masturbation addiction, DELAYED EJACULATION :'( killing lovelife
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Just fucking do it. I haven't e-jac'd since June 30. Use will power. You have a girl, wtf is wrong with you.
rub jalapeno powder on your hands so if you wank it will burn.
Or you can just wank it when you are ready to finish with the gf
Or you can just wank it when you are ready to finish with the gf
Well-I am going to say the same thing the others said- no matter how much everyone wants to help you- the only one that can actually help you is you yourself. You need to endure the pain of abstinence and be stubborn enough to hold it. Know what you are fighting for. Every time you think about wanking- just say to yourself "I am stronger than this, I am better than this. Life needs to throw something much harder to make me struggle. I want to be pleased by sex and please the girl I love. I am not going to be a slave of this addiction- I am no one's or nothing's slave!!!! The only thing I obey is myself and if I say no it means NO!!!!!!!!!" As long as you say this to yourself and you actually mean it and feel it- you'll overcome all the shit!!! And as DLD has written himself- "Believe in me, I believe in you".
All the best, Zam
All the best, Zam
Well-I am going to say the same thing the others said- no matter how much everyone wants to help you- the only one that can actually help you is you yourself. You need to endure the pain of abstinence and be stubborn enough to hold it. Know what you are fighting for. Every time you think about wanking- just say to yourself "I am stronger than this, I am better than this. Life needs to throw something much harder to make me struggle. I want to be pleased by sex and please the girl I love. I am not going to be a slave of this addiction- I am no one's or nothing's slave!!!! The only thing I obey is myself and if I say no it means NO!!!!!!!!!" As long as you say this to yourself and you actually mean it and feel it- you'll overcome all the shit!!! And as DLD has written himself- "Believe in me, I believe in you".
All the best, Zam
All the best, Zam
Sorry for the double post- internet problems cause this shit. (remove one of them)
(remove one of them)Good advice there my friend
I am trying to be as helpful as possible! That's why I am here- to be helped and to give people the help I was given. That's how the brotherhood was born and that is how the brotherhood will progress I believe!
Indeed
2 hours ago, I saw a filthy 16 year old slut with huge tits falling out of her tube top on a bicycle, then I went to the gym and squatted heavy weight, which will cause my testosterone to skyrocket. Now I am going to inject something into my penis that will give me a 3 hour erection. Afterwards, I will erect jelq with oil for 30-45 minutes. If I can go without jacking off, you have no excuse.
Dame :/
MikeShlort;559939 said:
rofl
doublelongdaddy;560041 said:
It is more than good- it is amazing, but I still cannot understand what is the purpose of this. I am not sure if some people treat masturbation as a ritual of disrespect to their own body or something. I admire the willpower he has had, but why is he actually trying to do it.
Double- posting mistake- remove it.
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Zambrodom3;560047 said:
I've listed the benefits in numerous threads, but to sum it up:
1. Higher testosterone
2. No soreness, back problems etc
3. More energy
4. More erections
5. Not dependent on adult entertainment or the feel of my own hand to get off, like the OP of this thread
6. Get depressed the next couple days after wanking
7. More ambition to talk to women
8. Stronger body
9. Masturbating is an admission of defeat
10. I like when my testicles are at max size. My nutsack seems to hang looser and lower also
his [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-newbie-forum/1597-dlds-first-routine-i-gained-2-inches-with-this-routine-full-tutorial.html]newbie routine[/words]... but i do heli shakes an massages after evry individual stretches... i warm up after evry sets of cranks an wen im finish i warm up an do 7 min jelqin den massage an warm down... now the constant heat an massage i get frm trinityblueprints... but 4 i workout i do supra slammers but instead of compressin i do [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-forum/12539-slow-squash-jelq-nothing-give-me-better-expansion.html]ssj[/words]... i dnt masturbate until wednesday an i increase jelqin by 2 mins evry week... im in my secound week an frm 4.6" girth im 4.8" an my length is now 7.25.. two weeks.. gains already... awsome workout.... an wen my gf blows me nw i look way bigger dan 7.25" non bone press an 4.8" girth but i dnt get to measure den lol... ohh side effects are... dere are alot of veins an i heard it looks scary lol
Well done man, that's a good routine
MikeShlort;560063 said:
Thank for summing that up! You are really right and I agree with everything you wrote (except for 6- at least for me ,though- I do not get depressed). What actually makes me support the masturbation act is DLD's research on it and it's effects of length and girth and the state it get your penis into
Go on, clue- good to hear that you have a routine and you have had your gains already. Keep going fella!!!
MikeShlort;560063 said:
2. You're doing it wrong. If not, maybe I'm doing it wrong.
5. Harsh, even for a troll or a non-native speaker.
9. Subjective.
BornInFigi;561145 said:
Lol, well you sure picked a good cause to get up in arms about and try to protect it's reputation; jerking off is important.
MikeShlort;561222 said:
Lol'ed x2. I was just having a little fun. I too go for stints where I lay of the hog. But my deadlifts turn me into an monster, and if I don't get it out all the fat bottom girls are in constant danger of not keeping the rocking world going round. You know what I mean!
Respect, my dude.
Not too sure if it has already been mentioned, maybe you can start of by saying only wank once a day, then only once a week (lets say wednesdays only) then keep increasing
Also If you can adult entertainment on your PC hold your breath, put it in the recycle bin and delete it straight away. It helps me!
TNA
Also If you can adult entertainment on your PC hold your breath, put it in the recycle bin and delete it straight away. It helps me!
TNA
for me it's been a constant battle. How I approached it lately, over the past 3 month, is slowly taking certain things away. First I allowed myself to watch certain adult entertainment and then as time progressed I made it more and more innocent. Today I only allow myself to look at pictures of women that are nude and that's it. It seems to be the threshold for me and the point where I feel guilty. I think that every man has his own threshold and I think its on honorable that men are trying to strive to get themselves to a point of discipline. I am not perfect and I mess up constantly. The point is trying to correct yourself even when you do mess up. Its not a revolution it is more of a evolution. Eventually we do better ourselves.
MikeShlort;560063 said:
there is no evidence that not blowing loads gives you more test..it levels off after a few days then it actually drops.
that said... if you have a partner,sex is way better if you dont beat off everyday. if you have a problem its probably gonna be a life long issue unless you take care of it now, it only gets worse never better just like any addiction. if you cant moderate than gonna have to give it up. if you can use a harm reduction approach and alter your rituals than go for that. i would say ditch the adult entertainment outright if you already have a problem you have noticed. if you cant jack off without adult entertainment stimulation than you get a double win..
it gonna take awhile to retrain your brain and body but if you can go without adult entertainment and dont relapse on it you will heal yourself much quicker. if you havent busted a nut or even touched your dick in a week then youll.probably have better luck with your partner imo
that said... if you have a partner,sex is way better if you dont beat off everyday. if you have a problem its probably gonna be a life long issue unless you take care of it now, it only gets worse never better just like any addiction. if you cant moderate than gonna have to give it up. if you can use a harm reduction approach and alter your rituals than go for that. i would say ditch the adult entertainment outright if you already have a problem you have noticed. if you cant jack off without adult entertainment stimulation than you get a double win..
it gonna take awhile to retrain your brain and body but if you can go without adult entertainment and dont relapse on it you will heal yourself much quicker. if you havent busted a nut or even touched your dick in a week then youll.probably have better luck with your partner imo