How do I work PE into a busy schedule with new job and living with gf?

wickedshlong · Nov 23, 2014

Okay, so after working some crummy jobs over the past few years I have finally landed a decent job and have my career on track after finishing college

took me a couple years to get here but was worth the effort and struggle.

I now live with my girlfriend of 4 years and I don't think she'll understand PE if I just explain it to her without my penis growing a bit first and then being able to say "okay you can see i'm bigger and this is how I did it". She works in healthcare and obviously there's next to no literature on PE so I imagine she'll just dismiss it at first without any results - she is an intelligent girl as are many others who wrongly dismiss PE.

I work the same sort of amount of time as her and we leave the house and get back from work around the same time.

How do I fit PE into this schedule of mine now that I am no longer at college and I want to keep it to myself for a few months until I get the results to show her that what I am doing is legit?

I am sure I am not the only one here who has this question and/or been in this situation. Can someone please help advise me on how to do this? I genuinely think that now I have some stability in my life, I can make some decent gains and work it into my schedule; I'm just not to sure how and would appreciate hearing about how others here manage to do it.

Many thanks to all those who take the time to read this, or even better - reply.

Zambrodom3 · Nov 23, 2014

Most of us here are working. If you work 8 hours a day (in which you have breaks when you go to the toilet and can pull off some stretches for a minute or two. Plus if you get some ADS/Extender type of device you can wear it while you work. SG- I do not own a SG, but I've read about many brothers around wearing it while they work. PF is an amazing tool you can consider buying- it is invisible under your clothes and no one would know you are PE-ing) and sleep 8 more (in which you can wear some ANS like the PF, autoxsleeve, divosuit, stealth sleeve for example)- the rest 8 hours you can do whatever you want. It is true that the more you stretch- the more you will gain, but the actual manual routine (if you are going to have one) would take no more than an hour, an hour and a half (it REALLY depends on what you're doing though). The rest of the time you can heal actively using the SRT principles.

Your girlfriend- you can either tell her you PE or keep it a secret from her. If you tell her you PE- you will not have to give explanations on what DAFUQ are you doing in the bathroom for so long (while you PE) which would make it all much easier. BUT (!!!!!!!!!!)- you are the one who knows how she will react to it, having your girl supporting your PE is probably the best thing in a PE relationship, but you have to be careful, cause she might go berserk mode (

!) If you don't tell her (which I think is the better option)- you can just wait till you increase your size (just as you said) and then tell her about PE and that it actually works. My advice is- if you ever decide to tell her- tell her that you do it for her- so you can be a better man for her, because you think she deserves the best and that's what you are trying to give her. That way she will see that you are taking the relationship seriously and are ready to do whatever it takes to make her feel better.

So, I think you have time to PE (whether it be manual or not) you can still do it. I hope my answer helped you! All the best, Zam

DLD · Nov 24, 2014

Creativity is your road to workouts. Since your schedules are the same you will need to work out a stealth routine that can be broken into sessions throughout the day. I suggest first getting up 1/2 to 1 hour earlier than your girl, this will give you time to get a good girth session in. From there you can address length through 5 minute stretch sessions every bathroom break you take. Getting a SizeGenetics or Phallosan would be a very smart move that would take little effort on your part and guys using these devices are making great gains. I would say after a good month of training she will notice the changes and from there you can tell her if you want...believe me she will notice.

KingD · Nov 24, 2014

Hey WICKEDSCHLONG....I can totally relate to your situation. I was just in that very situation for 2 years and let me tell you that if your really going to get into PE while in a relationship and have a hectic schedule that to stay consistant with your exercises, she will find out eventually. I that I hid my PE gear and the effects PE had on my penis very well, but surely enough just last week my girlfriend dropped a heavy hint that she knew I was doing something related to making my dick bigger. Now that she knows its alot less stressful and it has opened up a new kind of dialogue for us. I mean our relationship was great, imagine a relationship were you can have sex after a girth session and have her encourage you to continue with your PE. I show her my PE gear and she seems to be very interested. But than again every woman is not the same so only you can gauge how she would react by knowing your woman enough to know if she is that open minded. Try bringing it up in soft conversation like "I say a site online that has exercises that will increa sd e the size of a guys penis, can you believe that?"....Gauge her reaction by what she says but dont forget to look at her body language. It will tell you more than she will say out of her mouth. Need anymore advice, dont be afraid to ask.

stillwantmore · Nov 24, 2014

If you want it bad enough, you will find time. I have a full time job, a business and married family life. I don't desire to do PE right now.

LONGERDICK7+ · Nov 24, 2014

doublelongdaddy;621816 said:
Creativity is your road to workouts. Since your schedules are the same you will need to work out a stealth routine that can be broken into sessions throughout the day. I suggest first getting up 1/2 to 1 hour earlier than your girl, this will give you time to get a good girth session in. From there you can address length through 5 minute stretch sessions every bathroom break you take. Getting a SizeGenetics or Phallosan would be a very smart move that would take little effort on your part and guys using these devices are making great gains. I would say after a good month of training she will notice the changes and from there you can tell her if you want...believe me she will notice.

smart move hehe

User182811 · Nov 24, 2014

That does sort of suck that you guys are on the exact same schedules.

I would try to take as many breaks as possible and stretch during that time. Wearing an extender can also help but it is definitely noticable unless you wear some fairly loose fitting pants or shorts.

And if you think you can sneak a bathmate into the shower with you and have about 10-15 minutes of privacy I would suggest pumping in the shower. If not, then you could at least jelq.

And I recommend kegeling and reverse kegeling throughout the day.

boohoohoo · Nov 24, 2014

The way I see it you have 4 good options, but before I lay them out I want to say something else. PE is not a quick fix, and even the people with the most humble goals spend at least a couple of years on it to see the results they want. If you want more than just humble gains you are looking at a long road. Now if you decide that is for you, you need to make the smart decision to tell your GF so you can do this without the hurdles. It is hard enough doing PE anyways, and you are making it much harder by trying to conceal it. IMO, and this is just my opinion, if you can't handle that then you should just save your time and money and forget it.

That being said, here are my recommendations in order of what I think will give the best results and be most practical if you have to conceal your PE. The first three are for length if that is your main goal, and the last one is for girth.

1. Get a hanger of some sort (Lengthmaster, Bib, LG, etc.) and practice hardcore hanging. You can read more about this as there is a huge sticky for it in the hanging section. Basically the idea here is to do one or two 20 minute sets a day and focus on increasing weight in a cautious but prudent manner. The general rule with hanging is to do no less than 10 hours a week, but the hardcore hanging idea is to use less time and instead focus on heavier weights. Some people swear by this, and all you have to do is wake up a half an hour early and go hang in the bathroom. If your gf ever sees you with the weights just you are working on toning your arms more.

2. Manual work. You can try to do the newbie routine except instead of jelqing just double the amount of time you do stretching. For this all you have to do is wake up and go to the bathroom 30 minutes early and just use your hands. The good thing is you have no equipment to hide, but in my case the bad news was I saw little to no gains.

3. Buy an extender. The golden rule for extenders is that for every 1000 hours under tension you should gain 1 inch. If you can find the right extender and wear it under your pants at work you should focus on getting at least 4-6 hours a day. The major issue here is concealing it. If you can figure that out, then all you have to do is go to the restroom every once in a while, take it off, dry jelq and stretch your cock manually to restore blood flow, and then just strap it on again. Many guys have used extenders and gained, and I recommend if you take this route to make sure to buy a vacuum attachment so you don't lose circulation. The negative here is that you have to wear the thing for so many hours that it can be annoying.

Girth:

1. The bathmate. If you are mainly focused on girth then the solution for you is the bathmate. Just get up 30 minutes early, take it in the shower, use it for 5-15 minutes, then jelq and SSJ in the shower for 10-15 minutes. This should be enough to slowly get your girth up, and by the time you need to increase your intensity/time you will already have the results to be able to tell your GF as you had mentioned you would in the OP. The issue with this is hiding the thing until you get results, which might be a bit tricky.

LONGERDICK7+ · Nov 24, 2014

But she should accept it simple as that, and if she is not accepting well she is ok whit the size of your penis....

youknowme123321 · Nov 24, 2014

boohoohoo;621884 said:
The way I see it you have 4 good options, but before I lay them out I want to say something else. PE is not a quick fix, and even the people with the most humble goals spend at least a couple of years on it to see the results they want. If you want more than just humble gains you are looking at a long road. Now if you decide that is for you, you need to make the smart decision to tell your GF so you can do this without the hurdles. It is hard enough doing PE anyways, and you are making it much harder by trying to conceal it. IMO, and this is just my opinion, if you can't handle that then you should just save your time and money and forget it.

That being said, here are my recommendations in order of what I think will give the best results and be most practical if you have to conceal your PE. The first three are for length if that is your main goal, and the last one is for girth.

1. Get a hanger of some sort (Lengthmaster, Bib, LG, etc.) and practice hardcore hanging. You can read more about this as there is a huge sticky for it in the hanging section. Basically the idea here is to do one or two 20 minute sets a day and focus on increasing weight in a cautious but prudent manner. The general rule with hanging is to do no less than 10 hours a week, but the hardcore hanging idea is to use less time and instead focus on heavier weights. Some people swear by this, and all you have to do is wake up a half an hour early and go hang in the bathroom. If your gf ever sees you with the weights just you are working on toning your arms more.

2. Manual work. You can try to do the newbie routine except instead of jelqing just double the amount of time you do stretching. For this all you have to do is wake up and go to the bathroom 30 minutes early and just use your hands. The good thing is you have no equipment to hide, but in my case the bad news was I saw little to no gains.

3. Buy an extender. The golden rule for extenders is that for every 1000 hours under tension you should gain 1 inch. If you can find the right extender and wear it under your pants at work you should focus on getting at least 4-6 hours a day. The major issue here is concealing it. If you can figure that out, then all you have to do is go to the restroom every once in a while, take it off, dry jelq and stretch your cock manually to restore blood flow, and then just strap it on again. Many guys have used extenders and gained, and I recommend if you take this route to make sure to buy a vacuum attachment so you don't lose circulation. The negative here is that you have to wear the thing for so many hours that it can be annoying.

Girth:

1. The bathmate. If you are mainly focused on girth then the solution for you is the bathmate. Just get up 30 minutes early, take it in the shower, use it for 5-15 minutes, then jelq and SSJ in the shower for 10-15 minutes. This should be enough to slowly get your girth up, and by the time you need to increase your intensity/time you will already have the results to be able to tell your GF as you had mentioned you would in the OP. The issue with this is hiding the thing until you get results, which might be a bit tricky.

perfectly said in the first paragraph. and great suggestions. someone get this man a cookie!!! i'm getting goofy. time to close the computer and go to bed.

longstretch · Nov 25, 2014

I'm kind of in the same boat right now. I'm pretty much living with my new girlfriend and work 60 Hours a week. She works out of home and won't start school again till next year so she's always there and always wants to spend every waking moment with me just about. We take showers together and have sex daily so it's hard finding privacy. My parents live close by and I still have all my PE gear at their house. I have thought about telling her but we haven't even been together for two months yet.

What I do is wake up really early and go to the gym. She'll wake up with me to have sex. I go to the gym and go ape shit as usual then I go to my parents house. I usually have around 30-60 min free time at my parents house before I have to go to work so that's when I get my PE in. I also do piss pulls and sometimes do some stretches while I wait for customers. I also can lightly dry jelq or stretch and drive. I can also wear an ADS like golf weights or the VLC while at work.

It's a big hassle finding time now but at this point is early in my relationship to tell her and I'm sure even if I did she'd rather be spending time with me than watching me PE. She's very needy that way which is good and bad

DLD · Nov 25, 2014

longstretch;621980 said:
I'm kind of in the same boat right now. I'm pretty much living with my new girlfriend and work 60 Hours a week. She works out of home and won't start school again till next year so she's always there and always wants to spend every waking moment with me just about. We take showers together and have sex daily so it's hard finding privacy. My parents live close by and I still have all my PE gear at their house. I have thought about telling her but we haven't even been together for two months yet.

What I do is wake up really early and go to the gym. She'll wake up with me to have sex. I go to the gym and go ape shit as usual then I go to my parents house. I usually have around 30-60 min free time at my parents house before I have to go to work so that's when I get my PE in. I also do piss pulls and sometimes do some stretches while I wait for customers. I also can lightly dry jelq or stretch and drive. I can also wear an ADS like golf weights or the VLC while at work.

It's a big hassle finding time now but at this point is early in my relationship to tell her and I'm sure even if I did she'd rather be spending time with me than watching me PE. She's very needy that way which is good and bad

Creativity is everything with a busy schedule. You are holding it down!

longstretch · Nov 30, 2014

Well I found my break. While at the bookstore today and looking through sex books with my girlfriend there was one that mentioned and showed how to do stretches and jelqing which it called "power milking". I started a conversation how I'm going to start doing that joking around while we were at home and started to stretch my dick. She said it was weird and the conversation was light hearted. She said she didn't want me any bigger because then it would hurt but I know she could handle a little more.

I think in a couple of days I'll just say I was curious and looked up the exercises and found some forums with people on it that say it works. I'll tell her that I really want to see if it works. I'm hoping it opens the door to doing some manual stretches and jelqing there and I'll continue to hang and whatever else I can fit in during the week as usual

longstretch · Nov 30, 2014

Btw the book was Sexual Reflexology: Activating the Taoist Points of Love by Mantak Chia. I hope that will help to get the ball ruining with others

Threak-X · Nov 30, 2014

Assess what you have available, utilized, specialized, and prioritized your free moments throughout the day(s) for PE training...

DLD · Dec 1, 2014

Threak-X;622866 said:
Assess what you have available, utilized, specialized, and prioritized your free moments throughout the day(s) for PE training...

Yup, you will be amazed at how many min-sessions you can get in when you become aware of the down times during the day. Every bathroom break, starching under the covers while in bed, utilizing Ace wraps for length, etc. there are many places to get work in and every moment you spend training goes to a moment towards gains.

wickedshlong · Feb 21, 2015

Okay so I added stretching in the shower for a couple of minutes every morning for the past 3 weeks. I have noticed that my flaccid doesn't really ever shrivel up into the foreskin anymore which is good. What should I add next? Piss pulls at work?

IVEADREAM · Feb 21, 2015

All the advice given to you has been great. Heed everyone of them. I want to give you my story as well.
When I met my now wife at work almost 4 years ago we always had a very open and communicative relationship, we talked about everything. Left nothing out. Which I want to say right now is a VERY important part of any successful relationship. COMMUNICATE. Anyway after about a year I decided to get back into PE (for me not her) and the first thing I wanted was a bathmate (got the Penomet instead but that's another story ) so I went to her and explained that I have always been self-conscious about my size and after doing alot of research I found this site that I believe can help me reach my desired size. Of course I got the "oh don't do it for me, I love the way it is right now" speech and I honestly told her this is not for you it's for me. Which I honestly meant. I explained to her that it was not an overnight process but that it takes time and effort and that she might not even notice any changes for a while. I also explained that it's no different than a women wanting a boob job, or a face lift or a tummy tuck or whatever. It's just a part of my body that I want to change and I feel that I can do it without the surgery. I told her about this site and all the changes and gains guys have made on here and that I wanted to give it a shot. She saw how important it was to me and only asked that I don't hurt myself cause she loves having sex with me. What a great girl! She's even helped me at times with maintaining an erection during my Penomet sessions to help get the most out of it. I have since got an SG and a VLC and showed them to her in action and she smiles and says "just don't hurt it". By the way the VLC is a great ADS. I wear mine to work everyday. Think about it. Anyway you've been with your girl now 4 years so I'm sure you all have seen each other at your best and worst times. Give her credit she might surprise you. Remember this above anything else always be open and communicative with your girl, it will definitely give you a relationship like no other. I'm 44 years old. I have 2 kids, been divorced, and have finally after 40 years have met and married the love of my life and it all started with great communication that still continues to this day. Give her a chance, if she "honestly " loves you and cares about you, she'll see how important this is to you and be as supportive as she can. Hiding it will only lead to frustration and disappointment for you because this process does take time and dedication and having to hide it all the time will make it a more difficult process for you, possibly leading to you giving up and you don't want that. Anyway that's my 2 cents worth. Good luck bro.

pogzee · Feb 21, 2015

every bit counts.....do it here and there use up those 5-10 minutes everywhere you can...or else wrap your penis and extended the wrapper till your lower thigh and tie it around a belt...keeping the penis in stretched and elongated state...

DLD · Feb 21, 2015

IVEADREAM;636707 said:
All the advice given to you has been great. Heed everyone of them. I want to give you my story as well.
When I met my now wife at work almost 4 years ago we always had a very open and communicative relationship, we talked about everything. Left nothing out. Which I want to say right now is a VERY important part of any successful relationship. COMMUNICATE. Anyway after about a year I decided to get back into PE (for me not her) and the first thing I wanted was a bathmate (got the Penomet instead but that's another story ) so I went to her and explained that I have always been self-conscious about my size and after doing alot of research I found this site that I believe can help me reach my desired size. Of course I got the "oh don't do it for me, I love the way it is right now" speech and I honestly told her this is not for you it's for me. Which I honestly meant. I explained to her that it was not an overnight process but that it takes time and effort and that she might not even notice any changes for a while. I also explained that it's no different than a women wanting a boob job, or a face lift or a tummy tuck or whatever. It's just a part of my body that I want to change and I feel that I can do it without the surgery. I told her about this site and all the changes and gains guys have made on here and that I wanted to give it a shot. She saw how important it was to me and only asked that I don't hurt myself cause she loves having sex with me. What a great girl! She's even helped me at times with maintaining an erection during my Penomet sessions to help get the most out of it. I have since got an SG and a VLC and showed them to her in action and she smiles and says "just don't hurt it". By the way the VLC is a great ADS. I wear mine to work everyday. Think about it. Anyway you've been with your girl now 4 years so I'm sure you all have seen each other at your best and worst times. Give her credit she might surprise you. Remember this above anything else always be open and communicative with your girl, it will definitely give you a relationship like no other. I'm 44 years old. I have 2 kids, been divorced, and have finally after 40 years have met and married the love of my life and it all started with great communication that still continues to this day. Give her a chance, if she "honestly " loves you and cares about you, she'll see how important this is to you and be as supportive as she can. Hiding it will only lead to frustration and disappointment for you because this process does take time and dedication and having to hide it all the time will make it a more difficult process for you, possibly leading to you giving up and you don't want that. Anyway that's my 2 cents worth. Good luck bro.

Excellent Post my Brother!

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