My girl slept with another guy (possibly unprotected) and never told me!

sikdogg;294987 said:
Keep us posted bro...
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Will do. I'm doing my best to calm myself when I get flashes of hatred. They're much less frequent than they were three days ago. When your blood is boiling like that you're not rational.

I saw the guy today on campus at an event some of his other frat brothers (my good friends) were at. He stayed on the total opposite side of the area facing away.

My roommate told me he talked with him last night, and he's scared for his life it seems.
 
10inchadvantage;294977 said:
I wrote her a letter to give to her in lab today (she's in my class). She ended up skipping again. It seems she's too ashamed to even go to school right now. Whatever, I'm not the one who should be changing my schedule. I'm not saying she deserves to get her grade fucked up, but I don't feel sorry for her at all. I want to share with you guys this letter. I wrote it after meditating and this is it. If she doesn't respond then that's cool, as she'll prove to me her immaturity.

Dear Brooke,

The past few days have been hard on both of us. I have experienced the depths of very low energies. However, last night Jacob and I went out under the stars and moon and meditated. The remarkable transformation that happened surprised even me. The great veil of ego ceased to have hold on the past and situation. Friday afternoon I would like to sit and talk with you honestly; no yelling, no more hurting than what is necessary. If you cannot talk with me Friday for whatever reason, I wish you the life that you need to experience.

LOVE,
Trey

I'm expecting her to not contact me Friday. In which case, I'll be even happier. If she can't be an adult and man-up to her fuck ups then I'm infinitely glad I wouldn't spend any more time with such a weak-charactered woman. Feel me?
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don't give her the note! let her try to contact you. stand your ground. she doesn't deserve any info on your state of being..
 
Don't give her that note. You'll regret it so much in the future. Wait at least a month before you even think about talking with her again.
 
spinner2;294992 said:
Don't give her that note. You'll regret it so much in the future. Wait at least a month before you even think about talking with her again.
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I gave it to a girl in her sorority. I'm not playing any games dude. I set an ultimatum as an adult and she can either take it or leave it.
 
In my experience girls don't react to conversations like this. My guess is she'll either lose interest in you or tell you whatever you want to hear. Pay attention to actions and not words.
 
spinner2;295017 said:
In my experience girls don't react to conversations like this. My guess is she'll either lose interest in you or tell you whatever you want to hear. Pay attention to actions and not words.
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I'm just trying to be mature about this.
 
Here is just my 2 bits. I would dump her and go out looking for more skirt. Skirt is so easy to find and it will make you feel so much better. Any chic that would bone a dude that you "both" know is bad news. Doesn't matter what excuse she gives you. As for the guy well , I was in your situation a long while ago and I always had the motto that if a guy I knew banged my girlfriend I would have to make sure he remembered me. But your talking 20 years ago when you could mess someone up and get away with it or you would be buying beers for each other later on. I would forget the guy and move on. Sounds like your in school and that is way more important than a girl. Someday you will look back and think what the fuck did I see in that skank.....trust me!!
 
She wrote me a letter back. Basically, I'm not going to talk with her anymore. Maybe somewhen long down the road, but now, I've got my business prospects, school, and tons of hot babes at UT to deal with. I just have to look at the future. Nothing but anger will come from me hearing her voice. Her grasp over my thoughts are quickly fading. The second I hook up with an interesting girl who I want to pursue she'll be dropped in my mind for good.

Walking home tonight from doing some programming I was reaffirming to myself, "I am the decision maker of my future. I would not do something I wouldn't rationally want to do. I am the sole authority for my decisions and actions. I am influenced not by what other people want or think, but what I want to happen."
 
I crumbled up and threw the letter that she wrote me into the dumpster. I'm through with her. Time to meet other people. Two big parties this weekend I'm going to. Lots of opportunities.
 
10inchadvantage;295074 said:
I crumbled up and threw the letter that she wrote me into the dumpster. I'm through with her. Time to meet other people. Two big parties this weekend I'm going to. Lots of opportunities.
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Now you're thinking in the right direction. Women come and go.....
 
dude, i havent' talked with you that much, but i just damned near teared up lol. i have been in your shoes just very recently and i feel your pain.
 
samzman;295079 said:
dude, i havent' talked with you that much, but i just damned near teared up lol. i have been in your shoes just very recently and i feel your pain.
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Ya when you get really emotionally involved with anything it'll hurt when it fucks up. I imagine it's similar to trying to start your own business, see it working well for a few years, then just watching it collapse. Although at least in this situation I didn't lose any money.

Honestly if I even heard her voice it'd enrage me. It was hard to let that letter go, the emotional side of me that was still holding on was saying, "No, don't do it. She still loves you. This is something you can hold on to to remember her." SPLAT! The logic/reason side of me is vastly starting to overpower the emotional attachments. I just looked at it, crumbled it up, and threw it in the dumpster without looking back. Time to start a new chapter in my life.
 
Well, she called today and we talked. What I basically said (I kept it short and sweet) was, "Hey, I thought a few days ago I wanted to sit down and talk about this. But now I think we both need some time apart. I'll talk to you later." Then just ended the conversation.

I had seen her earlier in the day when I was riding on my board (before the phone conversation which she had postponed with a call earlier in the day). I was wearing a smile because I have felt so happy and like I'm having the best time of my life. She looked surprised and said, "Hey, how are you?" I just responded with, "We'll talk later," with a smile on my face.

The thing is I went walking on a nature trail here and got into some meditation about it. I truly felt self-actualized, like all of my happiness does come from within. It's great. I'm going to do my best to keep this attitude up, I feel so full of life, like I have unlimited potential to grow.
 
Fuck. She has been spreading rumors about me that I'm a "man whore" and a "player." I had two girls tonight who were interested in me at a party (until I went to the restroom allowing times for the girls to "talk about the predators to help each other out") that ended up calling me out on hearing of me being a "man whore", even though these girls have never met me in my life.

FUCK I'M SO PISSED OFF! This is such immature and untrue bullshit. God damnit!
 
10inchadvantage;295282 said:
Fuck. She has been spreading rumors about me that I'm a "man whore" and a "player." I had two girls tonight who were interested in me at a party (until I went to the restroom allowing times for the girls to "talk about the predators to help each other out") that ended up calling me out on hearing of me being a "man whore", even though these girls have never met me in my life.

FUCK I'M SO PISSED OFF! This is such immature and untrue bullshit. God damnit!
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Thats even more of a reason to walk away from her. Maybe they called you a man whore because of how you came across to them. I just saying, look at the sitiuation from all angles. You just never know unless you got 100% proff.
 
crazyed27;295291 said:
Thats even more of a reason to walk away from her. Maybe they called you a man whore because of how you came across to them. I just saying, look at the sitiuation from all angles. You just never know unless you got 100% proff.
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Yeah could be, but I found it odd when, after I'd come back, the girls wouldn't even feel like talking anymore. I was just messing around, having fun, too. The only time I actually tried to elicit states (through NLP) was with that girl. However, she stayed with me I guess because she was still interested to see if I was really a "man whore." Did my best to prove I wasn't by trying not to go into her apartment with her and just being a gentleman.

I've gotta stay true to myself. I'm not any sort of player. I'm not someone who just bangs random hot girls. Just not my style.
 
If a girl has you walk her home then it's not a shit test. She expects you to escalate in that situation.
 
spinner2;295335 said:
If a girl has you walk her home then it's not a shit test. She expects you to escalate in that situation.
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She was expecting me to escalate to prove I was a "man whore." By not trying to get in her pants I was proving her wrong, and hopefully she could possibly turn the tide against what my now-vengeful ex is trying to create. I'm just going to be a gentleman dude. I'll go this whole semester without getting pussy, I don't really care right now.
 
Being a gentleman is all good but pussy is pussy... i think you need to get laid to help clear your head from all this crap. You know that they say... it's easier to get over someone when you're under someone else. Bro who cares if they think you're a man-whore or not. If it comes up then explain to them that man-whores don't have year long relationships with one chick.
 
sikdogg;295372 said:
Being a gentleman is all good but pussy is pussy... i think you need to get laid to help clear your head from all this crap. You know that they say... it's easier to get over someone when you're under someone else. Bro who cares if they think you're a man-whore or not. If it comes up then explain to them that man-whores don't have year long relationships with one chick.
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That's what I did. Plus, she was a 6 at best. Not my style to go that low.

Thing are going a LOT better but I'll update y'all tomorrow.
 
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