am sure meditation can help with performance anxiety
 
yes I have morning erections and have the libido when im not in a first time encounter situation. I think you guys are right. ill be less stressed I think if my dick can get bigger. ATM my dick is 7.5 NBPEL and 6.2 in girth, if I can get to 8.5-9 in length then I think all the performance anxiety will go out the window. im gonna need DLDs help to get me there hahaha :)
 
length;590587 said:
ATM my dick is 7.5 NBPEL and 6.2 in girth, if I can get to 8.5-9 in length then I think all the performance anxiety will go out the window

So, you're not going to have sex until you reach 8.5-9" as that will be the only time you assume you wont get 'performance anxiety'?

If you had less posts, I would think you were trolling us now. You're fine bro. Just work on getting laid, fixing your mental anxiety and increasing your size @ the same time.

I'm starting to get confused now. You've had sex before correct? That was a first time sexual encounter. What went wrong where?
 
Hey you are bigger than me and i make girls cum like crazy. I have great stamina. I am in very good shape. Exercise regularly. High intensity stuff. The girl i am fucking now has been with a guy with a 9'' cock and she says he didnt even come close to cumming with him like she does with me.

Are you in good physical shape? If not, get to it. Just my body turns her on and gets her close to cumming. You want to be in good shape so you never run out of breath.

A big cock with no stamina or rhythm is useless.
 
ive only had sex with 2 girls and they were both long term girl friends, anyone ive tried to have sex with just one time (one night stand) has failed miserably. why would I be trolling for? im in pretty good physical shape, I go to the gym everyday
 
I'm sorry bro. Never said you were trolling. I said if you had less posts, I would had thought you were trolling us given your stated measurements. It just started to seem like a joke that you have this anxiety over your speculation that a women might not like your size. You also stated the, "can I perform" issue, which actually kind of negates my original troll comment. Since that issue alone is probably leading more to your performance anxiety than the what if she might not like my size, thing.

I was under the impression you haven't had sex before (assumed that in my last post).

You have a good size and it seems you're not factoring in that you're well above average. You stated you feel "stressed" and that alone (being well above average) should take off any stress you're feeling.


You might think you will be put in the position of being shun by a girl as having a small dick. I wouldn't put any stock in this thought given your size. It's a rare case unless you're pretty small and your're just w/ one of those women where the true bitch comes out. I think if you get that 1 good fuck in or compliment, then that could change your whole mindset overnight and you could be out of the rut that you're in. Just go into every situation w/ confidence, but you have to build your confidence foundation first. I understand where you're coming from though. The whole idea of new person/new sex can be daunting to tackle. That's a perfect recipe for anxiety. I would say you shouldn't put any stress on yourself, but sometimes it's hard to put yourself in that mindset and that's why you're here it seems.


While you're @ it. There is a thread(or threads) here on making women cum (think it's in the sexuality section). I think squirting is discussed as well.
You might look these over. A lot of people get fucking good @ this and go into sexual situations w/ the mindset that they're going to dominate in the bedroom. I highly doubt any libido related anxiety would be present if you was to master this. This still might not negate any being w/ a 'new person' anxiety you may get. That stems much deeper.
 
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I agree. Sometimes major sexually active women cum quicker when you are physically/sexually man handling them. Similar to an agressive workout. If they think its going to be a lazy fuck session then they may give off a vibe for you to hurry up. But if they look into your eyes and foresee the mental and physical agressiveness that you are about to display then they will tend to enjoy letting you do what you want. So I think the poster should take testesterone pills plus viagra and drink a 5th of vodka. This should help mentally physically, emotionally and sexually. .
 
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youknowme123321;590576 said:
First things first...do you wake up with a strong erection??? If so, It is completely performance anxiety.

Exactly true.
 
My thoughts about mixing such combo are not really the best. Mixing any pharmaceutical with alcohol impacts the effects of the pill. Alcohol can tackle the anxiety problem the guy might be having but at the same time, it can pose a health risk for each person can react differently. I do not believe it is wise to advise doing so.
 
ult_mate;590673 said:
My thoughts about mixing such combo are not really the best. Mixing any pharmaceutical with alcohol impacts the effects of the pill. Alcohol can tackle the anxiety problem the guy might be having but at the same time, it can pose a health risk for each person can react differently. I do not believe it is wise to advise doing so.

Agree. It is good to avoid alcohol as a "fix" because it can turn ugly fast and become addictive and cause a slue of mental issues. A Viagra gives you not only a boner but a buzz too, alcohol would destroy that. In the end, what matters most is you feel attracted to your partner because without that component Viagra will do little.
 
Yeah, it's a tricky subject to start recommending such an action like that. If alcohol works for someone, then they might see no other alternatives and use that as the go-to thing while becoming dependent on it in the long run.


If alcohol did/does help: You might do some research on 5 htp(serotonin) and L-Theanine(GABA-B). This combination would work in the same way alcohol does (somewhat similar at least), but you wouldn't become impaired like you would under the influence of too much alcohol.

Both can be taken together, but I would recommend L-theanine first to start with.


If it doesn't: Just refer to my previous post about cialis. You can also use this w/ the above.
 
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