Cant get Hard!!! help!!!

[AtlasStar]

Hi, I am 26 and did pe over a couple years ago when i damaged my penis (blood came out of penis) i did pe on and off but due to the damage i was pretty put off it...
Anyway since then i have not had a 100% erection, i have a bend in the penis too since doing pe.

When i get hard its about 85-90% and even that i cant keep for long unless i keep stimulating...when i push the penis against the bend it feels very hard but when i let go of the penis it loses its full hardness...i am soo scared i really dont know what to do...it feels like the side where the penis is bent doesnt hold blood tightly...

please help me i really dont want to the doctor or surgury route.

also:
1)its been about 2years since its been like this, is it still possible to correct
2)is it ever possible to get your erctions back to normal 100%

please help!!!!

 

[8InchMIKE]

Hi, I am 26 and did pe over a couple years ago when i damaged my penis (blood came out of penis) i did pe on and off but due to the damage i was pretty put off it...
Anyway since then i have not had a 100% erection, i have a bend in the penis too since doing pe.

When i get hard its about 85-90% and even that i cant keep for long unless i keep stimulating...when i push the penis against the bend it feels very hard but when i let go of the penis it loses its full hardness...i am soo scared i really dont know what to do...it feels like the side where the penis is bent doesnt hold blood tightly...

please help me i really dont want to the doctor or surgury route.

also:
1)its been about 2years since its been like this, is it still possible to correct
2)is it ever possible to get your erctions back to normal 100%

please help!!!!

First thing is calm yourself down and breathe deeply buddy.

You CAN get hard as you say so yourself here: "When i get hard its about 85-90%". This mean that you are NOT impotent and that all functioning anatomical parts are working. This is very good dude.

From your description, it seems to me that either one of 3 scenarios is possible here without knowing some more details about your condition.

1. You have once fractured your penis and it then healed with scar tissue inside on of the corpus cavernosum chambers. This would likely explain the bend. Scar tissue retracts and doesn't have the normal flexibility of penile soft tissue, this is why it is called second generation skin.

2. Nothing is really wrong with it, something may be "wrong" with you in fact. You say you once injured your penis and blood came dripping out of it. This alone is enough to make someone NOT at ease with any form of Penis Enlargement. This is called and traumatic event. You got unconsciously traumatized by this . The phsicological trauma induced by your predicament has rendered you "affraid" of any sort of penile manilupation and this, in turn, effects your erection quality.

3. You have damaged a blood vessil(s) or dorsal nerve. ( Do you seem to have lost any sensitivity? )

If no loss of sensation anywhere and no tingleing sensation like when your arm falls asleep the i wouldn't worry about it being nerve damage which could be bad.

Yes you can get back to normal, the slow jelqs tend to break up the scar tissue and helping the repair process.

If you continue to stress about this or if any of this effects your normal daily life or your sex life then i would see a urologist, they will know what to do, exams and evaluations and finally solutions.

Hope this helps,

good luck bro,

Mike

 

[elpichon3000]

The more you stress on not being able to get a full erection the more damage you do to your self mentally as 8"mike said start by doing some soft jelqs and I would still go see a docter and see what he says It don't hurt to get a medical opinion.

 

[AtlasStar]

Hey guys,

Thanks for the quick response, i think you may be right...i have had a very stressfull last couple of years and when this happened i felt really low, and seemed to get worst...during this time i was away on holiday for cple months where i was feelin relaxed i could get hard to about 95% but that was only for a few day, the 5% which doesnt get hard, was i think mainly due to the bend in the penis,its like ribs have formed there, what does that mean?

also what things can i do to make the erections stroger...i.e. excercises! foods! and vitamins etc etc

your help is greatly appreciated!

 

[8InchMIKE]

...its like ribs have formed there, what does that mean?

dude this is a penile "feature" that i personally have since always and something some men would do anything to be able to develop as the "ribs" will stimulate the vagina a lot more than without them so be happy that you gor them. They usually form when some kind of trauma is induced to the penis connective tissue, the collagen breakup at a cellular level can alter the shape of the penile cilinder.

also what things can i do to make the erections stroger...i.e. excercises! foods! and vitamins etc etc

Just regular [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-newbie-forum/1597-dlds-first-routine-i-gained-2-inches-with-this-routine-full-tutorial.html]newbie routine[/words] of semi hard jelqs at a slow pace never done with a hard-on, which myght be dangerous, keep it at 50% or less. Go slow. Enjoy each jelq.


your help is greatly appreciated!

 

[CJSD]

Hey guys,

Thanks for the quick response, i think you may be right...i have had a very stressfull last couple of years and when this happened i felt really low, and seemed to get worst...during this time i was away on holiday for cple months where i was feelin relaxed i could get hard to about 95% but that was only for a few day, the 5% which doesnt get hard, was i think mainly due to the bend in the penis,its like ribs have formed there, what does that mean?

also what things can i do to make the erections stroger...i.e. excercises! foods! and vitamins etc etc

your help is greatly appreciated!

I have had a simular issue like yours I have had this for years. I don't want to scare you but you could have a venous leak. Luckily since you get nearly fully erect it's not that bad because you can have sex or masturbate. One question does your glands drain of blood? That's what happens with my penis when I get an erection and basically if the penis has some trouble trapping blood for an erection is usually a venous leak.

By the way drinking lots of water has helped me in giving me better erections, plus I exercise. I am in the same boat as you I think and wondering if there is some sort of cure for this. Apparently you can get surgery where they close off the leaking nerve or something which then stops the leak in the penis. However the success rate is supposedly quite low because the leak could come back. I am sure at some point in the future there will be a real solution for this. Also you could consider using a cock ring which help in trapping the blood in the penis and probably viagra works but personally I have never felt I needed to resort to taking it.

 

[kingofsat]

I dont know if i have a venous leak, i find it harder to maintain an erection when standing up. And i cannot always keep an erection without constant stimulation

 

[8InchMIKE]

I dont know if i have a venous leak, i find it harder to maintain an erection when standing up. And i cannot always keep an erection without constant stimulation

Go see an urologist, it is safer than to self-evaluate what could be something more serious.

Although i feel you are just suffering from some kind of anxiety issue here. Seen this many times before.

You should NOT guide your recovery on bro-logic. Go see doctor.

If you do have a more serious problem it will be sorted out by the MD and some treatment will be prescribed.

Peace,

Mike

 

[kingofsat]

Even if it is a venous leak nothing can be done, so i may as well just put a rubber band round my dick to keep an erection

 

[CJSD]

I dont know if i have a venous leak, i find it harder to maintain an erection when standing up. And i cannot always keep an erection without constant stimulation

That's interesting because I can easily keep erections fine when standing but when lying on my back then my erection is harder to keep unless I keep stroking myself. I am curious do you feel you have a leak in the glands? With me my glands don't ballon fully. I know my issue is physical because my penis can't fill up completely there is no way it's anxiety related however sometimes it can be mental too. I have to admit though I probably do masturbate a lot so my penis is fatigued. Sometimes I feel I have some ED but If I go for a week or more without touching my dick I get great erections, but because I believe I have a venous leak it's not 100% hard.

The ony solutions I am aware of for venous leaks is surgery, which isn't that successful. Basically they close off the vein that's leaking, which gives you a full erection again, however the vein can come back. Then there are cock rings like you said which wouldn't be too bad, then they is viagra and other alternatives to it. Then there is penile implants which no guy would want. Thankfully I doubt any of us would need to resort to having a implant in our dick and those with servere ED who can't achieve any sort of erection through other methods need one.

 

[kingofsat]

Hmm, my penis when im close to orgasm is generally very hard. But when i just start masturbation its just "hard"

And yeah i cant always keep it hard in the glans very well as soon as stimulation stops it goes down. I've not had many experiences with girls so maybe it will be ok when i am ?

 

[CJSD]

Hmm, my penis when im close to orgasm is generally very hard. But when i just start masturbation its just "hard"

And yeah i cant always keep it hard in the glans very well as soon as stimulation stops it goes down. I've not had many experiences with girls so maybe it will be ok when i am ?

Let me know if you have any solutions I have had this for years. I don't see what the doctors can really do either. I probably made a big mistake in not allowing my penis to heal. It happened years ago though.

I haven't had much experience with women either I am worried to have sex with a girl straight up. I got horny a lot, I get spontenous erections, I get hard seeing a hot girl with a nice pair of tits and ass. I get erections fine all the time they're just not as strong as before because of the leak. I guess my dick still works just not quite as well as before I done Penis Enlargement.

 

[8InchMIKE]

I have a tip for you dudes that are worring about any physical problems in their penises.

This is just what I would try and it is NOT to be considered advice because it involves a medicine.

I would just pop a cialis pill or a levitra pill, last option would be a viagra pill ( not as effective at this self-test ) and wait for the results while stimulating.

If you do not get as hard as a rock doing this even with the pill then you may have a venous leek or even some kind of nerve damage. I bet you will have a huge bonner and will find out that in fact all is ok except in your mind.

In your mind you dudes are stressing too damn much and almost waiting for shit to hit the fan when evaluating your hard ons and something to go wrong. In this mindset, it is almost garanteed you WILL have problems. It is called performance anxyety. Classic

Give this method a try ( unless there is a prior heart condition of course ). Let me know how it goes.
~
Peace,

Mike

 

[CJSD]

I have a tip for you dudes that are worring about any physical problems in their penises.

This is just what I would try and it is NOT to be considered advice because it involves a medicine.

I would just pop a cialis pill or a levitra pill, last option would be a viagra pill ( not as effective at this self-test ) and wait for the results while stimulating.

If you do not get as hard as a rock doing this even with the pill then you may have a venous leek or even some kind of nerve damage. I bet you will have a huge bonner and will find out that in fact all is ok except in your mind.

In your mind you dudes are stressing too damn much and almost waiting for shit to hit the fan when evaluating your hard ons and something to go wrong. In this mindset, it is almost garanteed you WILL have problems. It is called performance anxyety. Classic

Give this method a try ( unless there is a prior heart condition of course ). Let me know how it goes.
~
Peace,

Mike

Thanks mate for the reply I might try this. I have a few questions if that's alright. Okay so you are saying that one that has a venous leak wouldn't really be able to get "rock hard" even with a pill or doing kegels? It's frustrating sometimes my penis is just hard not that strong, sometimes my erections are like rock and close to how they were before doing Penis Enlargement with a bigger engorged glands. Sometimes my erections are so weak I could cry, I don't cry. Can nerve damage be healed in the penis? Bear in mind I have had this issue for a good 4 years now I don't it will be properly heal.

Thanks.

 

[kingofsat]

Hmm it hard for me to get my hands on things such as cialis, otherwise i would try it right away

 

[Big Al]

Have those of you complaining about this malady had an ultrasound done?

Note that sensible Penis Enlargement doesn't cause this kind of injury- on the contrary- sensible Penis Enlargement improves penile strength and functioning. The tissues of the penis are quite tough and you have to go out of your way to injure them.

 

[MAXAMEYES]

Here's a pretty damn good WEBathmateD article. Now I know the title says Viagra, but the article goes into fairly in-depth detail about the physio-chemistry that leads to an erection. Maybe this could give you some info to help your problem, or at least a better understanding of what may have gone wrong.

http://health.howstuffworks.com/viagra1.htm

 

[8InchMIKE]

Thanks mate for the reply I might try this. I have a few questions if that's alright. Okay so you are saying that one that has a venous leak wouldn't really be able to get "rock hard" even with a pill or doing kegels? It's frustrating sometimes my penis is just hard not that strong, sometimes my erections are like rock and close to how they were before doing Penis Enlargement with a bigger engorged glands. Sometimes my erections are so weak I could cry, I don't cry. Can nerve damage be healed in the penis? Bear in mind I have had this issue for a good 4 years now I don't it will be properly heal.

Thanks.

Yes buddy, most nerve endings regenerate at this level and i'm guessing your are still young enough for your recuperation abilities to be at their max.

Why would you wonder around a penis problem for 4 years before taking action is beyond me bro, that is just not something you should post pone.

Go see doctor as soon as possible ok? It is the most responsible thing to do. Would you like to NOT BE ABLE TO HAVE SEX? I'm not saying this will happen but it could...and could is enough reason to go to a doc.

Peace,

mike

 

[CJSD]

Yeah you're right it's stupid to not get help after all these years. I guess for one I was scared and worried having ED hurts a man's self esteem. Also I have looked a lot into venous leaks and there is very little that can cure it. I'm fucked basically I have known for years I am probably fucked. I think venous leaks is the worst type of ED you can have. I just hope in the years to come the leak doesn't get worse (and I think it does or can) by the time I reach my 30's I may be totally impotent therefore fucked. Which makes me think there's no point in even trying to date or get a girlfriend because I will have a partially limp dick and what woman would want to be with a impotent guy? I better get to Amsterdam and enjoy the pussy while I can.

I will see the doctor (I will book an appointment tomorrow) but I am not too hopeful in their solutions. Guys I know trust me I know I this is all my fault I let my insecurity about needing a bigger dick push me to do this. I try and be optimistic but let's be real here having weaker erections or being totally impotent is a nail in the coffin to our manhood. I guess some comfort I have is I know I am able to achieve erections hard enough for sex and I doubt any implant is needed. Through hard stimulation I have achieved close to what my erections were like before in being very rock hard with a much bigger shiny head so I am hoping a cock ring could give me those sort of erections again.

Thanks for everyones help it's appreciated.

 

[8InchMIKE]

Yeah you're right it's stupid to not get help after all these years. I guess for one I was scared and worried having ED hurts a man's self esteem. Also I have looked a lot into venous leaks and there is very little that can cure it. I'm fucked basically I have known for years I am probably fucked. I think venous leaks is the worst type of ED you can have. I just hope in the years to come the leak doesn't get worse (and I think it does or can) by the time I reach my 30's I may be totally impotent therefore fucked. Which makes me think there's no point in even trying to date or get a girlfriend because I will have limp dick and what woman would want to be with a impotent guy? I better get to Amsterdam and enjoy the pussy while I can.

I will see the doctor (I will book an appointment tomorrow) but I am not too hopeful in their solutions. Guys I know trust me I know I this is all my fault I let my insecurity about needing a bigger dick push me to do this. I try and be optimistic but let's be real here having weaker erections or being totally impotent is a nail in the coffin to our manhood. I guess some comfort I have is I know I am able to achieve erections hard enough for sex and I doubt any implant is needed. Through hard stimulation I have achieved close to what my erections were like before in being very rock hard with a much bigger shiny head so I am hoping a cock ring could give me those sort of erections again.

Wait, wait, wait...calm down your horses there...you are blowing this out of proportion !!! To say the very least...

You are IN NO WAY, SHAPenis Enlargement OR FORM fucked dude...let me explain:

You are jumping the gun here, you are diagnosing a medical condition yourself while you have ZERO medical learning OR training, let alone a Phd.

There is no evidence to support your theory that Penis Enlargement was behing this or the cause of "it". I say "it" because you don't even know what the hell is wrong IF ANYTHING IS EVEN WRONG with your penis.

If Penis Enlargement had the risk of ending one's sex life, thousands of us poor dudes would be limp by now. Hell, there are many many guys using a [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]power assist[/words] to do the exercises, this is hundreads of times more intense than ANY manual form of Penis Enlargement would ever be. Then you got thousands of dudes using pumps ( also a risky buisiness ), dudes hanging dozens of pounds off of their dicks and all kinds of devices that cut circulation. WHERE ARE ALL OF THOSE LIMP DICKS?

They don't exist...or they are so extreem in doing Penis Enlargement that they almost torture their dick to a pulp. There as many of us ( not me ) doing squash jelqs, if anything would burst veins would be this form of Penis Enlargement. Again, where are the victims???

You have a problem, yes...A big problem...that is NOT HAVING SEARCHED FOR MEDICAL HELP TO BEGUIN WITH buddy.

Now relax, you are NOT going impotent or limp dicked. You are going to a urologist SOON and find both the cause AND the cure. There are many, if in fact you suffer from venous leakage.

Don't go about saying that you have no way out, you are defeating yourself. That doesn't help one bit.

By all means go to amsterdam and fuck all women in sight ( if they allow it of course ) but may it have NOTHING to do with you going impotent.

Noone should jump into conclusion mate, grab the phone, call the doctor's office, make appointment, attend consultation and start recovery.

For now...no Penis Enlargement as to not aggravate anything.

Peace,

Mike

 

[CJSD]

Wait, wait, wait...calm down your horses there...you are blowing this out of proportion !!! To say the very least...

You are IN NO WAY, SHAPenis Enlargement OR FORM fucked dude...let me explain:

You are jumping the gun here, you are diagnosing a medical condition yourself while you have ZERO medical learning OR training, let alone a Phd.

There is no evidence to support your theory that Penis Enlargement was behing this or the cause of "it". I say "it" because you don't even know what the hell is wrong IF ANYTHING IS EVEN WRONG with your penis.

If Penis Enlargement had the risk of ending one's sex life, thousands of us poor dudes would be limp by now. Hell, there are many many guys using a [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]power assist[/words] to do the exercises, this is hundreads of times more intense than ANY manual form of Penis Enlargement would ever be. Then you got thousands of dudes using pumps ( also a risky buisiness ), dudes hanging dozens of pounds off of their dicks and all kinds of devices that cut circulation. WHERE ARE ALL OF THOSE LIMP DICKS?

They don't exist...or they are so extreem in doing Penis Enlargement that they almost torture their dick to a pulp. There as many of us ( not me ) doing squash jelqs, if anything would burst veins would be this form of Penis Enlargement. Again, where are the victims???

You have a problem, yes...A big problem...that is NOT HAVING SEARCHED FOR MEDICAL HELP TO BEGUIN WITH buddy.

Now relax, you are NOT going impotent or limp dicked. You are going to a urologist SOON and find both the cause AND the cure. There are many, if in fact you suffer from venous leakage.

Don't go about saying that you have no way out, you are defeating yourself. That doesn't help one bit.

By all means go to amsterdam and fuck all women in sight ( if they allow it of course ) but may it have NOTHING to do with you going impotent.

Noone should jump into conclusion mate, grab the phone, call the doctor's office, make appointment, attend consultation and start recovery.

For now...no Penis Enlargement as to not aggravate anything.

Peace,

Mike

Sorry about before sometimes I get so stressed over this I am prone to excessive worry and fears. What's done is done though I can't go back in time. It's time to move forward and improve my situation. I will see the doctor and book an appointment as soon as I can.

I have also noticed that doing kegels in the past and recently my erections are defiantely more improved more rock hard and the blood doesn't flow out as quickly so viagra would probably benefit me with regular use. Also I have reviewed my lifestyle and my diet is quite poor I need to improve that, however I do workout at least 5 days of the week.

I guess my situation isn't too bad people have it worse than me I always try and put that in perspective. I am capable of having sex or masturbating with a hard erection that's all that matters right? I need to man up and accept my ED but things aren't that bad when I think about it.

Thanks again Mike.

 

[FemaleInfluence]

Yeah you're right it's stupid to not get help after all these years. I guess for one I was scared and worried having ED hurts a man's self esteem. Also I have looked a lot into venous leaks and there is very little that can cure it. I'm fucked basically I have known for years I am probably fucked. I think venous leaks is the worst type of ED you can have. I just hope in the years to come the leak doesn't get worse (and I think it does or can) by the time I reach my 30's I may be totally impotent therefore fucked. Which makes me think there's no point in even trying to date or get a girlfriend because I will have a partially limp dick and what woman would want to be with a impotent guy? I better get to Amsterdam and enjoy the pussy while I can.

I will see the doctor (I will book an appointment tomorrow) but I am not too hopeful in their solutions. Guys I know trust me I know I this is all my fault I let my insecurity about needing a bigger dick push me to do this. I try and be optimistic but let's be real here having weaker erections or being totally impotent is a nail in the coffin to our manhood. I guess some comfort I have is I know I am able to achieve erections hard enough for sex and I doubt any implant is needed. Through hard stimulation I have achieved close to what my erections were like before in being very rock hard with a much bigger shiny head so I am hoping a cock ring could give me those sort of erections again.

Thanks for everyones help it's appreciated.

Have you considered Viagra or Cialis as a short term solution. The doc may have a longer term solution.