NoFap no ���� Accountability Thread

[DLD]

whoa...that's quite the soliloquy, Mike. My thought is that everyone's prism is different and what triggers one doesn't necessarily trigger all. Can a person explore all facets of their sexuality, (including ����) without it becoming all-consuming? I'm guessing, 'yes', but I do agree that ���� is very much like any other brain-altering drug...unchecked it could remap your pleasure centers and prevent you from experiencing your life fully.

The litmus test that I employ is very simple, 'is what activity I'm engaged-in having a negative impact on my friendships, work, love-life, health?' If yes, then adjust/eliminate

Exactly true, everyone has different triggers and what is amazing to me is that my triggers start out so innocent, almost like the devil is setting a trap. I start to watch a show that, seemingly, is innocent only to find myself back at Pornhub! I hate it! So I now have decided to stop watching any TV or movies that trigger me. Believe me, this is a big struggle, one I never have got through so for the ones who do struggle I now can completely relate. ���� for me is the end result, the issue is the tiny steps from innocence into sexual distortion. Much like one who has quit drinking but starts to hang out with his drunk buddies, he will be triggered and maybe fall and relapse. The same applies here.

Last night I got through the night with no problems. During the day I did catch myself checking out a girl for too long but I corrected that as soon as I realized. So today marks one week with no masturbation.

 

[Big Schwanz Acht]

Congratulations on your one-week ���� sobriety!! You should celebrate by nailing some random girl, lol (just kidding, of course)

 

[kyomoto]

Exactly true, everyone has different triggers and what is amazing to me is that my triggers start out so innocent, almost like the devil is setting a trap. I start to watch a show that, seemingly, is innocent only to find myself back at Pornhub! I hate it! So I now have decided to stop watching any TV or movies that trigger me. Believe me, this is a big struggle, one I never have got through so for the ones who do struggle I now can completely relate. ���� for me is the end result, the issue is the tiny steps from innocence into sexual distortion. Much like one who has quit drinking but starts to hang out with his drunk buddies, he will be triggered and maybe fall and relapse. The same applies here.

Last night I got through the night with no problems. During the day I did catch myself checking out a girl for too long but I corrected that as soon as I realized. So today marks one week with no masturbation.

I know you can do a month

 

[templnite]

I know you can do a month

Nah its better to give up that way you dont have to fail. Sometimes I wish I could just flip a switch and get erect for x minutes without stimulation, would make pe so much more easy, unless you love ���� that much.

Im more of a romantic than a feverish horny G.O.A.T. believe it or not.

 

[kyomoto]

Nah its better to give up that way you dont have to fail. Sometimes I wish I could just flip a switch and get erect for x minutes without stimulation, would make pe so much more easy, unless you love ���� that much.

Im more of a romantic than a feverish horny G.O.A.T. believe it or not.

Damn don't think DLD got the discipline to do a month?

 

[DLD]

I know you can do a month

I will make a month with help of Jesus and the accountability to the Brotherhood.

Accountability: Last night I has the first wet-dream I have had in many years. No guilt there!

 

[Big Schwanz Acht]

Last night I has the first wet-dream I have had in many years. No guilt there!

Uh...that sounds fun (hope you tipped your maid, lol)

 

[huge-girth]

Yesterday I masturbated 4 times. I was so horny. This thing is very difficult to stop, pornhub is my witness. I think it is really hard to be doing girth work and stay away from masturbation when you don't have a girlfriend.

 

[templnite]

"Pornhub is my witness" xD someone give him a wankie hankie plz

 

[acromegaly]

DLD Im glad you are getting more self control back, but personally I think the idea of not giving yourself any release when you dont have a woman at the moment is kinda ludicrous? i mean thats not healthy either just limit yourself IMO. anyways you sound happy just sometimes you sound like youre punishing yourself...

 

[LONGERDICK7+]

DLD Im glad you are getting more self control back, but personally I think the idea of not giving yourself any release when you dont have a woman at the moment is kinda ludicrous? i mean thats not healthy either just limit yourself IMO. anyways you sound happy just sometimes you sound like youre punishing yourself...

yep that part can be difficult i remember once i kept myself away from masturbation and i felt ok..Not having someone and using the hand once a week is not that bad ithink..

 

[LONGERDICK7+]

Yesterday I masturbated 4 times. I was so horny. This thing is very difficult to stop, pornhub is my witness. I think it is really hard to be doing girth work and stay away from masturbation when you don't have a girlfriend.

haha true PE can increase the level of hornyness

 

[huge-girth]

yep that part can be difficult i remember once i kept myself away from masturbation and i felt ok..Not having someone and using the hand once a week is not that bad ithink..

Once a week is a good idea but most times you end up masturbating up to two times in such days. One ejaculation in seven days when you are not in a relationship should be okay. But if you masturbate right in front of a hot ���� video, you will end up masturbating later in that same day. My thoughts though.

 

[DLD]

DLD Im glad you are getting more self control back, but personally I think the idea of not giving yourself any release when you dont have a woman at the moment is kinda ludicrous? i mean thats not healthy either just limit yourself IMO. anyways you sound happy just sometimes you sound like youre punishing yourself...

No punishment nor is it difficult. I feel so much more joy and happiness that I am free from the prison of ����. Remember, I have given myself to Jesus and have no intensions of transgressing my promises. And let me tell you, at first it was difficult but as time passes it becomes easier and easier. Suffering is part of human existence and it is something that will be with us for life, I love the suffering because it gives me the opportunity to run to my Lord and give Him praise for His suffering. So do not feel badly for me, I am in the best place I have even been.

The temptations have become less and less. I find myself appreciating the woman as a whole, mind and body opposed to the way I used to view women, as objects. I look at every woman as if it was my Mother, Sister, Daughter, etc., this allows me to turn my attention away from lust before it becomes a fall into sexual guilt. I have felt guilty for too long, I have avoided that which I believe in for too long, I have made justifications of too long, I am determined to stay loyal to my one true love, Jesus.

My loving Brotherhood has made this difficult task easy. I look at my fellow Brothers who have accomplished this and my Love grows for you. My appreciation in the work you have done before me humbles me. I look to my successful Brother here as my example. Without my Brothers here I would never be able to accomplish anything I have. Much love , honor and respect to the Brotherhood!

 

[Iceman338]

It literally hurts when you can't shoot your load. The balls have to drain themselves.

Self-control is key. I can't stop jacking off, however. I can stay away from ���� to some degree.

Raging boner is always a weakness.

 

[Big Schwanz Acht]

It literally hurts when you can't shoot your load. The balls have to drain themselves.

Self-control is key. I can't stop jacking off, however. I can stay away from ���� to some degree.

Raging boner is always a weakness.

Don't mess with Mother Nature, the human body is an amazing thing and listening to what it needs is vitally important for health and well-being. (this is not to be confused with addictions or compulsions)

 

[kyomoto]

Once a week is a good idea but most times you end up masturbating up to two times in such days. One ejaculation in seven days when you are not in a relationship should be okay. But if you masturbate right in front of a hot ���� video, you will end up masturbating later in that same day. My thoughts though.

one is enough for a month for me :0 I used to be a 2 time masturbater at least 3 times a week... I'll hop on the ejaculation train when I get to having sex.

 

[DLD]

It literally hurts when you can't shoot your load. The balls have to drain themselves.

Self-control is key. I can't stop jacking off, however. I can stay away from ���� to some degree.

Raging boner is always a weakness.

God takes care of the release 2 times now I have had wet dreams over my 2 weeks of abstinence so I am having a release, just not a conscious one. Now, I will repeat this as I do not want it misinterpreted, there is nothing morally wrong with masturbation but it is a hard thing to do when not thinking on something sexual. If you have a wife or girlfriend think on that. If you are single like myself and want to stop ���� and masturbation, do it! It is a challenge but as time goes by you will feel better and better. I love women, I love to look at them as they are beautiful creations, but that is as far as I will go.

I can not say that I will not mess up, I pray I don't. This is all being done for a very good reason which I will get to eventually

For confession, in the middle of the night I woke jerking off I stopped it immediately but it was masturbation.

 

[orgasmic19]

Okay, I must confess I looked at a little ���� but mainly pics. It's not like I am looking at ���� every day like I used to, but I must confess any way.

 

[kyomoto]

Okay, I must confess I looked at a little ���� but mainly pics. It's not like I am looking at ���� every day like I used to, but I must confess any way.

Its alright brother. Sometimes we all just do that haha. It's honestly everywhere nowadays.