ICanCureThis2

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Hello everybody . I'm not sure where to post this, I'm a bit loss on this website . Well anyway , here my problem .

A few months ago (4) I decided to jelq for the first time . I warned up for 10 minutes then started doing the streching . I skimmed through the instructions and watched the videos and tried to emulate it . I made tons of mistakes . While steching, My grip was on the glans , while Jelqing , I'm sure I didn't do the proper way " under hand or whatever " also , I Jelqing while erected because I was very sensitive I guess . Like for every 10 jelqs , I'd do 3 or 4 100% erected or close . The whole routine took me a Little over 2 hours to do . What took a long time was the Jelqing because I wanted to be careful . So much for that lol.

Anyway , I did 150 jelqs and 90 v jelqs . After that I warned down for 5 minutes and feel asleep . I honestly had no idea what was going to be in store for me 2 days later . I tried to test my errection in the shower because I notice that my penis flaccid size increased . Like right away . I was surprised . It was about 1 inch flaccid length before I Jelqed , but now it was 2 1/2 about . Keep in mind . I just Did 1 Jelqing session but I was happy , I was wondering if my errection size had change too ... Well.. I couldn't get an errection .

I basically started to panic . It was horrible in all honesty . I looked it up and assumed I had hard flaccid . I'm sure all of you guys know what that is . Well, a week goes by and I get my errection back . For some reason though , it feels and doesn't look as hard as it used to be . It felt like my penis was filled with air . I came to the conclusion that what I had wasn't hard flaccid . It's been dubed " large faccid " lor over extended flaccid "
Here are the Symptoms .
• penis in flaccid state now hangs lower .

Like me . I gained over an increase in flaccid size . My penis hasn't retracted to its original size age sometimes it can hang over 3 inches . It chances length .

•Penis pleasure sensation is gone
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For example . I can still feel hot and cold , and pressure when I jack off or fuck my gf, but no good feeling . It feels like touching your arm or jacking off your finger . Yep . That sucks . I can still feel the tip of my penis and my orgasms . Though . The pleasure of them has been reduced by 40 % and they aren't as powerful as they used too . I'm happy I can still feel them .

* Lost of full bladder sensation
I can't feel with my bladder is full .thr urge to go pee is almost gone . The only reason I know when to pee is because the tip of my penis stars to tingle .

ED (depends)

The few people with this condition have trouble getting and maintaining errections . I'm lucky enough to only have minor Ed. I can still get hard enough for sex by just making out with my gf. A lot of people who suffer from this can't even get boners for sex, even with the help of medication , though it has helped a few people in the past . For me, for example . I have trouble getting full errections by myself , but with my gf, I get like 80 to 90% ,good for sex :)


I guess what am asking for is help . I have no idea on what to do . Or what's wrong with me . If you guys have any theroys about what's wrong with my penis , let me know :) remember

The penis is always long and soft , never hard unless I get a boner . If you want more details, look up " over extended flaccid " and it should be the first result . It explains it better than me . Any thoughts will be appreciated . Thank you .
 
what are v jelqs? your condition sounds not related to PE at all. make sure your diet is good and you are getting exercise. Do kegals and build your stamina back up slowly. How old are you and have you had ED problems before?
 
Thanks for the reply . And I'm 19 years old . Me errections were 100% perfect . Now , they are not . It all happened after I Jelqed . And honestly . I forgot what v jelqs are . I think it involves using your 2 fingers forming a v shape and Jelqing like that .
 
I would avoid jelqs from here forward. I used jelqing way back when I first started and gained from it/them, but they have never been one of my favored exercises. They are very inefficient. They take way too much time to do for what you get in return. Also, the injuries I have seen over the years in PE usually if not always, come from jelqs done incorrectly. You probably caused yourself some sort of nerve damage. That and potentially some psychological trauma. Nobody can give you an honest diagnosis over the internet though. I would suggest a visit with a urologist. Be honest with what you think caused your current issues. I am willing to bet, if you leave your penis alone for a few days, things will start to improve.
 
ICanCureThis2;683248 said:
Thanks for the reply . And I'm 19 years old . Me errections were 100% perfect . Now , they are not . It all happened after I Jelqed . And honestly . I forgot what v jelqs are . I think it involves using your 2 fingers forming a v shape and Jelqing like that .

Are you able to get erect during masturbation?
 
stillwantmore2;683534 said:
I would avoid jelqs from here forward. I used jelqing way back when I first started and gained from it/them, but they have never been one of my favored exercises. They are very inefficient. They take way too much time to do for what you get in return. Also, the injuries I have seen over the years in PE usually if not always, come from jelqs done incorrectly. You probably caused yourself some sort of nerve damage. That and potentially some psychological trauma. Nobody can give you an honest diagnosis over the internet though. I would suggest a visit with a urologist. Be honest with what you think caused your current issues. I am willing to bet, if you leave your penis alone for a few days, things will start to improve.

Thanks for reply man . I agree . It or some never damage because my dick gets no pleasure sensation what so ever . Like I said. If I touch it , it feels like I'm touching my finger or arm . Also, I've left it alone for 3 weeks and nothing . I can still have sex , which I'm greatful for . It's the no pleasure sensation. That is killing me . I'm hoping my nerves will heal but it's been over 4 months already :/
This whole large flaccid thing is a whole different thing that hard flaccid . You should look up the thread in Pegym by ho1985. He's been dealing with this for almost 4 years . Another user on this site " mrneslssion" I believe , had a worse case of large faccid than me ( couldn't get errections at all ) he later took viagra and that helped him . Which is strange , because he's the first person with large faccid to have Ed drugs work on him . He's been dealing with this since 07 and he's last sigh in was about 2 months ago . I'm hoping he replies to my messege. Thank you all for your replies . I appreciate it .
 
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doublelongdaddy;683589 said:
Are you able to get erect during masturbation?

And I don't like getting errect when I masturbare . I masturbare flaccid using my legs , which doesn't feel good , but once I'm about to cum, it starts feeling pretty good :) I just miss my pleasure sensation when I would touch my dick... Now it feels like I'm touching my arm .Thanks for the reply !
 
ICanCureThis2;683776 said:
And I don't like getting errect when I masturbare . I masturbare flaccid using my legs , which doesn't feel good , but once I'm about to cum, it starts feeling pretty good :) I just miss my pleasure sensation when I would touch my dick... Now it feels like I'm touching my arm .Thanks for the reply !

lol what ? you masturbate with your legs and during masturbation you dont like to get erect ? am I missing something ?
 
ICanCureThis2;683776 said:
And I don't like getting errect when I masturbare . I masturbare flaccid using my legs , which doesn't feel good , but once I'm about to cum, it starts feeling pretty good :) I just miss my pleasure sensation when I would touch my dick... Now it feels like I'm touching my arm .Thanks for the reply !

I guess my question was more; Are you able to get a 100% erection in any situation?
 
ICanCureThis2;683776 said:
And I don't like getting errect when I masturbare . I masturbare flaccid using my legs , which doesn't feel good , but once I'm about to cum, it starts feeling pretty good :) I just miss my pleasure sensation when I would touch my dick... Now it feels like I'm touching my arm .Thanks for the reply !
Lol what
 
From what you said to look up, it seems like you have chronic pelvic pain syndrome (CPPS). Its common for people with "hard flaccid" as well. However, Im not a doctor though, so take this info with a grain of salt.
 
Alright , I know feel bad for being the only dude in the world to masturbare using his legs / thighs ;-; ever since I started masturbateing (age 12) I accident discovered it by rubbing my legs/ thighs against each other randomly and got a weird sensation. I kept rubbing my legs until I cummed . I never liked jacking of the normal way .

Anyway . On to the errection questions . Yes. I can get an errection good enough for sex. I have weekly sex with my girlfriend and not once have I failed to get it up :) the main issue here is the plasure sensation . Like I said earlier , it feels like I'm running my arm then I touch my dick.

I'm honestly am lost I guess . I'm not sure if I damaged my penis or if I have pelvic floor disfunction . The only thing is that my flaccid isn't hard . It's always long and squishy . Look it up . No one with Large flaccid has made a recovery . A decent amount of people with hard flaccid have . I'm hoping this is some different version of hard flaccid but I doubt it . Thanks for the replys everyone . :)
 
Brother I read carefully what you wrote in first and last post and it really seems like this is not related to PE and you should consult this with specialist.
Its very hard to diagnose anything over the internet.
 
Again, are you able to become 100% erect in any situation? Important question.
 
doublelongdaddy;684032 said:
Again, are you able to become 100% erect in any situation? Important question.

Yes I can . It just takes more time/ longer.

Yesterday , I had sex and cummed. 5 minutes later and I was as hard as a rock again and had sex again . So yes . I can get a hard in any sistuation .
 
BigBeardBig;683969 said:
Brother I read carefully what you wrote in first and last post and it really seems like this is not related to PE and you should consult this with specialist.
Its very hard to diagnose anything over the internet.

This all happened after I did PE man :/ I was perfectly find before I decided to jelq , it was my fault for being careless . I don't blame PE.
 
ICanCureThis2;684130 said:
Yes I can . It just takes more time/ longer.

Yesterday , I had sex and cummed. 5 minutes later and I was as hard as a rock again and had sex again . So yes . I can get a hard in any sistuation .

So your issue is not getting erections, since you can get 100% erect, it seems more like a mental or fatigue issue.
 
doublelongdaddy;684148 said:
So your issue is not getting erections, since you can get 100% erect, it seems more like a mental or fatigue issue.
Does fatigue last for 4 months ? Something is wrong man, plus the nerve damage I have . Nothing here is mental . For some reason, my large flaccid isn't as bad as others . I'm gussing I didn't damage my penis aa bad as the other users . Idk . All I'm hoping for is that I get sensation in my penis again .
 
doublelongdaddy;684148 said:
So your issue is not getting erections, since you can get 100% erect, it seems more like a mental or fatigue issue.

negative mind=a bad time for the penis n body...:p:)
 
All this nerve damage and Erect Dysfunction from the first and only jelq session...

Steps/routine you told us: First time - Jelq session [Four months ago]

  • 10-minute warm-up
  • Skimmed through the instructions (videos) and tried to emulate it.
  • Made tons of mistakes
  • Grip was on the glans, while Jelqing
  • Unsure of the proper technique
  • Every 10 jelqs, do 3 or 4 @ 100% erect
  • Routine took over 2 hours

That was your very first routine/experience with Jelqing... do you see anything wrong, why would you have a 4-month bad experience afterwards?
 
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