Did anyone here ever have bad E.D. and sort this out?

Hi I admit I am prone to slight bouts of depression well the reason why at the moment is my erection issues. I miss my rock hard wood in the morning my multiple tight erections in a day I hate the fact that after ejaculation I need over a day to get my erection strength back and it is still not 100 I think but close maybe, I get a harder erection by thought than by physical touch in other words getting a random hand job isn't that easy. This is messing with my life for real I am 22 years old for fuck sake and still a looser virgin my erection problem is responsible a lot of this I know it I mean in my ability to get laid. I know I fucked up my dick I regret it at 17 I pulled my erect dick a bit hard and as a result I took away my super tight erections and my fully engorged head now gone.

I know how others feel now like Tbirty, Orbital etc I took for granted my erection strength I miss my super rock hard woodies I have been to my doctor and insists everything is fine but is not in reality not physically I know it.

I feel alone on this in the dark I have no idea where to turn to my life is pretty pathetic anyway and have a low opinion of my self but I used to have great erections and at least I had that going for me.

I am sorry for this rant I have drunk a lot tonight.

Again I am sorry it is just because, this is getting me down please anyone if you had E.D. (serious type of E.D.) how did you conquer it is there any surgery that could help please I really want to fix this after 8 years or so I know I want to fix this problem for real. I do not need Viagra I can get an erection but It is never usually how it used to be. My penis would vibrate erection I miss those ultra hard erections. My erection at full strength is fairly tight and the head nearly fills up fully but my erections is kind of relatively bendy when erection it is not really rigid. It may sound ridiculous to sound upset over less tight erections but until you have been in this position yourself you will not understand.

Sorry for this again I really wanted to get this off my chest.

I feel I can turn to no -one else with this.

I do not think P.E. affected this situation by the way although I was convinced at one point doing a few stretches and jelqing weakened my urination speed. It is pretty slow I feel.

Seems to me that you should see a psychologist. From your various posts it seems obvious that your difficulties are psychical, not physical.

jqsderrida said:

Seems to me that you should see a psychologist. From your various posts it seems obvious that your difficulties are psychical, not physical.

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What does pcychical mean? sorry I just do not understand the term. As I said I have drunk too much and alcohol tends to usually makes me feel more depressed, I usually never drink but tonight I did sorry again about this.

I means of the psyche - Greek for soul or mind. That is, psychological.

TheNextBIGThing said:

Hi I admit I am prone to slight bouts of depression well the reason why at the moment is my erection issues. I miss my rock hard wood in the morning my multiple tight erections in a day I hate the fact that after ejaculation I need over a day to get my erection strength back and it is still not 100 I think but close maybe, I get a harder erection by thought than by physical touch in other words getting a random hand job isn't that easy. This is messing with my life for real I am 22 years old for fuck sake and still a looser virgin my erection problem is responsible a lot of this I know it I mean in my ability to get laid. I know I fucked up my dick I regret it at 17 I pulled my erect dick a bit hard and as a result I took away my super tight erections and my fully engorged head now gone.

I know how others feel now like Tbirty, Orbital etc I took for granted my erection strength I miss my super rock hard woodies I have been to my doctor and insists everything is fine but is not in reality not physically I know it.

I feel alone on this in the dark I have no idea where to turn to my life is pretty pathetic anyway and have a low opinion of my self but I used to have great erections and at least I had that going for me.

I am sorry for this rant I have drunk a lot tonight.

Again I am sorry it is just because, this is getting me down please anyone if you had E.D. (serious type of E.D.) how did you conquer it is there any surgery that could help please I really want to fix this after 8 years or so I know I want to fix this problem for real. I do not need Viagra I can get an erection but It is never usually how it used to be. My penis would vibrate erection I miss those ultra hard erections. My erection at full strength is fairly tight and the head nearly fills up fully but my erections is kind of relatively bendy when erection it is not really rigid. It may sound ridiculous to sound upset over less tight erections but until you have been in this position yourself you will not understand.

Sorry for this again I really wanted to get this off my chest.

I feel I can turn to no -one else with this.

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So did you mess your erection by stretching while erect five years ago?
Sorry but i dont understand quite well.

dyablo said:

So did you mess your erection by stretching while erect five years ago?
Sorry but i dont understand quite well.

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Some years ago my erections were always real tight always, the head filled up 100%, my erection would kind like vibrate it would throb that much.

Well somehow I lost that a 100% tight rigid penis all just because I pulled my erection a bit too far, and a bit too hard it seems. I tried to pull it back to measure it because I was very insecure of penis size, I fucked up I guess I was a bit too forceful and my erections have suffered somewhat since.

Another obvious sign my erections seemed to be fucked up was that when I used to be aroused my penis would get hard straight away (even at say 10% erect if that is possible) well for years since this stupid accident my erections stay soft until I achieve say 85% - 90% erection then it only starts to get hard and this could explain why masturbating or getting stimulation by hand proves mostly ineffective for arousal and generally slow to respond to get an erection by this (what was once simple).

I wish Tbirdy and others still posted they no longer do though. To the experts what damage would cause the penis to lose rigidness (harder ability to move the penis when erect).

I believe I may have a small veinous? leak or something because my penis head does not fill up fully the rest of my shaft goes hard though. The lack of real feel of rigidness feels in a way that my erections are weaker even though the shaft when fully erect feels hard (like bone).

I am not that sure but doing P.E. the few times I did may of caused my serious lack of morning wood.

By the way loosing morning erections may not really be normal as some people have said in P.E. forums. The truth is those with E.D. take a test instructed by their doctor. They are asked to simply wrap a book of stamps around their penis before going to sleep to form like a ring around the flacid penis. Now IF those book of stamps don't snap in within at least 3 night unfortunately it means their is very likely a blood flow issue.

I am thinking about doing this test to figure If I have had long-term blood flow problems.

I also suffered from depression(but didnt take any meds)chained smoked and had absolute no privacy.When i first got into pe-like reg exercises i did it for the feel gd part not the results of gains.Kegals-and dry jelques woke my member up and i started having the opposite problem--it wouldnt go down-lol.To help ya with e.d. i would say change up to a healthier diet-start working out-and get into pe

nystrongstroke2 said:

I also suffered from depression(but didnt take any meds)chained smoked and had absolute no privacy.When i first got into pe-like reg exercises i did it for the feel gd part not the results of gains.Kegals-and dry jelques woke my member up and i started having the opposite problem--it wouldnt go down-lol.To help ya with e.d. i would say change up to a healthier diet-start working out-and get into pe

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Thanks for the advice appreciate it. I apologize everyone if I keep posting about this erection problem of mine but I feel If I do not ask a few times I would get no insight to my problem and therefore I would still be stuck in the dark so to speak. I would love to regain my full erect head and tight rigid erections without doing kegals if this is even possible.

Cheers.

Keep up the kegeling. It may help. If you're depressed, your willy is depressed too. That's quite normal. Are you taking any anti-depressants? I just skimmed this thread. Anti-depressants and other kinds of meds (high B.P. pills, etc. etc. ) can raise hell with your erections.

How old are you? Remember that straight up rock hard erections start fading not long after you reach your maximum, which is 16 years of age. It's a slow down hill slide from that point on.

And some guys never have those kinds of erections, whatever their age. It's an individual thing.

I would hit the kegel routine real hard for a few weeks and see what happens.

Hope this helps, good pal. THIS TOO SHALL PASS.

goinfor11x7 said:

Keep up the kegeling. It may help. If you're depressed, your willy is depressed too. That's quite normal. Are you taking any anti-depressants? I just skimmed this thread. Anti-depressants and other kinds of meds (high B.P. pills, etc. etc. ) can raise hell with your erections.

How old are you? Remember that straight up rock hard erections start fading not long after you reach your maximum, which is 16 years of age. It's a slow down hill slide from that point on.

And some guys never have those kinds of erections, whatever their age. It's an individual thing.

I would hit the kegel routine real hard for a few weeks and see what happens.

Hope this helps, good pal. THIS TOO SHALL PASS.

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Thanks for your post well I am 22 years old and I never really thought about what you said unfortunately I am not in my youth anymore so I guess expecting to have rock hard erections all day long everyday is maybe unrealistic. Then again I keep seeing 40 or 50 year guys getting rock hard in ����, but maybe they use Viagra as many ��������� are strongly rumoured to. No I do not take any anti depressants I have actually never taken a pill in life for anything even a headache.

I agree that for those guys to stay hard throughout a shoot--they have to be on something. I don't know how they did it before Viagra came along. Kegeling?

goinfor11x7 said:

I agree that for those guys to stay hard throughout a shoot--they have to be on something. I don't know how they did it before Viagra came along. Kegeling?

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Funny you mention this because I saw Ron Jeremy's documentary he shagged 20 women or so in a huge orgy he done one woman after another now surely being in his 50's at the time of this he must of been on Viagra or something. I would be amazed if he didn't.

Hey,

I have a similiar problem and I'm the same age. I think its one of 3 issues Penis Enlargement, I did stretching that might of had an effect. I also took acutane in 14-15ish and it was tough time for me but i remember I couldn't get erections at all and i went through puberty at like 12. The went away once i stopped the drog but i read there have been cases where accutane is like messed up receptors and people's erections. The last thing is I feel like my glans might be very insensitive which it is, either to possible low hardness when errect or something to do with how i have dry skin. I feel like restoring my foreskin could help. I remember when I had a cast a portion of my palm was wet for like 2 weeks and covered in the cast(similiar to what foreskin would do) and when I took it off my palm was super sensitive like i would run my hand through with both hands and there would be such a difference. With the cast hand it felt like I was feeling every single indiviudal hair. So I think this would be the same as re-keatenization or whatever of the glans.

Everything else in my life is terrific, I'm really happy with the size of it too I just wish it got harder. This is so hard for me because everything else in my life is everything I could ever want and this is my only problem but its a huge problem and is a huge source of depression and prevents me from getting a girlfriend. So im going to do the following things to hopefully fix this.

1. Doctors have a test to see if your penis has a leak in it you inject something into your penis it stiffens and then they examine it for venous leaks. When I first heard about it I was like no way, but now I'm just like fuck it at this age you gotta do something.

2. Im going to try restore my foreskin with mannual stretching

3. If its accutane related I heard some drugs like ritalin could possibly help.

4. I did jelqing for a while and an crazy keggle routine and it didnt help when I was dating this girl but that could of also been because i had the phobia of not getting a strong erection which i've learned makes you more prone to it.

In the meantime get a script for cialis and loose your virginity because that could also have some mental effect.

I have same problems as the guy who started this thread,,

Try Wellbutrin.. it's an anti-depressant.. but its one of a kind.. it is not an SSRI.. infact it is given to people to help with their drug induced sexual decline, so wellbutrin actually boosts libido and gives me massive hard erections effortlessly ANDDDD better orgasm!

PocketCowboys I wish losing my virginity was that easy I feel like a fucking loser for real, my penis size has always been a big insecurity problem for me and it's stupid really because I am in reality just average very average in size. This has delayed things more and my social skills are probably pretty crap which is why I can't get laid. It is true that most guys lose their virginity in their teens I was depressed often in my youth so I missed the boat there I will be 23 at the end of this year I can hardly see things changing, I am used to it though so it ain't that bad.

PocketCowboys I have sent you a reply check you PM thanks.

velimirovich thanks too I will look into what you mentioned I am not as depressed as I used to be but I guess I find it hard to see finds in a positive light I hardly have much going for me lets put it that way.

I had the starting signs of peyronie's, a small bump on the penis and I have fixed this.

P.S I am not depressed at all.. wellbutrin is a very mild stimulant anti-depressant, and i heard it boosts libido so i tried it, and it does.

I thought that I had the same problems, but getting back with a girl again resolved the problem instantly. I cannot get a proper erection unless it is in the heat of the moment so to speak, when I'm with them however it happens. Maybe it's an issue where you're not excited enough to get the rock hardness that you want, I see that DLD has gone into great detail with such mental issues. He says that when you spend time on the girl that connection between the brain and the penis will take over in spite of you and you'll be fine. Oh and don't go around thinking you're a loser or that is what your aura will be saturated with and you'll turn girls off straight away. I have a negative friend and people pick up on it in an instant.