NoFap no �naked people movies� Accountability Thread

[Big Schwanz Acht]

The way I look at this in a analogical way is I am holding 12 donuts. Now I love my donuts and I do not want to have to give them up but at the same time I know these donuts are making me fat. So I do not start by throwing away all the donuts, no that would be a big mistake because once we say "I will not" or "I can't" or any other absolute negative it makes the challenge unsustainable and unrealistic. Put down half the donuts As time goes by you will have less and less donuts but you will start to see that you never needed the donuts to begin with And if you find a day when you slip up and have a donut, do not punish yourself or put yourself in a state of guilt, first give yourself credit for how far you have come and then resolve to make it father next time. For me it was 7 days, than 28 days, now I am shooting for 60.

I'm this way with Ice Cream...if I know there's ice cream in the freezer, I take a certain 'comfort' just knowing it's there...I don't necessarily have to have any.

 

[templnite]

You feel anticipation fat boi, because you know yor gonna fuck that icecream up when the caretaker's not looking

 

[Big Schwanz Acht]

You feel anticipation fat boi, because you know yor gonna fuck that icecream up when the caretaker's not looking

There's been many a shameful evening with just me, a spoon and the ice cream carton

 

[templnite]

Do you fall asleep crying and holding the carton very tight spooning nearly humping it <

 

[Big Schwanz Acht]

After I've had my way with it, I toss it in the trash

 

[templnite]

All soggy and that's not from the icecream you licked all that clean

 

[DLD]

31 days today! I broke a month and I feel so happy. There was occasion yesterday to fall into the same situation I did last time I made a month but I was able to recognize it this time and stop it before it became anything more than innocent. I am learning so much about myself and I am also learning that with my continued efforts I can begin to see women in the light they deserve, not as objects. Today I will not even look at a girl in fear of falling but I am starting to see this is not the smartest way. I think what I should focus on is talking with women, as I do my Brothers, and seeing the value they have as humans, not objects. I miss relationships with women, not in a sexual sense, but in a platonic way. I am sure these graces will come upon me, it took me 40 years to get to the place I was, I can not expect it to take 30 days to get over. But I am determined and resolved to do the very best I can to not offend my Jesus and to build friendships with all of God's people, not just men.

 

[Big Schwanz Acht]

Well done Mike! This metamorphosis from fear to knowledge is a huge step. Fear, anger, hate, etc. are all very toxic and these emotions can control you in 'all-encompassing' ways. Burying your head in the sand or avoiding any potential contact is just setting yourself up for the inevitable...face everything and anything with openness and grace which will render these addictions powerless.
Best of luck!

 

[huge-girth]

The way I look at this in a analogical way is I am holding 12 donuts. Now I love my donuts and I do not want to have to give them up but at the same time I know these donuts are making me fat. So I do not start by throwing away all the donuts, no that would be a big mistake because once we say "I will not" or "I can't" or any other absolute negative it makes the challenge unsustainable and unrealistic. Put down half the donuts As time goes by you will have less and less donuts but you will start to see that you never needed the donuts to begin with And if you find a day when you slip up and have a donut, do not punish yourself or put yourself in a state of guilt, first give yourself credit for how far you have come and then resolve to make it father next time. For me it was 7 days, than 28 days, now I am shooting for 60.

For the past 7 days now, I've not watched any �naked people movies� video which means I masturbated couple of days back without watching �naked people movies�. But it is important to know that I wasn't feeling very horny when I masturbated and this is as a result of addiction. Sexual thoughts will come but if taken too far might lead to masturbation but this can happen due to loneliness.

 

[templnite]

Well actually god says that you should get angry because imagine if somebody slaps your grandma or another nine eleven happened (they happen all the time worldwide but is swept under the rug). Believe it or not when I see news of mass murders I usually cry from the indignation and anger and I'm not even a bleeding heart person but its natural to have empathy.

Mike always tells you about the kindness of new covenant god but even he went and threw out the merchants who had taken control of the temple. Old covenant god is fuckin ferocious though, reading up on that shit it just might put the fear of god into someone.

I have a family member who drinks too much coffee and this angers me into not doing the same. Some of my friends parents are crackheads and this makes them so mad that they hate crack when otherwise they'd probably smoke with me. I hate it when someone mistreats children it makes me go into killmode. I'm not very fond of when people lie to me either. When people make it seem like everything is roses and birds chirping when its shit, all for personal gain at the expense of others.

If you supposedly struggle with masturbation or overeating etc then its because you like that shit and you'll keep going back like a dog that eats its own vomit (nasty I know but biblical). You can accept someone for what they are and still dissaprove even hate their behavior. God hates sin but loves the sinner

 

[Big Schwanz Acht]

If something angers you, it controls you.

If something frustrates you, it controls you

If an event(s) begin to affect your life negatively enough, take action...if not, sitting-around like a bunch of clucking hens bitching about it does no good.

 

[templnite]

Tubby youre lucky it controls me because if I was indifferent (mortal sin) like you then nothing controls me from pullin out this Draco nigguh!
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[Big Schwanz Acht]

I'm lucky for many reasons and try not to tempt fate, but your point is well-taken...indifference is equally as harmful. BTW, is that Soulja performing fellatio on that 'dracu'?
We're obviously from diametrically opposed realities, but I believe in provoking thought and it seems you do as-well

 

[templnite]

No thats that nigga Wayne nigga

 

[templnite]

Wrong again tubs is one dichotomous reality which I control. The difference between black and wack , sprrrra draco nigga

 

[Big Schwanz Acht]

Wrong again tubs is one dichotomous reality which I control. The difference between black and wack , sprrrra draco nigga

one's reality is neither right or wrong

 

[templnite]

But I'm letting you know dawg this how the story goes I put the milk in the Oreo

 

[kyomoto]

For the past 7 days now, I've not watched any �naked people movies� video which means I masturbated couple of days back without watching �naked people movies�. But it is important to know that I wasn't feeling very horny when I masturbated and this is as a result of addiction. Sexual thoughts will come but if taken too far might lead to masturbation but this can happen due to loneliness.

Yeah if you're not horny you know you're just doing it to gain the sensation even if you dont feel like it. It happens to me when its that time of month to release.

31 days today! I broke a month and I feel so happy. There was occasion yesterday to fall into the same situation I did last time I made a month but I was able to recognize it this time and stop it before it became anything more than innocent. I am learning so much about myself and I am also learning that with my continued efforts I can begin to see women in the light they deserve, not as objects. Today I will not even look at a girl in fear of falling but I am starting to see this is not the smartest way. I think what I should focus on is talking with women, as I do my Brothers, and seeing the value they have as humans, not objects. I miss relationships with women, not in a sexual sense, but in a platonic way. I am sure these graces will come upon me, it took me 40 years to get to the place I was, I can not expect it to take 30 days to get over. But I am determined and resolved to do the very best I can to not offend my Jesus and to build friendships with all of God's people, not just men.

Knew you could do it Anyone can achieve just gotta believe.

 

[huge-girth]

31 days today! I broke a month and I feel so happy. There was occasion yesterday to fall into the same situation I did last time I made a month but I was able to recognize it this time and stop it before it became anything more than innocent. I am learning so much about myself and I am also learning that with my continued efforts I can begin to see women in the light they deserve, not as objects. Today I will not even look at a girl in fear of falling but I am starting to see this is not the smartest way. I think what I should focus on is talking with women, as I do my Brothers, and seeing the value they have as humans, not objects. I miss relationships with women, not in a sexual sense, but in a platonic way. I am sure these graces will come upon me, it took me 40 years to get to the place I was, I can not expect it to take 30 days to get over. But I am determined and resolved to do the very best I can to not offend my Jesus and to build friendships with all of God's people, not just men.

I achieved 30 days of no masturbation twice in 2016 which means I abstained from masturbating for 60 days. Now I'm assuming since you have been able to hold on to yourself for 30days, you should have more control now than before. But here is one thing, if you continue holding back on masturbation, you will eventually get attracted to women. Talking to them is the first step.

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Yeah if you're not horny you know you're just doing it to gain the sensation even if you dont feel like it. It happens to me when its that time of month to release.



Knew you could do it Anyone can achieve just gotta believe.

IMO, masturbating even when you are not horny is a sign of addiction. I've been suffering for too long.

 

[LONGERDICK7+]

Kepping my hands away from the D is ok,2 days only 2 days and i just cant help it need to knock one off no matter what..lol