templnite;720695 said:
Ok you guys stop trying to justify your nasty habits

So true in my case, last night my justifications landed me in a place I did not want to go!
 
JB007;720680 said:
Totally agree. Don't be a deviant about it by doing it all the time. I just meant here and there to keep your sanity, good hormone levels and healthy prostate.

The thing is, I do masturbate on a daily basis and this will eventually lead to depression for most of us who do this. Ejaculating once in 5 days seems to be okay. I got the point, no more daily masturbation.
 
huge-girth;720822 said:
The thing is, I do masturbate on a daily basis and this will eventually lead to depression for most of us who do this. Ejaculating once in 5 days seems to be okay. I got the point, no more daily masturbation.

Other things that happen when masturbation and ���� are abused
• EQ Issues
• Lack of Libido
• Subjugating women
• If in a relationship it can be very damaging
• Loss of inspiration
• Addiction and Guilt
• Low eq will result in poor girth work
 
I masterbated a couple of days ago and my glans became more reddish, less pale (this is good). At this point, I have no idea what the fuck is going on with my penis. I usually have no morning wood now (used to have morning wood every morning before the injury). I can get 'ok' erections and cum. I hate Lakeside & Kaiser. In fact, fuck all HMOs. No help at all. I'm currently fighting with Kaiser to get them to cover a transfer over to a university hospital. My fucking urologist refused to write me a referral to a university hospital so I could get a proper diagnosis. Really Kaiser? No one has an MRI and/or Doppler Ultrasound in your whole entire system? Fuck heads. I might have to pay outta pocket just to make sure I don't have a venous leak and/or arterial block. My urologist wouldn't even prescribe me some Viagra. Fuck man..
 
neatdude;721104 said:
I masterbated a couple of days ago and my glans became more reddish, less pale (this is good). At this point, I have no idea what the fuck is going on with my penis. I usually have no morning wood now (used to have morning wood every morning before the injury). I can get 'ok' erections and cum. I hate Lakeside & Kaiser. In fact, fuck all HMOs. No help at all. I'm currently fighting with Kaiser to get them to cover a transfer over to a university hospital. My fucking urologist refused to write me a referral to a university hospital so I could get a proper diagnosis. Really Kaiser? No one has an MRI and/or Doppler Ultrasound in your whole entire system? Fuck heads. I might have to pay outta pocket just to make sure I don't have a venous leak and/or arterial block. My urologist wouldn't even prescribe me some Viagra. Fuck man..

Have you considered incorporating bathmate or something similar that's known to help increase eq and blood flow? I'm no doctor was so don't know if this would be smart but it will help with blood circulation and eq. Dld or some of the other vets can chime in and say if this would be a good option for you, it was just a thought that it may help with everything your going through.
 
You know what's crazy? I wrote that post about 24 hours ago. My glans are pale again and I'm having weak erections again. I'm slowly going insane..
 
doublelongdaddy;721055 said:
Other things that happen when masturbation and ���� are abused
• EQ Issues
• Lack of Libido
• Subjugating women
• If in a relationship it can be very damaging
• Loss of inspiration
• Addiction and Guilt
• Low eq will result in poor girth work

In that case, we all should get a girlfriend. There is no way those of us on this forum without a girlfriend can carry on for 1 month without ejaculating through masturbation. Its possible but difficult. Having a girlfriend is indeed the best option.
 
huge-girth;721131 said:
In that case, we all should get a girlfriend. There is no way those of us on this forum without a girlfriend can carry on for 1 month without ejaculating through masturbation. Its possible but difficult. Having a girlfriend is indeed the best option.

I am speaking on obsessive masturbation...men who are jerking off 5 times day and can't help themselves.
 
doublelongdaddy;721162 said:
I am speaking on obsessive masturbation...men who are jerking off 5 times day and can't help themselves.

Loneliness is another reason for this.
 
huge-girth;721222 said:
Loneliness is another reason for this.

Big time! I have a few things to say on this. First, what I find most important for every Brother, if possible, is to spend a couple years by yourself and learn to live with yourself. This brings so much growth to the mind and so much more self confidence not relying on others to feel good about ourselves. I believe a woman is most impressed with the independence a man exhibits as this shows her that he does not 'need' someone to care for himself as he can do this himself and this is a very attractive quality.

Loneliness is a tough thing and for me I got through this by putting all my trust in Jesus. Once I was able to do this completely I no longer felt the sting of loneliness as I has my Master to speak with whenever I need. I also keep a very close relationship with my Son, who understands me in every way. Even though we duo not live with each other we desperately seek time to spend together. My time with The Brotherhood, my Family, Children and Grandchildren is my joy in this world. With this and Christ I am free of any loneliness.
 
doublelongdaddy;721265 said:
First, what I find most important for every Brother, if possible, is to spend a couple years by yourself and learn to live with yourself. This brings so much growth to the mind and so much more self confidence not relying on others to feel good about ourselves. I believe a woman is most impressed with the independence a man exhibits as this shows her that he does not 'need' someone to care for himself as he can do this himself and this is a very attractive quality.

Hit the nail on the proverbial head with this one, Mike. If I may add...be excellent in something. Women are attracted to men because of their 'maleness' so don't become 'vaginatized' when you start engaging with women
 
I only used it a few times. I'm in pain and I have no idea what it is. It could be a blood vessel problem. Bathmate would make it worst.
 
neatdude;721347 said:
I only used it a few times. I'm in pain and I have no idea what it is. It could be a blood vessel problem. Bathmate would make it worst.

Understood my man I was just trying to help with the circulation and eq. So where do you live at state wise? I ask because you may have to consider seeing a specialist in this field in another town or state if you cannot get the proper help where your located.
 
neatdude;721349 said:
Los Angeles. I have an appt w/ UCLA Urology tomorrow.

Well I'll be praying for you man. Hopefully you can get a specialists that knows what's going on.
 
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