mentally destroyed

i have been doin pe for awhile now and hadnt measured since the beginning and today i figured what the hell. SO i grab the tape measure and ..... the numbers couldnt have been right so i did it again and they came out the same.... i dropped the tape measure put my pump and my clamp away and basically shut down for the rest of the day...i no i should be motivated to do more because of this but i couldnt even focus enough to do some basic stretches...i dont no what ima do from here on out but right now i feel like someone ran over my dog or something

For some individuals gains come faster and for some gains tend to happen slower.
In this case you may be a slow gainer, have you been doing pe everyday?
You don't have to but if you really want to see gains as soon as possible i would recommend for you to do your routine every single day or every other day so that this will be another normal thing that you are used to doing daily. I am gaining more in the width section than length and i have been pe'ing for close to 3 months now. I use to do my routine every other day but now i do it everyday because i push myself to do so because i want to see more gains in the near future. DLD did his routine everyday and probably still does. Since it seemed like i was gaining more in the width department i started focusing on a more intense length routine and i also jelq with more intensity now. I usually do my workouts everynight and it will usually take me around 1 1/2 hours to get done but now it takes me close to 3 hours for one workout.
Good luck, at times we all need for someone to help us out. I know that you feel bad but just try and use this to workout even harder so that you will start to gain.

By the way,
I measure sometimes but i don't measure alot because sometimes i tend to still think that i am not gaining anything and i know that i am. I am bigger than what i used to be but at times i still think that i am the same size. Don't measure all of the time, keep doing your routine, make it intense and you will be on your way.

Okay I love my dick alot, even though I think its a bit small, I still love it.. But I dont love it enough to tug on it for 3 hours a day, thats obession, thats werid.. I'll workout for 45 minutes to an hour a day but 3 hours is just unright, I mean yeah I want to be be bigger down alot, and I wish I could get my arms big enough to fit the rest of my body, but I wont do 3 hours a day.
If that is what it takes you have to ask yourself is it really worth it?

Maybe this is just to over-rated, Do they really care that much or am I just getting my insecurities ahead of me?

This question keeps me up at night I tell ya.

I know man, I know. You work your ass off sometimes for weeks or even months on end and get abosolutly nothing. Getting my head around Penis Enlargement has been one of the hardest things I've done, but I've put in so much effort already I cant let myself give up.

Throw the ruler away man, good things take time.

wdis3 said:

Okay I love my dick alot, even though I think its a bit small, I still love it.. But I dont love it enough to tug on it for 3 hours a day, thats obession, thats werid.. I'll workout for 45 minutes to an hour a day but 3 hours is just unright, I mean yeah I want to be be bigger down alot, and I wish I could get my arms big enough to fit the rest of my body, but I wont do 3 hours a day.
If that is what it takes you have to ask yourself is it really worth it?

Maybe this is just to over-rated, Do they really care that much or am I just getting my insecurities ahead of me?

This question keeps me up at night I tell ya.

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I would work on my penis for 5 hours a day if that is what it takes- but I don't think it works that way (i.e. the number of hours you Penis Enlargement correlates to the number of inches you gain).


What I plan to do is to study the best routine to maximize my gains in the most efficient way (time wise) but this takes a lot of studying (reading all the post on here and that other place).

I'm going to test that obsessive hour thing soon- meaning I'm going to order the bib starter soon and hang as long as I can (like bib did).

edit: Oh, I forgot to comment on the thread starter. daironmonk, just take some time off to clear your mind and then get back on that horse. Good Luck. :rocker:

You guys make me realize I'm one determined mothafucka!!!

daironmonk said:

i have been doin pe for awhile now and hadnt measured since the beginning and today i figured what the hell. SO i grab the tape measure and ..... the numbers couldnt have been right so i did it again and they came out the same.... i dropped the tape measure put my pump and my clamp away and basically shut down for the rest of the day...i no i should be motivated to do more because of this but i couldnt even focus enough to do some basic stretches...i dont no what ima do from here on out but right now i feel like someone ran over my dog or something

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Dairon,
What did the numbers say when you measured? Nothing? Anything? Even the smallest gains should be celebrated.

Are you measuring length or girth? You never say.


Cheer up my man. For all you know you're a few sessions away from a break through. You have to keep on if you want results.

I know the feeling...

Sometimes you just don't get a good measurement from one erection. Wait a day and do it again. You might surprise yourself. If not, hey no one said it was easy. Keep on keeping on. :D

You should start a work log. Registered in 03 and only 6 posts? Try and get involved. Guys here are good at helping with motivation and keeping a log, helps to stay on track with your workout.

Dairon, you say you've been Penis Enlargement'ing "for awhile". Exactly how long is that?

Don't get too down on yourself. This stuff takes time. Some guys gain fairly quickly,two, three months; others take longer, six months, maybe a year. I didn't start seeing any measureable gains until about the six-month mark; and even then, it was slight.

If you get too frustrated, you're going to end up pushing too hard and injuring yourself.

I remember going through the same thing and I can relate to your frustration. The depression that the ruler can cause is notorious, unforgiving and above all ruthless. There have been days I have just felt like giving up, and some of these days were as recent as this year. What keeps me going? Why do I stick with Penis Enlargement through these terrible tribulations? For me it all comes down to experience. I am an extremely sensitive person, even the simplest discouragement can infect my day with negativity. This is a very strong force in my life, allowing bad things destroy the good, it always has been. You are probably thinking, "What the fuck does this have to do with measuring?" For me, EVERYTHING. If I am having a tough day and I decide to go and measure the outcome is almost guaranteed to be bad. I know many of you guys have heard me say that the mind is a very powerful thing but in this case it is super-powered. If I am having a shitty day I try to measure my dick, subconsciously I will wreck the outcome by measuring incorrectly to show a negative number, loss or an unchanged assessment. I will then compound this issue by continuing to measure, allowing the outcome to become worse and worse, until I have completely brought my Penis Enlargement to a level equal to that of my dreadful mood. Experience comes into play when I remeasure on a day I am feeling good about myself and the outcome is very different. An unchanged measurement will just get me motivated to work harder and an otherwise, inconsiderable gain is worthy of a hullabaloo.

Give yourself some time to relax and put things into perspective. Wait until you are having a great day then re-measure. This is the experience that will keep you in the game through the good and the bad.

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I am an extremely sensitive person, even the simplest discouragement can infect my day with negativity. This is a very strong force in my life, allowing bad things destroy the good, it always has been.

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Sounds amazingly similar to me

I had a day like this yesterday and it has been a long time since I got caught up in this. Don't wanna highjack your thread but I just wanted to say I can really relate. Today is a new day and with it comes a new opportunity to make things better.

Thanx for the replys fellas i figure i was just having a bad day all around and i prolly set myself up for failure, but ive decided not to measure for awhile and just do my workouts and go from there ......then if i feel good i might measure i might not but for the time being im just gonna work out hard and give it some time