If things do work out the way I'd like and I get back with my ex, I have the excuse that I had a physical problem with my cock the times we were physically together, and that I'm not as small as she thinks I am (which is actually true). I'm only going for an inch or so of both length and girth, so it should be fairly believable.
DLD, I have to say I respect the hell out of you for choosing to do what you felt you were called to do over your own happiness. I had the same choice to make, of trying to be a pro athlete to show kids from neighborhoods like mine that you can do more, but I chose my own happiness instead. I had a fairly shitty earlier life so I decided the rest of my life was going to be about my happiness and eventually settling down and having a family. Plus, I realized that I can just post things anonymously to help people better understand the sport and improve themselves as players, as well as coach kids to play the game the way I would have played it. I can also share my fitness tips, as I'm doing here. I'm not going to lie and say I don't feel guilty though, after everything and everybody that made me the player I was at my best, as well as the man that I became. I've always felt obligated to give back in any way I can. It's something I still wrestle with fairly often, after seeing the community that raised me fall on such hard times and kids have even less to look forward to in life or dream on. Either way, much respect to you for making that hard choice for the benefit of guys like me.