How can I ejactulate faster when having sex??

I have the same problem. It was really bad until I found out about supra slammers. You learn to "Edge" by flexing you PC muscle while you masturbate and then flex really hard right at orgasm to stop it. So if you don't do the last kegel and let go....you will let go. Sometimes it takes me hours and I still don't cum. I've always had good control of my unit but sometimes I just want to cum so I can go to sleep. Anyway try kegeling really fast while you have sex and then just wait for it.

longstretch said:

Anyway try kegeling really fast while you have sex and then just wait for it.

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Thanks for making things clear! That's right, kegeling really fast could make one cum faster

You know, there might be a neurological problem there. Go see a urologist for some answers. Question: do you get/feel 100% aroused? When I used to get high, I had that problem, would never cum.

Hey I have the same problem except its only with sex. I've never ejaculated during sex. My g/f says I wank too much and she told me to hold off on it. I'll see soon and update on it if it consist.

There are some men who take long to ejaculate. This may be psychological coming from a fear of pregnancy or being warned repeatedly when young that sex is wrong. Check yourself about these. There are a few over- the -counter medications that you can take, the easiest to find is Sudafed, used for colds. This contains pseudoephedrine which stimulates the sympathethic system. But only take the normal dose about one hour before sex. Another preparation is imipramine otherwise called Tofranil. That could help you too but do not use it frequently as it is often used for depressions.

There is a very easy way to cum quicker while having sex,assuming you have no sexual hangups just get your girl to touch around your bumhole or stick a lubed finger up,you WILL cum pretty quick,if she massages your prostate(the male g-spot) you will have one of the most intense orgasms ever.

prince Albert said:

There is a very easy way to cum quicker while having sex,assuming you have no sexual hangups just get your girl to touch around your bumhole or stick a lubed finger up,you WILL cum pretty quick,if she massages your prostate(the male g-spot) you will have one of the most intense orgasms ever.

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then I have a sexual hook up... I just can t imagine getting sumthing in my arse

ggogeta said:

then I have a sexual hook up... I just can t imagine getting sumthing in my arse

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Loads of blokes are the same probably because they associate it with gay sex.

I've had the same problem before. Start doing kegels they will make you last longer and get much harder but, when you are ready to come flex PC muscle and away she blows. Also sometimes it could be condoms. Magnums are a bit too big but regualrs are tight around my base. Try more sensitive ones or bigger ones cause that could be a problem. Also maybe you are thinking about it too much. Relax and enjoy it. Think about how great it feels. Try to cum when she cums because that's just the best. That has really nothing to do with your problem or helping but, give it a try sometime it's fun.