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I'm Lasting 10sec to 2minutes. Frustrated. Any help and guidance is appreciated.


20min edging and reverse kegel.
-PONR at the end. Will do a better job focusing On not nutting.
 
Pineapplesavage;736574 said:
I'm Lasting 10sec to 2minutes. Frustrated. Any help and guidance is appreciated.


20min edging and reverse kegel.
-PONR at the end. Will do a better job focusing On not nutting.

Hello my new Brother! I can hear the frustration in your post and I want to bring some calm into your mind. Premature Ejaculation is something many of us had issues with when starting PE but have mastered it through different methods. Here are some of my own methods.




Pre-Mature Ejaculation

Pre-Mature Ejaculation is something many men suffer with. I have found many different ideas in helping with this that I have included below. I do want to say that this problem will fade from simply doing my program. When most men, myself included, got familiar with manual penis enlargement exercise the problem just seems to fade. The reason this problem does go away is the constant stimulation of the exercises. This constant stimulus trains the penis to last longer and longer. In the mean time here are some great techniques. Some are my own techniques, others I found around the web.

Becoming in touch with your orgasm
There is a very fine line between cuming and about to cum. making this distinction is the first step in having more staying power.

Identify your brink of orgasm
You will want to identify the fine line that separates cuming from about to cum. During this period pay special attention to what brings you almost to orgasm. What are your thoughts? How long does it take to get there? Keep Track of this information for future reference. The goal here is to paint a mental picture of your orgasm and identify just what brings you to this brink and what you can do to stop it.

Breathing to Reduce Excitement
Simply taking a deep breath at the brink of orgasm is a very effective way to reduce your excitement level and reset your orgasm. It does not work for everyone but it is worth trying.

Breathing to Reset Orgasm
When you feel that you are getting too close to orgasm, just completely stop and take a deep breath. Give yourself a minute or two to reset your mental orgasm. Once you feel that you have reset this mental orgasm continue with the confidence that the physical orgasm is far off. You will find with practice this process will give you longer and longer periods of staying power. Eventually this mental reset will happen automatically with no pause.

The Squeeze Techniques
When you feel close to your orgasm completely stop, pull out, take a deep breath and apply one of these two squeezing methods. One method usually works better for men than the other so try them both.

BASE SQUEEZE
at the brink of orgasm stop, take a deep breath. Using the OK grip squeeze the base of your penis and squeeze until the urge has faded.

UP SQUEEZE
at the brink of orgasm stop, take a deep breath. Using the forefinger and thumb squeeze the top and bottom of your penis just below the glans until the urge to orgasm has faded.

DLD Push
The DLD Push is a technique to prolong orgasm and remain erect after orgasm. This method involved a hard reverse kegel right at the brink of orgasm. It takes some practice but once it is mastered 4-5 orgasms are possible.

Reverse Psychology
A great technique that seems to work very well for me is the Reverse Psychology method. Previously to having sex I convince myself that I am going to have problems ejaculation.
 
It's an honor to hear from u doublelongdaddy. I've always checked these forums but now I really need help to get it under control.


I will practice these different techniques that u gave.

20min edge and reverse Kegel
-really focused on relaxing and not getting tense.
 
The way we masturbate and do edging can make a difference too. Typically we grab the shaft and start stroking, work the head here and there... when you have sex the head is getting constant stimulation, total reverse of how we normally edge and masturbate.

Are you in a relationship/having sex with someone regularly?
 
cladre60;736633 said:
The way we masturbate and do edging can make a difference too. Typically we grab the shaft and start stroking, work the head here and there... when you have sex the head is getting constant stimulation, total reverse of how we normally edge and masturbate.

Are you in a relationship/having sex with someone regularly?



Makes sense. I'm wanting to get this problem fix before I get anymore action.
 
Pineapplesavage;736642 said:
Makes sense. I'm wanting to get this problem fix before I get anymore action.

Like DLD said, identify your points and how to back down from them. A Fleshlight or similar toy can help as well. I had a toy years ago and it helped pick up my stamina when I was using it regularly.
 
Pineapplesavage;736620 said:
It's an honor to hear from u doublelongdaddy. I've always checked these forums but now I really need help to get it under control.


I will practice these different techniques that u gave.

20min edge and reverse Kegel
-really focused on relaxing and not getting tense.

It is an honor to have you as a Brother! You will get this under control, trust me. I had issues before I started and today I can cum on command and last as long as I like.
 
doublelongdaddy;736654 said:
It is an honor to have you as a Brother! You will get this under control, trust me. I had issues before I started and today I can cum on command and last as long as I like.

It doesn't take much for me to build up stamina. If I don't have sex for a few weeks it's gonna be a quickie, no doubt. If I've been working on stamina it will at least be a few minutes but still not very long. If I have sex again the next day my time will double, and will double again if I have sex a 3rd day or only skip 1 day. So if I go from no sex for a few weeks to having sex 4-5 times in a week I'm up to 30-45 minutes by the end of the week. My stamina builds super fast, always has, I just have to get 1-2 times out of the way and I'm golden.

Sex is the ultimate stamina builder. If you find a good woman she'll understand when you say "it's been a while so this might not last too long." I make sure she's taken care of first though. If she's really cool you can get a BJ out of the way, take a short break, then start on her while waiting to get hard again. Some women really get their ego stroked when they've made you cum twice and they come back for more.
 
cladre60;736677 said:
It doesn't take much for me to build up stamina. If I don't have sex for a few weeks it's gonna be a quickie, no doubt. If I've been working on stamina it will at least be a few minutes but still not very long. If I have sex again the next day my time will double, and will double again if I have sex a 3rd day or only skip 1 day. So if I go from no sex for a few weeks to having sex 4-5 times in a week I'm up to 30-45 minutes by the end of the week. My stamina builds super fast, always has, I just have to get 1-2 times out of the way and I'm golden.

Sex is the ultimate stamina builder. If you find a good woman she'll understand when you say "it's been a while so this might not last too long." I make sure she's taken care of first though. If she's really cool you can get a BJ out of the way, take a short break, then start on her while waiting to get hard again. Some women really get their ego stroked when they've made you cum twice and they come back for more.

Thanks for the encouragement. I'll look into a flesh light. I'm lucky to have a understanding partner but I feel it's time to improve before she gets tired of quickies and moves on.

What would ur routine be? Just wondering
 
doublelongdaddy;736654 said:
It is an honor to have you as a Brother! You will get this under control, trust me. I had issues before I started and today I can cum on command and last as long as I like.

To hear from u and cladre60 that it can be improved is music to my ears. Got to grind now.
 
Pineapplesavage;736680 said:
To hear from u and cladre60 that it can be improved is music to my ears. Got to grind now.

It's the same as if you wanted to run a marathon or become a power lifter or climb Everest - you've gotta put in the training and effort.

My biggest problem with using a toy like a Fleshlight is cleaning after you're done. All I want to do is wipe my dick off and relax or get something to eat, not go wash my cum out of it. That's the price of using it though and those toys do work.

Some times I'd start off and say the hell with stamina training, I'm going to get myself off as hard as possible and as fast as possible. I'd end up lasting longer than I thought I would and then the next day when going at a "normal pace" I'd have a lot more control.

I was seeing a girl at the time and we only got together on weekends. After about 2 weeks of using it daily and having sex with her on weekends I was no longer cumming from a BJ and then again during sex. I was able to hold off during a BJ and then control myself during sex.

I didn't have a Fleshlight, it was a silicone "pussy" with tickler things all inside it. From what I've been told the Fleshlight is even better.
 
cladre60;736686 said:
It's the same as if you wanted to run a marathon or become a power lifter or climb Everest - you've gotta put in the training and effort.

My biggest problem with using a toy like a Fleshlight is cleaning after you're done. All I want to do is wipe my dick off and relax or get something to eat, not go wash my cum out of it. That's the price of using it though and those toys do work.

Some times I'd start off and say the hell with stamina training, I'm going to get myself off as hard as possible and as fast as possible. I'd end up lasting longer than I thought I would and then the next day when going at a "normal pace" I'd have a lot more control.

I was seeing a girl at the time and we only got together on weekends. After about 2 weeks of using it daily and having sex with her on weekends I was no longer cumming from a BJ and then again during sex. I was able to hold off during a BJ and then control myself during sex.

I didn't have a Fleshlight, it was a silicone "pussy" with tickler things all inside it. From what I've been told the Fleshlight is even better.

Had a fleshlight thought the same thing to much cleaning. Lol.
 
cladre60;736686 said:
It's the same as if you wanted to run a marathon or become a power lifter or climb Everest - you've gotta put in the training and effort.

My biggest problem with using a toy like a Fleshlight is cleaning after you're done. All I want to do is wipe my dick off and relax or get something to eat, not go wash my cum out of it. That's the price of using it though and those toys do work.

Some times I'd start off and say the hell with stamina training, I'm going to get myself off as hard as possible and as fast as possible. I'd end up lasting longer than I thought I would and then the next day when going at a "normal pace" I'd have a lot more control.

I was seeing a girl at the time and we only got together on weekends. After about 2 weeks of using it daily and having sex with her on weekends I was no longer cumming from a BJ and then again during sex. I was able to hold off during a BJ and then control myself during sex.

I didn't have a Fleshlight, it was a silicone "pussy" with tickler things all inside it. From what I've been told the Fleshlight is even better.

Would u use ����?
 
doublelongdaddy;736654 said:
It is an honor to have you as a Brother! You will get this under control, trust me. I had issues before I started and today I can cum on command and last as long as I like.

Would u use ���� to edge?
 
Pineapplesavage;736746 said:
Doublelongdaddy is there any routine I can follow to the Tee?

This depends on, do you want to use tools or only your hands?
 
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