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Size Matters: CORE magazine interview with DLD

Size Matters:
An interview with Penis Enlargement Guru Double Long Daddy (DLD)

Many males enter bodybuilding to increase their sexual prowess and confidence. A muscular body is a sign of virility to some if not many women. Another sign of virility is obviously the male sex organ. Like large muscles, a large penis is seen as a potent sign of a mans sexuality. Size is important, no matter what you hear. How important depends on who you ask. To men, in general the larger the better. To most women however, size is important only when a penis is too small to feel or so large it hurts. Evolution has seen to it that the average penis, around 5 to 6 inches long and 4 to 5 inches in girth, functions well. However in modernity many men desire larger members.

As a special request from the staff at CORE Magazine, I contacted one of the founders of Penis Enlargement, DLD, to discuss the topic. DLD himself went from 6.5 inches in length to over 10 inches, and now over 7 inches in girth. He had been on high doses of certain medications that slowly made getting a good erection difficult. About 3 years ago he decided he wanted to do something about this. He researched Penis Enlargement and started out on a program. About a year ago he created his own website with an open forum for users to discuss issues related to Penis Enlargement.

CORE: So I've been doing some background reading, plus I have a bit of reading in a wide array of areas, evolutionary psychology, sociobiology, male-female sexual dynamics etc....

DLD: Sounds good.

CORE: You can gain a lot of insight studying gay populations....example...how lesbians are - rather monogamous, tend toward stability over looks etc...(butch) Seems the sexes often lob their own perceptions onto the other sex hence the penis size issue....

DLD: I see.

CORE: Not that size is NOT important.

DLD: Not as important as some would think.

CORE: again, in my opinion - it seems more of a male issue...otherwise evolution would have weeded it out of human populations.....We are after all, crafted by unseen forces guiding us towards well, some unseen future, lol. So, tell me what you think!

DLD: Definitely, men have had this obsession with their penis at a very young age, I know I did.

CORE: "everything is Bigger in Texas!” lol.

DLD: Kind of, and the penis being the most unholy of body parts men search for a spiritual balance between good and bad.

CORE: That being said, as a male - seems you did quite a job as a leader in this issue with your own self work great point!

DLD: I stumbled on it really

CORE: Glad to see you have a spiritual consciousness, society today is so lacking this in general but I digress for the sake of our readers

DLD: It is the only way to find physical implications of Meta physical dreams. For me a bigger penis represented something I never dreamed possible.

CORE: Jeez, you and I could go off on a whole other tangent brother!!

DLD: No doubt.

CORE: But the magazine....I must stick to the format! lol.

DLD: But the mental connection to the penis is incredible.

CORE: Well, let’s go there.....fuck it...let me say...

DLD: Let’s do it, Just ask away and I will answer .

CORE: Top three relationships for a man: next to a mans relationship to himself (#1), and in front of any woman (#3)- is his relationship to his penis (#2)!

CORE: Its second in the three! lol, self, dick, woman. lol. We are after all sexual beings first and foremost...genes make sure of that...

DLD: Men totally become separate from their penis during sex. I think this is why they want it to be bigger.

CORE: interesting, go on please. To many men sex is mainly "my penis"

DLD: Most men believe that a bigger penis will create a more successful magnetism to the opposite sex. Once they realize Penis Enlargement is real they become able to change something they never believed possible. When they actually gain in penis enlargement it sometimes causes some obsessive behavior. They actually become more insecure with a bigger penis. This is why I spend so much time working with men on a more cognitive level.

DLD: With the larger penis most men will need a larger mind.

CORE: it’s kind of like what can happen with bodybuilders “body dysmorphia “ we get jacked up and suddenly we're looked at differently, and it fucks with our heads. Most don’t move past it, so I see the same thing here with the penis.

DLD: Well, men can easily walk around on their hands thinking with the dicks blindly, without a shock back to reality this over-powerful thing called penis enlargement can do more bad than good. It is a delicate balance. Penis enlargement works, and once a man realizes he can make this power-symbol bigger it definitely fucks with their heads. And over focus on something we were always told was dirty can cause some mental problems.

CORE: I see.

DLD: Men need to keep a balance once they realize the miracle. With this balance a bigger penis may help a man to get a promotion, a new girl, more respect, more confidence, etc. I worked with a guy from Japan who was very small. He was very desperate at less than 4" ERECT he was suicidal, his wife and he were always in fights, he was generally depressed but after I worked with him for some time and he gained close to 2" his entire life changed.

CORE: Thats great....

DLD: He has a much improved his relationship, he is confident and happy but mostly well adjusted as it never went to his head. Not many men even find out about this type of penis enlargement.

CORE: Well, it did go to his head, but in a positive way! It seems to have changed his psychology.

DLD: Indeed. It gives us a sense of anything is possible.

CORE: Tell me,....if you had a son, and he had an extra hour a day to improve himself....say, on any area or dimension....

DLD: I do have a son :)

CORE: What would you recommend? And he does know about penis enlargement?

DLD: At this point in his life, no (he is 12)

CORE: But I am asking...metaphorically speaking as we are all children inside. Some looking to improve ourselves, and some obsessively.

DLD: I would not push him into this, if he wanted to learn about it I would teach him. I believe self improvement is our duty as a children of a more important creator. We need to make our bodies, minds, spirits and even sexuality the best we can or I feel we are not living up to our duties as a living being. Obsessive ness is sometimes our way of making change, perhaps an even unique quality among the men and women who push the limits of the body and mind.

CORE: I see...and the bell curve for penis size would say most men are ok to make their respective partners happy...and as I know you know, a good lover is not reduced to penis size

DLD: Penis size was never an issue for me before learning penis enlargement nor is it now I am bigger.

CORE: Good point...you accomplished so much during a period of obsessive ness?

DLD: The self realization is there but beyond that I am the same guy. Oh I suffer from extreme OCD.

CORE: I see.

DLD: My obsessive ness plays a part in everything I do in Penis Enlargement it helped me create over 200 exercises.

CORE: I'm sure it makes you successful too. That, yin/yang of life.

DLD: And it prevents it:)

CORE: Ah there u go, reading my mind

DLD: I think my over obsessive ness sometimes prevents me from expressing all of my ideas as I strive for a unattainable perfection at times...this becomes the yang to the ying. Some things never get out.

CORE: I know what you mean.

DLD: My weight loss secrets are what people want now. And I have not felt the work complete yet so I have not put it out.

CORE: Yeah, I see you lost some weight!

DLD: Yeah, around 120.

CORE: Good for you!

DLD: Thanks! It's all body and mind stuff.

CORE: So with penis size....too bad women weren’t as obsessed with vagina size...a lot more kegels would mean less men wondering if their big enough?? lol. So men are left getting "shafted" on this one! lol. You know after a woman has a kid...the doctors give her an extra stitch in the vagina - it’s called "The husband Stitch! " lol.

DLD: I think most women would be turned off from a male who approached her, literally, cock sure. I just think men see the penis as something much more important. We have been obsessed with it for thousands of years. Ancient art always has phallic symbols, our Washington Monument, the list is endless. Men see a power in a big cock. They believe that if they are massive it makes them a bigger man. Big cars, big money, big houses, big cock.

CORE: Yeah, I'm reminded of the George Carlin skit....missiles and cock size etc.

DLD: It is the ultimate sign of manhood a woman has a hole.

CORE: And we have a BUSH and a DICK in the white house!! haha.

DLD: Not much to accept.

CORE: we had a Colin too but he got SHAFTED!

DLD: I used to own a gym too.

CORE: Hey, powerful symbols you mention there, the hole versus the phallus.

DLD: The hole is easy, the penis sticks out, it gets hard and it is something mystical and every man wants his to be massive.

CORE: The hole reminds us of our own emptiness, that nothingness from where we come from, literally...and figuratively.

DLD: Very true, it is all lines and holes. 1's and 0's.

CORE: This is powerful primordial stuff were discussing, deep under the veneer of the human psyche.

DLD: That connection is as natural as is negative and positive charges. I live there. Woman are tired of men judging them for their 0's they want us to see their 1's, their lines and they want to see our 0's. Men see their penis as a "dirty" thing and this is what causes deep rooted dysfunction, the same dysfunction that fuels sexual based crimes.

CORE: You've said that a few times...isn't that an old Judeo-Christian issue? I mean...do all men still hold that guilt and dirty perception?

DLD: This is why I teach men to make their penis larger and their minds more open. It is a stigma in the clients I get.

CORE: I see, so perhaps its a special characteristic of that subset?

DLD: Definitely, mental penis enlargement is something I force on my clients.

CORE: Can this help all men kind of like: “Love themselves” better or healthier?

DLD: I feel a mental program of becoming a more confident along with a lesson in penis enlargement can do all men some good.

CORE: Last question: Ever heard of the "arms race" phenomenon in nature?

DLD: Not sure.

CORE: Matt Ridley coined the term in one of his books. It speaks to the fact that evolution...or God, whichever.

DLD: I have very definite beliefs on the subject

CORE: Sets in motion evolutionary forces where by each successive improvement in one side, or group forces the other side to up the ante....like a faster cheetah, produces faster Gazelle. Bigger US bombs make Russia make bigger bombs, and so on...the ARMS RACE. The arms race was very real for the US and Russia a few decades ago.

DLD: Man will always screw up his own evolution.

CORE: Well, so do 99% of all species that ever lived....are now Extinct. Anyhow...does Penis Enlargement set up all men for the arms race? lol.

CORE: Now we all feel MORE pressured to compete?or to feel inadequate?

DLD: Maybe not just through the penis but the learned behavior of mind/body application would lend to a difference in man, a difference that may create a super man which may overshadow the lesser man.

CORE: Well, it already exists for sure.....

DLD: I believe we are upon an evolutionary change now. I think the change you speak of is not evolutionary. Maybe cultural...or spiritual genes mutate at a very predictable rate, way too slow for modern man.

DLD: I think we, as men, depend way too much on the luxuries we have realized in the last 100 years that now, if there was a total loss of these "comforts" many would parish.

CORE: Ha,ha.....right on...."Civilization is 7 meals away from ANARCHY!" lol.

DLD: Just like everything I have ever done, I will adjust and create new, and more innovative ways of life. I'm driven by change!

DLD: [if CORE readers want to read more] Everything is on the sites www.mattersofsize.com and www.mattersofsize.com/forum

LINK SOURCE: http://readthecore.com/200604/size.htm
 
lol one of the founders of Penis Enlargement I don't think i've laughed so hard in a while. Cool interview though.
 
jkisineffect said:
lol one of the founders of Penis Enlargement I don't think i've laughed so hard in a while. Cool interview though.

Actually, the statement makes very much sense on many levels whether it were me or another, fellow, CONTRIBUTING man. Not only on this level but lets look at MY history in Penis Enlargement:

INVENTS the Power Assist.
INVENTS over two hundred penis enlargement exercises.
CREATES the world's ONLY DVD on Penis Enlargement.
FOUNDER of Matters of Size.
CREATES the Reverse Kegel which changed stretching FOREVER
Too Much to type

First lets return to the statement in question:
"one of the founders of Penis Enlargement"

Now, I'm assuming the word in question is: FOUNDER

Lets check out the definition of this word:

Main Entry: found·er
Function: noun
: one that founds or establishes: as a : one that establishes a foundation b : FOUNDING FATHER

Have I lost you? If so return to top and read again.:)
 
That was a very cool read, sounds like a really interesting conversation that got going - I love those kind of talks where it wanders into the deep and meaningful sort of stuff.... You know, I have NEVER met a woman who can converse on that level, not one-to-one anyway, it is quite sad...

Anyway, quality read.
 
jkisineffect said:
lol one of the founders of Penis Enlargement I don't think i've laughed so hard in a while. Cool interview though.

kind of funny you laugh at that jkis, since you are posting on HIS site. he must be doing something right.
 
pepepe said:
kind of funny you laugh at that jkis, since you are posting on HIS site. he must be doing something right.

Funny how many penis forums DLD used to post on BEFORE HE STARTED HIS OWN FORUM :s

have you ever googled penis enlargment? give it a try
maybe google was the founder , shit maybe dld invented the internet?
 
jkisineffect said:
Funny how many penis forums DLD used to post on BEFORE HE STARTED HIS OWN FORUM :s

have you ever googled penis enlargment? give it a try
maybe google was the founder , shit maybe dld invented the internet?

Incredible Comeback! Getting back on track, Yes this was a incredible interview. I enjoyed how he allowed me to venture into other areas. Very cool indeed.
 
Awesome shit DLD... Interesting read and inciteful on many levels- your def. a pretty smart guy that knows more than just how to make your dick bigger. :)
 
doublelongdaddy said:
INVENTS over two hundred penis enlargement exercises.
Is this list available anywhere all in one spot? I'm only aware of several dozen.
 
I agree with the others that it's a very interesting interview even if I don't agree with your views concerning the man-dick-"relationship", because it seems you only look at it from a psychological sight but forget the physical related sight.

I mean like: Why is a bigger penis better, is seen as a symbol of power or whatever? Is an average man not able to reproduce or are his kids lower developed physically or mentally? Why do people think a bigger penis is superior to an average one?

I think if someone discusses this topic he has to include the evolutionary side, looking at the prehistoric man.
To understand the fascination for the bigger penis we need to reduce man to the reason of his existence: securing the continuity of the human race.
Every man wants to pass on his genes, so he conceives a child of whom he hopes he/she is going to do the same in a few years.
To conceive a child the size of a penis doesn't matter, even a 3 incher would probably be big enough.
So why is bigger better?
To understand this we have to take a look at the relationship between man and woman. How did they live together? Monogamous? Polygamous?
The actual scientific cognitions, well, maybe it's just the preferred theory, say that man and woman lived together in a monogamous relationship but regularly had infidelities.
The why is easy to explain: The times were rough, the death of children wasn't uncommon. Also he couldn't be sure that the child(ren) he had with his "wife" would be strong enough to survive later, be able to conceive children, find a partner that accepts them, is able to protect it's own child(ren) from dangers and so on.
The man wanted to be sure that his genes exist after his death, probably instinctive.
If we assume that it was common to have infidelities, we can also assume that most women had more than one lover.
And now we come to the advantages of a bigger penis over an average one.
These are also actual scientific theories, so they can be wrong.
A longer penis reaches deeper into a woman's vagina, so the possibility of a conceivment is higher. This point stands on fragile legs if we look at the different depths of vaginas.
If we imagine the shape of a penis the head is often wider than the shaft.
If a man ejaculates inside a woman his sperms are everwhere inside her, trying to get to the egg.
Imagine the penis as a bog brush going down a pipe. (I know this picture is a bit . . .)
Through thrusting inside a vagina you clean it from your rivals semen, before you insert your own.
The longer the penis the deeper it reaches inside, the more rivalry semen he can clean out.

I'm not sure if I forgot to bring something up, but if I'll add it later on.

To the psychological sight : I think one of the reasons why there's such a fascination for the penis and a much lesser one for the vagina is . . . well, just imagine a naked woman and a naked man.
You see the man's penis but you don't the woman's vagina (or at least most of it).
The man sees his genital a few times a day for his whole life, so he developes some kind of relationship to it. The woman doesn't.
Also the penis symbolizes activity, the vagina passivity.
The man gives, the woman takes. The other direction is not possible.


I'm not able to express myself in english as in my mother's tongue so my thougts won't be transferred to you as I want, but I hope you understand what I'm pointing at.
 
Mike that really was a fantastic interview. I think it is possible for some people to miss just how good that interview was. You came accross as deep thought, intelligent and articulate.

It sounds as if you have an interest in some of the same subjects that I do. Meta-physics, etc. You know what I'm saying.... :)
 
by TomdW:
I think it is possible for some people to miss just how good that interview was.

You probably meant me with this comment. Well, I shot a bit over the target.
What I meant, or better said wanted to add to DLDs interview, was that to completely understand what the causes for the "penis-problem" are you also have to take a look into the past of mankind.
Because I think that the human mind has not evolved that much over the milleniums and there's still a lot left of this animal kind of thinking.
 
Citizen? said:
You probably meant me with this comment. Well, I shot a bit over the target.
What I meant, or better said wanted to add to DLDs interview, was that to completely understand what the causes for the "penis-problem" are you also have to take a look into the past of mankind.
Because I think that the human mind has not evolved that much over the milleniums and there's still a lot left of this animal kind of thinking.

I agree with many of your points you made but you have to understand that I was addressing a different part of the penis and how it relates to many men. We spend so much time obsessing over the physical portions of penis enlargement that we tend to miss out on the much needed mental growth that if not addressed would inevitably ruin much of the success we have made physically.

Penis enlargement works on a physical level, just look at the grass roots movement we are all part of, pe is proven on so many levels. I spend 80% of my time addressing the outward parts of pe that I felt I wanted to take on a different angle.
 
Citizen? said:
You probably meant me with this comment. Well, I shot a bit over the target.
What I meant, or better said wanted to add to DLDs interview, was that to completely understand what the causes for the "penis-problem" are you also have to take a look into the past of mankind.
Because I think that the human mind has not evolved that much over the milleniums and there's still a lot left of this animal kind of thinking.

Hi, no not you at all friend. :)
 
Very nice interview...Dld you continue to inspire me...everytime I get stuck you pull me out. :)
 
by DLD:
I agree with many of your points you made but you have to understand that I was addressing a different part of the penis and how it relates to many men. We spend so much time obsessing over the physical portions of penis enlargement that we tend to miss out on the much needed mental growth that if not addressed would inevitably ruin much of the success we have made physically.

Penis enlargement works on a physical level, just look at the grass roots movement we are all part of, pe is proven on so many levels. I spend 80% of my time addressing the outward parts of pe that I felt I wanted to take on a different angle.

When I reread your interview yesterday I got that and I completly agree with your statements.
My comment was some kind of knee-jerk-reaction on the "the penis is a symbol of power"-thing. I heard this so often and the people who usually said that, especially women, had this kind of unreflected attitude to it. They don't try to think deeper, only repeat what they have heard or read once.
Well, women probably won't ever understand the penis-man-relationship.

About the psychological side of Penis Enlargement: It's interesting that you mention mens problems with a grown dick. I didn't know that this could happen or better said thought this could only happen to people with BDD.
It seems to be a similar problem with people who do plastic surgery.
Some of them focus their mental problems on a part of their body and think if they change this part they will feel better.
I think the most important question someone has to ask himself before starting Penis Enlargement is: Why do I want to have a bigger penis?
If you answer this question honest and you see that your problem is not the size of your penis you shouldn't start Penis Enlargement. Or at least not until you have solved your real problems.
A bigger penis can have advantages, for under-average-sized guys it can be life-changing, but if the mind's not ready it could become the start of a downward spiral.

by TomdW:
Hi, no not you at all friend.

I'm glad to read that.
 
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