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Thays it mate keep up the positive attitude she will be missing a big cock. And also missing a guy that actually gave a fuck about her. Be strong hang in there.
samzman;294688 said:i have been in your shoes, and to hell with her. she came on to him, or whatever, or he came on to her, whatever...and if he came on to her, she should have stopped him and said no, if she came on to him..seeing how he's ur old friend..then he should have been the one to say no. there for i'm with ya on kickin that dudes ass beyond recognition.
but take some time away from her, she is ungrateful for you and doesn't know what she has. sometimes people do that, my ex did, and since i left her i have been much happier and found someone who really loves me for who i am and i haven't been happier, or more loyal.
to hell with her dude. lose the bitch
Meaning you probably would have done the same thing in that guy's situation, but fuck him.10inchadvantage;294658 said:Was only doing the right thing? ?
crazyed27;294717 said:Dude your 20 years old? Fuck that cheating bitch. She said it was not that good and it was over fast, bullshit she is mind fucking you. Stop all contact with her, do not call her and do not pick up her calls. You are young as fuck and there are plenty of ladies out there, go have fun, flirt, fuck some of them. By doing this you are letting this cheater know she did you wrong by your actions, not your words. Disrespect is disrespect, but her cheating on you is the largest form of disrespect she can dish out. When a woman does that shit to me? I drop her because it is the best thing to do. If she really is sorry she will try to come back later, not now, dont fall for it. Let this girl you dont need her and could care less.
I know it sucks but you got to man up, and treat a ho like a ho. Next.
As far as fucking the dude up who sexed your lady, dont do it. Simply because it was her that let it happen in the first place regardless who started it. SHE LET IT HAPPenis EnlargementN, she knew you guys were together but she choose to go fuck around anyway. It was her fault not the guys, again it was her actions that did this, even if he did play a part in it she could have simply said no I love my boyfriend, instead she said O.K. I'm down for a quickie. Remember it was her who let this fool stick his dick in her. Now drop her like a deceiver shoud be dropped.
matts22;294721 said:There really are good girls out there...it's probably best that you found out now that she wasn't one of them. I know it was a hard way to find out (and totally sucks) but think about it this way...she just saved you years of your life to go out and search for a girl that is actually deserving of you.
And don't worry...from my experience (not that much but hey) all girls want to be bad/naughty...they just don't want to want you to think they are a whore. It doesn't take much convincing that they can be a good girl all day and a bad girl at night with you.
Also, this had nothing to do with you. Don't dwell on it. Some bitches are just crazy and you need to get out FAST. I know that it totally throws you for a loop when you find out that they aren't who you thought they were (I've been there). But at least you found out now.
Go enjoy your life...best of luck to you!
alwaystrying;294728 said:Dude, I have said it so many times, off and on again relationships where the guy actually cares.....it's a lose lose man. Ya gotta be on the other side of it, it's way funner, and less of a headache. Sad but true. Don't fuckin talk to her for a long long time, reinvent yourself emotionally, and I am afraid trying to embarass him at a party may backfire and only make yourself look bad like you're still so hurt (even if youare thats okay, but dont let that fuck know). Ya gotta play the game til you've given yourself sufficient time to really not give a fuck. Trust me man I've done my time in the trenches and have grown so much from a similar situation back when. I wouldn't steer ya wrong here.
8InchMIKE;294736 said:10Inch my man...i'm sorry you went throught all this...only read it now my friend...
Please let it go and just rise above it like a real man and inteligent being that you are.
You just ignore her totally from now on don't even give her the time of day, but...at the same time, act like she didn't even make a dent on you, this will hurt her the most ehehehh
Peace
Mike
jjeramia;294737 said:You have to ask yourself if you can trust her. If their is no trust their is no relationship.
The BTC Killer;294743 said:Meaning you probably would have done the same thing in that guy's situation, but fuck him.
10inchadvantage;294745 said:This is great advice. I do need to treat a bitch like a bitch. Using this mental framework has really helped me cope. When I realize she's willing to throw 1 1/2 years of trust out the gutter for some B-team guy, yeah she's a bitch. She's going to be pissed when I'm at parties getting the best women.
The thing is I'm probably going to talk with her in about a week, after my (and hopefully her) emotions have somewhat settled. I'm not sure what to say to her other than, "I'm glad you did this, I wouldn't want a partner with such horrible character flaws. I hope you enjoy your average guys you fuck around with. I'm moving on. There are MANY women out there who would love to be with me and would cherish me for the person I am."