Premature Ejaculation Journey

Pineapplesavage;751731 said:
I see the benefits of edging. What was the timeframe you, for example when you started edging to the time you noticed you could cum on command. I know everyone is different. Just want to hear some success stories. Anyone chime in.

I'm still consistent with edging 10-15mins with no �naked people movies�.
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Not really sure as so much time has gone by. I think I spent about a year practicing many methods. Today I can simply go forever and cum on command, well thats where I was 10 years ago :)
 
doublelongdaddy;751775 said:
Not really sure as so much time has gone by. I think I spent about a year practicing many methods. Today I can simply go forever and cum on command, well thats where I was 10 years ago :)
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Good to hear.
 
Pineapplesavage;751810 said:
Good to hear.
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My Brother I will always be here and I will always be coming up with the next thing. I love what I do, it is not work, it is joy!
 
doublelongdaddy;751871 said:
My Brother I will always be here and I will always be coming up with the next thing. I love what I do, it is not work, it is joy!
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Thanks for the support. I can see it improving a little like a minute or 2 and I have working at this since august/September. I see the small progress. Having sex now for 4-5min going slow is better then 1-2min when I started.

Working diligently at it. Flashlight soon, hopefully in couple of days.
 
Pineapplesavage;751984 said:
Thanks for the support. I can see it improving a little like a minute or 2 and I have working at this since august/September. I see the small progress. Having sex now for 4-5min going slow is better then 1-2min when I started.

Working diligently at it. Flashlight soon, hopefully in couple of days.
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You doubled up your time, that is a huge accomplishment. The FleshLight will help[ you go even more, it feels so real that it is the best way to practice. Keep up the good work!
 
Pineapplesavage;753015 said:
Keeping up with edging. 10 min every other day. Let y'all know when the fleshlight is used
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10 minutes is trice as long as the average man can have intercourse. Big deal indeed and once the FleshLight comes you can double that.
 
on the subject of controlling the urge to ejaculate, I personally through control have not ejaculated in a quite a long time. I only do so through uncontrollable nocturnal emmisions once every few months

in the past when i got hooked on �naked people movies� i started ejaculating faster because of the excitement and quick masterbation technique

at some point a few years ago i became very good at kegels and reverse kegels. that's where the whole control thing started for me. from there on i developed extra techniques and here they are:

1. so the kegels i mostly used as a warm-up girth and eq exercise. BUT then i discovered that i loved holding kegels and edging. and since i wanted to edge longer because of the great feeling, i gradually learned to back off stimulating glans and below-glans and also too much stroking before PONR.

2. next i learned through experimentation a way to stop PONR right at its beginning. basically I do a TUCK CRUNCH when i feel i stimulated too far and felt that initial urge of PONR. the muscles during that crunch completely subdue the sensation. this is in a seated position u basically do a stomach crunch forward and lift knees to chest. it doesn't have to be full range of motion, even half way works for me. then i ease off for a bit, could be 15secs, 30secs, whatever, and then continue.

3. similar to 1 and 2, know when to back off and relax for a bit. overstimulating the urge to cum from any variety of ways is what needs to be controlled. u have to KEEP the mindset that u will not ejaculate. so that means controlling the urge from a variety of maneuvers: how u stroke, how much u stimulate the glans, not doing too much at once like holding a kegel while almost at PONR. holding the kegel is more useful before the PONR. at PONR it will actually trigger the ejaculation.. so these are some of the little things to learn through practice. they become intuitive and almost automatic once u practice more
 
ULTIM8GAINZ;753113 said:
on the subject of controlling the urge to ejaculate, I personally through control have not ejaculated in a quite a long time. I only do so through uncontrollable nocturnal emmisions once every few months

in the past when i got hooked on �naked people movies� i started ejaculating faster because of the excitement and quick masterbation technique

at some point a few years ago i became very good at kegels and reverse kegels. that's where the whole control thing started for me. from there on i developed extra techniques and here they are:

1. so the kegels i mostly used as a warm-up girth and eq exercise. BUT then i discovered that i loved holding kegels and edging. and since i wanted to edge longer because of the great feeling, i gradually learned to back off stimulating glans and below-glans and also too much stroking before PONR.

2. next i learned through experimentation a way to stop PONR right at its beginning. basically I do a TUCK CRUNCH when i feel i stimulated too far and felt that initial urge of PONR. the muscles during that crunch completely subdue the sensation. this is in a seated position u basically do a stomach crunch forward and lift knees to chest. it doesn't have to be full range of motion, even half way works for me. then i ease off for a bit, could be 15secs, 30secs, whatever, and then continue.

3. similar to 1 and 2, know when to back off and relax for a bit. overstimulating the urge to cum from any variety of ways is what needs to be controlled. u have to KEEP the mindset that u will not ejaculate. so that means controlling the urge from a variety of maneuvers: how u stroke, how much u stimulate the glans, not doing too much at once like holding a kegel while almost at PONR. holding the kegel is more useful before the PONR. at PONR it will actually trigger the ejaculation.. so these are some of the little things to learn through practice. they become intuitive and almost automatic once u practice more
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4. cock ring at base and/or scrotum ring will also delay the urge a bit to cum, but u still need to exercise control because u can still ejaculate with a cock ring at base and it comes out slow and sloppy from the urethra being constricted by the ring.

cheers
 
ULTIM8GAINZ;753113 said:
on the subject of controlling the urge to ejaculate, I personally through control have not ejaculated in a quite a long time. I only do so through uncontrollable nocturnal emmisions once every few months

in the past when i got hooked on �naked people movies� i started ejaculating faster because of the excitement and quick masterbation technique

at some point a few years ago i became very good at kegels and reverse kegels. that's where the whole control thing started for me. from there on i developed extra techniques and here they are:

1. so the kegels i mostly used as a warm-up girth and eq exercise. BUT then i discovered that i loved holding kegels and edging. and since i wanted to edge longer because of the great feeling, i gradually learned to back off stimulating glans and below-glans and also too much stroking before PONR.

2. next i learned through experimentation a way to stop PONR right at its beginning. basically I do a TUCK CRUNCH when i feel i stimulated too far and felt that initial urge of PONR. the muscles during that crunch completely subdue the sensation. this is in a seated position u basically do a stomach crunch forward and lift knees to chest. it doesn't have to be full range of motion, even half way works for me. then i ease off for a bit, could be 15secs, 30secs, whatever, and then continue.

3. similar to 1 and 2, know when to back off and relax for a bit. overstimulating the urge to cum from any variety of ways is what needs to be controlled. u have to KEEP the mindset that u will not ejaculate. so that means controlling the urge from a variety of maneuvers: how u stroke, how much u stimulate the glans, not doing too much at once like holding a kegel while almost at PONR. holding the kegel is more useful before the PONR. at PONR it will actually trigger the ejaculation.. so these are some of the little things to learn through practice. they become intuitive and almost automatic once u practice more
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Awesome stuff. Thank you
 
doublelongdaddy;753037 said:
10 minutes is trice as long as the average man can have intercourse. Big deal indeed and once the FleshLight comes you can double that.
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Little by little. Which kegel is better to focus on reverse kegel or kegel?
 
Pineapplesavage;753121 said:
Little by little. Which kegel is better to focus on reverse kegel or kegel?
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Kegels. Reverse Kegels are more for doing length work as when you engage a RK it allows the penis to be stretched without interference from connective muscles. Kegels are what will bring endurance and strength to your penis. If you follow the Kegel routine in the Newbie Routine is gives a great directions to Kegels and Reverse Kegels.
 
Pineapplesavage;753495 said:
Doublelongdaddy

Does it matter the pressure I use when doing Jelqing?
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Yes it does, you want to be at about 80% using a tight grip so as not to lose blood when switching hands. A much better method would be the Slow Squash Jelq as this is a closed end jelq that allows no blood to be released. Check it out and let me know what you think.
 
doublelongdaddy;753657 said:
Yes it does, you want to be at about 80% using a tight grip so as not to lose blood when switching hands. A much better method would be the Slow Squash Jelq as this is a closed end jelq that allows no blood to be released. Check it out and let me know what you think.
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Just read it, that is exactly what I'm doing.

I edge for 15-20min. Then go straight into squash Jelq. Couple times during the set I had to stop because for ponr. I try to do this every other day.
 
Pineapplesavage;753857 said:
Just read it, that is exactly what I'm doing.

I edge for 15-20min. Then go straight into squash Jelq. Couple times during the set I had to stop because for ponr. I try to do this every other day.
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Awesome, glad you are following this method, makes all the difference in the world.
 
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