Virgin Gf..

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Ok, so I've had sex a couple times before while being super drunk so confidence and lasting long weren't an issue, the alcohol took care of those.

But, after beign with my gf for 3 years she now wants to have sex in about 1 months time for the first time and yes she is a virgin. I want to try and put on as much size as possible by then and I'm a COMPLETE NEWBIE.

MY CONCERNS:

1) SIZE: I'm 5 inches in length and 4.7 inches in girth, I'm guessing the first time around this won't be bad since its just gonna hurt her anyway? But come 3rd 4th time, I think I might not be able to get her off. I have one month to do something about this.

- I tried some [words=http://www.phallosan.com/shop/catalog/default.php?z=eNortjIxtVKyL0pNszWxMFcrSSxKTy2JL0hMT7U1UisoykyxtbBQSy4tLsnPjS8uKcrMS7dVsgZcMMpbEbo%2C]ADS[/words] device off ebay, it either slips right off due to foreskin or just strangles my dick will it HURRTS so that didn't work. My head doesn't really flare so theres not much to put the noose around

- Now looking to use a comfortable [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]extender[/words] of some sort that I can wear upto 8 hours a day. I am a complete newbie so don't need anything advanced but comfort is the main issue.

2) [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]STAMINA[/words]: Lasting 5 minutes will be a journey for me, I've spent a lifetime reading on how to last longer nothing seems to help? Redbulll seems to help a little bit? Anyone have any ideas?
 
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Man, you won't be able to get much done in a month, length and girth wise. I would recommend doing PC work, because it will work. I can personally attest to how much PC work can help with all aspects a man wants: orgasm length, volume, and mainly control.
 
But, if you want an all day [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]extender[/words], I'd check out the [words=http://www.phallosan.com/shop/catalog/default.php?z=eNortjIxtVKyL0pNszWxMFcrSSxKTy2JL0hMT7U1UisoykyxtbBQSy4tLsnPjS8uKcrMS7dVsgZcMMpbEbo%2C]ADS[/words] system SWM uses, it's a Max Vac with something else...
 
Yeah I considered pumping just for the temporary increase.

Shes 5'4 and about 105 pounds, reallly really small build. I dont wanna kill her on her first time, but don't wanna dissapoint either, feeling really stuck.
 
Dude, I would do pumping then, the temporary increase is great, and you can make the temporary increase permanent.

I would have to say that PC work is a must, it is paramount to having a good sex life.
 
Ok, I'll do some research into pumping and try to find an affordable pump.

I was more concerned about length then girth, I had this idea that shes really small and won't need too much girth to full her up. But it seems length will be too hard to get so fast.

For PC work, I'm gonna start the Kegels section in DLD's [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-newbie-forum/1597-dlds-first-routine-i-gained-2-inches-with-this-routine-full-tutorial.html]newbie routine[/words], do you think that will be fine?
 
Great, you can find so much information on a good affordable pump, I'd recommend the Kaplan one, I heard it's good and cheap.

You really won't know if you need girth or till you have sex with your gf, but girth is easy to get temporarily, if you pump and do it correctly.

As with the kegels, DLD's routine is great, but I would do that and then some more when you get the hang of them.

Let us know how it goes with your gf and if all the information helped/helps.
 
I'm sure you've had your fingers in this girl. I bet it don't feel much bigger than your dick. It may even feel smaller. You gotta relax man. Going into this with a 12 inch dick and your attitude/mindset is still a disaster waiting to happen. I know you want to please her and everything but sex is NOT all about the dick. If you've been with this chick for 3 years I'm assuming you've got a good connection. If it's taken 3 years for you guys to have sex either she's pretty young or she's in it for more than physical reasons. I'm assuming both.

If you think her first time or 100th time is all about your dick you're so wrong. Your girl wants to be loved. She wants to feel safe and intimate with you. We'd be having a different talk if you wanted to just pick up random girls and bang em. But come on man focus on what you can control and quit getting yourself worked up about what you can't.

Focus on loving your girl. Even if you come in 1 minute relax. Accept her and hope she accepts you. You 2 can work on improving your sex life forever. It doesn't have to be perfect the first time. Hell it's probably not even going to be that good the first time. I'm not trying to let you down I'm just saying you don't know much about sex. You don't know what you like or what she likes. She doesn't know these things either. This stuff takes time.

In the meantime start with the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-newbie-forum/1597-dlds-first-routine-i-gained-2-inches-with-this-routine-full-tutorial.html]newbie routine[/words]. Get a pump or [words=http://www.phallosan.com/shop/catalog/default.php?z=eNortjIxtVKyL0pNszWxMFcrSSxKTy2JL0hMT7U1UisoykyxtbBQSy4tLsnPjS8uKcrMS7dVsgZcMMpbEbo%2C]ADS[/words] or whatever you want and look at this as a long term commitment. You probably won't change your dick that much in a month so relax and accept it.

Sorry to rant here but I hope you get something from this.
 
Chaco;297687 said:
I'm sure you've had your fingers in this girl. I bet it don't feel much bigger than your dick. It may even feel smaller. You gotta relax man. Going into this with a 12 inch dick and your attitude/mindset is still a disaster waiting to happen. I know you want to please her and everything but sex is NOT all about the dick. If you've been with this chick for 3 years I'm assuming you've got a good connection. If it's taken 3 years for you guys to have sex either she's pretty young or she's in it for more than physical reasons. I'm assuming both.

If you think her first time or 100th time is all about your dick you're so wrong. Your girl wants to be loved. She wants to feel safe and intimate with you. We'd be having a different talk if you wanted to just pick up random girls and bang em. But come on man focus on what you can control and quit getting yourself worked up about what you can't.

Focus on loving your girl. Even if you come in 1 minute relax. Accept her and hope she accepts you. You 2 can work on improving your sex life forever. It doesn't have to be perfect the first time. Hell it's probably not even going to be that good the first time. I'm not trying to let you down I'm just saying you don't know much about sex. You don't know what you like or what she likes. She doesn't know these things either. This stuff takes time.

In the meantime start with the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-newbie-forum/1597-dlds-first-routine-i-gained-2-inches-with-this-routine-full-tutorial.html]newbie routine[/words]. Get a pump or [words=http://www.phallosan.com/shop/catalog/default.php?z=eNortjIxtVKyL0pNszWxMFcrSSxKTy2JL0hMT7U1UisoykyxtbBQSy4tLsnPjS8uKcrMS7dVsgZcMMpbEbo%2C]ADS[/words] or whatever you want and look at this as a long term commitment. You probably won't change your dick that much in a month so relax and accept it.

Sorry to rant here but I hope you get something from this.
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Amen

I would start with the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-newbie-forum/1597-dlds-first-routine-i-gained-2-inches-with-this-routine-full-tutorial.html]newbie routine[/words] and not worry about your first time with her. Trust me, with her being virgin, you will be more than adequate. As time goes on if you follow a Penis Enlargement routine and make your dick grow she will also grow to accomodate it. Be very careful when venturing into Penis Enlargement especially if you plan to start to pump without prior experience.
 
Kind of incredible that you were with her for 3 years without having sex. Maybe you could talk to littlefella and give him some pointers.
 
aviator11;297700 said:
Kind of incredible that you were with her for 3 years without having sex. Maybe you could talk to littlefella and give him some pointers.
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A match made in Heaven.:)
 
Chaco, I havent even had fingers in her yet. We've been together 3 years, but we don't see eachother all that often due to distance so we didn't have the comfort level. She's not young, she's 20 and wanted to hold off until engagement at least because that was her belief, but we started seeing eachother regularly now and shes agreed that on our 3 years (which is in one months time) she is willing to have sex. I'm not trying to say that its all about my dick, as a matter of fact im counting on oral. Its just more of a self confidence issue, when you come onto a site like this and see 7x5.5 all over it kinda scares you.

I know things like this take time, I've been working out in the gym for 5 years and never rushed, I know the process I am a semi-professional athlete. Its just that we're more then likely gettting married and really committed to eachother and I wanna make sure she gets the most out of this.

And for those of you thinking 3 years wtf? In those 3 years I could have convinced her to have sex without a problem, but I have a lot of respect for her and I didn't ask her even once until recently she brought it up and said she was interested in having sex.


I'm just tryna make things better for her, and I dont want her to try it once and not enjoy and then hold off again because of that.
 
Man, sex is not all about penis says, in fact in many cases penis size is just a psychological issue. Don't focus on that much, think of how you can make it a good experience for both of you, if you think you're too small or whatever and you need to be bigger that will only make you less confident.

You won't get significant gains in a month, just educate yourself about sex and how to be romantic, not having sex for 3 years is just a proof you guys weren't in it for physical stuff, so why be so worried about it now? She's small and a virgin anyway, don't worry about size man, there are more important things, especially in your kind of relationship.

The size will come later, worrying about it now will only make you nervous and ruin your performance.

Anyhow for quick temporal gains I guess cock rings and pumping might give you some extra girth quickly.
 
smallbrownguy;297706 said:
Chaco, I havent even had fingers in her yet. I'm not trying to say that its all about my dick, as a matter of fact im counting on oral. Its just more of a self confidence issue, when you come onto a site like this and see 7x5.5 all over it kinda scares you.

I'm just tryna make things better for her, and I dont want her to try it once and not enjoy and then hold off again because of that.
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Good deal on the no fingers.

I can appreciate you thinking about oral too and not just your dick but that's not my whole point. You're still really wrapped up in the physical aspect of sex. That's totally cool I'm just saying sex is multi-dimensional. If you can be with your girl mentally, emotionally, spiritually, AND physically she will most grateful. Meeting a woman on all those levels will beat out the biggest baddest cock in the world. Focus on being and relating with her. Make love to her. Being loving with her is the best you can do. Being loving to yourself first too is a good place to start. Bring the best You to the moment and keep trying to make your best better.
 
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