Hello everybody . I'm not sure where to post this, I'm a bit loss on this website . Well anyway , here my problem .

A few months ago (4) I decided to jelq for the first time . I warned up for 10 minutes then started doing the streching . I skimmed through the instructions and watched the videos and tried to emulate it . I made tons of mistakes . While steching, My grip was on the glans , while Jelqing , I'm sure I didn't do the proper way " under hand or whatever " also , I Jelqing while erected because I was very sensitive I guess . Like for every 10 jelqs , I'd do 3 or 4 100% erected or close . The whole routine took me a Little over 2 hours to do . What took a long time was the Jelqing because I wanted to be careful . So much for that lol.

Anyway , I did 150 jelqs and 90 v jelqs . After that I warned down for 5 minutes and feel asleep . I honestly had no idea what was going to be in store for me 2 days later . I tried to test my errection in the shower because I notice that my penis flaccid size increased . Like right away . I was surprised . It was about 1 inch flaccid length before I Jelqed , but now it was 2 1/2 about . Keep in mind . I just Did 1 Jelqing session but I was happy , I was wondering if my errection size had change too ... Well.. I couldn't get an errection .

I basically started to panic . It was horrible in all honesty . I looked it up and assumed I had hard flaccid . I'm sure all of you guys know what that is . Well, a week goes by and I get my errection back . For some reason though , it feels and doesn't look as hard as it used to be . It felt like my penis was filled with air . I came to the conclusion that what I had wasn't hard flaccid . It's been dubed " large faccid " lor over extended flaccid "
Here are the Symptoms .
• penis in flaccid state now hangs lower .

Like me . I gained over an increase in flaccid size . My penis hasn't retracted to its original size age sometimes it can hang over 3 inches . It chances length .

•Penis pleasure sensation is gone
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For example . I can still feel hot and cold , and pressure when I jack off or fuck my gf, but no good feeling . It feels like touching your arm or jacking off your finger . Yep . That sucks . I can still feel the tip of my penis and my orgasms . Though . The pleasure of them has been reduced by 40 % and they aren't as powerful as they used too . I'm happy I can still feel them .

* Lost of full bladder sensation
I can't feel with my bladder is full .thr urge to go pee is almost gone . The only reason I know when to pee is because the tip of my penis stars to tingle .

ED (depends)

The few people with this condition have trouble getting and maintaining errections . I'm lucky enough to only have minor Ed. I can still get hard enough for sex by just making out with my gf. A lot of people who suffer from this can't even get boners for sex, even with the help of medication , though it has helped a few people in the past . For me, for example . I have trouble getting full errections by myself , but with my gf, I get like 80 to 90% ,good for sex :)


I guess what am asking for is help . I have no idea on what to do . Or what's wrong with me . If you guys have any theroys about what's wrong with my penis , let me know :) remember

The penis is always long and soft , never hard unless I get a boner . If you want more details, look up " over extended flaccid " and it should be the first result . It explains it better than me . Any thoughts will be appreciated . Thank you .
 
what are v jelqs? your condition sounds not related to PE at all. make sure your diet is good and you are getting exercise. Do kegals and build your [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]stamina[/words] back up slowly. How old are you and have you had ED problems before?
 
Thanks for the reply . And I'm 19 years old . Me errections were 100% perfect . Now , they are not . It all happened after I Jelqed . And honestly . I forgot what v jelqs are . I think it involves using your 2 fingers forming a v shape and Jelqing like that .
 
I would avoid jelqs from here forward. I used jelqing way back when I first started and gained from it/them, but they have never been one of my favored exercises. They are very inefficient. They take way too much time to do for what you get in return. Also, the injuries I have seen over the years in PE usually if not always, come from jelqs done incorrectly. You probably caused yourself some sort of nerve damage. That and potentially some psychological trauma. Nobody can give you an honest diagnosis over the internet though. I would suggest a visit with a urologist. Be honest with what you think caused your current issues. I am willing to bet, if you leave your penis alone for a few days, things will start to improve.
 
ICanCureThis2;683248 said:
Thanks for the reply . And I'm 19 years old . Me errections were 100% perfect . Now , they are not . It all happened after I Jelqed . And honestly . I forgot what v jelqs are . I think it involves using your 2 fingers forming a v shape and Jelqing like that .

Are you able to get erect during masturbation?
 
stillwantmore2;683534 said:
I would avoid jelqs from here forward. I used jelqing way back when I first started and gained from it/them, but they have never been one of my favored exercises. They are very inefficient. They take way too much time to do for what you get in return. Also, the injuries I have seen over the years in PE usually if not always, come from jelqs done incorrectly. You probably caused yourself some sort of nerve damage. That and potentially some psychological trauma. Nobody can give you an honest diagnosis over the internet though. I would suggest a visit with a urologist. Be honest with what you think caused your current issues. I am willing to bet, if you leave your penis alone for a few days, things will start to improve.

Thanks for reply man . I agree . It or some never damage because my dick gets no pleasure sensation what so ever . Like I said. If I touch it , it feels like I'm touching my finger or arm . Also, I've left it alone for 3 weeks and nothing . I can still have sex , which I'm greatful for . It's the no pleasure sensation. That is killing me . I'm hoping my nerves will heal but it's been over 4 months already :/
This whole large flaccid thing is a whole different thing that hard flaccid . You should look up the thread in Pegym by ho1985. He's been dealing with this for almost 4 years . Another user on this site " mrneslssion" I believe , had a worse case of large faccid than me ( couldn't get errections at all ) he later took viagra and that helped him . Which is strange , because he's the first person with large faccid to have Ed drugs work on him . He's been dealing with this since 07 and he's last [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]sigh[/words] in was about 2 months ago . I'm hoping he replies to my messege. Thank you all for your replies . I appreciate it .
 
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doublelongdaddy;683589 said:
Are you able to get erect during masturbation?

And I don't like getting errect when I masturbare . I masturbare flaccid using my legs , which doesn't feel good , but once I'm about to cum, it starts feeling pretty good :) I just miss my pleasure sensation when I would touch my dick... Now it feels like I'm touching my arm .Thanks for the reply !
 
ICanCureThis2;683776 said:
And I don't like getting errect when I masturbare . I masturbare flaccid using my legs , which doesn't feel good , but once I'm about to cum, it starts feeling pretty good :) I just miss my pleasure sensation when I would touch my dick... Now it feels like I'm touching my arm .Thanks for the reply !

lol what ? you masturbate with your legs and during masturbation you dont like to get erect ? am I missing something ?
 
ICanCureThis2;683776 said:
And I don't like getting errect when I masturbare . I masturbare flaccid using my legs , which doesn't feel good , but once I'm about to cum, it starts feeling pretty good :) I just miss my pleasure sensation when I would touch my dick... Now it feels like I'm touching my arm .Thanks for the reply !

I guess my question was more; Are you able to get a 100% erection in any situation?
 
ICanCureThis2;683776 said:
And I don't like getting errect when I masturbare . I masturbare flaccid using my legs , which doesn't feel good , but once I'm about to cum, it starts feeling pretty good :) I just miss my pleasure sensation when I would touch my dick... Now it feels like I'm touching my arm .Thanks for the reply !
Lol what
 
From what you said to look up, it seems like you have chronic pelvic pain syndrome (CPPS). Its common for people with "hard flaccid" as well. However, Im not a doctor though, so take this info with a grain of salt.
 
Alright , I know feel bad for being the only dude in the world to masturbare using his legs / thighs ;-; ever since I started masturbateing (age 12) I accident discovered it by rubbing my legs/ thighs against each other randomly and got a weird sensation. I kept rubbing my legs until I cummed . I never liked jacking of the normal way .

Anyway . On to the errection questions . Yes. I can get an errection good enough for sex. I have weekly sex with my girlfriend and not once have I failed to get it up :) the main issue here is the plasure sensation . Like I said earlier , it feels like I'm running my arm then I touch my dick.

I'm honestly am lost I guess . I'm not sure if I damaged my penis or if I have pelvic floor disfunction . The only thing is that my flaccid isn't hard . It's always long and squishy . Look it up . No one with Large flaccid has made a recovery . A decent amount of people with hard flaccid have . I'm hoping this is some different version of hard flaccid but I doubt it . Thanks for the replys everyone . :)
 
Brother I read carefully what you wrote in first and last post and it really seems like this is not related to PE and you should consult this with specialist.
Its very hard to diagnose anything over the internet.
 
Again, are you able to become 100% erect in any situation? Important question.
 
doublelongdaddy;684032 said:
Again, are you able to become 100% erect in any situation? Important question.

Yes I can . It just takes more time/ longer.

Yesterday , I had sex and cummed. 5 minutes later and I was as hard as a rock again and had sex again . So yes . I can get a hard in any sistuation .
 
BigBeardBig;683969 said:
Brother I read carefully what you wrote in first and last post and it really seems like this is not related to PE and you should consult this with specialist.
Its very hard to diagnose anything over the internet.

This all happened after I did PE man :/ I was perfectly find before I decided to jelq , it was my fault for being careless . I don't blame PE.
 
ICanCureThis2;684130 said:
Yes I can . It just takes more time/ longer.

Yesterday , I had sex and cummed. 5 minutes later and I was as hard as a rock again and had sex again . So yes . I can get a hard in any sistuation .

So your issue is not getting erections, since you can get 100% erect, it seems more like a mental or fatigue issue.
 
doublelongdaddy;684148 said:
So your issue is not getting erections, since you can get 100% erect, it seems more like a mental or fatigue issue.
Does fatigue last for 4 months ? Something is wrong man, plus the nerve damage I have . Nothing here is mental . For some reason, my large flaccid isn't as bad as others . I'm gussing I didn't damage my penis aa bad as the other users . Idk . All I'm hoping for is that I get sensation in my penis again .
 
doublelongdaddy;684148 said:
So your issue is not getting erections, since you can get 100% erect, it seems more like a mental or fatigue issue.

negative mind=a bad time for the penis n body...:P:)
 
All this nerve damage and Erect Dysfunction from the first and only jelq session...

Steps/routine you told us: First time - Jelq session [Four months ago]

  • 10-minute warm-up
  • Skimmed through the instructions (videos) and tried to emulate it.
  • Made tons of mistakes
  • Grip was on the glans, while Jelqing
  • Unsure of the proper technique
  • Every 10 jelqs, do 3 or 4 @ 100% erect
  • Routine took over 2 hours

That was your very first routine/experience with Jelqing... do you see anything wrong, why would you have a 4-month bad experience afterwards?
 
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stillwantmore2;684267 said:
A bigger flaccid, no erection problems, takes you longer to get off. Some men would kill to trade places.

Yup, I was really trying hard to find a problem with ICanCureThis2 but I could not. His problems seem to be our goals :)
 
This isn't a joke guys :/ really , my penis feels detached if that makes sense and I have no plasurble sensation when I touch my dick . It feels like jacking of my finger. I've been getting half assed errections since last night for no appearant reason . Are those really your goals ? My flaccid size got longer after 1 Jelqing session .

This is horrible and I wish I could prevent myself from ever doing this . My errections die as soon as I stand up . And if I don't stick in my dick quick enough in my Gf, my errection Starts to fade . This is a very frustrating sistuation that isn't fun . I know it could always be worse , like have full on Ed, but my current condition isn't ideal . If I can get errections Easier and get some sensation back , I'll be happy .

Yeah, I guess it kinda is funny , masturbaring with your legs lol. Anyway , this is a real issue guys :/ I was hoping I'd find someone with a similar experience.
 
When you are in Doubt; seek expert help out; urologist / psychologist

It doesn't make any sense to me, after one and only jelq session you are experiencing 4+ months of erectile/performance issues.
Usually, everything works until something changes... there's a component(s) missing for the equation.
 
Threak-X;684410 said:
When you are in Doubt; seek expert help out; urologist / psychologist

It doesn't make any sense to me, after one and only jelq session you are experiencing 4+ months of erectile/performance issues.
Usually, everything works until something changes... there's a component(s) missing for the equation.
Thanks for the serious reply . I Already went to urologist . All he did was look , touch my penis and got after me for Jelqing . He didn't give me no test what so ever . He was concerned about my bladder issues because I wasn't empying my bladder , I know can :) but I still can't feel it . By that , I mean I lost full bladder sensation. I swear I haven't done anything besides what I have told you . Guess I just wasn't lucky
 
If you have lost bladder sensation, and by that I assume you mean the sensation of it being full for instance, I dont see how that can possibly be because of the PE you did. It sounds to me like you got some other condition.
 
kak03;684425 said:
If you have lost bladder sensation, and by that I assume you mean the sensation of it being full for instance, I dont see how that can possibly be because of the PE you did. It sounds to me like you got some other condition.

This all happened after I Jelqed. I forgot to mention that my pubic bone area was sore for 2 weeks . The urologist said I more than Likely damaged the nerves when streching my penis . Kinda crazy . Another user got large flaccid and lost full bladder sensation after misusing a [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]Penis pump[/words] on PEgym. Quite honestly , I didn't stretch hard .
 
Was In class , so I couldn't type much , but yeah , I'm assuming the stretching I did caused the lost of bladder sensation . I know non of you guys can gave me an answer to this problem but I was just hoping I could find someone in the same sistuation as me on this site . I appraicate the replys, even the ones about my masturbarion method lol
 
The thing is even if you go way to hard and abuse your penis it shouldnt be able to cause such problems. Either this came from something entirely different and the fact that it happened after you jelqed was a coincidence, or you must have really done something wrong when you did it. PE isnt just about penis enlargement but also [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]penis health[/words].
 
Threak-X;684410 said:
When you are in Doubt; seek expert help out; urologist / psychologist

It doesn't make any sense to me, after one and only jelq session you are experiencing 4+ months of erectile/performance issues.
Usually, everything works until something changes... there's a component(s) missing for the equation.

Best answer and one that should be followed!
 
kak03;684449 said:
The thing is even if you go way to hard and abuse your penis it shouldnt be able to cause such problems. Either this came from something entirely different and the fact that it happened after you jelqed was a coincidence, or you must have really done something wrong when you did it. PE isnt just about penis enlargement but also [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]penis health[/words].

I just got unlucky I guess. Maybe this is some form of pelvic floor disfunction , idk, but it's frustrating having this and not knowing what's wrong :/ again . Thanks go the replys .
 
doublelongdaddy;684465 said:
Best answer and one that should be followed!
I actually did both and they are a waste of time . The only reason I haven't gone crazy is because my gf is very supportive and can still get me hard . This isn't in my head . Believe me . Ive delt with depression and anxiety and had to take medication in the past . Not once did I have trouble getting hard like I do now . This is a physical problem . My penis ached for almost a month after the injury .Look up the over extended flaccid thread on Pegym. Another reason why I feel it possiblely could be pelvic floor is because I had diarrhea for 2 weeks and couldn't walk straight for a week.
All of that has passed but I still suffer with lost of sensitivity , minor Ed, and lose my errections real fast if I stand up. This is not mental at all. I can tell you that . Thanks for the reply .
 
Let's reiterate your words for the JELQ SESSION vs the ISSUES (SIDE-EFFECTS)...

JELQ SESSION: First and ONLY time - [Four months ago]

  • 10-minute warm-up
  • Skimmed through the instructions (videos) and tried to emulate it.
  • Made tons of mistakes
  • Grip was on the glans, while Jelqing; unsure of the proper technique
  • 150 jelq: Every 10 jelqs, do 3 or 4 @ 100% erect
  • 90 v-jelqs
  • Routine took over 2 hours

ISSUES: experiencing side-effects
  • OVER EXTENDED FLACCID: increase in flaccid size | penis in flaccid state now hangs lower, sometimes it can hang over 3 inches
  • LOST SENSATION: penis still senses temperature changes and contact to skin, feels no sexual stimulation to produce arousal
  • ERECTION | PERFORMANCE: Solo: difficulty, no volume; Partner: 80-90% volume
  • LOST ORGASM INTENSITY: Intensity diminished, 40% pleasure reduction & less powerful ejaculation
  • LOST BLADDER SENSATION: unable to sense to urinate until the bladder is full
  • ACHE: penis ached for 1 month
  • DIARRHEA: 2 weeks
  • MOBILITY: couldn't walk straight for a week
  • TIME: 4+ months; issue still not resolved

I believe you are lucky and should count your blessings you didn't try any advanced PE-techniques, you might had experienced a devastating outcome...
 
Threak-X;684506 said:
Let's reiterate your words for the JELQ SESSION vs the ISSUES (SIDE-EFFECTS)...

JELQ SESSION: First and ONLY time - [Four months ago]

  • 10-minute warm-up
  • Skimmed through the instructions (videos) and tried to emulate it.
  • Made tons of mistakes
  • Grip was on the glans, while Jelqing; unsure of the proper technique
  • 150 jelq: Every 10 jelqs, do 3 or 4 @ 100% erect
  • 90 v-jelqs
  • Routine took over 2 hours

ISSUES: experiencing side-effects
  • OVER EXTENDED FLACCID: increase in flaccid size | penis in flaccid state now hangs lower, sometimes it can hang over 3 inches
  • LOST SENSATION: penis still senses temperature changes and contact to skin, feels no sexual stimulation to produce arousal
  • ERECTION | PERFORMANCE: Solo: difficulty, no volume; Partner: 80-90% volume
  • LOST ORGASM INTENSITY: Intensity diminished, 40% pleasure reduction & less powerful ejaculation
  • LOST BLADDER SENSATION: unable to sense to urinate until the bladder is full
  • ACHE: penis ached for 1 month
  • DIARRHEA: 2 weeks
  • MOBILITY: couldn't walk straight for a week
  • TIME: 4+ months; issue still not resolved

I believe you are lucky and should count your blessings you didn't try any advanced PE-techniques, you might had experienced a devastating outcome...

Yes man . That's all pretty much it . Thanks for listing them all down . No idea how the messed myself up bad . My grip / squeezes weren't hard and my stretches didn't hurt . Guess I'm just more prone to injury then others . I am so happy I can still have sex with my girlfriend . Like I said, she keeps me sane :) and I can't feel bladder sensation at all. Once in a while my bladder will ache, but it will subside . That's the only feeling I have gotten from it . This has only happened about 10 times during these 4 months . Me losing feeling in my bladder doesn't really bother me anymore but it freaked me out the first month or 2 . I'm glad I can empy my bladder .

I think I should of bring this up too . There's a few more extra details that I should mention . I believe I may have gotten a second injury by kegaling too hard after I recovered my errections . I used to have some plasure sensitivety on my shaft and head after the first injury ( Jelqing for 2 hours ) , but after that hard kegal , I slowly lost all plasure from my dick besides the very tip of my penis . I still feel a lot more on the tip than anymore part on my penis. Here's a copy and past from a post I made on someone's personal messege .
After my first injury I couldn't get hard for a week , then after I recovered my errections . I was getting hard throbbing errections non stop ( thought I was getting cured lol ) well on the 4th day or so, I was flirting with my friend , now girlfiend , and kinda Sexting . I got hard a crap load of times . Maybe like 8 times in under 15 minutes . I was kegaling hard . But I wasn't trying too. Felt like it was doing it on its own

Well, after a hard kegal, I felt this painless sensation and my penis reacted to the size of a fucking pee and stayed soft. The next morning I woke up with a semi hard and ever since then , my errections haven't been up to par . I also slowly lost sensation until I realized I didn't have any left . Pretty much my whole dick is numb but I can still feel urine sensation and ejaculation .

My flaccid is now large and basically what I described in the first post . Thanks for listening .


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I was getting full on hard ones before the kegal injury and my sex drive returned . Forgot to mention I lost all of my sex drive during the first week with no errections . After my errections came back , I was so dang horny . Like the hornyest I've been in my whole life and kept getting hard for anything . After that hard kegal , everything went down the toilet like I said in my earlier post . But now my symptoms have improved .
Can get hard enough for sex and sex drive has somewhat returned and I can get horny again :)
A symptom that recently started on Sunday is my having this burning sensation that came out of no where . It comes and goes . I can only hope that's the nerves regenerateing .:)
I hope I didn't confuse you guys with all that extra info but you pretty much have it all down 100%threakX :)
 
When you say you had diarrhea do you mean actual diarrhea like in liquid shit at least three times a day? I really dont see how PE or your pelvic floor could make you get diarrhea. I still think you got some other problem hidden away that you dont know about yet.
 
i was only going to the bathroom once a day to poop and it was always liquid diarrhea . I got it the next day after Jelqing . And I asked a 2 people who cured thier pelvic floor if it was possible and they said yes .
 
Lmao! That made me laugh too . But I'm serious . It sucks living like this. I can't fully Enjoy life as much . It's getting better emotionally and I'm starting to accept the fact that this is as good as I'm gonna get . Oh well . That's life I guess . My fault for not being careful and reading instructions correctly . I guess when I first got into PE, all I read was the success stories on Pegym and that gave me confidence . If only I read about the injurys . Kinda weird how one part of your life can change within a few minutes / hours and effect the rest of your life .
 
Im 100% sure you will get all this sorted (or it will get sorted by itself with time) and enjoy life even more than ever before bro.
Think positive !
 
BigBeardBig;684557 said:
Im 100% sure you will get all this sorted (or it will get sorted by itself with time) and enjoy life even more than ever before bro.
Think positive !

Indeed he will. Everything is possible, just put your mind to it. And this is not as good as your life can get, we are resilient men, we will always do what is necessary to improve ourselves. Sometimes it is hard to see or believe in the beginning but with commitment it all falls into place.
 
Thank you guys . I appricate it a lot thank you . I hope I can get past this ... If I can't , I hope I have the power to still be happy and fully get over it and move on with my life . Thank you again for the optimistic responses ^~^
 
Damn bro I leave for one week then people start getting diarrhea with peyronies diseases on a different thread. All for not letting me give objective critical thoughts
 
I'm doing the exact routine you did right now, JP90, I've stuck to it because I don't like quitting things and it's just for conditioning. Going for ward from here, start on 20 jelqs then progressively move up and up, to a point where you are comfortable and PI's are good. Monitor PI's like a hawk, make sure nothing hurts when you are jelqing and don't jelq too hard at first.
 
lightlyfried;684704 said:
I'm doing the exact routine you did right now, JP90, I've stuck to it because I don't like quitting things and it's just for conditioning. Going for ward from here, start on 20 jelqs then progressively move up and up, to a point where you are comfortable and PI's are good. Monitor PI's like a hawk, make sure nothing hurts when you are jelqing and don't jelq too hard at first.

I appricate the advice man, but Jelqing isn't for me . I wasn't rough at all with my penis . I'm scared and never want to Jelqing penis ever again . Living life without prefect errections and little enjoyment out of sex isn't the end of the road . If I get better , I'll be so fucking happy . If not , I'll just move on with my life and try to be happy .
 
ICanCureThis2;684719 said:
I appricate the advice man, but Jelqing isn't for me . I wasn't rough at all with my penis . I'm scared and never want to Jelqing penis ever again . Living life without prefect errections and little enjoyment out of sex isn't the end of the road . If I get better , I'll be so fucking happy . If not , I'll just move on with my life and try to be happy .

Hmm sounds peculiar. You didn't use a hard grip?
 
ICanCureThis2;684719 said:
I appricate the advice man, but Jelqing isn't for me . I wasn't rough at all with my penis . I'm scared and never want to Jelqing penis ever again . Living life without prefect errections and little enjoyment out of sex isn't the end of the road . If I get better , I'll be so fucking happy . If not , I'll just move on with my life and try to be happy .

You are going to be just fine, I promise you. I will pray for your quick recovery.
 
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