How to get over penis size?

Hey guys, just wanted to know how some of you become comfortable with your penis size? I recently fell on one of those big penis forums were evreybody post pics of the biggest dicks found on the internet. And it made me very uncomfortable. Its as if I cant accept that others might have a bigger penis than me. Or worse yet, that the girls I get with have been with way bigger ones than mine...

What are ways to get over this constant fear of running into a girl that has been with a 9 1/2 by 7 thick?

I dont know why I see the penis as the ultimate rating tool for how much value I have to the women? I know I have a problem with fear of getting judged by others in general, but the way I feel is as if I could have evreything perfect with me, but if my dick is small, it brings me back to a 0 on a scale of 1 to 10.

I understand that this statement does not make sense but how do I get this out of my head?

Its been a problem in all of my relationships where I avoid the "whats the biggest you had" conversation with my girlfrends to the point were I have trouble enjoying a connection.

Im beggining to wonder if Id want to continue this life if I cant let go of this..

Can she take the whole 9 1/2"?

Guys care more about size than most women do. Chicks can only have sensation about 4 inches deep into their vag. This would mean girth is more of what a woman can feel. Don't be so worried about what a woman will think of your dick. A good woman that you want will love you for you. No one is perfect and woman have many insecurities and similar fears. Most women haven been with a 9 inch man. Over 90% of guys fall into the average size range. I've known some girls who have had that and they didn't enjoy it, it caused pain. Anyway don't worry about it and learn all you can on here if you want to gain size. I'm up an inch in length and a half inch in girth so it is posible

if you play the strict odds, chances of a girl ever coming in contact with a 9.5x7 dick is slim to nil, as that is fucking huge. overall, you just have to learn to let go of the things that you dont have control of. say she was with someone who had a monster dick, she is either no longer with him, or is cheating on him with you. Either way, that means that there is more to the equation than dick size.

Steph19875;524163 said:

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Im beggining to wonder if Id want to continue this life if I cant let go of this..

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Dude snap out of it! It makes me sad and angry that poor men like yourself contemplate suicide just because that you are afraid some bitch will tell you you have a small dick and cant please her royally loose pussy. Dont ever even think about taking your life over some bitch! Or grab the damned bull by the horns and go get a big penis yourself!

A naturally well-endowed man is like a naturally beautiful looking woman at having sex. They just lay there depending on the other person to do all the work.

Steph19875 as a person in a system of human organization (society), we have a tendency to compare ourselves to others for a rating of where one stand among the peers. Whether it be grades in school, accomplishment in sports, amount of earning potential, number of possessions acquired, or the size of stature. First, you have to accept what you have, know your limitations, work on what you can improve, be confident, and never-mind what you have no-control over. Count your blessings, you could be smaller than you are now. You can only go forward from here...

"No matter what size the tool (penis) may be, you still have to know how to use it properly."

Usually women will take a man with an average size penis and confident over a man with a big penis and no confidence in the long run. One of the beauties of this world is having options... not all women want a huge dick to have sex with. So, enjoy those type until you out-grow them (LoL)

two rules.

1. never care what anyone (man or woman) thinks about your penis.. its a mental and emotional black hole. you will never win this argument if you engage in it mentally. its a battle in your mind, not in reality.

2. never, under any circumstance, ever ever ever think negative thoughts about your own penis. like they say "how can you love if you can't love yourself?". if you think negative and engage in this you will also never win. it will never be good enough. i cant "prove" it but i 100% believe that having negative thoughts about your penis will effect your Penis Enlargement negatively and you won't "see gains" even if the ruler tells you its getting bigger. i believe having a positive attitude about your penis will improve your Penis Enlargement and help you to engage in the long haul. its a lifetime of experience, not a short term quick fix. enjoy it.

sex is more than dick size. if you think that dick size matters for your sex then you will never "measure up". im telling you, your dick is fine. and no matter how big your dick is you need to know more skills. focus on the woman during sex, not your own cock. women complaint is that guys with a "big dick" think that just having a "big dick" is all it takes. if you can know her and get her off she wil never have a complaint. if she wants it bigger go to a ���� shop and get her a __________ size dildo. $30, problem solved. guarantee she will cry at the sight.

for me, Penis Enlargement is a personal thing and not really about sex with my partner. sure, thats a bonus but honestly my girl doesnt really enjoy my size as it is (it hurts balls deep and going hard) and she wouldn't be happier with it bigger. honestly she tells me she likes it best when Im kinda 80% hard and not fully rock hard. i think rock hard jabs her too much. she loves anal, or the idea of it, but my dick wont go in really easy and it takes time. she can only "deep throat" when I'm limpish. she is an average woman. the vast majority of women have only been with average men, 5-6 inches. everyonce in awhile thye had one bigger or smaller. being bigger wont make much difference to the majority of women. they dont care. they only act liek they do because they think men care.

one more rule.... talking about past relationships should be off the table if you want to be serious. grow up. there is no reason at all to ask her about "whats the biggest" or how many men she has had. who cares if she got DP'ed while sucking a guy and jacking off two others??? does it really matter? thats not a conversation you need to engage in, it is 100% ONLY about your insecurity and you will gain NOTHING from this conversation.

your last sentence seems suicidal. honestly, your problem is not your dick size and unless you get your mind right you will never be happy 5 inches or 25. real talk. wake up.

I have never gotten comfortable with my size, I guess that's why I keep doing Penis Enlargement after 6 years. I think about giving it up sometimes, I've made some great gains over the years but I just can't do it. I keep looking for that next 1/4 inch. Don't believe a lot of the pics you see on the internet; a lot of it is fake. If you are unhappy about your penis size, do something about it. You won't find a better place than this to get started.

Threak-X;524187 said:

A naturally well-endowed man is like a naturally beautiful looking woman at having sex. They just lay there depending on the other person to do all the work.

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Come on, dude.... That's a foolish thing to say..

Threak-X;524187 said:

A naturally well-endowed man is like a naturally beautiful looking woman at having sex. They just lay there depending on the other person to do all the work.

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MikeShlort;524215 said:

Come on, dude.... That's a foolish thing to say..

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It's only one aspect of it all, otherwords, natural size and beautiful alone isn't enough.

Yeah but everyone knows that. The "a big penis is useless if the guy doesn't know how to use it" line is a cop out. He knows how to use it. And probably more than a guy with a smaller penis, because he has more sex and girls will be more honest with him. In general.

^ not really dude.

b.d.d.;524346 said:

^ not really dude.

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Explain why not

A gf actually told me I was big but didn't know how to use it. Another one asked why we couldn't do what other people do. Pretty useless clues, but they were both talking about stuff you learn here about how to work their areas.

Back then I wasn't "just laying there depending on the other person", like Threak-X said, so a third gf said,"Why do you have to move? Why don't you just lay there and let me do what I want?". She wanted to spend more time in her first two inches, and I learned to sense that. She still like to do it herself, though.

pnoewbe;524366 said:

Back then I wasn't "just laying there depending on the other person", like Threak-X said, so a third gf said,"Why do you have to move? Why don't you just lay there and let me do what I want?". She wanted to spend more time in her first two inches, and I learned to sense that. She still like to do it herself, though.

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Gold.

MikeShlort;524345 said:

Yeah but everyone knows that. The "a big penis is useless if the guy doesn't know how to use it" line is a cop out. He knows how to use it. And probably more than a guy with a smaller penis, because he has more sex and girls will be more honest with him. In general.

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... it's a generalization.
Probably ...?

Okay il tell you both sides of the story so you can calm down a little with your assumptions ( cmon now Threak-X really?). When I was 6.5x6 I got laid only about 2 times since I was only 15-16, but it was mostly because I learned overtime how to lure girls into my mind game and make them my own for the night. But when I got to 10x7 I didnt only get them for the night, but for the whole freaking year. My point is in a one night stand a big penis isnt that important I agree, but if you want to be able to cope with multiple fuck buddies you better have something big mofo cause the girl wont be staying with you just because you were royally nice with her. Now Im a truth teller so dont go calling bullshit on this cause Im telling you the biggest players do have bigger dicks, cause you know why most of the time big dick= subconscient confidence. Im sure you know girls like confidence alot more than some boozo with a meat clubber.

I know some of you will tell me I should shut the fuck up I started with a 6inch girth. But I am entitled to an opinion same as you, atleast Im backing up my opinion with trail-error based facts and not covering it up with "poetic sentences" and a ton of discourse markers.

Anyways, back to some more important stuff. How are you doing Steph, I hope you will consider our advice and go live a fuller life instead of thinking about suicide.There's no excuse for the need to take your own life away, everyone passes through some rough obstacles if life, just face them as they come along, there's always a way to overcome those obstacles, and learn from your experiences.