I've seen numerous posts on here...and several sites I'm on that are orientated towards self-improvemement but not penis enlargement in general...wondering whether penis enlargement is even something a male should be concerned with. Not here, but the common refrain I've seen on other sites is "Size doesn't matter"...if you are a rock solid male with a handsome face, burgeoning check account, and unshakeable self-esteem...then yes, I am sure size does not matter. If you are an average looking guy like me, have teetering self-esteem and confidence that varies from day-to-day, and a net worth that would make a homeless person say "WTF?" then penis enlargement might be for you.
I am a single guy who will probably be single for the rest of my life. The reason lies almost entirely with an aversion to being accountable to others. You will never be a decent boyfriend, and definitely husband, if you are not willing to let someone else know where you are or what you are doing during most hours of the day if they decide to ask. I just get tremendous anxiety and a sense of rebellion when I feel like I need to tell someone else where I'm at or what I'm doing whenever they decide to ask...probably meaning I will stay single until the day I die...which I'm fine with.
I was a virgin until my freshman year of college. The second girl I slept with was a woman I worked with. Now...if you don't believe in stereotypes then stop reading here...but she was a black woman who had never been with a white guy. She was in her late 20's, had been married and divorced to 2 black men, and (I didn't ask how many) had slept only with black guys and seen black penises. The first time we slept together, she could not stop talking about how big my penis was. I didn't know if she was bullshitting me...stroking my ego...or whatever...but she did it several times throughout that night and every time we had sex after. She kept asking me to take a picture of it to show a few of her friends because they wouldn't believe her without a picture. I finally relented and I am quite sure there must be a few pics of my penis floating on the internet. That ego boost to a young guy with low self-esteem and sketchy confidence was awesome.
I was not "huge" at that time by any stretch of the imagination. Before I ever started with any penis enlargement (which I've been interested in for years but just started a few months ago) , I was around 6.5 inches long and 6 inches in girth. Just looking around here and going by the dimensions of the members, I've spent my life undersized to say the least. But the reaction I had from that woman and the reaction I've had from others even before any penis enlargement was a major ego boost. I guess that makes me small and petty. Fair enough, if I had tons of self-confidence and was a rock star in other areas of my life, I wouldn't probably give a shit how big my dick was or wasn't. I had another female who I dated who let me do anal...once and only once...she was petite and always said afterwards "NO!!! You are too big for my size." There was another who I met in bar who was much younger...she had just turned 21...who told me even that, albeit under the influence of alcohol, that she wanted to be fucked in the ass. As soon she saw my penis at that time she was like "Uhhh...nope...that is not fitting in there." LOL. Oh well. Still...mentally...to have a female say that to you is priceless.
So what is the point of all this??? Size does matter to women. It just does. The gushing of the second woman I slept with was an ego boost that was priceless. Does that mean I had/have self-esteem issues or I am a petty human being? Maybe...probably yes....but damn it was nice. Don't kid yourself. Size matters. If you didn't think so in your own mind, you'd never be on a site like this. The reaction of a female who is pleasantly surprised to seeing something she did not anticipate is a feeling that I can't even properly articulate. You're happy...she's happy...everybody wins. Size doesn't matter? Bullshit. It matters. Don't derive yourself of that pleasure. Pump, stretch, pills...whatever you gotta do. It is totally worth it.
I am a single guy who will probably be single for the rest of my life. The reason lies almost entirely with an aversion to being accountable to others. You will never be a decent boyfriend, and definitely husband, if you are not willing to let someone else know where you are or what you are doing during most hours of the day if they decide to ask. I just get tremendous anxiety and a sense of rebellion when I feel like I need to tell someone else where I'm at or what I'm doing whenever they decide to ask...probably meaning I will stay single until the day I die...which I'm fine with.
I was a virgin until my freshman year of college. The second girl I slept with was a woman I worked with. Now...if you don't believe in stereotypes then stop reading here...but she was a black woman who had never been with a white guy. She was in her late 20's, had been married and divorced to 2 black men, and (I didn't ask how many) had slept only with black guys and seen black penises. The first time we slept together, she could not stop talking about how big my penis was. I didn't know if she was bullshitting me...stroking my ego...or whatever...but she did it several times throughout that night and every time we had sex after. She kept asking me to take a picture of it to show a few of her friends because they wouldn't believe her without a picture. I finally relented and I am quite sure there must be a few pics of my penis floating on the internet. That ego boost to a young guy with low self-esteem and sketchy confidence was awesome.
I was not "huge" at that time by any stretch of the imagination. Before I ever started with any penis enlargement (which I've been interested in for years but just started a few months ago) , I was around 6.5 inches long and 6 inches in girth. Just looking around here and going by the dimensions of the members, I've spent my life undersized to say the least. But the reaction I had from that woman and the reaction I've had from others even before any penis enlargement was a major ego boost. I guess that makes me small and petty. Fair enough, if I had tons of self-confidence and was a rock star in other areas of my life, I wouldn't probably give a shit how big my dick was or wasn't. I had another female who I dated who let me do anal...once and only once...she was petite and always said afterwards "NO!!! You are too big for my size." There was another who I met in bar who was much younger...she had just turned 21...who told me even that, albeit under the influence of alcohol, that she wanted to be fucked in the ass. As soon she saw my penis at that time she was like "Uhhh...nope...that is not fitting in there." LOL. Oh well. Still...mentally...to have a female say that to you is priceless.
So what is the point of all this??? Size does matter to women. It just does. The gushing of the second woman I slept with was an ego boost that was priceless. Does that mean I had/have self-esteem issues or I am a petty human being? Maybe...probably yes....but damn it was nice. Don't kid yourself. Size matters. If you didn't think so in your own mind, you'd never be on a site like this. The reaction of a female who is pleasantly surprised to seeing something she did not anticipate is a feeling that I can't even properly articulate. You're happy...she's happy...everybody wins. Size doesn't matter? Bullshit. It matters. Don't derive yourself of that pleasure. Pump, stretch, pills...whatever you gotta do. It is totally worth it.
