Why Are You REALLY Here?

I knew there would be a lot of "girls care about sex to" posts. Its true, but not near the same degree as a man, and not even close to the same degree as me. Sure girls want sex, just like you want ice cream, and you enjoy eating it, but that doesn't mean ice cream is the driving factor behind everything you do. And then you also have girls who could care less about sex, and would be perfectly happy going their entire lives without it if they could, but those are the minority.

So if you ask a girl who doesn't have strong opinions on sex if they prefer 5 inches or 8 inches, the answer will basically be "whatever, doesn't really matter" because the real question to them is does he have money, is he loyal, is he attractive, is he funny, etc.

WildTiger, I haven't been dating the wrong women lol. I only date the sluts haha. And if I don't know, I'll figure it out by the end of the date, and never date them again if they're not. "caring about sex" and "initiating sex sometimes" is exactly what I'm talking about. That doesn't spell out someone who truly cares about sex in my mind. That's more someone who just passively enjoys it if their's nothing else going on. But yeah, guys who say that girls don't care about size at all are dumb. That's like saying I don't care if my job pays me $30,000 a year or $40,000. Maybe I'll still work there if they pay me 30, but I ain't gonna complain if they give me 40 haha

Well... This is an interesting topic.

If you ever followed me on my threads, you know that i'm Mr.Average, maybe now just a bit more than average, but really just a littlebit more.
Of course we don't know each other in person, so i have no reason to lie. What i'm going to tell you is only the truth.
In my life (i'm 34) i had 3 or 4 serious relationships and i've been faithful, but during my single periods, i've been dating a lot of girls. I think that i had sex with more than 120 women.
Of course, with a number like this bad things can happen.
4 or 5 of these girls (one was a stripper) made fun of me and said something bad about my size, i remember one saying ''I was expecting you to be a lot bigger than this" and another one saying something like" I hope you won't find my pussy too loose, because my ex was at least twice your size. Obviously such words did hurt my ego and my feelings, really a lot, but since i was there i didn't give a fuck and banged the chicks and i can say that everything went pretty decently.
So (talking about sex only, not relationships) basing on my experience i can say that:

1) Some women hope to find a guy with a big/huge dick and have no interest or very little interest about small or average guys.
2) Some women prefere an average penis to a big one, because they tried big ones in the past and they felt pain.
3) Some women like skilled guys, no matter how big. They just want a guy who know how to make them come.
4) Some women care really little about size and really little about sex too, they just want a love story.
5) Many women do not understand, even if they try, why guys are obsessed by size, and it would be better not to force them to talk about it, if they don't like to.
6) Of course size is sooooooooo much more important for men than for women.
7) Some women prefere to be licked or touched instead than being penetrated, expecially being penetrated hard and roughly.
8) There are really too many women out there, that means too many ideas, too many preferences, too many pervertions, sexual tastes and so on.
9) Trying to understand women is not mandatory, and probably we will live better without overthinking too much.

Personally, i'm here because i like to be fit, play sport, and with a nice body it's also nice to have a nice dick. Probably, like most of men i feel some kind of competition with the other guys, probably i've been watching too much ���� and compared myself with the actors, and of course is a nice feeling to be the best for the woman we love, the most handsome, the funniest, the best at sex, and the biggest one too... Sadly it's not always possible, so we are working on it.
In the while time, keep banging with the dick you have, don't until it gets bigger xD.

Thanks for reading. Stay tuned

Compressive;586425 said:

1) Some women hope to find a guy with a big/huge dick and have no interest or very little interest about small or average guys.
2) Some women prefere an average penis to a big one, because they tried big ones in the past and they felt pain.
3) Some women like skilled guys, no matter how big. They just want a guy who know how to make them come.
4) Some women care really little about size and really little about sex too, they just want a love story.
5) Many women do not understand, even if they try, why guys are obsessed by size, and it would be better not to force them to talk about it, if they don't like to.
6) Of course size is sooooooooo much more important for men than for women.
7) Some women prefere to be licked or touched instead than being penetrated, expecially being penetrated hard and roughly.
8) There are really too many women out there, that means too many ideas, too many preferences, too many pervertions, sexual tastes and so on.
9) Trying to understand women is not mandatory, and probably we will live better without overthinking too much.

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I would like to add and 11

10) A woman does not fall in love with the dick, she falls for the whole man
11) Size matters little when we can increase our size at will

doublelongdaddy;586432 said:

I would like to add and 11

10) A woman does not fall in love with the dick, she falls for the whole man
11) Size matters little when we can increase our size at will

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Totally agree

Compressive;586434 said:

Totally agree

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Here's the rub: Most women don't factor in size as an important quality unless they have experienced something big in the past. They simply have no frame of reference for a comparison. Tester 1 (read my other threads) told me that before our 2 month fling (she's Irish, went back home), that she didn't think size mattered, now she does.

I think overall, once a woman has experienced a large size, provided that the guy skillful and gentle until she adjusted to him, that it does change a woman's mind.

Having said that, the bastard with the 9 inch will NOT be chosen over the funny, smart, caring guy with the 6 inch. A relationship is more that JUST physical pleasure, and a man is more than a penis.

WildTiger- Here's the rub: Most women don't factor in size as an important quality unless they have experienced something big in the past. They simply have no frame of reference for a comparison. Tester 1 (read my other threads) told me that before our 2 month fling (she's Irish, went back home), that she didn't think size mattered, now she does.

I think overall, once a woman has experienced a large size, provided that the guy skillful and gentle until she adjusted to him, that it does change a woman's mind.

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Great point about the change in opinions after actual experience! Totally agree ..

It's simply inarguable that (within reason) a larger penis does not add extra and preferable stimulation vs a smaller one. People trying to say anything different are just exercising their denial/cognitive dissonance, rather than what they should be excising: their penis.

There was a study out around 2005 that had recorded the average time to orgasm for a control group who were all capable of regular vaginal orgasms .. (probably using an automated phallus, but long time ago, only recall the punchline) .. the smaller penis/phallus would create erotic tension resulting in orgasm in about 24 minutes, .. the larger one would accomplish the task in around 6 minutes.

That's not -'not'- better.

If time is money, that's money in the bank.

WildTiger- I am going to address an issue which has bugged me pretty much since I made an account here.

The issue is users who come here, not to learn about PE or contribute to meaningful threads, but to find as much evidence as possible that size doesn't matter at all.

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Getting back to the points in the first post in this thread, sometime around 2007 there was some serious idiot posting here who simply could not hear anything which did not involve his average penis being equal or superior to a larger one. There was always some ad hoc contrivance, out of his butt, as to why everything anyone said was wrong ... "the studies weren't done right", ... "the guy with the larger penis somehow magically forgets how to f*ck", ... some escape pod was apparently attached to all possible facts and he'd blither against all reality and then pop the detonation charges ..

Old aphorism: 'People have to be mature enough to know when they are the problem.'

juvenile, small ego fucker

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EX...ACTLY...

This is a place for learning and betterment..

If you've already gotten there, good job, because it took a lot of dedication, now help and share.

If you're not there yet and you want to know something, ask away, this is the place to do it.

But if you're just trying to caustically displace your realization that the common denominator in all of your failed relationships is .. you ... do it somewhere else. Heck, maybe we could put up a forum page for things like that to be moved to? 'Denier's Utopia' or something like that .. amusing for 'Utopia' being an imaginary island, and the components of the word itself meaning 'no where'.

Small isn't 'better'. Any physically healthy chick that's had both will know that. Your anger and strident delusions will not change her knowledge. Nor ours. Deal with it, or change your Size.

Asanon;586724 said:

This is a place for learning and betterment...

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Indeed it is. I call this correction to perfection in the SRT book. We, as men, in concert, helping each other as we help ourselves.

This is an excellent thread and I am glad to see most of us are on the same page.

I just posted in another thread how my lady has previously been with men with bigger penis's than mine and she claims that even though the sex was good with those bigger penis's, she could never orgasm. Once we met a few years ago, she left a big cock brother for a slightly above average man (me) I think because when we had sex she orgasmed/squirted.

My reasons for PE are two-fold, and may perhaps be seen as rather odd. Firstly, even though I'm average (6.1-2), I feel a bigger penis would give me greater confidence and make me feel more secure about myself. Hence, I am going to do PE whilst also losing weight. I gather this is a fairly normal rationale. Actually, I want to change my flaccid size, more than anything else. But the two come together.

However, I believe there is somewhat of a racial dimension to all this. For some reason, I want to defy the Asian stereotype that was placed against me, during school. It was so humiliating to be laughed at in the changing rooms, especially since I'm a grower. The whole "small Asian pee-pee" got to me. Recently, my (Asian) mother found out about my wanting to enlarge it, and she remarked that it was rather large, in spite of being half Asian. Which really struck a chord with me. The whole stereotype even permeates with half-Asians, I've seemed to notice. Several girls I know have said that they really fancy a guy, but they're scared that they have a small penis, or that they know he has a small one. Hence, I hope that such a scenario does not happen to me, which is why I am losing weight and going to us an Sg extender. My aims aren't that outlandish- I want to increase my length by around 1.5 inches to 7.5. Within the space of a year and a bit. But such an increase would help me increase my increase,

Flipping the other side of the coin, I do feel shadowed somewhat by my father's "appendage". I saw it once when I was like 8, and I vividly remember how thick and long it was, when in a flaccid state. There is a stereotype of Italians/ Jews as being well endowed, and he certainly fulfilled it as such. I don't know, but increasing my penis may help me develop a more equal relationship with my father.

Overall, as I've said, PE will hopefully make me more confident and extroverted. This place does certainly seem to be a place of close interaction and cordial advice

I hope my reasons aren't too freaky.

At 6.5" x 5.25" I've been with women that squirted or orgasmed every time we fucked. The most orgasms I gave my ex was 17 in one session and I have been with young slut(s) that said I have no cock what so ever. If I lived my life by the past sluts(s) I was with I would probably be afraid to talk to another woman. The size of your dick don't make you a man, Im pretty sure there are many 16 year olds out there with bigger packages than allot of 40-50 year old men. Use your achievements in life as confidence not just your cock size. If you have no achievements, get the Length Master and have the biggest cock in the world!

fb1234;587761 said:

Recently, my (Asian) mother found out about my wanting to enlarge it, and she remarked that it was rather large, in spite of being half Asian.

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Wow your mom said you have a "rather large" penis. I can't express my feelings at this time, I might get banned from here lol.

I've seen allot of Asians with huge dicks and allot of blacks, italians and jews with small dicks. I guess it just depends on the people that make it public.

LIGHTNING;587792 said:

Wow your mom said you have a "rather large" penis. I can't express my feelings at this time, I might get banned from here lol.

I've seen allot of Asians with huge dicks and allot of blacks, italians and jews with small dicks. I guess it just depends on the people that make it public.

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I know it's shocking,lol, but she has been out with a lot of Asian guys before she met my dad. And apparently there is a lot of truth to the stereotype. But it doesn't matter so much given the anatomical differences between Asian and non-Asian women. Moreover, "rather large" is a relative term. Keni Styles, the most famous Asian ���� star, was once actually labelled as the Asian __________ lol, on a ���� site comment section.

I know a lot of Asian men who actually see the Asian stereotype as a badge of honour. Heck, even some AA celebrities publicly talk about the size of their penis!

But in my case, I want to break away from the stereotype even further. Believe me, there's nothing quite as motivating as people continually asking me "How big is your penis?". It's really annoying lol.

Modern day media and ���� has made penis size a big factor...

From this vast array of ���-rated artwork we can make a few deductions about Greek aesthetic preferences, genitaliawise (here I mainly follow Kenneth Dover's landmark study Greek Homosexuality, 1978): (1) Long, thick penises were considered--at least in the highbrow view-- grotesque, comic, or both and were usually found on fertility gods, half-animal critters such as satyrs, ugly old men, and barbarians. A circumcised penis was particularly gross. (2) The ideal penis was small, thin, and covered with a long, tapered foreskin. Dover thinks the immature male's equipment was especially admired, which may account not only for the small size but the scarcity of body hair in classical art. A passage from Aristophanes sums up the most desirable masculine features: "a gleaming chest, bright skin, broad shoulders, tiny tongue, strong buttocks, and a little prick."

You're thinking: How times have changed. Ain't arguing. Of course, we do have to take into account a contributing factor: artists' models were nude, and their studios lacked central heat. lol

Not sure about Italian stereotypes but not too many people have asked me my size outside the forums.

Modern day, women want bigger asses and bigger tits. Men want bigger muscles and bigger dicks.
What happened to flat asses and small boobs? I don't remember curvy chicks in the 70's and 80's, maybe I wasn't looking?
The greeks must be mad and disgusted by the modern day penis size lol.

LIGHTNING;587902 said:

Modern day, women want bigger asses and bigger tits. Men want bigger muscles and bigger dicks.
What happened to flat asses and small boobs? I don't remember curvy chicks in the 70's and 80's, maybe I wasn't looking?
The greeks must be mad and disgusted by the modern day penis size lol.

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it is true, women in our youth were expected to be thin and flat...just watch Charlie's Angels

doublelongdaddy;587895 said:

Not sure about Italian stereotypes but not too many people have asked me my size outside the forums.

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Sicilians and Southern Italians are usually characterised as being well hung. At least in England anyway.

fb1234;587963 said:

Sicilians and Southern Italians are usually characterised as being well hung. At least in England anyway.

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Maybe I should move to London

doublelongdaddy;587982 said:

Maybe I should move to London

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If you did that, the local residents probably think "The Elephant Man" has returned.