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Circumcision became widespread in the United States during the 1800's. In the repressive atmosphere of those olden days, it was touted as a cure for masturbation, which was believed to cause mental illness, laziness and a host of other ailments. In the begining, women as well as men were circumcised. The ugly and unveiled motive behind this procedure was to lessen sexual pleasure. They picked no bones about it at the time, as phobic fear of sex's sinfullness was hysterically high. "Scared that sinful lust will sentence you or your children to hell? Let us cut off the good parts so you or your kids won't have to worry about it anymore."

Over the decades, as our society became less sexually repressed, the true genesis of circumcision was obscured behind a curtain of lies. The simple medical procedure was a money-maker, so the medical industry had to come up with reasons to keep the mill running. Without research or reason, circumcision was hyped to be a prophylactic for everything ranging from UTIs to cervical cancer. It was pushed on uneducated mothers as being cleaner and more aesthetically pleasing for their child to have a skinned penis. As the operation was done on children, the vast majority did not even know what was taken away, or even that anything was missing. The circumcised penis-- lacking prepuce and all the rest of the specialized sexual structures-- was portrayed as the norm, the ideal model. What a perfect scam! We didn't even know what we were missing!

Like I said, circumcision was touted as a cure for masturbation, so let's talk about masturbation.

There's no need to feel embarassed. We all do it. I'll go first. Before I began to restore, I masturbated like this: when I was in the mood, I would get an erection. Because of a lack of shaft skin, my erections were always very tight. There was no give to the skin at all. I would use lube, either skin lotion or just spit, and I would stroke myself, concentrating most of the stimulation on the remnants of my frenar tissue on the bottom side of the shaft, or on the glans, squeezing it tightly as I stroked upwards. For added sensation, I would sometimes pull downwards on the scrotum to stretch the mucosal tissue even tighter.

Here is how I masturbate now...I usually begin slower and take my time a little more than I used to. I get erect a little easier because it feels better overall. I will usually start by squeezing the shaft and rolling and plucking at my growing fauxskin, just kind of massaging it, and squeezing the glans through the skin. I don't use lube anymore because the skin is loose enough to pull completely over the glans now. I vary my stroke, going fast, going slow, always using the skin. If I get super hard, I can feel the ridge of the head "snap" under the skin as it goes across it. Sometimes I will stretch the skin tight on the sides and let the head pop through back and forth. Sometimes I will just pull the skin over the head and massage it around. The best, though, is when I start getting some pre-cum going and it gets under the skin. It feels slick and kind of bubbly and really feels good squishing between the skin and the glans. That's normally when the frenar tissue that I have left seems to start "snapping" up under the skin against the head. It is kind of like a pulling-throbbing pleasure. It's fantastic. When I cum, it is noticeably stronger. The build-up to orgasm lasts longer and kind of makes me see stars, and when it hits, it is much more physical, seeming to pulse through my whole crotch.

The only way I can describe the difference in orgasms is like this:

An regular orgasm for me now feels slightly better than the very best, strongest orgasms I had before I restored.

A really good orgasm for me now is worlds past that. It will actually make me have to stop and collect my thoughts for a second and I will feel shaken and almost high after. I did not feel that way before.

I am not exaggerating. This is not meant to make anyone feel bad. I am mainly interested in hearing from other restorers. I had a very damaging circ and so I am wondering if others notice such a dramatic difference, or if I am just an extreme case.

One other thing of note. I have noticed that I am more likely to masturbate without ejaculating now. Not sure why. I kind of do more edging now than I did before restoring. I guess it is just that the orgasm, like member raffiki said in another thread, is just not as important now that the pleasure is more "full".
 
Hi I'm 23-M, i used to masturbate at least once at week, i would like to know if masturbating alot or less is good for the health?

Now I masturbate 5 times a week, i currently don't have a girl friend cause i don't feel secure about penis length, which is close to 5.5 -6.2, and i sometimes don't think its enough,I actually get to meet girls etc, but when it comes to sex i just have to break it up cause of the insecurity, I do like masturbating and for weeks its becoming like a Hobie, before i started i used to enjoy it , now i sometimes enjoy doing it.

What do you have to say about this?, please help...
 
hopesome1 said:
Hi I'm 23-M, i used to masturbate at least once at week, i would like to know if masturbating alot or less is good for the health?

Now I masturbate 5 times a week, i currently don't have a girl friend cause i don't feel secure about penis length, which is close to 5.5 -6.2, and i sometimes don't think its enough,I actually get to meet girls etc, but when it comes to sex i just have to break it up cause of the insecurity, I do like masturbating and for weeks its becoming like a Hobie, before i started i used to enjoy it , now i sometimes enjoy doing it.

What do you have to say about this?, please help...

Mate ive been masturbating daily since i was 11,i'm nearly 33 now and happily married,in my teens i used to wank 3-4 times a day,even now including having sex i still wank at least once a day.

Don't worry about the size of your dick you are about the same as 95% of other blokes,start an other thread in the sexuality forum and i'm sure you will get plenty of advice.

Kong i no i'm uncut but like i said in another post from the �naked people movies�'s ive watched cut men seem to really rub the head quite aggressively to bring themselves off,i only rub up to the head and the foreskin does the rest,a little bit lube under the foreskin feels excellent,so i can understand what you are starting to experience.
 
Kong, what did you do to get to your stage now of restoring? was it mainly through cross tape?
 
When I started, I was mainly pumping. I wasn't restoring, just compensating in an ignorant fashion for sensory loss, due to keratinization of the glans. As I gained some loose skin, I got curious about it.

Researching into restoration, I began to cross tape. I did this for quite some time, as I was cut very tight and had no slack skin to tug.

As I became more loosely cut, I switched to the tlc tugger for about four months.

Currently, I am experimenting with pumping again, on the advice of forum member German Stallion. I am basically giving myself "donuts" on purpose to stretch out the inner mucosal tissue. It does seem to be working, but I am not going to go into detail about it until I have been doing it for awhile and get more experienced with it. I will post an article with instructions and the pros and cons when I feel I know enough about it. I have been haunting some pumping forums and stuff, too, trying to get feedback from vet pumpers about pumping and FR.

On a side note: I apologize to the guys who sent me PMs lately. I am moving right now and have been very, very busy. I will not be able to answer your PMs immediately. If you cannot wait for answers, I encourage you to use the search feature here on MOS. Most of the questions I have been asked lately are answered in threads already.
 
Hey, Kong, so you are trying the pumping bit, HUH? Friend, I didn't mean for the foreskin restoration to take place, but with my pumping, it did. Cause you are so wanting it, hope it works for you. PM me and let me know what you are experinecing. Anxious to hear from you. I agree with you about the orgasm being different. Often I don't ejaculate in sex encounters with the wife. Just don't, but I am satisfied..don't know if that makes sense. GS
 
Hey kong, i have been restoring for a year now and it amazing how my masterbation experience is pretty much idetical to yours...

its great that i no longer need lube, i used to get skin chaffs if i didnt lube, now i can role away happily without any problems or pain

i also experienced the same difference in orgasms, the worst now is like a good one before, and the best now is way off the old scale....

when you really understand how harmful circ is, you cant belive it really goes on in this day and age...
 
Thanks for joining the site, CJ. And thanks for posting your experiences. If more restorers would talk about the things they are experiencing, it might help convince those who are not decided or totally against it.
 
I'm cut but I think I have a little natural FR because I do have slightly loose skin, always have and when I orgasm during masturbation or sex it always makes my eyes roll back and toes curl if you no what I mean. rarely have I ever had a weak orgasm but I admit it has happened usually about the 4th-5th time in one day of sex or masturbation. when i was alittle younger I used to get kind of crazy with it I think I did 10-11 times in one evening but thats my record.
 
I remember those days! I was like 13 and decided one night I was going to see how many times in a row I could beat my meat and fire off a jizz. I think I got to 10 or 11 times too before I ran out of bullets...and energy!

lol

You sound like you are one of the lucky loose cut guys. I'm glad. I went through most of my life thinking, "Yeah, sex is alright, but kind of over-hyped." When I discovered Penis Enlargement and foreskin restoration, I began to get my cock into shape and have what a lot of men take for granted: loose, rolling shaft skin, sensitive glans, awesome orgasms, etc. You can't blame a guy for going a little crazy when suddenly, after thirty years, sex was actually all it was talked up to being. I think now I was kind of deluded, thinking all men were missing this, when I believe now that I was actually kind of fucked over by being too tightly circumcised, with too much scarring, and unlucky again having a glans that got calloused and desensitized too early in life. Still, I think there are alot of men who have problems with their circs and don't realize it because that's how it's always been. We know how to fix it now. The message of FR is out there, and so is the truth about circumcision. Hopefully, someday soon we won't blindly offer ourselves and our children up to the knife for what is basically a partially-demasculating cosmetic procedure. I think the American medical industry has scammed enough flesh and money off us!!!
 
I was cut very tightly as well kong and i understand your thoughts as if they were my own. I like the way you talk, its obvious to me you understand whats really happening here
 
That's very similar to me there kong, like reading something I wrote. I always thought sex was over-hyped, like what's the big deal?
Well I found out why it aint as good as it's meant to be (calloused glans, no fren and butchered mucosa) something which I thought was normal for quite a while.
I still have the benefits to experience but I am getting closer everyday.
KOT.
 
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